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lifeiswhatyoumake


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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: NothingsChanged]
#26143222 - 08/19/19 05:03 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Update! 
So the cops found the guy finally and we have court in one week on next Monday. We will see what the courts decide on this incident! He is going downnnnnn town.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake] 2
#26143230 - 08/19/19 05:10 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hopefully it's an intervention to tell you to grow up
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
#26143235 - 08/19/19 05:13 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're so brave
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NothingsChanged
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: wrestler_az]
#26143275 - 08/19/19 05:33 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Fucking cop callin bitch.May your heart break in 02.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: NothingsChanged]
#26143751 - 08/19/19 11:04 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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So lame man. You suck so bad! Gettin on shroomery and posting gavel pics n shit.. . 
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
#26143780 - 08/19/19 11:40 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I would say how I feel about this but you'd just snitch on me and try and get me busted.
Congratulations, I guess. Justice has been served, truly.
Team force America wins again.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#26144303 - 08/20/19 10:08 AM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm surprised the police even took the time to track down something so minuscule. You put all this time and energy and hate into something so stupid. Does it feel good to hold onto all that hate. Just let it go if you didn't sustain any injuries (other than to you ego) or medical bills from you provoking him into a confrontation.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#26146828 - 08/21/19 07:18 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sorry, I'm with the OP. That guy was/is unstable. A little brush with the law might be exactly what he needs to help moderate his behavior in the future. Maybe he'll get ordered to counseling.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: FiddyYearsDark]
#26147163 - 08/21/19 10:33 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I watched someone indicate over lanes and nearly drift into another car cause they didn't check their blind spot tonight. Twice. To be fair, there was a thunderstorm happening around us so I can see attention not being 100%.
Now, the car that nearly got drifted into the first time. First off, he hung his arm out the window, with his middle finger out in the 'fuck you' sign for ages right after it happened. Real aggressive. Then he must've talked to his passenger, who then did it in tandem for ages too.
Now. This is a simple mistake. If you've driven a car for long enough, you WILL realise you aint perfect at driving, and you WILL fuck up once in a while. If there's no crash in involved, then it's all good. WE MAKE MISTAKES.
So having seen this, I really wanna make this guy understand that. It is my instinct to get in front of him and let him know that 'if you aint perfect, then how can you fuck with someone that's not? How have you any right to be a dick, when you've probably done the same shit, by accident?
Maybe I should be like OP, and report to the police every time someone isn't perfect, and act like I am?
Maybe, I should decide the rules as to what's OK and what's not, and call the cops every time I feel scared?
Are you children or are you men? Children snitch. Men learn. And grow. And realise it's not their place to 'teach people a lesson'. That's an immature child's game.
Children get upset. Children can't stand up for themselves. Children think other people are the ones at fault.
Ergo, grow up.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#26147232 - 08/21/19 11:45 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I heard that in Germany, you can get a ticket for profanity or rude gestures. I've never been so i don't really know if thats true or if someone was yanking my chain
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: ballsalsa]
#26148029 - 08/22/19 01:40 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Regarding violent behavior or even threats: I was once working with a Grade A Asshole. A co-worker was going home in tears every night because of his behavior. (BTW it was my job to be the adult and smooth Grade A's feathers every few weeks because he was in charge.)
Anyway, the coworker's husband finally called up Grade A at work and threatened him. Grade A was wondering whether or not to call the police.
I said "yes, because you need to start the paper trail. When they find you in an alley with an axe in your face, that paper trail may be the only thing that makes them investigate him."
JMO.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: ballsalsa]
#26148100 - 08/22/19 02:24 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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ballsalsa said: I heard that in Germany, you can get a ticket for profanity or rude gestures. I've never been so i don't really know if thats true or if someone was yanking my chain
I believe it's true. They also don't let you drive an unmaintained car or one with too much rust
Many people drive with horrible tires around here. It rains and there's accidents directly attributed to people not being able to stop appropriately in those conditions
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: FiddyYearsDark]
#26148264 - 08/22/19 04:04 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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FiddyYearsDark said: Sorry, I'm with the OP. That guy was/is unstable. A little brush with the law might be exactly what he needs to help moderate his behavior in the future. Maybe he'll get ordered to counseling.
If the guy was so unstable he would have caused physical harm to the OP. Instead he got up in his face and slapped him then threw a chicken sandwich at him. I would be agreeing with the OP if the guy had punched him and broke a tooth. Or hit him and he had to go to the hospital or something. But come on the guy got slapped like a bitch and ran off. His pride is hurt and this is how he's trying to get revenge. Just grow up and forgive the guy.
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lifeiswhatyoumake


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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: Anonymous #2]
#26152687 - 08/25/19 04:59 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anonymous #2 said: I'm surprised the police even took the time to track down something so minuscule. You put all this time and energy and hate into something so stupid. Does it feel good to hold onto all that hate. Just let it go if you didn't sustain any injuries (other than to you ego) or medical bills from you provoking him into a confrontation.
I've barely put any time into this at all. Going to court tomorrow will be just like running any other errand I do. Shouldn't take more than one hour I bet. I am not holding on to hate lol, you seem to know more about the inner workings of my head than I do. Quite peculiar.
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FiddyYearsDark said: Sorry, I'm with the OP. That guy was/is unstable. A little brush with the law might be exactly what he needs to help moderate his behavior in the future. Maybe he'll get ordered to counseling.
