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Re: Porn addiction [Re: CapnCook]
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actually, i'd think they just sense desperation. <_< what gets you laid isn't the reek of desperation but self-confidence. if you have that bearing, you'll get way more results.

heck, i've been hit on by girls and i'm not even interested or trying to send out signals to them. i'm not even particularly attractive and certainly not rich. :lol:

if you're really that desperate to get laid, get an app like grindr or whatever the straight people use. if you're that desperate for a relationship fapping isn't going to fulfill that need, and you're going to want to date anyways. either way there's no point in blue balling yourself over it. :shrug:

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Re: Porn addiction [Re: Psion]
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Psion said:
if you're really that desperate to get laid, get an app like grindr or whatever the straight people use.


yeah thats what the meetme app was for... but we all know how that went

but I feel a lot more self confident when I blue ball myself so Im gona try it out. Currently on day 2 of blueballing, lets see how long this lasts!


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Re: Porn addiction [Re: CapnCook]
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if you say so, but from my own perspective, that seems like a crutch to me. learning to embrace your sexual side can be much tougher, but it will boost your confidence for life as opposed to you feeling boosted until you break your chastity then instantly plunging down to low confidence in yourself from lack of "willpower" then repeating over and over.

there's no quick fix to this. you're just going to have to slowly grow spiritually at your own pace, and to do so you first need to figure out who you actually are. that means forgetting everything about what others think you are or say you should be. focus on the things that make you feel good in life (when not on drugs, because you can't be drugged 24/7) and figure out where to go from there. if you love gardening, great! be a gardener. if you love reading, who cares if someone thinks it's not a manly hobby? if you love pursuing money, ask yourself whether it's the actual challenge that you love or the ability to buy whatever you want that makes you happiest. the answer to that determines whether you should focus on things that challenge you, or whether you want to maximize your money while also maximizing the free time you get to enjoy the fruits of said labor. (at some point, extra money doesnt really give more happiness, simply because you're spending all your time making money and not enjoying it.)

whether you grow up to be a tough oak tree, a flexible willow that bends in the wind, or a mighty sequoia, you first need to break out of the walls you and society build around yourself. blue balling yourself isn't going to fix this. drugs won't fix this. doing the same things over and over won't fix this, for the worth of life isn't measured in time, but the memories you make. making the same memory over and over, doing the same routine, is effectively the same as being dead.

if you have the willpower to blueball yourself for two days, you certainly have the willpower needed to simply take time to reflect on what you want in life. you might (ok definetly) won't like what you see, but lets face it - you already knew you wouldn't. that's fine though - you need to be able to see that ugliness to do something about it, whether it's tidying up, throwing broken trash out, or adding something new.

clean up your mental house damnit, it's a reeking mess!  :psycrankey:

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Re: Porn addiction [Re: Psion]
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Psion said:
clean up your mental house damnit, it's a reeking mess!  :psycrankey:


haha tell me about it


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Re: Porn addiction [Re: CapnCook]
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CapnCook said:
OrangeJ said:
You can try masturbating at your usual frequency, but without the aid of porn.


genius



Yeah this or by watching amateur videos with regular looking chicks having normal sex.  Not girls that look like this doing things that (most) girls don’t actually do. 



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Re: Porn addiction [Re: DustyBottoms]
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I guess I missed the part where you said once a day lol. That doesn't sound like an addiction to me OP, but again it really depends on whether or not it's negatively impacting your life. It sounds like you might be blaming porn for your social issues though and I'm not sure that's the case.

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Re: Porn addiction [Re: CapnCook] * 1
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Brother I can recommend some books,  let me know.  I struggled with sex addiction and subsequent lost my wife.  Not directly in lieu, but it didn’t help things.  Took me three years to become intimate with an actual woman.

You can’t get enough of what won’t satisfy you In the first place. I’ve responded to many addiction threads and I always say the same thing:

You can’t just stop doing a thing.  Can’t fill a void with nothing— you gotta do something else. 

As a recovered crack and heroine addict, I can tell you how hard it can be to fill.  Let me say that differently: only a hard thing can replace a hard thing. 

Long distance running, boxing,  meditation saved my miserable life.


Good luck brother.


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Re: Porn addiction [Re: BeefExtreme]
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So many addicts fill the void with Jesus. 

Yea don’t do that


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Re: Porn addiction [Re: BeefExtreme]
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BeefSupremeJr said:
Brother I can recommend some books,  let me know.


i can use a good book


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Re: Porn addiction [Re: CapnCook]
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I’m on the road and can’t Remember the titles presently I will post when I get back home.


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