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I love easy women * 1
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I think this is where the majority of my relationship issues stem from. If a girl seems too difficult to get into bed, I immediately lose interest and stop pursuing her. Shes probably a prude with weird sexual hangups and I aint dealing with it. I think just about all of my long-term relationships were one-night stands that just turned into years. It may come as no surprise to some, but all of those relationships ended poorly with some elements of sexual fuckery involved. Maybe its the women Im interested in? Maybe I should raise the bar a little higher?

Honestly though, why do women put the pussy on a pedestal? Do you think women who arent sexual deviants perform better in a serious relationship setting?

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Re: I love easy women [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
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I think if it isn't easy for one to get a woman into bed, then the chances of a long term relationship happening with her are very slim.

Such as it is in the times in which we live.

It wasn't always this way.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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Re: I love easy women [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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cause relationships are power struggles and they want a chip

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Re: I love easy women [Re: cannabinated]
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:sad:

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Re: I love easy women [Re: cannabinated]
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There's pro's and con's on both sides of the coin, dude. You like what you like. The grass isn't always greener.

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Re: I love easy women [Re: magicaltwiggz] * 3
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Guess what. Most relationships end poorly and there is often some sexual fuckery involved.


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: I love easy women [Re: koods]
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So whats the solution? Is monogamy impractical? Have we all set ourselves up for failure?

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Re: I love easy women [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
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Monogamy is over emphasized.


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: I love easy women [Re: koods] * 3
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Ive seen zero successful long-term polyamorous relationships in my life.

Zero.

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Re: I love easy women [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
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I've seen little success in monogamous relationships in my lifetime.

Unfortunately relationships fail and they fail often. The number one thing anyone can do in any circumstances is communicate early and often. And be open to working though shitty emotions.

Not much else you can do to be honest.

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Re: I love easy women [Re: Caster]
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Caster said:
I've seen little success in monogamous relationships in my lifetime.

Unfortunately relationships fail and they fail often. The number one thing anyone can do in any circumstances is communicate early and often. And be open to working though shitty emotions.

Not much else you can do to be honest.



Both the last two posters:


How do you guys define a “successesful” relationship, for either poly or mono.


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Re: I love easy women [Re: BeefExtreme]
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Trust, communication, laughter, and contentment are the 4 factors that determine a successful relationship for me, personally. If one isn't there, it's doomed to fail.

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Re: I love easy women [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
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I would ask if you're sure that you go after "easy" women because of the difficulty? Maybe it's a confidence thing, like you see a challenge and accept it's unattainable. Maybe it means you're intimidated. Or even better you're feeling out body language and chemistry, and said "easiness" is actually just a manifestation of a connection. In which case you're not only over-simplifying things, but over-thinking.

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Re: I love easy women [Re: I_was_the_walrus] * 1
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I_was_the_walrus said:
I love easy women



I love hard men :noyoudidawet:


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Re: I love easy women [Re: Asante]
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so sluts don't make good partners... hmmm I must go home and think on this, thanks guys

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Re: I love easy women [Re: Asante]
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Asante said:
I_was_the_walrus said:
I love easy women



I love hard men :noyoudidawet:


:rofl:


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Re: I love easy women [Re: mt cleverest]
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mt cleverest said:
so sluts don't make good partners... hmmm I must go home and think on this, thanks guys


I’ve been going about this all wrong!:wtfsonic:


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Re: I love easy women [Re: larry.fisherman]
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XLCaps said:
I would ask if you're sure that you go after "easy" women because of the difficulty? Maybe it's a confidence thing, like you see a challenge and accept it's unattainable. Maybe it means you're intimidated. Or even better you're feeling out body language and chemistry, and said "easiness" is actually just a manifestation of a connection. In which case you're not only over-simplifying things, but over-thinking.


I think its because, initially, all Im interested in is sex. If I see shes putting up walls and giving off the "I dont want sex" vibe, I look elsewhere. I dont see it so much as a challenge, but rather a "take the hint" type of gesture. I dated a girl in college for several weeks in a flirty-study partner kinda setting. We never even kissed, but I was definitely interested. Around that same time another girl came along and we hooked up immediately and I stopped pursuing the other girl. I recently spoke with the other girl who let me know that she was definitely interested and I should have made a move..but no, because I love easy women. I kinda regret not putting in a little more effort to see where it went.

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Re: I love easy women [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
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I dated a girl who wanted to wait a while to have sex. Turns out she was absolutely terrible at sex.


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Re: I love easy women [Re: bodhisatta]
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I don’t think I could muster the patience for some woman who is giving me blue balls essentially.  I like em easy too


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theRealrollforever said:
That’s not possible; even with computers

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Re: I love easy women [Re: theRealrollforever]
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Im married but my advice is date a freaky "slut". Sex is fun so find someone that wants to fuck you too. If they cheat on you you get to go fuck someone new so :shrug: big deal.


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Re: I love easy women [Re: bodhisatta] * 1
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Sex is easier to get than a relationship. And nobody gets into one without sex first. It's the modern way.


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Re: I love easy women [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
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I_was_the_walrus said:
So whats the solution? Is monogamy impractical? Have we all set ourselves up for failure?


I_was_the_walrus said:
Ive seen zero successful long-term polyamorous relationships in my life.


I'd say I've had a fair bit of relationship experience throughout my life. My count is up near the fifty mark, and that includes multiple long term relationships (3+ years), a marriage, and two stints of polyamory (four months and then one year, five concurrent partners max), with eighteen months of celibacy between them.

My conclusion is is this; monogamy is NOT how humans operate. It is forced, almost always, and almost always due to insecurity, which is the WORST reason to force anything.

My current stance is that it is best to have one 'main' partner, but to allow them the freedom, and to not be bashed into not having ones own freedom taken away, from sleeping with another person, from time to time. This does not equate to being a slut and fucking anything that moves in my eyes, but just not being tied down to physical relations with one person only. Anyone honest knows we all have eyes for others at times. So, like I found in Africa, where they're sex crazy, to have a 'main' chick, and also a 'side' chick, seems the most healthy to me. As a male at least. The girls there I discussed this with at length didn't seem to feel the same, but that seems elementary to me, given the fact women potentially have years of burden from a single sexual interaction compared to males.

Who knows, I'll probably re-adjust again at some point, as is always the way with the human condition and growth therein. However it seems to me the best compromise possible, given the variables and necessities of the human condition based on the sex we're born into.

Let go, let go, let go.

Those words always see me through the hardest parts of this condition.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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