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I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years
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So it wasn't all me that made her loose her job she was getting ready to quit within a month anyways, but I am the reason why she got let go.

So the story goes like this. ( short version ):

She had had some problems at work, being written up and being watched under a microscope at all times. She hated it and was stressed 24/7. I have had enough by now. She wasn't sleeping eating, getting out of bed, etc.
Now I had quite a bit of flualprazolam, ( she would never willingly take that, I spiked one of her alcoholic drinks with a medium to high dose of it.

Well long story short she couldn't really wake up and when she did she would just collapse on the ground, this went on for about 2 weeks. I feel fucking terrible about it, but in a way I feel like I had to do it because she wouldn't have quit on her own, I know she wouldn't.


Since that all occurred she has a better job, closer to home, more pay, etc.

I just feel terrible for what I did.


She doesn't remember a week of her life because of what I did.


I'm a piece of shit huh?

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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jesus christ dude. that's not cool

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
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she was going to quit soon and you couldnt wait for that to happen so you drugged her? did she quit or get fired as a result of this?

ps. you are a terrible person for giving someone an RC without consent.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
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tell her what you did and hopefully she leaves you.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
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Ik I'm a piece of shit. But honestly in the end our relationship has improved greatly. She has a better job.  She said she was gonna quit thatvweeek.  I just made sure it happened.


Fuckd I know

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I cannot imagine being in a relationship where this would be something I could consider. 

I see you think your relationship has improved as a result of this.  I'm afraid I think that is not the case.  It's possible that you're getting along easier, however that's not a good sole metric by which to judge the health of a relationship. 

Relationships require trust, compassion, and good communication. 

It seems you didn't trust her and she shouldn't trust you.  You didn't have compassion in what you were doing, you made a choice to violate her rights regarding choices for what she allows in her body.  And the lack of good communication is evident by you feeling like she was gonna turn her statement into a lie(by not quitting like she said).  Instead of communicating about it you took matters into your own hands.  In addition you've not communicated with her what you've done.

What does she think is the cause for her loss of a week?  Do you think she doesn't realize she was drugged or did you lie about it and convince her otherwise?

You definitely endangered her life.

I don't say all of this to berate you, you obviously feel terrible about it.  I'm simply mentioning these things because you seem to be receptive to hear input on the topic and I want to give some of what you've said objective context as you're quite close to the happening and other person involved.

I implore you to consider these things and give consideration to talking to your wife about what you did and why.  It will be very difficult.  She might leave you.  She might press charges. 

However, I think it's the best chance for you to legitimately grow your relationship following this happening.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #3]
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I did an allergy test on her for what it's worth.  I really thought I put maybe a
Round a bars worth which she is prescribed xanax. She has her own issues. So I'm not completely the bad guy. She has done some pretty fucked up shit to me to as well. Along the same lines... I was simply trying to make her relax I has no intention of being the catalyst in losing her job. She will never find out. I'm not the only one who's follor
Wing all the rules.  2 weeks ago she left all night leaving my daughter home with me by myself which I love because we have movie nights, well I heard from a friend of a friend who w as s there that she was blowing coke all night. She has yet to tell me. So I guess when she does that I will spill the beans on what I did.

Yes shouldnt have done it. But I had no idea the repercussions that were coming, even though now our relation ship has grown exponentially.  Other than a few secrets I have (one on her and one. Ig one on me...)

That's all I want to say.

I figured youd guys think I was a piece of shit, which I am. I've known that for a while.... but you dont know what other people's lives are like.... I hope no one ever does what I did.  And if you're thinking about it
ABSOLUTELY DO NOT DO WHAT MY FUCKED HEAD MADE ME DO.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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I didn't say you endangered her life because she might have had an allergic reaction to it.

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Anonymous #1 said: 
I spiked one of her alcoholic drinks with a medium to high dose of it.



It's because you gave your wife a medium to high dose of a benzo in her alcoholic beverage.

That's a potentially fatal combination.  It can cause respiratory distress. 

Anonymous #1 said:
she couldn't really wake up and when she did she would just collapse on the ground, this went on for about 2 weeks.


It sounds like it was pretty close to a fatal combination this time.  Did you measure her heart rate or breathing during that time period?

