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What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? * 1
    #26176379 -

You're dating someone, chemistry is good, but there is that one small thing about them that turns you right off.

I'm talking about a thing that you feel most people would find no biggie, but it turns you off particularly, a personal sensitivity.

What little thing about a date could turn you right the fuck off?


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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If they can't drive. Like, you are a grown ass fucking adult, learn to drive for fuck sake. I mean, that's just so many red flags happening simultaneously.

If someone has a physical disability or something, or you live in a country where driving is not required then that's different. But if you just can't because no good reason? Oh hell no.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: nooneman] * 2
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nooneman said:
If they can't drive. Like, you are a grown ass fucking adult, learn to drive for fuck sake. I mean, that's just so many red flags happening simultaneously.



Wow thats me :lol:


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante] * 3
    #26176442 -

:lol:

Sorry Asante :hug:

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: nooneman] * 5
    #26176451 -

No problem :hug:

Not driving has been a conscious choice, mainly centered around that you need a degree of psychomotoric multitasking to drive a car that I don't feel I have. I'd be accident prone, also with my meds.
I tend to stray off on tangents of thought and if that happens behind the wheel, boom, accident.


For me, a turnoff would be if my prospective partner would religiously watch sports on TV.

I mean, if you DO sports, great, I'll come watch :laugh: 
If you go to matches, splendid, I'll be in the stadium right beside you every weekend

But fucking watch sports on TV all the time... Turnoff.

Sports, either DO or DON'T. Its shit to look at for hours on the TV, either get involved as an athlete or a live spectator but otherwise, leave it be.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante] * 5
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When people smack when they eat or chew gum like a cow chews cud. That shit would turn me right the fuck off.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Alexthegreat] * 4
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People who can't decide on things. It's not a deal breaker but fuck, when I ask what you want to eat and you say "I have no idea, you pick." :kingcrankey:

Bitch you could at least tell me what you don't want. You have pizza yesterday? You had Chinese food three times last week? You've been having sexual fantasies about eating French fries while naked? Gimmie something ffs, if you can't pick a meal how do you pick a life?


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Alexthegreat] * 1
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Alexthegreat said:
When people smack when they eat or chew gum like a cow chews cud. That shit would turn me right the fuck off.


I was going to say gross chewers as well. Whether it's lip smacking or chewing with their mouth open... nails on a chalkboard to me.

Also if they're rude or overly demanding with the waiter, not my tempo

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: feevers]
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A dick.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Ole Field Trashe]
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Ahab McBathsalts said:
A dick.


Size queen.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante] * 1
    #26176537 -

If she doesn't clean up after herself.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen] * 2
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People that enjoy drama. life has enough without adding silly stuff to it.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
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ReposadoXochipilli said:
People that enjoy drama. life has enough without adding silly stuff to it.


I take issue with this. I don't think 98% of people intend to get involved in drama. I think we are all fucked up and our shit comes out on others


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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Asante said:
You're dating someone, chemistry is good, but there is that one small thing about them that turns you right off.

I'm talking about a thing that you feel most people would find no biggie, but it turns you off particularly, a personal sensitivity.

What little thing about a date could turn you right the fuck off?


:knowwhatnevermind:


Smell.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Wonder Boy] * 3
    #26176602 -

When you give your wife access to your account to pay the bills every month and find out she's snorted the last three up in Percocets.

Or when you meet thier kids for the first time and the oldest goes around your vehicle with a pool noodle and "pretends" to bust your windows out.
You walk out and ask "Boy where did you learn that!?"
He says "MY MOMMA!" And wacks you with the noodle!:rofl:


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: BattyKoda] * 5
    #26176609 -

Hey, he said small turnoff.

This is not the official "Bitch about my drug-addicted wife" thread


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A cautious young fellow named Lodge / Had seat belts installed in his Dodge. / When his date was strapped in / He committed a sin / Without even leaving the garage. That's clever, isn't it?-A boy and his dog

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen] * 3
    #26176614 -

Oops didnt read it properly.
Maybe my edit fits the profile a little better.

I'm not bitching.
Life lesson learned is a coin in my pocket.:shrug:
And you could show a little respect friend.
That drug addiction killed her.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: BattyKoda] * 3
    #26176622 -

Cigarettes


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: BattyKoda] * 1
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BattyKoda said:
When you give your wife access to your account to pay the bills every month and find out she's snorted the last three up in Percocets.

