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Anonymous #1
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 Even rejected for friendship 
#26120489 - 07/20/19 07:36 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I’ve struggled most of my life dating and these past few years I’ve pretty much given up on meeting anyone. About two weeks ago I was in Dallas on a business trip and decided to spend an extra few days by myself. Anyways I ended up meeting this woman at a museum nothing big but we both realized fairly quickly that we were in the city by ourselves. So we spent the day kinda of hanging out and had dinner later that night. She talked mostly about herself and I just remained inquisitive. But I never made any overtures or indicated romantic interest. We lived thousands miles away from each other on top of everything else.
I figured she was out of my league and just flat out not interested. So after we took an Uber back to her hotel we exchanged numbers. I was thinking okay maybe this could be a potential friend. So I’ve attempted to text her a few times but the responses have been cold. I deleted her contact info but knowing that I can’t even establish a simple friendship just feels pretty fucking pathetic.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Even rejected for friendship [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26120498 - 07/20/19 07:42 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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You should’ve made a move and tried to fuck when you dropped her off. Maybe she was expecting sex and felt rebuffed by you.
Fortune favors the bold
Why you crying over some bitch you’ll never see again?
Stop taking it personal. You’re reading too much into the entire incident.
I’ll be your friend if you know how to hang, teach you how to get pussy and all that good stuff
Friends are overrated. Be a lonewolf pussyhound, stop doubting yourself
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Even rejected for friendship [Re: Anonymous #2]
#26120522 - 07/20/19 07:54 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I’m pretty sure I would have faced greater humiliation if I made a move.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Even rejected for friendship [Re: Anonymous #2]
#26120523 - 07/20/19 07:55 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah sounds like she might have boned you and felt rejected . OP, don't take it personally. Taking the time to be rejected is a good thing . You just have to keep making that time, the odds are in your favour my friend
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Even rejected for friendship [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26120529 - 07/20/19 08:00 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
I’m pretty sure I would have faced greater humiliation if I made a move.
You need to change that mindset ASAP.
Stop worrying about what you might possibly feel later, and focus on what you’re experiencing at the moment.
You’re never going to be happy living like you currently do.
Let go, realize that none of this means a goddamn thing in the end
Play the part of the fool
Edited by Anonymous (07/20/19 08:45 PM)
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Even rejected for friendship [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26120651 - 07/20/19 09:33 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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The main thing is just don't let rejection keep you down. Move on, meet other women, see where things go, and no matter how much rejection you face just keep at it. I think most men meet with a lot of rejection, but they just keep meeting new people until they find people who click with them.
Don't give up, it's like a game where the only way to lose is not to play.
One key skill to develop can be to detect as early on as possible if things aren't going to work so you can cut your losses early and move on quickly, keeping you from wasting time, and increasing your chances.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Even rejected for friendship [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26120973 - 07/21/19 02:42 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're a virgin, no?
Your thinking reminds me of how mine used to be. Let me tell you something, girls love dick. That's not just bravado. They crave getting fucked in the same way we crave fucking. I'm sure, on some level, you fantasized about what could be after you met her at the museum. She did too. She went back to her hotel and thought that she liked you. If you had expressed sexual interest in her, she would've invited you up to her room. Like you said, you two live thousands of miles apart. Pursuing a romantic relationship or even much of a friendship doesn't make a whole lot of sense. One fun night in Dallas does make sense.
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