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My wife wants to try a sex cam job
    #25789110 - 02/03/19 10:08 PM (2 months, 14 days ago)

So my partner and I watched Cam on Netflix last night, and it sparked an idea to get into the business. We were discussing how it portrayed the career, and how she wished it was around when she was younger. (She stripped) I searched for it on xhamsterlive, and I was surprised to see very average girl next door types making good money. We discussed the possibility, and she's intrigued by being watched, and the job opportunity would give us a flexible possibility. My wife struggles with fibromyalgia, and she's been having trouble finding a job/career that works for her. This just might be a viable option that would provide flexibility.

Our sex life has been dry lately, and we've been leaning towards swinging. We've done some in the past, and I know that jealousy is not an issue for me at least. I actually get turned on by the idea of other men doing sexual acts with my wife. I'm hoping this might help her find her sexuality/confidence, and open the door a bit more to the swinger lifestyle. Needless to say, we discussed if it doesn't work out, she can stop at any time.

We already have a plethora of high end and exotic sex toys, and it's almost like we built our lives around this possibility. Tonight, I ordered bluetooth vibrators, a TV, webcam, etc, and we are going to work on getting the room set up to put her in the mood. I've got ideas too, and I think it will be fun to collaborate on this together. Most of the streams that I saw on xhamster were boring. I hope we can change that.

So, I'm curious.. has anyone ever done this as a career? How much should you expect to make going into it? Any tips on which sites pay the best? How do you develop strong client relations?  If you watch these streams, what feedback do you have?


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #25789688 - 02/04/19 07:13 AM (2 months, 14 days ago)

Pay is directly proportional to attractiveness and willingness to abuse your holes. Where that scale starts and ends I don't know


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25790312 - 02/04/19 01:33 PM (2 months, 14 days ago)

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Most of the streams that I saw on xhamster were boring. I hope we can change that.



I can't see how you can think you'll be able to offer anything that hasn't already been done ten thousand times over.

I'm not saying you shouldn't do it; if it's attractive to both of you you should give it a go for sure, but I think you should have realistic expectations. You're hardly going to reinvent the wheel.

I say go with the fun, and focus on that alone. Anything else that comes of it is a bonus.


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #25791211 - 02/04/19 07:03 PM (2 months, 13 days ago)

Great advice guys. lol

As far as reinventing the wheel - I know it's not truly going to be new, but I see most cam shows as boring. I personally don't get into cams, but it seems very vanilla, and it lacks creativity and passion. Most of the girls have regular vibrators, and themes. I just want to come up with quality material that offers a unique experience. I'm thinking about putting our sybian into use, and possibly modifying it with arduino so it can be remotely controlled, live streaming a true cuckold experience with my reactions in the background, etc. I love porn, and I think I have an eye for what makes a scene hot.

Either way, we will definitely be having fun doing this. Income will just be a bonus!


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25791227 - 02/04/19 07:11 PM (2 months, 13 days ago)

It can be very common for cam girls to get stalkers.  It is a fine line between selling people the fantasy of sex and building a relationship to get them to pay, and having the customers believe there is a real connection and trying to get to the next step. It is a blurry line at the best of times and a necessary part to be successful in extracting money.

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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Ahab McBathsalts] * 1
    #25791265 - 02/04/19 07:27 PM (2 months, 13 days ago)

This is why it's stupid to get married. We're not programmed to only be with one person.. Just keep in mind that there's younger and more attractive females doing the same exact thing. I've seen 10 out of 10's doing it. It's going to have to be something different.


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Shenmue]
    #25792367 - 02/05/19 10:11 AM (2 months, 13 days ago)

Several years ago, I spent a few years exclusively masturbating to webcam girls. I never paid them lol, free cams are enough for me. But other people would have to tip to get the show rolling. I've seen plenty of actresses get frustrated and not seem to enjoy it because they waste so much time just sitting there waiting for a tip.

It's blown up since then. When I started watching there was maybe 2-3 pages of live models to  browse through, maybe 150 total. Now there's like 15 pages, and you I reckon you don't make jack unless you're on the first page. There's plenty of attractive, relatable new camgirls that are stuck on page 6 with 3 viewers. Getting on the first page is all about number of viewers so if you can cultivate a following, that's huge to get boosted to the front when you log on. Ideally you'd have a twitter, instagram, snapchat, etc. that you can post naughty pics to and inform followers when you'll be online. It can be a lot of work for the camgirls that take it that seriously - and you have to nowadays.

After you earn enough viewers or pay your way to the front, then you can start playing to your audience and setting up interactive games or devices or w/e. Besides being hot, I think having a personality is huge. There's plenty of successful camgirls that basically just talk to their fans all day and retain a lot of engaged viewers, boosting their profile and making it more likely to get tipped by the random perv.


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Icon]
    #25793240 - 02/05/19 06:42 PM (2 months, 12 days ago)

If I was an attractive female I would do something that was half cam model and half video gaming. It seems like guys always fall in love with female gamers. I bet you could get really popular doing it that way. If you try this and it works I expect a rare and exotic mushroom print in the mail lol. That's my tip :smile:...


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Shenmue]
    #25797819 - 02/07/19 07:25 PM (2 months, 10 days ago)

Maybe I'm a bit naive or old-fashioned, but what I feel is the most important thing lacking is passion. If true passion shows, you should be good. And personality, yes. Depends on how many days a week you guys can keep up true passion.

And also, just enjoy yourselves, don't wait for the cash to flow in to put up a show, and what comes in is all the better. Maybe it's for you guys to get it started, and not the other way around.