Or when you meet thier kids for the first time and the oldest goes around your vehicle with a pool noodle and "pretends" to bust your windows out.
You walk out and ask "Boy where did you learn that!?"
He says "MY MOMMA!" And wacks you with the noodle!:rofl:


Lol this could be on Maury


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante] * 1
    #26176709 -

Asante said:
What little thing about a date could turn you right the fuck off?


If I am on a date with someone and they are rude to a waiter, bartender, ticket handler, or basically anyone we may encounter together, done. Walking out on the date right there, and may or may not explain why to said date depending how others were treated in front of me by this date.  I see people on dates all the time where the dynamic is one person is treating folks shittily and the other is basically apologizing for it.  Not cool, not what I want.

Nope, you're out, not standing for that and it is not that uncommon.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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Shitty diapers

No seatbelt

Throws trash out of the window

Lies

Crazy ex boyfriends/baby daddy's/husband

Cussing 24/7

If you say "The N Word" constantly

Doing droogz around children/old people

Smoking in the house/car with children/old people


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: BattyKoda] * 3
    #26176787 -

For me, cig smoking is big one. Cigs smell awful to me, like toxic poison, so being around burning cigs is an instant turn-off.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: BattyKoda] * 3
    #26176789 -

Constant phone use!! Playing second fiddle to a mobile device makes me cringe hard!!

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Capo]
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not talking when I want a deep convo


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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Trying to talk to me when I have a book in my hands.


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[quote]Asante said:
You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar.

You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason.

I disendorse you.[/quote]

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: spirit_shadow] * 2
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make-up. i can't stand when a woman paints on a fake face.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: split_by_nine]
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split_by_nine said:
make-up. i can't stand when a woman paints on a fake face.


I agree.

Fake tits are definitely a deal breaker too


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[quote]Asante said:
You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar.

You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason.

I disendorse you.[/quote]

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: split_by_nine] * 4
    #26176830 -

Talking, having opinions

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: cannabinated] * 1
    #26176831 -

Being pro-life


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[quote]Asante said:
You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar.

You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason.

I disendorse you.[/quote]

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: cannabinated] * 2
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cannabinated said:
Talking, having opinions



:zoneout:


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: split_by_nine] * 1
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Unearned enthusiasm.  If it’s from nerves whatever that’s fine.  But consistent EXCITEMENT ABOUT EVERYTHING !!!!

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen]
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bloodsheen said:
ReposadoXochipilli said:
People that enjoy drama. life has enough without adding silly stuff to it.


I take issue with this. I don't think 98% of people intend to get involved in drama. I think we are all fucked up and our shit comes out on others



No I'm more referencing when people make mountains out of mole hills. They enjoy the attention so they blow everything out of proportion. 

Being gay there is a lot of drama queens out there and I deal with enough of them through work to ever spend my free time around it.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Alexthegreat] * 2
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Alexthegreat said:
When people smack when they eat or chew gum like a cow chews cud. That shit would turn me right the fuck off.


Definitely smacking or any noisey eating or holding a cup of coffee with 2 hands as if its -5°c when you're indoors and the temperature is perfectly fine.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bumholio]
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:lol:

I always see women in TV commercials and movies hold coffee cups with two hands.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: BattyKoda]
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BattyKoda said:
Shitty diapers



Bro wtf kind of people are you dating, I mean good on you for dating women who wear diapers cause they need lovin too but shit kinda comes with the territory of diaper chicks


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen]
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Some people are into those weird diaper fetishes :shrug:

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
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Language, I like a female with big vocab, if she uses trendy words/phrases outside of a subtly mocking context and before they've already gone out of style it's a turn off


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: thats_incentive] * 1
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I can't think of anything small or something that someone wouldn't notice.

Usually, people who try to impress others turn me off. If you can't be secure enough in yourself to just have a conversation and just be a normal person, I'm probably going to stop talking to you immediately.


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Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent.
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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: TheOperator]
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In a woman that's actually a bit of a turn-on for me, as long as it's directed at me. I think that kind of insecurity is understandable, nobody wants to be boring or lame. If a girl is trying to impress me it's because she mistaken believes Im either too good for her or that she isnt good enough. In trying to be cool she inadvertantly becomes vulnerable (and not the creepy kind, like vulnerable as in accessible and human)


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen]
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bloodsheen said:
BattyKoda said:
Shitty diapers



Bro wtf kind of people are you dating, I mean good on you for dating women who wear diapers cause they need lovin too but shit kinda comes with the territory of diaper chicks


:rofl:

I'm talking about chicks who take two hours to change thier kids diaper.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: BattyKoda]
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Riiight...


