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Barnaby
Interesting lifetime


Registered: 12/13/17
Posts: 9,136
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I have fucked a lot of wonderful women. Time to settle down
#26401127 - 12/26/19 02:34 AM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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I felt like Stewie on Family guy looking at Brian during Christmas to my brother. Thinking about it, how much is one willing to give up to have a marriage and kids? And all that goes with that? Sure this has been asked many times on this thread.
How much does one want to experience seeing a women give birth to him. I don't want to adopt I want my own kid to raise.
For some I guess despite the different women I have had sex with if I want to have a child and help raise him, I have to let it go.
How does one go about not wanting other women sexually and getting into monogamy? God this sounds sounds stupid re-reading it, the commitment. It would be an amazing marriage with an amazing place.
I can do or do without it.
Thoughts people? Especially about monogamy, I have enjoyed sex with many women. Never used a condom and am cleared of all sexual diseases.
Guess the question is would one want to have continual relationships with them and their friends or when one wants to have kids just settle for one. Going with one. Just writing this I have made up my mind. Not really a commune type guy.
Shroomery. therapy at it's best. They play the Beatles all day without commercials on the a radio station where I live. Kind of in the John and Yoko mode but overall I get it.
Just something I want to experience in life. Especially since my dad died I take my life more seriously.
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Tulipslave
Homo sapiens sapiens, lol

Registered: 07/25/17
Posts: 11,111
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Re: I have fucked a lot of wonderful women. Time to settle down [Re: Barnaby]
#26401236 - 12/26/19 06:57 AM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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Barnaby said: Thinking about it, how much is one willing to give up to have a marriage and kids? And all that goes with that? Sure this has been asked many times on this thread.
Thoughts people? Especially about monogamy, I have enjoyed sex with many women. Never used a condom and am cleared of all sexual diseases.
personally, i'd rather be alone the rest of my life then have to start making major compromises with my time and energy and giving up things; alone but not lonely. marriage is a non-starter for me, as are children. i'm a very selfish person in some ways. i have no problem helping others, but it's on my terms. when it comes to someone being in need or in trouble, i'm there, but when it comes to casually spending time with a friend or being emotionally supportive, chances are i'm not there.
for some people, their current path might easily be tossed aside to go down the road of marriage and children. that drive doesn't exist within me.
i'm a fan of monogamy. it just works for me. certainly it doesn't work for all. many issues tend to arise in non-monogamous relationships UNLESS both partners are certain that is the way for them. even then, there are often sets of rules agreed upon. rules = restriction and limitation. restrictions and limitations, even in the most mature/emotionally sound and secure person, have the potential to breed resentment and other negative emotions. then, as you say, there is also the issue of disease
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