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #3] * 1
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I don't think you feel as badly as you're letting on. It sounds like you are fine with it because you felt it was justified because "she did something to you sometime ago way back when." That's what makes you a total dud, imagine telling your daughter that her mom is dead because you couldn't wait a week. Then to come on here acting like you feel bad, you don't feel bad, it kinda feels like you're bragging because you got away with it.

Edited by Anonymous (08/25/19 12:29 PM)

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
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You drugged your wife...

That's criminal

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #5] * 1
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You should be in jail dude, bad form. Sounds like a toxic relationship and just staying together for the kid. If your basically poisoning each other then thats a sign you both need help or GTFO.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #6] * 2
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just wanted to agree with everybody else, you are a shitty human and if you die soon it would be great

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #7]
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Anonymous #7 said:
just wanted to agree with everybody else, you are a shitty human and if you die soon it would be great


:somefunnyshit:

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
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I did something like this once. But in the opposite order. My wife (girlfriend) at the time had just been fired from her job so she was mad, depressed, sad, etc. Well for some reason we start to get into a yelling argument. Something stupid cause she's on edge about being fired. Well mid argument I say something like "your right I don't want to argue. Do you want some orange juice?". She says yes. I run down stairs and proceed to crush (3)2mg Ativan and put them in her OJ. OJ was perfect cause 2mg ativans are yellow and have a slight sweet taste. She had a bit of a tolerance back then so she didn't black out. We spent the rest of the afternoon having fun at the house watched a movie, played some video games, laughed a bunch. I kept an eye on her didn't let her drive or anything. Does that make me a monster?

So although this guy fucked up and what he did was pretty shitty. He wasn't out date raping people or anything. So let's not go wishing death on him that's a bit extreme.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #8] * 1
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yes, you too are a horrible person and should rot in hell with anon #1

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #8] * 1
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Anonymous #8 said:
I did something like this once. But in the opposite order. My wife (girlfriend) at the time had just been fired from her job so she was mad, depressed, sad, etc. Well for some reason we start to get into a yelling argument. Something stupid cause she's on edge about being fired. Well mid argument I say something like "your right I don't want to argue. Do you want some orange juice?". She says yes. I run down stairs and proceed to crush (3)2mg Ativan and put them in her OJ. OJ was perfect cause 2mg ativans are yellow and have a slight sweet taste. She had a bit of a tolerance back then so she didn't black out. We spent the rest of the afternoon having fun at the house watched a movie, played some video games, laughed a bunch. I kept an eye on her didn't let her drive or anything. Does that make me a monster?

So although this guy fucked up and what he did was pretty shitty. He wasn't out date raping people or anything. So let's not go wishing death on him that's a bit extreme.


Your very bad but at least you ised OJ, He put a STRONG DOSE IN HER ALCOHOLIC DRINK thats a potential killer easily.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #6] * 1
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I dunno. I think it's a bit different drugging a loved one as opposed to and random person you want to cause harm to. At that point in time we where both into drugs hence she was able to consume 6 mg and not black out. I told her what I had done after she began to calm down and we had nothing planned that day. I just knew that she was going to be in a mood the whole day.
Frankly I don't think I did anything wrong. We are now older with more responsibilities so i would not do it now. But If the roles where reversed I would want her to do it to me.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #8] * 1
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why wouldnt you just offer it to her? if she was a drug user then she wouldn't have said no. what you did was wrong. maybe you think its okay.. well it's not. maybe you are telling the truth about coming clean to her about doing it, fine, but that does not make it okay. you are scum.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
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Anonymous #2 said:
you are scum.


Says the person that's wishing death on others.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #9]
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if it makes me scum to want less shitbags on earth, then so be it :smile:

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #8]
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Anonymous #8 said:
I dunno. I think it's a bit different drugging a loved one as opposed to and random person you want to cause harm to. At that point in time we where both into drugs hence she was able to consume 6 mg and not black out. I told her what I had done after she began to calm down and we had nothing planned that day. I just knew that she was going to be in a mood the whole day.
Frankly I don't think I did anything wrong. We are now older with more responsibilities so i would not do it now. But If the roles where reversed I would want her to do it to me.


Ok you just ring the police and ask if its a crime what you did prick

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous #2 said:
why wouldnt you just offer it to her? if she was a drug user then she wouldn't have said no. what you did was wrong. maybe you think its okay.. well it's not. maybe you are telling the truth about coming clean to her about doing it, fine, but that does not make it okay. you are scum.