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Wonder Boy] * 1
    #26177085 -

If they have a small stinky yappy dog that goes everywhere with them


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: trees] * 1
    #26177140 -

Cigarette
Bad breath
Shitty teeth
Low self confidence
Loud chewing noise


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Patlal] * 1
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no indoor voice

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: cannabinated]
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speaker phone in public obv

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: cannabinated]
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-Showers too much
-Does'nt like snuggles
-Does'nt like being around cigars/cigs
-Drives a Toyota
-Unwilling to engage in mild public affection
-Leans over while hugging
-Tips poorly


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: lavod]
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Has a secret life involving boy friends left on the hook.  Claims they're just friends yet obviously fuck.

Someone inlove with a shitty person and ruins any chance at a healthy relationship due to their past.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Morel Guy]
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Chewing with mouth open.
Interrupting myself and others.
Littering.
Arrogance/toxic masculinity.
Has children.
Rude to waiters, cashiers, etc.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Patchouli_Savage] * 2
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Is or is related to law enforcement or military

Being into politics

Has a Facebook account



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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bodhisatta]
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bodhisatta said:
Is or is related to law enforcement or military

Being into politics

Has a Facebook account




Good ones. Same


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen]
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Super loud girls really piss me off

Shrieking laughs, no sense of volume control etc


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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Taking off clothes and leaving them on the ground

Swearing in front of the kid


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: lavod]
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lavod said:
-Showers too much
-Does'nt like snuggles
-Does'nt like being around cigars/cigs
-Drives a Toyota
-Unwilling to engage in mild public affection
-Leans over while hugging
-Tips poorly


The fuck. That's all me 100%


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Wonder Boy]
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Minus the Toyota. I drive a Ford


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Wonder Boy]
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Wonder Boy said:
lavod said:
-Showers too much
-Does'nt like snuggles
-Does'nt like being around cigars/cigs
-Drives a Toyota
-Unwilling to engage in mild public affection
-Leans over while hugging
-Tips poorly


The fuck. That's all me 100%


Wonder Boy said:
Minus the Toyota. I drive a Ford





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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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People who throw change on the counter and have the cashier pick it off the counter

People who bitch about cig smoke

People who can't handle their liquor

Weed smokers who refuse to do other psychedelics because "nah man, i don't fuck with that shit, I only smoke weed"

People who lie about very minor details


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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Oooh... Let's not get into that.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Wonder Boy]
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Quote:
If they can't drive. Like, you are a grown ass fucking adult, learn to drive for fuck sake. I mean, that's just so many red flags happening simultaneously.

wish I had known this before my last SO

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: morrowasted]
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Making shit up to win an argument because they're wrong.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bumholio]
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agree, always being right no matter what.
Drama
Egotistical


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: NewAccount]
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Arrogance.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bodhisatta]
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trees said:
If they have a small stinky yappy dog that goes everywhere with them



Id like that, I love lap dogs, we have 2 shih tzus, one is nearly purebreed, her mom was a purebred show dog and her dad was mixed, and we bred her when she was 2 with what looked to be a shih tzu, but the puppies came out kinda terrier looking and we kept one


bodhisatta said:
Has a Facebook account





when I was like 17 a girl made me a facebook account, I used it for like a year, I thought it was like pokemon adding friends, gotta catch em all, it sat idle for a long time, 4 years ago when I learned that fb runs facial recognition on all photos I decided to delete my account

my gf has a fb account, I wanted her to look up if Spencer Reinhard had a facebook account cause I saw the movie American Animals and I wanted to buy one of his paintings, but she wouldnt do it, told me to create my own account to check :crankey:

you cant get away without being on there though, everyone takes photos and uploads them to fb, I use to tell people not to upload my photos to instagram or fb, but I have given up on that

https://www.newsweek.com/facebook-own-instagram-does-companies-apps-data-860732


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And I don't know what the mantis is praying for
But he's probably just thanking the Lord
That he don't live in a home
And he don't got a phone
And he don't sit around all angry and bored
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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen]
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bloodsheen said:
In a woman that's actually a bit of a turn-on for me, as long as it's directed at me. I think that kind of insecurity is understandable, nobody wants to be boring or lame. If a girl is trying to impress me it's because she mistaken believes Im either too good for her or that she isnt good enough. In trying to be cool she inadvertantly becomes vulnerable (and not the creepy kind, like vulnerable as in accessible and human)


Being vulnerable and being so insecure that you feel the need to impress others are two different things. So, agree to disagree.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: TheOperator]
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You need help if you don't have any social media accounts and don't go out. No friends AND no online friends? That's just sad.


