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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: RebeccaBlack]
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Daijo said:
The friendzone is something someone puts himself in.


Now I ask you to elaborate.

I mean yeah the blunders I committed cumulated in her not wanting me, that what you mean?


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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I mean, she's like the worst hypocrite on the Shroomery so that's to be expected. But she always manages to start some gender conflict thats BS because she doesn't speak for women in general, she speaks for druggie lesbian wooks. Actually I don't think any of the female regulars are still here.

Fuck I just realized how much of a sausage fest this place is now.


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: RebeccaBlack]
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Daijo said:
@lowbrow It means that whatever impression she made, the rejection was due to a simple fact of sexual orientation. It's life, it's nothing personal, it hurts less.

Women are much less concerned after I reject them, because then I tell them it's because I'm gay and it becomes okay :shrug:

The friendzone is something someone puts himself in.


As bloodsheen pointed out, what she said was a complete contradiction from the stanza in her first sentence.  It appears to be hypocritical.

I agree on the friend zone part, it is mostly a psychological construct, and when you get over that, all the women they supposedly had friend zoned said person are fair game....as long as the guy plays it cool.

Pretty misogynistic huh?:cool:

But the girls make the rules, and that’s what the guys like me play by.  I used to buy into the friend zone bullshit, but I don’t anymore.  If a girl tries to friend zone me, like when I’m asking them on a date or something, I now consider them fair game for seduction.  They should know that they are in the presence of a good cat, but if they pull the ‘we’re just friends’ bullshit, that’s the last thing I see them as.  In my mind they are now a future notch on my bedpost.


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Sui is trying to mod right now.  Kinda like a newborn calf tryin ta stand fer the first time ain’t it..

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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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thats_incentive said:
Daijo said:
The friendzone is something someone puts himself in.


Now I ask you to elaborate.

I mean yeah the blunders I committed cumulated in her not wanting me, that what you mean?


More like, being in the friend zone is a choice. If you know in your heart (and penis) that you aren't interested in a friendship, or you can't keep it to just friendship, you can just bail and stop talking. If you choose to torture yourself by watching some hairy hipster maul her at a bar while you sit there like a third wheel doucher, thats on you.

As someone who has a ton of experience in the friend zone, I can tell you it was always my choice. It's both pathetic and pointless and leads to terrible experiences and awful decisions. I wasted two years of my life in the friend zone, it got fuckin weird and self-destructive. Her boyfriend like knew we were romantic sometimes (cuddling and stuff) and just did nothing? I kinda wanted him to punch me right in the face so she would have to actually choose.

But this is a different scenario. All you have to do is stop talking to her in a friendly manner, she will get the hint pretty fast. It shows her that you are either petty as fuck or have some semblance of self-respect and then she will feel bad. Either way, problem solved.


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: bloodsheen]
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Also should mention one of my best friends is a very pretty (and very married) girl and because we started out as just friends and then she got married, I never felt that awful friend zone feeling. Plus we both know deep down that if she hadn't been in a relationship we would have fucked like rabbits, thats ok because it wasn't like she "chose" him over me. He was there first and she's a human being with human feelings and one of those is wanting to get fuuuuuucked.


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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thats_incentive said:
Daijo said:
The friendzone is something someone puts himself in.


Now I ask you to elaborate.

I mean yeah the blunders I committed cumulated in her not wanting me, that what you mean?


Defeated attitude, trying to get a one-sided attraction to be two-sided for more than a short time. You get a feeling when the spark is not shared. You're friends. If one tried to see if a potential relationship was possible (more than friendship) and tried to flirt with no success, it's not the friendzone, it's friendship.

I don't believe in one-sided love, because love is shared. When the person you're attracted to isn't attracted to you. It's just a mismatched. Nobody placed anybody in no zone. Why would you be interested in someone who isn't interested in you, romantically?

Talking about the friendzone is almost a psychic shield for lots of guys to justify female rejections, since ''friendzoning'' is typically done by women. ''She just sees me as a friend, what can I do.'' No, man. There's no spark, there's no physical or romantic attraction. It's nobody's fault and no reason to be a cry baby.

Often times, repeatedly friendzoned guy end up putting the fault on the opposite sex instead of owning up to a bad flirt.

Wow, it's late and my text lacks cohesion.


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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bloodsheen said:
I mean, she's like the worst hypocrite on the Shroomery so that's to be expected. But she always manages to start some gender conflict thats BS because she doesn't speak for women in general, she speaks for druggie lesbian wooks. Actually I don't think any of the female regulars are still here.

Fuck I just realized how much of a sausage fest this place is now.


Look, she didn’t really friend zone you.  Nothing is permanent with a woman’s mind.  What she did was give you a shit test(when she asked you to be her boyfriend) and you failed it when you said yes.  She just now saw how much of a push over you are to be in a relationship and for her that was a real turn off.

Here’s what you’re not going to want to hear, but probably already suspect. 

She’s already fucked the married guy. 