Exactly, this should wake him up and teach him to be a responsible adult.  
Edited by lifeiswhatyoumake (08/25/19 05:00 PM)
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: Anonymous #2]
#26152697 - 08/25/19 05:15 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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I bet the guy won't even show up to court tomorrow, based on the fact that he fled the scene of the crime in the first place.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake] 3
#26152712 - 08/25/19 05:35 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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lifeiswhatyoumake said: I've barely put any time into this at all. Going to court tomorrow will be just like running any other errand I do. Shouldn't take more than one hour I bet.
Man, you're so cool. Like, the way you're all casual about fucking up another mans life cause you can't stand up for yourself in the moment.. it's just so inspiring.
I hope I can be as cool as you one day.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 3
#26152859 - 08/25/19 07:40 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Karma is going to get ya brother.
You've yet to learn some valuable lessons about some things.. if I were to go over this thread I could pick them out and make a list, but for now you seem pretty averse to any posts that are pressing to your current view of self.... these lessons are usually hard won through some rough trials, but they'll make you a better, stronger man, who is less prone to these kinds of behaviors - both given and received.
This thread is really disappointing man, because I did get a good vibe in general from you in other posts in past. This one is just so not cool, and your inability to listen to what the majority of people are trying to say is honestly a bit irritating. Not only are you refusing to listen, but you are being a smart alec and disrespectful, which further proves in my mind that I am indeed reading this situation correctly, and you are in the wrong on this thing....
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: DoneKildatReason]
#26152871 - 08/25/19 07:56 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Your going to be in court more than an hour. Try the whole day. And that's if he doesn't have an attorney and doesn't keep asking for continuances.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: Anonymous #2]
#26154049 - 08/26/19 05:05 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're right, it did take more than one hour. It took almost three hours. First hour was basically doing roll call twice because I was in a room filled with a bunch of other people who were there for similar cases.
So here's what happened:
The defendant, surprisingly, showed up to court. He hired a lawyer. I didn't because I don't need to. Unaware to me, court today was an attempt at mediation and not trial. If mediation was not successful then we go to trial.
So finally my case is called and the defendant, his lawyer, the mediator, and me go to a mediating room. We each tell our side of the incident.
Some interesting notes from the defendant's story:
- His lawyer opened up their defense with: "The defendant had just bought a new, pricey BMW." LOL are you fucking kidding me? What kind of amateur defense is that? - His lawyer claims I hit his car with my hand and not my empty reusable shopping bag. He claims car damage. - His lawyer says the defendant hit me in the face in self-defense for me hitting his car. - His lawyer mentioned taking me to small claims court, but the mediator quickly dismissed that motion.
So after we both tell our stories the mediator tries to help us reach an agreement and to end the case.
The lawyer first tries to convince me to dismiss the charges. One of his reasons to try to pursuade me was: "The defendant is already at a loss by having to hire me." LOL am I supposed to feel bad for the defendant spending money on a lawyer? Nice try, not. I quickly dismiss his idea.
Then the lawyer and I agree that the defendant could take some anger management courses, but then the lawyer and defendant leave the room to talk in private. They return and the lawyer goes back on his word and says they don't want to agree on anger management courses.
So now the mediation attempt is complete and is unsuccessful. We go back to the court room. The DA calls me and we speak one on one for no more than one minute. He asks me why I swung my empty reusable shopping bag at the defendant's car. I say because he would have ran his car into me if I hadn't stepped back and that angered me. The DA then says, "so he hit you and spit on you? Disgusting." I reply, "yeah." DA says, "would you be happy if I offered the defendant eight anger management classes to successfully complete mediation?" I reply, "yes."
The DA asks the defendant is that's what he wants and he replies, "no."
So then the defendant, his lawyer, and I go in front of the judge and the judge gives us a new court date for actual trial in early October.
I think the defendant misplayed this severely. He was offered two lifelines and he declined them both. He's just digging a deeper hole for himself.
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Re: I was assaulted in the Harris Teeter parking lot yesterday [Re: DoneKildatReason]
#26154056 - 08/26/19 05:11 PM (4 years, 8 months ago) |
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Jokeshopbeard said:
I hope I can be as cool as you one day.
Make sure to eat your daily regime of broccoli. 
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DoneKildatReason said: Karma is going to get ya brother.
You've yet to learn some valuable lessons about some things.. if I were to go over this thread I could pick them out and make a list, but for now you seem pretty averse to any posts that are pressing to your current view of self.... these lessons are usually hard won through some rough trials, but they'll make you a better, stronger man, who is less prone to these kinds of behaviors - both given and received.
This thread is really disappointing man, because I did get a good vibe in general from you in other posts in past. This one is just so not cool, and your inability to listen to what the majority of people are trying to say is honestly a bit irritating. Not only are you refusing to listen, but you are being a smart alec and disrespectful, which further proves in my mind that I am indeed reading this situation correctly, and you are in the wrong on this thing....
I have good karma, I'll be fine. I'm not averse to opposing views, just those from a few people in this thread because they don't know how to be civil in presenting their opposing views. You seem civil, so you're cool. 
Don't let this thread contaminate how you feel about me based on other threads because that would be an unneeded thing to happen. I admit that some of the posters in this thread have brought out a side of me that I don't like to bring out, so I apologize for letting them get to me.
Edited by lifeiswhatyoumake (08/26/19 05:15 PM)
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