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
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Bill_Oreilly said:
You need help if you don't have any social media accounts and don't go out. No friends AND no online friends? That's just sad.


If you only have online friends, that's sad.


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“Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil?
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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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Asante said:
You're dating someone, chemistry is good, but there is that one small thing about them that turns you right off.

I'm talking about a thing that you feel most people would find no biggie, but it turns you off particularly, a personal sensitivity.

What little thing about a date could turn you right the fuck off?


:knowwhatnevermind:


I don't know I've never been on a date.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: TheOperator]
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TheOperator said:
Bill_Oreilly said:
You need help if you don't have any social media accounts and don't go out. No friends AND no online friends? That's just sad.


If you only have online friends, that's sad.



That's a fact. If you don't have at least one social media account I think the chances of you having no friends is high


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
    #26178038 -

who needs traditional social media when we have the shroomery:vaped:


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For most of the normies out there, an operating system is just a bootloader for Google Chrome.

And I don't know what the mantis is praying for
But he's probably just thanking the Lord
That he don't live in a home
And he don't got a phone
And he don't sit around all angry and bored
(He's just a bug)

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: gopher]
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Well, shroomery is with people all around the world. It's more like a chat room than social media.

The idea of social media is to keep your real life friends that you don't have the time to be with updated on how things are going in your life.

Some people are private and just do their thing without it


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
    #26178802 -

I'm not private at all. I just fucking despise traditional social media.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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Jokeshopbeard said:
I'm not private at all. I just fucking despise traditional social media.



I'm getting there. I just hate people and social media gives me my "people fix" that everyone needs some of


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
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Bill_Oreilly said:
I just hate people and social media gives me my "people fix" that everyone needs some of


Bill_Oreilly said:
The idea of social media is to keep your real life friends that you don't have the time to be with updated on how things are going in your life.


So your 'people fix' is to 'keep your real life friends that you don't have the time to be with updated on how things are going in your life.'

That sounds like the fucking root of the problem to me mate. Shouldn't a 'people fix' be you enjoying them and their lives, rather than you force telling them about yours?

Two ears, one mouth. That's what we were given. Seems like social media fucked that ratio up for many if you ask me.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #26178847 -

i agree JSB. i think social media has come with a price. social norms are rapidly changing..

however, i do enjoy the way social media is helping to expose some serious societal flaws that most people are either too ignorant or too afraid to talk about.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: TheOperator]
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TheOperator said:
Bill_Oreilly said:
You need help if you don't have any social media accounts and don't go out. No friends AND no online friends? That's just sad.


If you only have online friends, that's sad.


Oh..ok...cool... I just have some of my family and you guys.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: ichugwindex] * 1
    #26178958 -

ichugwindex said:
TheOperator said:
Bill_Oreilly said:
You need help if you don't have any social media accounts and don't go out. No friends AND no online friends? That's just sad.


If you only have online friends, that's sad.


Oh..ok...cool... I just have some of my family and you guys.


Apart from a couple of old school friends who I see once every couple of years..same:shrug:


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bumholio]
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A penis.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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Yeah if Instagram and Facebook is 60% of a person's consciousness then that's a turn off


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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Jokeshopbeard said:
Bill_Oreilly said:
I just hate people and social media gives me my "people fix" that everyone needs some of


Bill_Oreilly said:
The idea of social media is to keep your real life friends that you don't have the time to be with updated on how things are going in your life.


So your 'people fix' is to 'keep your real life friends that you don't have the time to be with updated on how things are going in your life.'

That sounds like the fucking root of the problem to me mate. Shouldn't a 'people fix' be you enjoying them and their lives, rather than you force telling them about yours?

Two ears, one mouth. That's what we were given. Seems like social media fucked that ratio up for many if you ask me.