Why did I drug her? Because she was in such a mood she would not have taken it on her own. She kind of has a complex where she doesn't like being told what to do. If I had been like "honey your worried and upset because you got fired and taking it out on me, why don't you take some Ativan she would of been like fuck you." The argument was about something stupid like how I stacked the cups in the cupboard. 20 minutes after she drank the OJ she actually apologized for acting for so crazy. We are still together and this took place about 12 years ago. The other guy went a little overboard but I still defend what I did I'm not scum at all. i agree people shouldn't drug people they don't know or if their intentions are nefarious but in the situation I was in I find it completely acceptable.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Anonymous #6 said:
Anonymous #8 said:
I dunno. I think it's a bit different drugging a loved one as opposed to and random person you want to cause harm to. At that point in time we where both into drugs hence she was able to consume 6 mg and not black out. I told her what I had done after she began to calm down and we had nothing planned that day. I just knew that she was going to be in a mood the whole day.
Frankly I don't think I did anything wrong. We are now older with more responsibilities so i would not do it now. But If the roles where reversed I would want her to do it to me.


Ok you just ring the police and ask if its a crime what you did prick


Let's not confuse what's right and wrong with the law. The law says quite of few things that are perfectly fine are illegal. I don't know why you have such anamosity towards me. I have never drugged anyone other person than my wife in that single occasion. Your acting like I'm some serial date raper. You need to chill....do you want some OJ?
But on a serious note my wife's perfectly fine with what happened. So I'm not quite sure why your so bent out of shape. If shit happened to you I'm sorry but don't project that shit onto other people.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #8]
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2 & 6 are holier than thou. Just remember that.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #9]
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No we just believe drugging someone without their knowledge just because you dont believe they will quit their job, is a fucked up sicko freak thing to do.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #6]
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There's no denying it's a fucked up thing to do. But then to sit there and spit hate upon those that might get caught up in such a thing like you aint got no nasty skeletons in your closet is equally fucked up. 2 knows this, he admitted it earlier.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #9]
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Nah im not sick in the head, im not even referring to 8 in my posts either.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #9]
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id guess that OP lives with temendous guilt and that's why he posted. i too am guilty of some pretty bad decisions, but id never secretly drug anyone. what OP did was extremely dangerous and that is why some of us find it extremely offensive.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous #2 said:
i too am guilty of some pretty bad decisions, but id never secretly drug anyone. what OP did was extremely dangerous and that is why some of us find it extremely offensive.


So you've never done anything that's endangered others, whether it resulted in actual harm or not?

Putting others at risk is putting others at risk, I'm guilty of it as much as the next man. Admittedly, I wouldn't have done so in the way OP did but I have done so, and I think that gives me no right to sit in judgement of OP.

As you say, it seems that he may be trying to repent somewhat, so should we not encourage that, rather than wishing harm and spite upon him?

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #9] * 1
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i have to agree with you, #9.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #2]
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I never wished him harm i just said it was bad, at least an 8 told his wife, op has just left his wife confused as to how she lost a couple weeks of her life with no memory and losing her job, that op orchestrated.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #6]
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You guys might not drug people you don't know and rape them, but you still think the same way as someone that would do that. Drugging someone it fucked, but at least 8 told his victim afterwards. We all do stupid shit in our lives and if everyone is going to act like they haven't then they are just as shitty as the ACTIONS of 1 and 8. 8's situation seems like it's more forgivable because he told his girlfriend and she was cool with it. 1's situation I don't like one bit, he knocked his wife out for a WEEK, because he couldn't wait for her to quit.

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
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jesus wept, everybody just calm down and stop drugging each other

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #7]
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I dosed my dad with shroom tea but told him right after he had a great time and I've dosed himy multiple times after, he is depressed from retiring and an alcoholic,  he stops drinking for 7 to 10th days after he trips ussually  , but I would never dose someone like op  did. I've been dosed with RCs and it fucking sucks, i ended up waking to padded walls

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Re: I ultimately got my wife fired from her job of 6.5 years [Re: Anonymous #10]
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I wanna be like, "WTF, mate" but honestly I hope my kids dose me some day. I would love them for it :lol:

"you've always been such a good boy:smile::smile:.....":alphabrain:

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