When she was telling you she was being ‘harassed’, she was just covering her tracks.  Why do you think she got so defensive when you asked her about him?  Plus girls love married douche bags, no strings attached, just sex.

Chances you are when she ‘friend zoned’ you, she might of meant it consciously, but somewhere in the recesses of her subconscious she still sees you as a good candidate for her life.

I’d say play it cool, and you might still get a piece of ass from her. 

Make sure to call out married douche bag asshole on saying you flipped him off.  There’s a fifty/fifty chance that he is a cockblock or that homegirl lied about it to throw you off the trail that they’re fucking.

Personally, I’d say fuck that bitch(literally).  But if it happens, don’t make it easy for her, be a hard fuck and give her a taste of her own medicine.

Well, there’s my two cents.

By the way,  ssshhhhhhh

the friend zone isn’t real


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Amanita86 said:
Sui is trying to mod right now.  Kinda like a newborn calf tryin ta stand fer the first time ain’t it..

Edited by lowbrow (09/11/19 12:44 AM)

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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: lowbrow]
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Ahahahaha yes! She 100% already fucked him, hahaha omg I didn't want to make an accusation of a girl I never met but that's exactly what I thought


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: bloodsheen]
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And OP probably drove her to do it

I hope you are ashamed of yourself for forcing that poor nutjob to sleep with that creep :lolsy:


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: bloodsheen]
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bloodsheen said:
And OP probably drove her to do it

I hope you are ashamed of yourself for forcing that poor nutjob to sleep with that creep :lolsy:


That was uncalled for.

If anything, we should be picking on Sara for that double speak post earlier.


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Amanita86 said:
Sui is trying to mod right now.  Kinda like a newborn calf tryin ta stand fer the first time ain’t it..

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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: lowbrow]
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Im just kidding. Its not his fault that she took moving way too fast and getting a pretty reasonable response from it so personally. If she really did sleep with basically the first dude who took a crack at her, he should feel even better about how this went down


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: lowbrow]
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Ah yes, interesting.

lowbrow said:
Here’s what you’re not going to want to hear, but probably already suspect. 

She’s already fucked the married guy. 

When she was telling you she was being ‘harassed’, she was just covering her tracks.  Why do you think she got so defensive when you asked her about him?  Plus girls love married douche bags, no strings attached, just sex.

...

I’d say play it cool, and you might still get a piece of ass from her. 

Make sure to call out married douche bag asshole on saying you flipped him off.  There’s a fifty/fifty chance that he is a cockblock or that homegirl lied about it to throw you off the trail that they’re fucking.



My thoughts exactly, except idk if they actually fucked, but I don't doubt they did something. And that is currently the plan. To play it cool at least, I don't really plan on fucking what dick has. Shudder.

yeah I want to talk to him about that but idk might be better to just leave it alone.

One time Dick's wife and kid came in, ordered something and hung around. That girl took her break real quick and she took it outside.


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Edited by thats_incentive (09/11/19 02:47 AM)

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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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Plus she's training for the same position as him and this would be a pretty convenient if he were to be let go for harassment of our female employees.


Once I heard some people (her, incidentally) talking about him and whether or not he'd be fired. I thought it to be unfair knowing he had the right to know what people were saying about him, so I basically tried to tell him to get his shit together but left her name out of it. He definitely didn't do that so I can't feel sorry for him. I'd say I hope he gets fired, but I really hope I'm out of there before I find out. And anyway what would that accomplish. Think of his poor kid though I don't have high hopes regarding the longevity of his family in either case.

The whole thing is dumb. Maybe she doesn't completely hate me. I no longer really care. I really wasn't in it for the fucking pussy.

I'd say I hope she realizes how bad she fucked up in not giving me a chance for a cool human connection and feels miserable for it, but I'm weary now and just hope this doesn't end too shittily for any party (besides me) :lol:

But seriously, yeah, much of this is probably my fault from the way I was acting after she claimed to friend zone me.

I'm really glad this happened in a way aside from whatever damage was done because I'm now reminded of exactly how not to treat a woman. Hopefully everything turns out ok for her and hopefully I'm cooler and things go better next time.

...oooor she's totally evil and knows exactly what she's doing who knows.

Edited by thats_incentive (09/11/19 01:51 AM)

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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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Oh yeah I said I was dropping it


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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thats_incentive said:
One time Dick's wife and kid came in, ordered something and hung around. That girl took her break real quick and she took it outside.


LMOA dude set your sights elsewhere. If you get yer hole its because she didn't get what she wanted from the other guy and shes settling for 2nd best...you!!!


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: Bumholio]
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Well technically I was first best, then he was second. So I guess I'd be third and therefore 6 stupid if I fell for her again


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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Uh which totally IS NOT going to happen. Ha ha.


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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You love her, just admit it :lol:


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Re: The Friend Zone [Re: thats_incentive]
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WOW, so glad I'm in my 50's and not in that age bracket anymore. I sort of remember doing this kind of stuff and or knowing people in it. Lessons were learned be live me, and I hope you learned from this one.:grin:


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