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So one time I lied to this chick
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And told her I didn't knock her up cause she was in college, but in actuality I disliked her family and pulled out every time.
Today I actually had to tell her it was her family, and if not for them she would have my baby and not the baby she has.
Thinking about something happening to me and my child ending up without me and her family was horrid and I pulled out every time.
I told her it was because she was finishi g he degree, but if I had liked her family I'd not have given a fuck and she would have my baby.
Her family sucks though, and I couldn't risk my child being left with them if something happened to me.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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I love you Skye. I'm sorry we couldn't make babies. They would have been fucking beautiful.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
#26429175 - 01/12/20 06:09 AM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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This is the chick I was dating when I lived in Arcata.
Telling her I chose not to knock her up was hard.
She was mean as fuck, but she could not say anything mean after that.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: Shroomslip]
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sounds like u want bbs
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: cannabinated]
#26429296 - 01/12/20 08:31 AM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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Yes and no
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
#26429303 - 01/12/20 08:38 AM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui] 2
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sui said: Today I actually had to tell her it was her family, and if not for them she would have my baby and not the baby she has.
Why did you feel the need to tell her that? Little egotistical, and pompous don't you think?
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: 1234go]
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yeah, you get it
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: cannabinated]
#26429333 - 01/12/20 09:08 AM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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I nicely asked for her to have her sister send me the pamphlet cause she is in Arcata, she told me my family hates you no, and I said, duh, why do you think I didn't knock you up?
She was molested by her brothers I think, one of them stole my new years kiss one year, I should have thrown him off the balcony. I did not though. I should have left her way before that, but u was in love.
Looking back on it's fucked up.
She treated me like dirt because she took out the shit her brothers did on me.
I loved her, and it took a lot to not knock her up. I just couldn't do it knowing her family. I feel they would have treated my child like crap if something had happened to me.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
#26429336 - 01/12/20 09:10 AM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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It hurt her, but she understood, which is fucked up. I told her to be careful with her child around her family, and she told me she knows and they live far away.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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Why does her family hate you?
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: 1234go] 2
#26429350 - 01/12/20 09:22 AM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: 1234go]
#26429376 - 01/12/20 09:40 AM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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1234go said: Why does her family hate you?
They are rich and I was a broke hippie? He sister liked me fine until I started dating my girl.
Then she hated me. her sister was way to young for me anyway.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui] 3
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Based on everything posted in this thread, it looks like humanity dodged a bullet.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: UpSyndrome]
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I don't get it, so you told her like long after you broke up that it was because of her family? As revenge? And you were considering purposely getting her pregnant even though she was in college?
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: bloodsheen]
#26431743 - 01/13/20 04:43 PM (4 years, 16 days ago) |
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She said and dude hurtful things to hurt me, family did too.
I can tell when someone is friendly, I used to live at a punk venue and her and her sister went to shows there.
He sister was always friendly with me until I started dating her sister.
I left a woman I was with for 5 years, because I was not ready for kids, then started dating her. I was with her for two years, and if it was not for her family, she would have my baby. I fell so in love with her.
When she left me I was on my knees begging her not to.
Regardless of her family if she had still been with me when we graduated we would have had a conversation about her family and whether it would have been a good idea.
She wanted my baby. She left it open for me to do it even though she was in college. She told me half way through out relationship she was going off birth control.
I'm still not ready and glad I didn't.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui] 5
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This is like a watermelonmon thread but slightly different
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Classic Humboldt county drama.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: Bikerfool]
#26431954 - 01/13/20 06:54 PM (4 years, 16 days ago) |
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He's a true romantic...
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sui said: And told her I didn't knock her up cause she was in college
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sui said: Telling her I chose not to knock her up was hard.
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sui said: duh, why do you think I didn't knock you up?
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sui said: I loved her, and it took a lot to not knock her up.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: 1234go] 1
#26432015 - 01/13/20 07:28 PM (4 years, 16 days ago) |
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You're never going to be truly ready for kids, that's like being ready to try DMT for the first time. There is no way you can really understand what it is till you've been there.
A solid relationship with at least 3 or 4 years foundation is a good place to start though.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: Northerner]
#26432060 - 01/13/20 07:59 PM (4 years, 16 days ago) |
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I know my last 5 year I wasn't ready to settle down. She was a grade school teacher.
