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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: mndfreeze]
    #25484313 - 09/24/18 01:10 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

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mndfreeze said:
It's pretty simple.  You just want to put pressure on the arteries on the sides of her trachea, not the trachea itself.  If you're behind her in doggystyle or whatever I find it easier to use 2 hands, the bottom of your palms flat against the back of her neck wrists roughly touching and wrap your fiingers around. The tips of your fingers should be in the area of the neck NEXT to the wind pipe.  You just squeeze there and have her indicate what sort of pressure she wants.  Even if you squeeze a little too hard at worst she will get light headed and pass out, but she will be able to signal/tell you first. 

You are just lowering the blood flow to her brain and therefore the oxygen flow with it, but not cutting it off entirely.




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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: Noccer] * 2
    #25484323 - 09/24/18 01:27 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

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Noccer said:
Hell I nutted just reading the responses. Not from thinking about choking out my wife or girlfriend, but all the thought and detail that went into it. Let's keep it our little secret though.




Wow, that's creepy as fuck.


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: kr0nik0]
    #25487329 - 09/25/18 06:59 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

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kr0nik0 said:
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Noccer said:
Hell I nutted just reading the responses. Not from thinking about choking out my wife or girlfriend, but all the thought and detail that went into it. Let's keep it our little secret though.




Wow, that's creepy as fuck.




WELCOME TO THE SHROOMERY.

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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: mndfreeze]
    #25487443 - 09/25/18 07:56 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

I find it endearing that our friend here can be so candid


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: King Klick]
    #25487881 - 09/25/18 11:50 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

It's rather sweet.


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: mndfreeze]
    #25487959 - 09/25/18 12:27 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

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mndfreeze said:
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kr0nik0 said:
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Noccer said:
Hell I nutted just reading the responses. Not from thinking about choking out my wife or girlfriend, but all the thought and detail that went into it. Let's keep it our little secret though.




Wow, that's creepy as fuck.




WELCOME TO THE SHROOMERY.

I'm available for lessons if you wanna send the GF over.




The fucked up thing is that I was actually flattered by that comment.
Creepy or not, doesn't matter. Good for him.
I'm sorry if I fucked up your day telling you you're creepy. I hope I didn't, and I hope you're not that sensitive.


@mindfreeze, considering my girl's ultimate fantasy is to be gangbanged, well, I'll keep you in mind. :wink:


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: kr0nik0]
    #25488126 - 09/25/18 01:36 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

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kr0nik0 said:
Quote:

mndfreeze said:
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kr0nik0 said:
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Noccer said:
Hell I nutted just reading the responses. Not from thinking about choking out my wife or girlfriend, but all the thought and detail that went into it. Let's keep it our little secret though.




Wow, that's creepy as fuck.




WELCOME TO THE SHROOMERY.

I'm available for lessons if you wanna send the GF over.




The fucked up thing is that I was actually flattered by that comment.
Creepy or not, doesn't matter. Good for him.
I'm sorry if I fucked up your day telling you you're creepy. I hope I didn't, and I hope you're not that sensitive.


@mindfreeze, considering my girl's ultimate fantasy is to be gangbanged, well, I'll keep you in mind. :wink:



I gang bang

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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: kr0nik0]
    #25488635 - 09/25/18 04:52 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Make sure she has some gesture for "stop" in case u choke too much. Like slapping the bed or something.

A safe word wont work because of the choking aspect.

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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #25489229 - 09/25/18 09:22 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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LogicaL Chaos said:
Make sure she has some gesture for "stop" in case u choke too much. Like slapping the bed or something.

A safe word wont work because of the choking aspect.




Neither will a physical move if she's losing consciousness. If he's relying on that it could end badly.


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: goslugsgo] * 1
    #25489244 - 09/25/18 09:36 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

scratch the choking turn her on to whipits

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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: goslugsgo]
    #25489314 - 09/25/18 10:15 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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goslugsgo said:


Neither will a physical move if she's losing consciousness. If he's relying on that it could end badly.