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Aldous] * 2
    #25819961 - 02/17/19 11:49 PM (2 months, 15 hours ago)

So is there a link or what?


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Enjoywho]
    #25820887 - 02/18/19 02:50 PM (2 months, 13 minutes ago)

The biggest recommendation i can make is to learn to stream simultaneously on multiple sites. It can be hectic at first if you plan on interacting with chat rooms but you will learn. This will allow you to double or triple your tips while streaming.


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Xen0]
    #25847705 - 03/02/19 02:15 PM (1 month, 19 days ago)

I'm curious how the OP is making out with this?

My girl did it for a short time, using Chaturbate and MFC.

The idea that you have to be ultra hot or super creative isn't necessarily true.

She found that what people craved most was a connection that felt genuine and authentic.  They want to feel like the model is genuinely interested in them, genuinely interested in having fun or having a conversation.

My girl ended up building up a small fan base of a couple dozen guys.  The money she made from camming was minimal and she found that she just wasn't enjoying it very much, so she started moving her fan base away from the camming sites.  Initially she just moved her fan base to Skype and used PayPal for the transactions.

She started offering things like custom photos and videos, an instant messenger group where she'd post daily photos, a Patreon web page for a service where guys could pick out a pair of panties that she would wear and take photos in.  Then she'd send the photos, panties and a handwritten letter to those guys. Patreon ended up closing it down due to the "explicit" nature of the site, which is against their rules... but from that Patreon site alone she made well over $3000.

She would charge people any where from $50-$100 for custom photos/videos. 
I think she charged a one-time fee of $35 to join her instant messaging group.
One of her fans bought her a $600 smartphone so that the quality of her photos was better.  That same guy, one guy bought her over $2000 worth of lingerie in a year.

Guys would buy her lingerie, toys and gift cards. One guy helped pay for a vacation for her.
She figures that she's probably made over $40k from online sexual services.  For her, it was never about the money, it was just something that she found exciting.

It's just something to keep in mind.  I think camming is a great way to advertise yourself but i truly believe that it's only a small part of capitalizing on the market for online sexual services.


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: locospacebean]
    #25847809 - 03/02/19 03:09 PM (1 month, 18 days ago)

We're still building the room. We had to buy a bed frame, and we are planning on decorating the room today. She's easing into it slowly, but she said she is determined to give this a shot. What is MFC?


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25847830 - 03/02/19 03:25 PM (1 month, 18 days ago)

MFC = MyFreeCams

Have you guys done any research on cam sites?  Be aware that different sites take a different percentage, offer varying payouts.

Definitely pay attention to the terms of the payouts.  Some sites require a minimum amount before they pay out and then they charge a fee for the payout, on top of the percentage that they take from whatever tips/tokens the model makes.

At the end of the day, if she makes $500 in tips/tokens, she may only get a payout of $200-250!

Different sites also have different rules for what you can and can't show in the chat rooms.

Here's a list of the top sites and some info on payouts, token costs, etc:
https://www.makemoneyadultcontent.com/best-cam-sites/


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: locospacebean]
    #25847920 - 03/02/19 04:19 PM (1 month, 18 days ago)

She's done more research into the logistics that I have. I think she's still trying to decide what site would be best. She's going to probably choose one based on the "feel" over the payout at least at first. She said that she would like to do something to appeal to the fetish crowd.

It sounds like the best solution long term is to go solo like your girlfriend did. The financial breakdown is a shocker, and we're also considering taxes since these companies will report it as income. We do well anyways, so the money isn't the main attractor. She's mostly interested in this because it will hopefully spark her creativity, confidence, sexuality, with a side benefit of income and potential gifts.


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25872990 - 03/14/19 02:25 AM (1 month, 7 days ago)

My girlfriend is on mfc. She started maybe 6 months ago ish.
She has another job but theres not much work for her in the winter.

Took her a few months to figure out and build a fan base but now she makes decent money doing it. Some weeks almost as much as me working a steady full time job lol (20$ an hour / 30-40 hour work weeks) And she enjoys doing it, some of the dudes she talks too are fucked tho asking about her farts and shit lol. Also always mailing used panties.

We live in Canada and the site pays USD so she gets a little extra with the exchange rate..
Maybe this will help you guys make a decision on what site to use.



...Just realized this thread is almost 2 weeks old. Hows it coming along? What site did she choose?



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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: staytrippy420]
    #25886294 - 03/20/19 07:39 PM (1 month, 20 hours ago)

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staytrippy420 said: Hows it coming along?



LOL!


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    #25886356 - 03/20/19 08:05 PM (1 month, 19 hours ago)

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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: staytrippy420]
    #25908507 - 03/31/19 10:13 PM (20 days, 17 hours ago)

Before I met my wife she worked at a massage parlor (where they didn't have intercourse but things went on). She stopped when we met basically and of course we married after a time. A lot of other things happened in our lives but she basically wanted to start camming at one point and did so. I realize now that it was actually a kind of self defense of hers and a signal that we were drifting apart. I think it ultimately drove a wedge into our relationship and things never recovered and we divorced.

I've chatted with her since and she doesn't do that anymore because the pay was ultimately not great and not worth the trouble. But that's just going to be different for the individual.


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Re: My wife wants to try a sex cam job [Re: cactuscactus]
    #25929159 - 04/11/19 05:57 PM (9 days, 22 hours ago)

Shoot a clip and watch it then you'll see where you may need more or less light, placement of camera, background, sound, your good side are a few things you have to think about. Send a link to the clip and we can give you a better opinion. :rolleyes:


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