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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: DontFearThePeepr]
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INCEL means involuntarirly celibate, because no girl will want to have sex with you because of your attitude or being bad looking or both...

male feminists is not a good road if you want to havea fuckfest...

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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: living_failure]
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OKCupid is by far the best one out there, but it's still bullshit online dating. If you can handle wasting a lot of time messaging girls already talking to like 4 other dudes, which ends up feeling a lot like rejection, it's decent. Plus I had like 5 iterations of my profile, learning the game is a pain in the ass and it's a lot of effort for little reward. But I met one girlfriend and two pretty cool potentials there, more than most Tindr experiences


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A cautious young fellow named Lodge / Had seat belts installed in his Dodge. / When his date was strapped in / He committed a sin / Without even leaving the garage. That's clever, isn't it?-A boy and his dog

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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: living_failure]
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living_failure said:
Some of us, are unlovables.


Probably, the incel mania is a healthier approach, considering others the cause of their calvary they avoid the depression trap.

I am a fresh single, so maybe this is just a grief phase.


Also, femminism suck. There is no patriarchy.
A movement who fights for women without the idea of patriarchy is needed


No matter how loveable you are (and having just been in a relationship it appears you've been seen positively by someone), this belief will push people away.

Becoming an incel isn't healthier long term. They hate women, abdicate responsibility for directing their own lives, and make themselves much less attractive in the process, creating a self perpetuating cycle wherein they fail to realise they are single because they sound cunty not because women fail to see their superiority. Lacking a sense of personal responsibility and being entitled does not equate to superiority.

Feminism is simply striving to promote the same opportunities and outcomes in terms of wellbeing for men and women. Wouldn't you want your mother, sister, daughter to have this?

An eg from here, a bank realised women were paid less than men for same positions despite having the same skill level. This was occurring because their starting salary was based on their previous salary, which was asked about in interview. They stopped doing that and based salary on position and ability. More equal outcomes result.

Relationship grief can be fucking hard to get thorough. Sorry to hear you're in the mire atm.


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Anything I say here is a fiction, for role play or research only. Full of bollocks I am. I wouldn't believe me.

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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: koods]
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koods said:
Ajgleskorv said:
Don't really care about this, but feminism is cancer.


I think we found an incel



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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Ajgleskorv]
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Ajgleskorv said:
koods said:
Ajgleskorv said:
Don't really care about this, but feminism is cancer.


I think we found an incel






Please explain.


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Acuriousmycologist]
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it takes one to know one? ...i guess? lol

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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: DontFearThePeepr]
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idk but to me when guys call other guys incel and post anti incel memes it just comes off as feminine to me

like bruh don't worry about that shit just leave it to women you have better things to focus on


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Acuriousmycologist]
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Acuriousmycologist said:
Ajgleskorv said:
koods said:
Ajgleskorv said:
Don't really care about this, but feminism is cancer.


I think we found an incel






Please explain.


No matter how much you whiteknight, you will always be a dog.

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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Ajgleskorv]
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lol not sure you can call it whiteknight if it's just insulting people, but then again the word is pretty much always used ironically in the first place.

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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: living_failure] * 1
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It's rather complex, I believe. I lost my virginity at 26. I had a few opportunities prior but was always hung up on a girl/too nervous. By definition, I was in incel. I wasn't part of any incel groups or anything though. That being said, my views on sex are deeply rooted in biology (read the Red Queen by Matt Ridley).

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How do you deal with those ideas?


There is and always will be a female privilege. They are more valuable to our survival as a species (100 girls + 5 guys = 100 babies in 9 months. 100 guys + 5 girls = 5 babies in nine months). We're expendable and it's not a social construct, it's just evolutionary fact. As for hypergamy, I wouldn't say that's necessarily true. In fact, holding that belief inclines you towards being a controlling abuser. I'll also tell it straight. If a girl (or a guy) is so unfeeling that they'll trade up at the first chance they get, they're shitty people and possibly psychopaths.

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Are they really involuntary?

- It depends on your definition. I would easily call myself an incel through my early 20's. I did have opportunities but my fear of looking stupid/mixed emotions made it almost an impossibility for me at the time.
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are they just a misantrophe/mysoginist group?

