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Offlinefuzzysig
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the leverage game
    #25812894 - 02/14/19 03:16 PM (5 years, 2 days ago)

im naturally very optimistic and trust people too much and hope for the best or not respond properly to their crap
so I get taken advantage of a lot more than id like to .

what are some good books to read on negotiations and creating leverage against people who are essentially doing same


mostly Im dealing with a narcissist who im trying to divorce and im now seeing who she really is and she is of course trying her best tricks to keep me off balance or sabotage me in any way possible.





is there a way to keep a narcissist under control or have some kind of leverage on them to prevent them from trying their dirty tricks on you?
because obviously they don't feel any remorse or guilt for destroying you. they actually enjoy it.


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Re: the leverage game [Re: fuzzysig]
    #25813088 - 02/14/19 04:41 PM (5 years, 2 days ago)

No idea. I can tell pretty easily when someone has a personality disorder like that so I've never formed a relationship with one of them.


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Re: the leverage game [Re: fuzzysig]
    #25813117 - 02/14/19 05:00 PM (5 years, 2 days ago)

don't get emotional, play the logic game. Keep conversations to a minimum and to the point
when they start getting crazy over the phone, calmly say you are going to hang up and for them to stop yelling. If they keep at it hang up, don't call back either.

:lol: at least thats what I did.


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Re: the leverage game [Re: JohnnieYen]
    #25814165 - 02/15/19 09:12 AM (5 years, 1 day ago)

any books/audiobooks/videos etc you guys recommend?


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Re: the leverage game [Re: fuzzysig]
    #25814407 - 02/15/19 11:36 AM (5 years, 1 day ago)

Get a lawyer and throw some law books at her.

:shrug:

It will be doing something similar, so have your guard up.


Edited by HamHead (02/15/19 11:37 AM)


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Re: the leverage game [Re: fuzzysig]
    #25814420 - 02/15/19 11:42 AM (5 years, 1 day ago)

Read Dune, use voice intonation to implant cues into her awareness that she acts on without processing.


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Re: the leverage game [Re: yeah]
    #25814423 - 02/15/19 11:45 AM (5 years, 1 day ago)

find out what the person holds most dear.....then take that away from them/hold it hostage. now you have all the leverage :thumbup:


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Re: the leverage game [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #25814623 - 02/15/19 01:25 PM (5 years, 1 day ago)

Just cut her off emotionally, no small talk ever again. That's emotional self preservation not being cold. Then nothing she can say or do will matter. If you don't care, you really don't care.

If you try and play her game she will drag you down to her level and then beat you with experience.


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Re: the leverage game [Re: Northerner]
    #25815111 - 02/15/19 05:06 PM (5 years, 1 day ago)

Run away, run FAR, far away.


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