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What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags"
    #26425324 - 01/09/20 07:43 PM (4 years, 20 days ago)

Why do some gay doodz through this around when so many other gay doodz are uncomfortable with the word?


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Cannabischarlie] * 2
    #26425332 - 01/09/20 07:48 PM (4 years, 20 days ago)

Probably similar to black dudes calling each other niggas or females calling each other bitches or whores.  The whole meaning swicheroo said in jest..


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Cannabischarlie]
    #26425347 - 01/09/20 08:00 PM (4 years, 19 days ago)

George Carlin said it's not the word that's offensive, it's the intention behind it.

People of whatever class (or whatever you want to call it) that use the word, without some serious context, are just assumed to not be using it in a derogatory way. The reverse is also true for the most part, at least that certainly seems to be the case.

It's okay for them to say it (at least they feel that way) because it's "their word".

I've never seen a gay dude get upset with another one for saying that.


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Cannabischarlie] * 1
    #26425348 - 01/09/20 08:00 PM (4 years, 19 days ago)

Chill out fag.  :gayflag:


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Ahab McBathsalts] * 1
    #26425356 - 01/09/20 08:07 PM (4 years, 19 days ago)

My friends and I don't ever call each other that. Mostly my straight bro friends do which is ironic and I often question them lol


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Amanita86]
    #26425704 - 01/10/20 12:22 AM (4 years, 19 days ago)

Yup.

Basically, they are using it for their own "fun". Peer-roasting if u will.


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Cannabischarlie]
    #26425967 - 01/10/20 04:42 AM (4 years, 19 days ago)

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Why do some gay doodz through this around when so many other gay doodz are uncomfortable with the word?





They like to get "a rise" out of each other :naughty:


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Asante] * 1
    #26425971 - 01/10/20 04:43 AM (4 years, 19 days ago)

You mean boners don’t you..:datass:


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Amanita86]
    #26425976 - 01/10/20 04:46 AM (4 years, 19 days ago)

You're hip to what I'm saying :highfive:


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Asante]
    #26425977 - 01/10/20 04:50 AM (4 years, 19 days ago)

Amanitas picking up what yer putting down.


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26425994 - 01/10/20 05:06 AM (4 years, 19 days ago)

Its the reason for the season, Logical_Chaos :grin:


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: RhYzo]
    #26430721 - 01/13/20 05:50 AM (4 years, 16 days ago)

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My friends and I don't ever call each other that. Mostly my straight bro friends do which is ironic and I often question them lol




Under 100 posts? :eek:

Why do they call each other that?


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Cannabischarlie] * 1
    #26430882 - 01/13/20 09:08 AM (4 years, 16 days ago)

I have not much to say  :shrugs:

I'm not sure why people do the things they do.

Maybe just to tease one another in a lighthearted way amongst themselves as friends.

Some people just love to talk shit.


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: RhYzo] * 1
    #26431320 - 01/13/20 01:12 PM (4 years, 16 days ago)

Theyre just words.

Its not even about the person who speaks the words intentions, as much as it is the listeners perceptions.

People choose how they percieve any word they hear, whether directed at them or not.

If you let simple words, which the whole entire point of you may miss, persuade you into judgement of someone.... Then youre kinda being a fag.


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Cannabischarlie] * 1
    #26431364 - 01/13/20 01:30 PM (4 years, 16 days ago)

I think this may be a millennial thing. I do not say that to any friends at all. I may joke with my husband at home very rarely, but yes, it's offensive to use the word. Like Vandago did. It implies a negative statement meaning that "fag" is a bad thing. It's quite simple really. And all the people trying to say "it's just a word" are not even aware of how bad it is. I do not like it and I will say so every single time.


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26431381 - 01/13/20 01:39 PM (4 years, 16 days ago)

That’s a bit ridiculous though.

Isn’t the argument that the word causes so much hurt that it should never be said in civil society?

Because if the argument is “it’s not the word, it’s the underlying meaning and context”, then I was never guilty of anything in the first place. If I ever called someone a f word, they were straight, to the best of my knowledge. So none of us meant offense when we replaced “lame” with gay or “douche bag” with “f word”.

But that’s not it, is it? It’s not ok to say the n word just because you don’t say it to a black guy or about black people. And it’s not ok to say faggot🤷🏻‍♂️
My snowflake views aside though, I do miss the words...was hard to replace lol


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: feldman114]
    #26431399 - 01/13/20 01:47 PM (4 years, 16 days ago)

Isn’t the argument that the word causes so much hurt that it should never be said in civil society?


yes.

Tell you what, and anyone else inhere that wants to argue this. Why don't you just go up to any random black person or even an acquaintance or friend that's a person of color, and use the "N" word profusely any chance you get, see how that goes. Say something like, "don't be such a nigger" (sorry had to make a point) and see how that goes. Please post results.

It seems like the people who have pushed this agenda to "make the words acceptable" and "it's just a word, and we should use it until it's meaningless" blah blah blah, are really racist and fucking assholes that want to get away with talking shit.


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: feldman114]
    #26431411 - 01/13/20 01:51 PM (4 years, 16 days ago)

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But that’s not it, is it? It’s not ok to say the n word just because you don’t say it to a black guy or about black people. And it’s not ok to say faggot🤷🏻‍♂️
My snowflake views aside though, I do miss the words...was hard to replace lol




It bothers me that you said "the n word" and then said "faggot" while trying to argue their equivalence
but it'll bother me more if that was the edit to your post, to take out nigger

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if you aren't into the whole clip, skip ahead to 5 minutes to the struggles of blacks and gays being similiar but not the same


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: Tantrika] * 1
    #26431426 - 01/13/20 01:59 PM (4 years, 16 days ago)

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But that’s not it, is it? It’s not ok to say the n word just because you don’t say it to a black guy or about black people. And it’s not ok to say faggot🤷🏻‍♂️
My snowflake views aside though, I do miss the words...was hard to replace lol




It bothers me that you said "the n word" and then said "faggot" while trying to argue their equivalence
but it'll bother me more if that was the edit to your post, to take out nigger

:thatsinteresting:


if you aren't into the whole clip, skip ahead to 5 minutes to the struggles of blacks and gays being similiar but not the same




T’was unintentional, I promise. The edit was actually adding the entire part you quoted.  I’m at work, typing on my phone. Guess I should proofread anyway, considering the subject matter..

I guess not saying the n-word is just so ingrained in my psyche that I did it on autopilot. I’ll probably get there with the f word within a few years.


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Re: What's with gay doodz referring to each other as "fags" [Re: feldman114]
    #26431434 - 01/13/20 02:05 PM (4 years, 16 days ago)

Go watch the movie "Brokeback Mountain".


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