Nah, I just like keeping up on them. I don't "force" anything on anyone. That's the whole point of social media you overthinking weirdo


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
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Bill_Oreilly said:
That's the whole point of social media you overthinking weirdo


Right. The whole point of it is to show off and say 'Hey, look at meeeeeee!!'

That's why I have no respect for it, you underthinking weirdo.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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If that's the case, then you can say every human interaction is for "showing off"

Some people show off in real life and some people don't. Some people show off on social media and some don't. You non-thinking weirdo


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
    #26179266 -

Bill_Oreilly said:
The idea of social media is to keep your real life friends that you don't have the time to be with updated on how things are going in your life.


Bill_Oreilly said:
If that's the case, then you can say every human interaction is for "showing off"


I don't think that 'every human interaction' involves telling others 'how things are going in your life'. Know those people that insist on shoving their phones in your face to show you pictures of what they've been doing? You sound like one of those people.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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On the contrary.. I find some of my favourite people to be the kind of can share a silence with without feeling the need to talk. When it's like that, interaction feels like it's less driven and more organic. "What's going on" is more like just what you say to someone you haven't seen in a while. It's an extended greeting.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 2
    #26179304 -

Jokeshopbeard said:
Bill_Oreilly said:
That's the whole point of social media you overthinking weirdo


Right. The whole point of it is to show off and say 'Hey, look at meeeeeee!!'

That's why I have no respect for it, you underthinking weirdo.


IDK man I don't think participating in social media is "forcing" anyone to do anything. Get your ridiculous idealism outta here :lol:


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 4
    #26179305 -

Jokeshopbeard said:
I don't think that 'every human interaction' involves telling others 'how things are going in your life'. Know those people that insist on shoving their phones in your face to show you pictures of what they've been doing? You sound like one of those people.



Lol dude, you post pics of what you're at all the time in the pub.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bumholio] * 1
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This is social media as far as I'm concerned. Comments on Facebook are just threads under a different format.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bumholio]
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For sure, I try and add things here in the hope that they'll bump the traffic and encourage others to do the same. It's slow here, and I miss the days when people shared more.

It's Bill's words that sum up the 'traditional' social media thing for me: 'The idea of social media is to keep your real life friends that you don't have the time to be with updated on how things are going in your life.'

That doesn't sound like joining in with ones mates to me. That sounds like the side of social media that's fucking with the people that heavily indulge in it. Those that are suffering greater levels of depression because of their indulgence in looking at the pseudo-lives of others who use those mediums. Self-centred shit.

I hold my hands up - I take issue with that stuff - because of the inherent harms I see if doing to humans around me. I also know it's a ridiculous idealism, but this is where I come to vent about such things.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: larry.fisherman] * 2
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larry.fisherman said:
This is social media as far as I'm concerned. Comments on Facebook are just threads under a different format.


I constantly hear this sentiment on threads but I don't see how that makes sense.

Social media involves communication through what I like to call "social surrogacy". You craft a version of your identity that isn't necessarily your real self and display it to other people under the premise that it is representative of you as a person.

Not like an avatar that purposefully obscures your identity, but your posts can still can represent your true self.

Also the major social media sites don't operate on specific interests like the shroomery. They just represent the zeitgeist through different formats without the pretense of a unifying theme.

That's just my opinion, which is honestly rooted in a resentment for social media and not wanting any of my online activities to be associated with it.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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Ano dude, I was just calling you out. I agree 90% of what gets posted on Facebook is by attention hures, I'm guilty of it myself on occasion, but I rarely go on fb these days and it's even rarer that I post anything. Some peoples lives do revolve around it though.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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Malcolm_Xtasy said:
Jokeshopbeard said:
Bill_Oreilly said:
That's the whole point of social media you overthinking weirdo


Right. The whole point of it is to show off and say 'Hey, look at meeeeeee!!'

That's why I have no respect for it, you underthinking weirdo.


IDK man I don't think participating in social media is "forcing" anyone to do anything. Get your ridiculous idealism outta here :lol:



I know, right? You seem to be pretty level headed Malcolm. You're a good dude


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Yukon Cornelius]
    #26179385 -

Yukon Cornelius said:
larry.fisherman said:
This is social media as far as I'm concerned. Comments on Facebook are just threads under a different format.


I constantly hear this sentiment on threads but I don't see how that makes sense.

