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Oldnameforgotten
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Liking broken women (relationship)
#26393576 - 12/21/19 06:58 AM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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I know the general thing of it all.... like..... "wanting to fix people" yatta yatta.
Wondering if people could expound upon this.
Why do I like women with broken aspects of them? Mental issues.... sometimes even physical deformities.
I'm watching a tv show atm.... and starting to think that it means I myself am broken and evolution is telling me to breed with a broken person so I dont fuck up the gene pool.
And yeah.... thats depressing as fuck.... also I'm a bit drunk. Forgive me for the rant.
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Morel Guy
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Because that's all you think you are worth. If you thought better of yourself, you'd be more open to goodie girls.
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living_failure
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Re: Liking broken women (relationship) [Re: Morel Guy]
#26401184 - 12/26/19 05:05 AM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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What Morel Guy said, also:
Sometimes, if you fantasize about being in a relationship, the fantasy of being the hero, the savior, is better than being "boyfriend number 37#". So you fantasize with a crazy mad woman instead of Stacy.
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Morel Guy
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Separating from the tension and guilty of females is very very difficult. Seems the older woman get, the more tension they may exhibit.
Issues with mom possibly being a cause of our death, can be very terrifying. Look at that as either the Earth, or our birth mother. That or any woman out there.
Messing with that dark power doesn't seem to help anything. It's very easy to imagine, it's with us always.
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Darwin23
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Similar to what Morel said. You don't see your value fully and so you try to be a caretaker so as to be useful. The problem is, once you're trapped, you can despise the woman trying to fix. You're not even doing it to be useful to her, you're doing it because you feel like she is incapable without you.
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Morel Guy
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Re: Liking broken women (relationship) [Re: Darwin23]
#26401778 - 12/26/19 03:29 PM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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The dual thinking is not real. Having so many networks and spheres of brain is nothing to get anxious about. Woman worry about what they've done before hand, men after.
So many ways to get medicine, too many woman.
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Antigov



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Fat girls, girls with daddy issues, broken girls need lovin too.
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Morel Guy
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Re: Liking broken women (relationship) [Re: Antigov]
#26401806 - 12/26/19 03:55 PM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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I enjoy some sensability. Never know who will touch your soul. The craving is something we gotta go seperate ways with doing.
Smart girls are something else entirely. Everyone got soul.
I fall for injured girls a lot but man, logistics will never work. So we pray with our concerns. Sonetimes with dreams of just being there.
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Dark fatal7
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Re: Liking broken women (relationship) [Re: Morel Guy]
#26405029 - 12/28/19 04:36 PM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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You want broken girls because you are broken and instead of trying to fix yourself and making the effort to do so you are too scared to do that, thus you end up wanting to fix someone else. You attract what you feel
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Morel Guy
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Re: Liking broken women (relationship) [Re: Dark fatal7]
#26405093 - 12/28/19 05:24 PM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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My mom is broken awfully bad. She projects so much horseshit thru her baptist boyfriend.
I'd hate to be a mother fucker and never was. People might think I was because I thought about routine an awful lot.
I never know who's afraid of me but man, they gotta have some booze.
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deadwk
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I think it's a little different for everyone, but from my own experience it comes down to two things and that is being broken yourself + attempting to cope with your brokenness by fixing issues in other people, while there also being a fetish aspect to it.
In the past I had a ton of personal issues and struggled to accept myself, during this time I also involved myself with broken women emotionally and physically, staying in these relationships long past them becoming toxic. Now that these personal issues are involved, my newfound kink is women with daddy issues.
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