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Im not shy but cant make new friends
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It seems That after the first time i talk to people it GOES great but when i see them again they are trying to avoid me.

What AM i doing wrong?

Edited by Spiralspider (04/18/19 06:35 AM)

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Spiralspider]
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You could be coming off as overbearing and clingy :shrug:


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I'm stupid, Enlil is smart.
I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.

Edited by Malcolm_Xtasy (04/18/19 08:48 AM)

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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Yeah that seems like a good guess from the available information. If he thinks the conversation went well and the other party doesn't, probably they are giving off cues at the time that he's not picking up.

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Spiralspider]
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Then don't.  Be yourself and stay out of prostitution from lack of self esteem.:wink:

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Barnaby] * 3
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UUGGGHHHHH!!!!!!  Shit to do today.  I hate it, fakeness to fake people with fake jobs that mean nothing.

Look at the larger picture.  Nothing is really all that important.

You wake up with yourself, no matter who is next to you.  You die alone no matter who is around you.  Bleak!  So bleak and sad. 

Your life is your own.  Try to be as authentic to it as you can.  Self help lesson of the day.

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Barnaby] * 7
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Did y'all hear something


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I'm stupid, Enlil is smart.
I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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its probably your armpits

or

maybe cool down the tunnel like willy wonka enthusiasm


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Pull the blinds and change their minds....

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Spiralspider]
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Spiralspider said:
It seems That after the first time i talk to people it GOES great but when i see them again they are trying to avoid me.

What AM i doing wrong?


Do you have any long term friends or acquaintances? if so, what are their personalities like, and what do you think they value most from the relationship?

You can't expect everyone to want to be friends with you, and if that's the goal you'll typically start acting somewhat fake which will end up turning people off.

It's also easy to convince yourself others feel or are acting a certain way towards you when really that's not the case. People are a lot more complex than we can deduce just by watching them. That person you think is avoiding you may have actually been thinking the same thing about you... waiting for you to come and spark a conversation with them, or simply a little anxious to be the one to reach out to you first.

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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Nah y'all.  :loljesus:

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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Malcolm_Xtasy said:
You could be coming off as overbearing and clingy :shrug:


Happy birthday dewd


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"great things may come to those who wait, but only what's left by those who hustle"

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Bumholio]
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Thanks brah!


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I'm stupid, Enlil is smart.
I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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It would be weird if I met someone who yelled one word in the middle of each sentence. I don't know if you do that IRL, but...

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Spiralspider]
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People don’t like me because I’m weird and make people uncomfortable.


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[quote]Asante said:
You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar.

You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason.

I disendorse you.[/quote]

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
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aww that is funny you should mention atleast its superficial beings

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Cujllickduo]
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Only hope can give rise to the emotion we call despair. But it is nearly impossible for a man to try to live without hope, so I guess that leaves Man no choice but to walk around with despair as his companion.

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: ichugwindex]
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:hi:

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Cujllickduo]
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Maybe you're just to weird? Try being normal or go to more entertaining bars... I'd recommend the change of venue personally.

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Desolus]
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yeh im going to put my money elswehere xD

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Cujllickduo]
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friends is too much to ask for
just look for with similar hobbies
people don't just make friends unless people want something from them


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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Konyap]
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Spiralspider it will come

I will be your friend if you want :turtle:


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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: Spiralspider]
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Bad breath?  I dunno :lol:

Maybe over talking?

Maybe not finding a common subject to bond over.

A lot of people don't want any new friends.  I know I feel like that.  I have enough already and most people are fuckin boring.

I am happiest alone, I am a loner.  Having loadsa friends is over rated, its unwanted hassle for me.  Most people want to control you or tell you what to do or change you or gain from you or are just plain annoying.

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: HappySloth]
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Its important not to come off 2 needy. Whenever someone is desperately trying to be my friend I run the other direction. The same goes for dating. Just try to be normal. Normal clothes is a good start..

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Re: Im not shy but cant make new friends [Re: HappySloth]
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Yeah I'm the same way. I love being alone. Everyone always asks me to hang out and I think its because I never want to hang out 😂.

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