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 7even
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 why's it gotta be like that 
#25688403 - 12/19/18 12:04 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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they show up act cool, try to be your friend, make you feel comfortable... and then they start doing some stupid shit to piss you off.
I've yet to meet a person that hasn't done this. Have you?
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Re: why's it gotta be like that [Re: 7even]
#25688627 - 12/19/18 03:59 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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So if the rule is that everybody eventually ends up pissing each other off maybe complete self control is the prime aim for true communication.
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Re: why's it gotta be like that [Re: 7even]  2
#25688998 - 12/19/18 10:41 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Dilaudid said:
I've yet to meet a person that hasn't done this. Have you?
Yes, many. They're called friends.
If this is happening with the frequency you describe, I suggest you look within, rather than without.
It sounds to me like your expectations are getting the better of you.
Expectations are simply premeditated resentments.
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Quote:
Jokeshopbeard said:
Expectations are simply premeditated resentments.
very interesting never heard that before
makes sense
very interesting
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7even
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Re: why's it gotta be like that [Re: laughingdog]
#25689439 - 12/19/18 02:28 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have no expectations... Ask my gf
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Re: why's it gotta be like that [Re: 7even] 1
#25690564 - 12/20/18 01:46 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Dilaudid said:
they show up act cool, try to be your friend, make you feel comfortable... and then they start doing some stupid shit to piss you off.
You assume people's behavior is all about you.
Can you consider their behavior isn't about you?
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Re: why's it gotta be like that [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 1
#25692406 - 12/20/18 09:00 PM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Giving too many fucks is bad for you. You should give less and it might make you feel better in the long run.
I have learned this lesson a couple times over.
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Re: why's it gotta be like that [Re: Dephect]
#25693018 - 12/21/18 06:43 AM (2 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah, me!
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