- I'm not the most familiar so I can't really say. Honestly, though, it seemed more like male bonding than woman-hating.
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Do you think there are redemption from toxic thinking/feeling?

- Ideas are ideas. Actions are different. There is always redemption. I've held a lot of views that I didn't in the past. that's growing.
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How do you deal with "dry spells"?

- This drives me crazy. Maybe some of these dudes are just out her to get laid by strangers, but from what I've read, these folks are really concerned with relationships more than random hookups (hypergamy isn't an issue if you're looking for random sex).
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How do you deal with nobody finding you suitable for love?

- Biggest and most importantly, focus on yourself. Focus on your own goals, your own interests. Develop more of a personality and I promise you that people will soon be interested.


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Darwin23] * 1
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I’m a female incel and what makes it more pathetic is that I’m bi so neither women or men want me. But I don’t have hate towards anyone or blame someone else for my problems. I’m just one of those unfortunate people that will never be in a relationship.

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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Anonymous #2]
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An InCel is someone subjected by Involuntary Celibacy.

You can stop doing that by making the Celibacy, voluntary.


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Asante]
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that's called being a volcel  :wink:


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Asante]
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Asante said:
An InCel is someone subjected by Involuntary Celibacy.

You can stop doing that by making the Celibacy, voluntary.


I don't think that's how it works

That's like saying, I'm not a drug addict, I choose to live in a cardboard box and smoke meth

You want what you want, it takes some serious willpower to actually change your soul. Much easier to change your behavior, i.e. treat women with respect and fake confidence until you get what you desire


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: bloodsheen]
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bloodsheen said:
Asante said:
An InCel is someone subjected by Involuntary Celibacy.

You can stop doing that by making the Celibacy, voluntary.


I don't think that's how it works

That's like saying, I'm not a drug addict, I choose to live in a cardboard box and smoke meth

You want what you want, it takes some serious willpower to actually change your soul. Much easier to change your behavior, i.e. treat women with respect and fake confidence until you get what you desire



You say "you wqant what you want" but an incel feels locked out of the state they are in. Involuntary.

I Say, first take possession of the state you are in, accepting and embracing the celibacy, owning it, and from there work at moving into situations where that celibacy may end.

If you feel victimized by your celibacy you're feeling sorry and that isn't attractive.

Take charge of your life and the partner magnet reverses polarity from repel to attract.


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: Asante]
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Mmm, potato patatoe

Taking control of your life isn't really the same as saying "I choose to be celibate." It's just saying "I choose to reject behavior that doesn't serve me and to become what will get me what I desire."

It would be a lie to say I don't miss having a girlfriend. Lying to yourself isn't helpful. I just try to say, it's not the end of the world and next time it will be better  even when I don't really believe it


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: bloodsheen] * 1
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the difference is that incels are desperate and don't realize that girls are usually absolutely repulsed by desperation imo.


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: DontFearThePeepr]
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DontFearThePeepr said:
the difference is that incels are desperate and don't realize that girls are usually absolutely repulsed by desperation imo.


this but replace desperation with showing any interest whatsoever


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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: yeah]
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yeah said:
DontFearThePeepr said:
the difference is that incels are desperate and don't realize that girls are usually absolutely repulsed by desperation imo.


this but replace desperation with showing any interest whatsoever


nope... you gotta show interest in knowing her and getting on her panties... you dont have to be literal on the last one... they know when you want the cootie, and they like it...j jut gotta be patient and appear as you are not in a rush to get it

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Re: What is an incel? can you stop being one? how? [Re: AIRDOG]
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AIRDOG said:
yeah said:
DontFearThePeepr said:
the difference is that incels are desperate and don't realize that girls are usually absolutely repulsed by desperation imo.


this but replace desperation with showing any interest whatsoever


nope... you gotta show interest in knowing her and getting on her panties... you dont have to be literal on the last one... they know when you want the cootie, and they like it...j jut gotta be patient and appear as you are not in a rush to get it



Man I'm not gonna say you're wrong but I just can't put a foot forward with women and not turn them off. Kinda getting tired of trying. Should I just give them eyes and let them do the work?


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