This is why you use your hands instead of a rope or belt.  You get a lot more feedback through your fingers and can let up instantly as well as vary pressure by tiny amounts throughout the whole thing.  It's a lot safer and easier.  It's not super easy to kill someone via knocking them out unless you are REALLLLY not paying attention while caught up in the moment. 

Also, some women like to be choked purely for the submissive power aspect, not so much the oxygen loss to the brain.  He might not even need to actually press down on arteries.


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: Dorfnob]
    #25489397 - 09/25/18 10:57 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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Dorfnob said:
scratch the choking turn her on to whipits




My girl loves whippits during sex, or with the hitachi

I have done a few while she was blowing me and it’s great...whole body kind of fades away and all focus is on the feeling.

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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #25490568 - 09/26/18 01:21 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

Ya nitrous does wonders for the female orgasm. :yesnod:


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: kr0nik0]
    #25491223 - 09/26/18 05:56 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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kr0nik0 said:
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Noccer said:
Hell I nutted just reading the responses. Not from thinking about choking out my wife or girlfriend, but all the thought and detail that went into it. Let's keep it our little secret though.




Wow, that's creepy as fuck.





You think he is creepy...And yet we have a whole thread of matter-of-fact responses explaining how OP should most effectively choke his GF, without one word of discouragement?

If someone were to post a thread "My GF wants to shoot up heroin tomorrow", there would be an endless stream of "nooo, don't do it!" replies.
And yet, here we have a much more dangerous activity than injecting heroin, and there are no discouragements, so I feel it is my obligation haha.

Do something else!
The brain is very sensitive to hypoxia, every time you deprive your brain of oxygen, a tiny bit of damage is done.

I wouldn't recommend causing deliberate brain damage for so little a reward, I know this because I've tried it myself (just when masturbating of course, I don't have sex with people because I'm a loser), and it did feel really intense, but I had a mild headache afterwards and it just felt like some damage had been done.

IMO it's comparable to huffing butane or gasoline, but perhaps slightly worse because you are actually physically cutting off the circulation rather than simply reducing the amount of oxygen in the blood.

Also, cutting off the blood supply thus will cause changes in blood pressure, which could lead to other issues.

I'm not a doctor and I'm not really interested in medical stuff, so I might be talking crap, but I'm pretty sure it isn't safe.


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: mndfreeze]
    #25491251 - 09/26/18 06:07 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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This is why you use your hands instead of a rope or belt.  You get a lot more feedback through your fingers and can let up instantly as well as vary pressure by tiny amounts throughout the whole thing.  It's a lot safer and easier.  It's not super easy to kill someone via knocking them out unless you are REALLLLY not paying attention while caught up in the moment. 

Also, some women like to be choked purely for the submissive power aspect, not so much the oxygen loss to the brain.  He might not even need to actually press down on arteries.





Well stated, especially your last point.


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: PoisonousLookalike]
    #25491264 - 09/26/18 06:12 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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PoisonousLookalike said:
I'm not a doctor and I'm not really interested in medical stuff, so I might be talking crap, but I'm pretty sure it isn't safe.





Done properly it can be completely safe and an intensely intimate and erotic experience.


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: goslugsgo]
    #25491378 - 09/26/18 06:54 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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goslugsgo said:
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PoisonousLookalike said:
I'm not a doctor and I'm not really interested in medical stuff, so I might be talking crap, but I'm pretty sure it isn't safe.





Done properly it can be completely safe and an intensely intimate and erotic experience.






Do you have any evidence that it can be completely safe?


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: PoisonousLookalike]
    #25491598 - 09/26/18 08:13 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

No one I've been with has ever reported negative side effects.

As a side note, I went to a personal development camp were we learned how to ground and center ourselves in a profound way. One of the activities was to choke (and by choke I mean closing off the blood flow on the sides of the neck, no pressure on the windpipe) our partner.

