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Anonymous #1
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I hate my partners kids
#25675008 - 12/12/18 04:50 PM (5 years, 3 months ago) |
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They are little late teen shits , always giving me strife , don't feel Shame at all about anything , she loves the fuck out of them though , they lie about everything , no punishment , no chores , just little snide comeback spouting fucks who eat and leave all their shit around and stare at their phones all god damn day long . Then have the nerve to ask you for things when they have denied all help you have asked them to help you with
Ahhh those little fuckers , they're like that old movie critters , fucking biting at my shins , given em all kinds of love and food and whatever and then they'll curse you out , I swear I've even wanted to kick them out a few times
The more time that goes by the more bastardy they become , not to mom though , they can do nothing wrong and use they're sweet sing song siren songs on her
Anyone else have little CHUDs like these ?
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Anonymous #2
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Dude, you're always going to be a second class citizen in that situation. Those aren't your kids, yet you must put up with their nonsense and get no support from mom. You will always be the bad guy, just pay the bills and shut your mouth. Get the hell out of the situation, you're much better off being a single guy. What's in this whole thing for you? A little sex now and then, is it worth it?
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Anonymous #3
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Nope, we mutually agree to never have any hellion germ vectors in our house. My advice - it's not worth it. You're miserable, they aren't really your kids, and they probably don't care for you either. Move on.
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Anonymous #4
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Do they call you daddy?
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Anonymous #5
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How long have you been with the mother?
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Anonymous #1
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I have one son with the mom , her and I get along well for the most part, and it's only when she has to choose that the bias nature of it comes out and i see a whole lack of justice toward my part ,
I'd leave , by God is leave if my son wasn't a part of the whole family , he's happy and it's not just the sex with me and the mom , we have a good relationship it just the unappreciative little shits her children have become and the amount of trying and sacrificing I've put out to please them , I don't even talk to them these day, I present the situation like they're outsiders who live in my house , I don't do anything for them Anymore , which they twist Into a its all him kinda thing but I know better , and I am absolutely not miserable
I love the mother and as I said by ourselves , me and her and our boy we re as happy as three little fuckers can be . But the kids ....expect everything from us , give little back , at least not to me , serious the little fucks can hardly say happy birthday without being told to , to anyone , it's not just me . They ll have to grow up and get jobs and pay for their own shit soon ...I'm waiting for that ....them out of the house and dealing with real life and getting their selfish lazy asses handed to them , because that's is without a doubt what will happen , a little street justice and trial by fire to bring about hopefully , who know they could get worse , I've seen some Generation Y kids come out worse lately , but with any luck they'll see some other perspective ...but I don't expect it for a few years to a decade
I've been with the mom for some time now , as I said her and I get along great and we like the exact same things and she isn't as superficial as lot of other women I've been with , good humor , smart , looks good , ages well and maturely for the most part . I'm not interested in dissolving that , and I'm not perfect by any means as well . She puts up with a lot of my own shit , that I haven't been able to straighten out just yet . Of those benefits I can't leave her over her asshole kids. It's kinda a damned if you and same if not situation for the Moment
Edited by Anonymous (12/14/18 12:13 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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The fucked up part about the whole thing is their dad was divorced from their mom because he had a kings ransom of child porn and supposedly tried to modest the oldest kid , they all know this except the youngest kid , and they love that fucker , he never comes to see them , of the four days a month they are with him he stays in his room and games the whole time and doesn't engage with them at all , it's is new wife who tries to do things with them and raise them and they hate her too .
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Anonymous #6
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Man I will tell you from the place of having a stepdad that it can be really hard for a kid mentally. My stepdad and I hated each-other and when I was 13-16 we fought (verbally and physically) quite a few time. He thought I was a disrespectful shit and I thought he was a self righteous asshole who was fucking my mom. I think It might have been a subconscious thing where I felt my mom was paying more attention to some hippy douche she just met than her kids.
Over a few years though all of the sudden we started to get along really well and became "friends". Now, even late, I would consider him just as much my father as my real dad. I think we just needed time to grow into our own relationship.
It can be hard and complicated I'm sure but stick in there man and try not to get bitter.
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Anonymous #1
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I'm not that guy , I never make myself look popular for fucking their mom, in fact I'll tell them I love her , I've told them I love them .....! And do or did , her son is 13 , he is very smart and a great caring kid towards animals and he's very funny, but he doesn't understand me , thinks when I say anything I'm being serious , and I'm extremely playful, I've actually sat down with him man to man and talked with him about how I'm proud of the kind of person he's become I care about how his life turns out .
I'm not the asshole step dad , I know those guys , will get between the mother and kids and try to be closer to her at their expense , that's not me , they have apparently outed every guy before me , I've been the only one to stick around this long .
I think you are right though about growing a relationship , my father had a step father and he said they fought all the time , he told me a few years ago that his real father only cared about hunting and was selfish and that his stepfather was the only man who really cared about his sisters and him . He tells me they will change when they are in their twenties and have kids of their own ..,I hope so , because I don't know how much longer I can take it .
They will start fights with me just because ,example , I've literally said the same things their mother has , they agree with her , I say it .....you re wrong , it's all the time though , and little love at all , for what I give out . I anicipate the grandkids will love me , I have a non biological grandfather and he's blood to me , I imagine they will be the same so I shelf a lot of my irritation , thanks for the responses , and love towards the last poster , that gave me the perspective I needed .
Edited by Anonymous (12/14/18 01:31 PM)
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Anonymous #7
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Cannibalistic Humanoid Underground Dweller
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Anonymous #8
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i can't have kids If I did i'd murder them
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