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Offlineivi
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Please help me...
    #2585911 - 04/21/04 04:43 AM (12 years, 7 months ago)

At 5am this morning my uncle died. My Mom's brother. It wasn't unexpected if You can say that about somebodys death, but it hurts as hell. And my Mom really needs some assistance. And me too...
I really dont know what to do. Im fucked up and it's going worse and worse... I just cant cope with death. My friends and relatives are dying and i just can't take it anymore. Half a year ago my cousin died in a car crash. Then my father, he had a cancer discovered in his stomach. Well it got cut out and now he is ok and getting better, but You never know. His Brother died two years ago, his sister - three years ago. Fuck! Maybe I'm a weak person but I can't take it anymore. Help me, please, guys.
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Re: Please help me... [Re: ivi]
    #2585990 - 04/21/04 06:13 AM (12 years, 7 months ago)

:heart: My thoughts are with you and your family  :heart:

I'm so sorry man.  :frown: It sounds like you've had a few rough years. 
Death is so difficult and hard to understand.  I don't know what advice I can offer except stick close to your family right now.  They need you and you need them.  :heart:

*stay safe*



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Re: Please help me... [Re: ivi]
    #2586328 - 04/21/04 11:01 AM (12 years, 7 months ago)

My condolences, Im sorry about your uncle, I know death can be very hard to understand, and come to grips with. I think the only thing any of us can do is just be here if you need to talk, feel free to pm me anytime.

stay strong and much love
waterbug


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Re: Please help me... [Re: ivi]
    #2586500 - 04/21/04 12:28 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

so sorry...i know how it feels and it hurts badly.  i hope you and your family remain in good mental and physical health.  :heart:


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Re: Please help me... [Re: TODAY]
    #2594499 - 04/23/04 01:02 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Why do i feel more like angry not sad?


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Re: Please help me... [Re: TODAY]
    #2594501 - 04/23/04 01:03 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

And then again I cry...


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Re: Please help me... [Re: ivi]
    #2595382 - 04/23/04 05:14 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

its understandable that you are angry and frustrated as well as sad and depressed. The anger that your feeling could be at fate or the way the world works or because you hate feeling impotent, like there is nothing that you can do. and its true, there is very little anyone can do in the face of death, it is a force that no man can stop.

it may be helpful for you to find some sort of faith to turn to. faith in yourself, in a higher power, or maybe just faith in the fact that the world will continue to turn and there will be a time that you can be happy again.

just remember, it is important to find pleasure in the short time that we have on this plain of existence. i sincerely hope that you and your family will move on to happier more fortunate times very soon


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Re: Please help me... [Re: AbFab]
    #2595631 - 04/23/04 06:29 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Thank You AbFab...


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Re: Please help me... [Re: ivi]
    #2598578 - 04/24/04 06:48 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

I know it hurts friend :sad:
its hard to think about the future when things are happening
but things will get better

this life is but a glitter in time.. a momentary flash of being
to remind us to love.
I dont have any great understanding
but I do know that I have survived many losses
and although I am changed forever
I am deeper and more loving for that
and whatever may be true for the fate of the world and its inhabitants

we  are here now
and living and loving for a instant..is as powerful as a eternity

we are here with you ivi :heart:


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Re: Please help me... [Re: shaggy101]
    #2598880 - 04/24/04 09:48 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

You are angry because you cannot control death. you can't make it go away. you hurt, you get mad, you hurt.... it's okay man just give your mom the support she needs. my thoughts are with you and your family.


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Re: Please help me... [Re: ivi]
    #2606279 - 04/27/04 02:16 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

:heart: :heartpump: :heart:
my thoughts continue to be with you ivi


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Re: Please help me... [Re: waterbug]
    #2609613 - 04/28/04 01:54 AM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

waterbug said:
:heart: :heartpump: :heart:
my thoughts continue to be with you ivi




Thank You very much, waterbug.
And You know what?
It really helps  :crazy:

Thank You all!!!! Thank You, thank You, thank You!!!  :heartpump:


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Re: Please help me... [Re: ivi]
    #2623208 - 04/30/04 09:42 PM (12 years, 7 months ago)

Think about how your uncle would like you to be feeling right now.

Be strong, and live on in the best ways you can, realizing that he is now represented through you and the rest of his family.

He doesn't want you to be destroyed or angry or sad. He wants you to kick life's ASS just as well as he did.


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