Social media involves communication through what I like to call "social surrogacy". You craft a version of your identity that isn't necessarily your real self and display it to other people under the premise that it is representative of you as a person.

Not like an avatar that purposefully obscures your identity, but your posts can still can represent your true self.

Also the major social media sites don't operate on specific interests like the shroomery. They just represent the zeitgeist through different formats without the pretense of a unifying theme.

That's just my opinion, which is honestly rooted in a resentment for social media and not wanting any of my online activities to be associated with it.



I think this is a lower level of social media. It may not be as "is in your face" like the main platforms but I certainly feel a lot of people craft an identity on here and play their roles according to what they believe in and what they have been through. Thats social media in a way :shrug:


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Something there is mysteriously formed,
Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Yukon Cornelius]
    #26179443 -

Yukon Cornelius said:
larry.fisherman said:
This is social media as far as I'm concerned. Comments on Facebook are just threads under a different format.


I constantly hear this sentiment on threads but I don't see how that makes sense.

Social media involves communication through what I like to call "social surrogacy". You craft a version of your identity that isn't necessarily your real self and display it to other people under the premise that it is representative of you as a person.

Not like an avatar that purposefully obscures your identity, but your posts can still can represent your true self.

Also the major social media sites don't operate on specific interests like the shroomery. They just represent the zeitgeist through different formats without the pretense of a unifying theme.

That's just my opinion, which is honestly rooted in a resentment for social media and not wanting any of my online activities to be associated with it.


A thread is just a page or thing that expands into a conversation. And no offense but it kinda seems like some of the rest of what you're saying boils down to you thinking we are just different or better and that's kind of beyond the point. If there's like some kind of criteria people have decided these things need to fulfill to be social media then I'd like to know, but as far as I can tell it's more derivative of what people perceive those communities as. Someone can make their own platform anytime they want. They could be "the one" to actually take the proper time to mould it into something worthwhile. Like The Shroomery. I never said I thought this is Facebook. It is however social media. Webpages can only take so many reasonable formats while is in large part the reason why I used the word. Social media doesn't have to be a bad thing. It could be a term of endearment if the one you're talking about is good. Wasn't this always somewhere for counterculture? Embrace the gay.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: larry.fisherman] * 2
    #26179447 -

I wouldnt say its a dealbreaker but..


Crocs.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
    #26179470 -

I always assumed you were the kind of guy that wears Crocs everywhere

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: larry.fisherman]
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As much as I can get away with it I wear black flipflops of natural rubber. Low key, comfortable. Since childhood shoes and I never got along. Prisons for the feet.

I abhor crocs or socks in sandals.

Socks in sandals is another crime against good taste.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: larry.fisherman] * 1
    #26179482 -

I guess my real gripe is that the term social media is extremely general. What people commonly think of when they hear "social media" is a big dopamine game that operates under the premise of being real life.

The term can refer to literally anything that is a medium for a group of people communicating to each other.

Just think the big outlets are more harmful than good in their current form. Doesn't disqualify it from being used effectively by a minority of users.

Back on topic though, deal breakers are...

Cigarettes
Vegan
Overtly new age spiritual
Traditionally religious


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Yukon Cornelius] * 1
    #26179493 -

I don't really consider us "social media". Social media in my view invokes the image of gimmicky, dopamine pushy, addictive, general topic places.

We're an oldfashioned messageboard, we predate that stuff, you have themed places for specific subjects here.

Twitit, Facepoop and co would envy the sheer volume of functionalities Ythan added over the years, you can be a member here for a decade and still discover new features that were there all along. If they all made those dopamine blips, flashes and prompts you'd go stark raving bonkers, but they're discreetly worked into the software as to be unoffensive unless you choose them. Often you can even opt out of them entirely.


The Shroomery's interface is addictive in the sense that any other board and media looks like some schmuck slapped some features together over the weekend.

22 years of board improvements  :shockandawe:


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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Message boards are the progenitor of modern social media. That association necessitates common characteristics. When I see/hear "in my view," that made the think of like how some people might hear "drugs" and think addiction and meth and poor behaviour when others think laying on your bed thinking about stuff on mushrooms. It's all relative.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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Asante said:
I don't really consider us "social media". Social media in my view invokes the image of gimmicky, dopamine pushy, addictive, general topic places.

We're an oldfashioned messageboard, we predate that stuff, you have themed places for specific subjects here.

