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split_by_nine
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: PoisonousLookalike] 2
#26131019 - 08/11/19 12:12 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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you sound like a nice person and person A sounds toxic as fuck. i understand the attraction you have but you will never have a healthy relationship with this guy. sometimes your emotions are stronger than your sensibilities and will leave you feeling empty when trying to make a connection with the guy. use your head OP, not just your heart. if the guy is fun to be around, then just be casual friends. dont let yourself forget that.
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: SkulletteDemystifi] 2
#26131177 - 08/11/19 03:00 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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SkulletteDemystifi said: When it comes to people you choose to spend your time with; you should choose the ones who are going to build you up. Not the ones who try to break you down.
sage advice right there
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: PoisonousLookalike]
#26131284 - 08/11/19 04:28 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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saying he isnt addicted is just plain ignorance pal. people who use illegal drugs are most likely dealing with substance abuse problems. not saying that someone who experimented with speed once or twice is an addict, but if they are using several times a month, then they are at a greater risk for physical addiction.
wake up friend. you are trying to protect this guy for no reason. he sounds like bad news for you.
however, you had admitted that you enjoy being dominated.. so maybe you would be happy with him ruining your life
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: PoisonousLookalike]
#26131500 - 08/11/19 08:04 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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your thread title is "best friend belittles me and treats me like shit". well best friends do not do that. then you go on saying how you feel so wonderful around him regardless of how unfavorably he treats you.
you are not going to make this guy treat you any better. you are enabling him to be an asshole to you. you have to realise that you are partly to blame by giving him any attention at all. he is not a good friend to you and you will continue to be disappointed or even hurt by this guy everytime you run back to him. maybe you're young and dont get what im saying, time will tell.
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: split_by_nine]
#26131511 - 08/11/19 08:12 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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also, you say he's not an addict.. but you also say this:
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As soon as I met him, it was evident that A is really into drugs
maybe you're in denial but someone who's really into drugs is definitely an addict. im not judging. i too am a drug addict.
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: PoisonousLookalike]
#26132532 - 08/12/19 04:36 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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find yourself some new friends.. easier said than done, yes, but not impossible.. find some new friends to spend time with. maybe some work buddies or even old acquaintances you havent seen in a while. dont worry about how he is doing or how he feels. its more important for you to focus on you. ghost him or not, you need some space away.
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