We grounded and centered ourselves before and during and when done properly could withstand the lack of blood flow and remain conscious. A lot of people went down, including me the first time it was done right. I did not get even the slightest headache and, like my cohort, remain perfectly healthy.


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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: SARAtonin]
    #25491818 - 09/26/18 10:17 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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mndfreeze said:
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goslugsgo said:


Neither will a physical move if she's losing consciousness. If he's relying on that it could end badly.





This is why you use your hands instead of a rope or belt.  You get a lot more feedback through your fingers and can let up instantly as well as vary pressure by tiny amounts throughout the whole thing.  It's a lot safer and easier.  It's not super easy to kill someone via knocking them out unless you are REALLLLY not paying attention while caught up in the moment. 

Also, some women like to be choked purely for the submissive power aspect, not so much the oxygen loss to the brain.  He might not even need to actually press down on arteries.




:thumbup: Dude, thank you so much for all your help. Having someone with personal experience on this subject is reassuring, to say the least. I'm a bit nervous (truly being a little bitch about it psychologically..Just that fear of hurting someone as I literally never have. Sexually or otherwise). She's looking forward to it, but she's never had it done to her in the past. 
We invited some family over today, and it seems they want to stay up and play cards or some shit. So tomorrow we're gonna give it our first go at it.

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Hell I nutted just reading the responses. Not from thinking about choking out my wife or girlfriend, but all the thought and detail that went into it. Let's keep it our little secret though.




Wow, that's creepy as fuck.





You think he is creepy...And yet we have a whole thread of matter-of-fact responses explaining how OP should most effectively choke his GF, without one word of discouragement?

If someone were to post a thread "My GF wants to shoot up heroin tomorrow", there would be an endless stream of "nooo, don't do it!" replies.
And yet, here we have a much more dangerous activity than injecting heroin, and there are no discouragements, so I feel it is my obligation haha.

Do something else!
The brain is very sensitive to hypoxia, every time you deprive your brain of oxygen, a tiny bit of damage is done.

I wouldn't recommend causing deliberate brain damage for so little a reward, I know this because I've tried it myself (just when masturbating of course, I don't have sex with people because I'm a loser), and it did feel really intense, but I had a mild headache afterwards and it just felt like some damage had been done.

IMO it's comparable to huffing butane or gasoline, but perhaps slightly worse because you are actually physically cutting off the circulation rather than simply reducing the amount of oxygen in the blood.

Also, cutting off the blood supply thus will cause changes in blood pressure, which could lead to other issues.

I'm not a doctor and I'm not really interested in medical stuff, so I might be talking crap, but I'm pretty sure it isn't safe.




Creepiness is expected, although I believe this is the first thread I've ever made in the S&R forum in my 6+ years here, and was caught with a little bit of surprise.

I suppose not as creepy as me telling this forum that my girl wants to get chocked out while I fuck her. :shrug:

Regardless, very much appreciate your input here. Thank you.



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Ya nitrous does wonders for the female orgasm. :yesnod:




We both only really smoke weed. I don't like to associate drugs in general with sex aside from herb.
I've seen too many people in my life come a point, friends, girlfriends, fuck buddies, etc where they could only enjoy sex to their fullest if they're high on their drug of choice. Even if it is something as short lived as no2.

Maybe one day again...

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I'll let you all  know how it goes tomorrow.


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mad to be saved,
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Re: My girlfriend wants me to choke her. How do I go about this the correct and safe way? [Re: kr0nik0] * 2
    #25491845 - 09/26/18 10:31 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

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I'm a bit nervous (truly being a little bitch about it psychologically..Just that fear of hurting someone as I literally never have. Sexually or otherwise). She's looking forward to it, but she's never had it done to her in the past. 




That's exactly how a good person should feel when asked to do this sort of thing.
Stay relaxed and focused.


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