Twitit, Facepoop and co would envy the sheer volume of functionalities Ythan added over the years, you can be a member here for a decade and still discover new features that were there all along. If they all made those dopamine blips, flashes and prompts you'd go stark raving bonkers, but they're discreetly worked into the software as to be unoffensive unless you choose them. Often you can even opt out of them entirely.


The Shroomery's interface is addictive in the sense that any other board and media looks like some schmuck slapped some features together over the weekend.

22 years of board improvements  :shockandawe:


I agree, however Merriam Webster is less discriminating.

Quote:
forms of electronic communication (such as websites for social networking and microblogging) through which users create online communities to share information, ideas, personal mkessages, and other content (such as videos)


But semantics is not my favorite game to play anyway so take it with a grain of salt.

What boggles my mind is how a complete lack of social media presence is a real red flag for a lot of people in my generation. Even freaking future employers!


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante]
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Asante said:
I don't really consider us "social media". Social media in my view invokes the image of gimmicky, dopamine pushy, addictive, general topic places.

We're an oldfashioned messageboard, we predate that stuff, you have themed places for specific subjects here.

Twitit, Facepoop and co would envy the sheer volume of functionalities Ythan added over the years, you can be a member here for a decade and still discover new features that were there all along. If they all made those dopamine blips, flashes and prompts you'd go stark raving bonkers, but they're discreetly worked into the software as to be unoffensive unless you choose them. Often you can even opt out of them entirely.


The Shroomery's interface is addictive in the sense that any other board and media looks like some schmuck slapped some features together over the weekend.

22 years of board improvements  :shockandawe:



I think this site should trend into a social media sites. But it needs to be a psychedelic one. We need people to be able to express their psychedelic ideas without people bringing others down. We should have a platform to post our pictures, our drugs, our best trip reports..etc. I know we have a means to do that in the pub but I think it needs to be part of the account setup. We need to step it up and go more psychedelic in this place. It's turning into a bunch of people (myself included) who don't trip as much and just talk shit about whatever. We need toake this place MORE PSYCHEDELIC


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Existing before Heaven and Earth,
Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging,
All-pervading, unfailing,
I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.

It's just a shot away..

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: BattyKoda] * 1
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BattyKoda said:
When you give your wife access to your account to pay the bills every month and find out she's snorted the last three up in Percocets.

Or when you meet thier kids for the first time and the oldest goes around your vehicle with a pool noodle and "pretends" to bust your windows out.
You walk out and ask "Boy where did you learn that!?"
He says "MY MOMMA!" And wacks you with the noodle!:rofl:


Lol. More red flags than a Chinese pride day parade

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Asante] * 3
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Someone who is completely anti rec drug use, it's a must for me to be comfy while doing it, even if they don't, but I'd prefer they do at least something, even once a year.

Doesn't like to travel or go for driving road trips

Pretentious, label whore, narcissistic, money driven, extreme political views and watches all those pundits and the state of the union etc...and hates people who don't vote as if they killed someone or raped a baby by not voting

unkempt, dirty, sloppy, dirty bathroom/room/domicile/self

loves country music and has to play it all the time

hates certain movies



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https://mytiddies.com/


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
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Bill_Oreilly said:
People who lie about very minor details



:ohyou:

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: tyrannicalrex] * 2
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yeah honestly it sounds whatever but I couldn't be with someone who couldn't get high with me . it's too strong of a bonding experience it would be like not having sex

"must love shrooms"

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 2
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Jokeshopbeard said:
For sure, I try and add things here in the hope that they'll bump the traffic and encourage others to do the same. It's slow here, and I miss the days when people shared more.



But...you were just condemning people for doing basically the same thing.  :shrug:
All the while you're posting sheep sheering photos, and glamour shots of your motorcycle.  Come on, bro...



Jokeshopbeard said:
It's Bill's words that sum up the 'traditional' social media thing for me: 'The idea of social media is to keep your real life friends that you don't have the time to be with updated on how things are going in your life.'

That doesn't sound like joining in with ones mates to me. That sounds like the side of social media that's fucking with the people that heavily indulge in it. Those that are suffering greater levels of depression because of their indulgence in looking at the pseudo-lives of others who use those mediums. Self-centred shit.



Dude...not everyone can just "join in with ones mate."  Sometimes they're a thousand damn miles away.  You sure have been testy lately.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Bill_Oreilly] * 1
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You need help if you don't have any social media accounts and don't go out. No friends AND no online friends? That's just sad.


