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bloodsheen
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: thisbliss] 4
#26131091 - 08/11/19 01:02 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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He has quite strangely used your attraction to manipulate you the way many women use it to their own advantage. Keeping you around as occasional entertainment and a punching bag makes him feel powerful, even if it's only subconsciously.
I feel like you already know the answer. You can't keep toxic people in your life, especially drug addicted toxic people. If you just needed to get it all down than I hope it helped you organize your thoughts a bit. But if you believe someone has some awesome magical advise to make this better, you are mistaken. Then only answer is the obvious one. Tell him he's a garbage fucking friend and never talk to him again
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A cautious young fellow named Lodge / Had seat belts installed in his Dodge. / When his date was strapped in / He committed a sin / Without even leaving the garage. That's clever, isn't it?-A boy and his dog
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bloodsheen
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: PoisonousLookalike]
#26131281 - 08/11/19 04:26 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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You will be happy again brother. This guy doesn't own your happiness.
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A cautious young fellow named Lodge / Had seat belts installed in his Dodge. / When his date was strapped in / He committed a sin / Without even leaving the garage. That's clever, isn't it?-A boy and his dog
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bloodsheen
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: PoisonousLookalike]
#26132530 - 08/12/19 04:34 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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I sincerely doubt he cares enough about you to even be bothered to spread secrets. I could be wrong depending on what kind of messed up in the head he is, some guys like him take any remote slight at them very personally. But my money is on him thinking "Fuck that homo, what ever," and just minor trash talking you to other friends
I didn't know about the mutual friends, that does complicate things a bit. Definitely don't go telling him off or like explaining why you can't hang out anymore. I would say your instincts are right in this case, if friends ask just say you've been having some conflict that doesn't seem to get better and kinda leave it at that. You know them as people, hopefully you know basically who to trust and who to be careful of. These situations can get dicey if people are immature enough
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A cautious young fellow named Lodge / Had seat belts installed in his Dodge. / When his date was strapped in / He committed a sin / Without even leaving the garage. That's clever, isn't it?-A boy and his dog
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bloodsheen
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Re: My best friend belittles me and treats me like shit, and I don't know what to do. [Re: PoisonousLookalike] 1
#26144726 - 08/20/19 01:50 PM (4 years, 5 months ago) |
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Damn bro. The more details you post the more fucked this gets. Get the fuck out man, this has got to be one of the most toxic relationships I've ever heard of
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A cautious young fellow named Lodge / Had seat belts installed in his Dodge. / When his date was strapped in / He committed a sin / Without even leaving the garage. That's clever, isn't it?-A boy and his dog
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