I was like like spend a couple years traveling and go to a rainbow gathering and she said no. So I left.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: 1234go]
#26432073 - 01/13/20 08:04 PM (4 years, 16 days ago) |
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1234go said: He's a true romantic...
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sui said: And told her I didn't knock her up cause she was in college
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sui said: Telling her I chose not to knock her up was hard.
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sui said: duh, why do you think I didn't knock you up?
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sui said: I loved her, and it took a lot to not knock her up.
We went to Mexico to Palenque together , With a couple friends one was a medicine woman and one was a doula, and me and Skye made love under the stars on a palm plantation the Yucatan on right before the 21st on 2012 with the moon shining high in the sky and I fucking pulled out because it was not the right fucking time.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
#26432086 - 01/13/20 08:11 PM (4 years, 16 days ago) |
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I wanted her to finish her school. She would have hated me for ruining her schooling.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui] 1
#26432088 - 01/13/20 08:12 PM (4 years, 16 days ago) |
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I fucking pulled out because it was not the right fucking time.
...I thought it was because you didn’t like her family?
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
#26432091 - 01/13/20 08:13 PM (4 years, 16 days ago) |
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I'd have been cool with her leaving it to be a hippie with me but I'm not going to trap her into it.
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sui said:
I fucking pulled out because it was not the right fucking time.
...I thought it was because you didn’t like her family?
There is never one reason why, a bunch of reasons add up. Her family was a major one, her school was also, my own impulses don't matter as much I have good control.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
#26432103 - 01/13/20 08:19 PM (4 years, 15 days ago) |
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sui said:
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1234go said: He's a true romantic...
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sui said: And told her I didn't knock her up cause she was in college
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sui said: Telling her I chose not to knock her up was hard.
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sui said: duh, why do you think I didn't knock you up?
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sui said: I loved her, and it took a lot to not knock her up.
We went to Mexico to Palenque together , With a couple friends one was a medicine woman and one was a doula, and me and Skye made love under the stars on a palm plantation the Yucatan on right before the 21st on 2012 with the moon shining high in the sky and I fucking pulled out because it was not the right fucking time.
When I pulled out she was like WTF.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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I'll know when it's the right time to have a child.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
#26432178 - 01/13/20 08:57 PM (4 years, 15 days ago) |
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My freedoms to play guitar all day definitely also had a say in the list of reasons.
You could put that on the top, but she never really encouraged my music or the other girl. They never really believed in me enough to understand the thing I am doing I guess.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: 1234go]
#26432204 - 01/13/20 09:08 PM (4 years, 15 days ago) |
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You still do not get it.
It matters the people that may end up with my child if something happens to me. I'm still working on getting my own fucking family to a point where I feel ok.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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sui said: My freedoms to play guitar all day definitely also had a say in the list of reasons.
You could put that on the top, but she never really encouraged my music or the other girl. They never really believed in me enough to understand the thing I am doing I guess.
Dude I feel that perfectly articulated +3
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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trees said: This is like a watermelonmon thread but slightly different

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Well wishes everybody
Watermelon is sorry
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I really only talk to you guys and my family
But it should just stick to talking to myself
In a way I am talking to myself right now
Make sure you read everything drunk and or high
this one guy who non of you would vocally understand
We will talk all day on sundays
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sui said: Today I actually had to tell her it was her family, and if not for them she would have my baby and not the baby she has.
So was this like a drunk dial scenario or what?
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: psi]
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psi said:
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sui said: Today I actually had to tell her it was her family, and if not for them she would have my baby and not the baby she has.
So was this like a drunk dial scenario or what?
Yeah still unclear on that
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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It matters the people that may end up with my child if something happens to me. I'm still working on getting my own fucking family to a point where I feel ok.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: chibiabos]
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Is it really? If I was going to do it that would have been the time.
The whole thing did not feel right what can I say.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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You could try owning up to the fact that you didn't want a kid instead of trying to offload the responsibility onto the people around you for failing to play the correct roles in order to enable you.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: chibiabos]
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Ok whatever.
I can play guitar all day and practice when I need to. We had a plan and she changed it and left me.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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After Mexico.
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: sui]
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Go home
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Re: So one time I lied to this chick [Re: chibiabos]
#26432361 - 01/13/20 11:08 PM (4 years, 15 days ago) |
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When I have a kid I'll be ready to do it.
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