No. Fuck social media, it is worthless and unhealthy. It is like pokemon or a similar game.

When I was in middle school I literally didn't even think about it. "I have to make a Facebook account, and I have to make as many friends as possible, and now I have to post something. And it better be cool and good so I can get enough likes and maybe another 'friend'. And in between all that I can play fucking farmville to stay busy because everyone else does.

Meanwhile Zuckerberg is just chuckling evily and raking in the dough.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: thats_incentive]
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Yeah I guess this really is social media in a way.

But it's also a more thorough form of discussion where real, life-changing ideas are shared as opposed to us just posting photos of our day and calling each other cute.

And we're also a tight-knit minority outside of the norms of greater 'society' and their preferred medias. So we're cool :cool:


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: thats_incentive]
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The one thing we all have in common is definitely a "fuck society and its BS" kind of mentality. Not all from the same angle but it's much more of a commonality than like your brothers college buddy posting a picture of his new puppy or wtf ever people use Facebook for now


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen]
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Being naive about really, really basic life and adult shit.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Loaded Shaman]
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Loaded Shaman said:
Being naive about really, really basic life and adult shit.


For instance?


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: thats_incentive]
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thats_incentive said:
Loaded Shaman said:
Being naive about really, really basic life and adult shit.


For instance?


Oh you know the type. Girls who didn't know they had to check the oil in their car. Or think it's impossible to put together an Ikea bed frame. Or find the thermostat to be confusing

Dumb girl shit


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: bloodsheen]
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bloodsheen said:
thats_incentive said:
Loaded Shaman said:
Being naive about really, really basic life and adult shit.


For instance?


Oh you know the type. Girls who didn't know they had to check the oil in their car. Or think it's impossible to put together an Ikea bed frame. Or find the thermostat to be confusing

Dumb girl shit


Huh, my buddy had me check his oil for him and I don't even drive.

Hell my step dad never set up a medical appointment for himself until he was in his 50's.

If a girl doesn't know how to work a thermostat I'm concerned she's touched.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Yukon Cornelius]
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She's touched?


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Wonder Boy]
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Wonder Boy said:
She's touched?


Touch of the tard.


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Yukon Cornelius] * 1
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This one girl couldn’t read a map. Like at all. I was coming down from a day drinking event and all she had to do was drive down one single highway and take a single exit. I woke up from my drunken nap two or three times to find us in some random city. Had to explain to her how to get back

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: topdog82]
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Dude, she agreed to take time out of her day to drive all the way down to pick up some drunk guy and you're bitching because she got lost...

:facepalm:


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: topdog82]
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topdog82 said:
This one girl couldn’t read a map. Like at all. I was coming down from a day drinking event and all she had to do was drive down one single highway and take a single exit. I woke up from my drunken nap two or three times to find us in some random city. Had to explain to her how to get back


Lol who uses a map


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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Malcolm_Xtasy said:
topdog82 said:
This one girl couldn’t read a map. Like at all. I was coming down from a day drinking event and all she had to do was drive down one single highway and take a single exit. I woke up from my drunken nap two or three times to find us in some random city. Had to explain to her how to get back


Lol who uses a map


Yep I use GPS on my phone


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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Alexthegreat]
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Alexthegreat said:
When people smack when they eat or chew gum like a cow chews cud. That shit would turn me right the fuck off.




yea, gum-chewing is a turnoff. 


someone who thinks smoking cigarettes inside the house is okay.


someone who plays with their cellphone while driving.



split_by_nine said:
make-up. i can't stand when a woman paints on a fake face.





i'm not a fan of makeup, but can tolerate small amounts of it.  it's pretty uncommon to find a woman who uses NO makeup at all.

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: Wonder Boy]
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Wonder Boy said:
Dude, she agreed to take time out of her day to drive all the way down to pick up some drunk guy and you're bitching because she got lost...

:facepalm:


To be clear by “map” I meant iPhone maps

But naw we went to the drinking event together and she and I hung out there. She didn’t drink because she had to drive

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Re: What's a SMALL thing that turns you off particularly in a prospective partner? [Re: topdog82]
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Again. She agreed to stay sober just so she can drive your drunk ass around.

My guy, have a bit of compassion.

Making sure you're safe and have fun Trump's not being able to follow a map.

I'd be more upset at the junky iPhone.


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