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Anonymous #1

What the Fuck is Wrong with me? * 1
    #25463243 - 09/15/18 11:30 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

I should tell you first of all, I'm still pretty fucked up. I went to a party tonight, and I got so fucking drunk that I fucking grinded with a guy. How did this fucking happen, I got so fucked up that I couldn't even tell the difference between a guy and a girl, I just saw long hair and assumed it was a girl. I'm so fucking embarrassed right now. I make fun of my peers for being alcoholics but I behave exactly like them. I'm so desperate to find a girl that I can kiss and hug and cuddle with and have sex with that I practically destroy myself at parties because I don't have the confidence to approach them and I need to fuck myself up so badly that I can't even tell what's going on anymore. I just feel so lonely and empty without a girl who can provide me physical affection that I'm willing to do pretty much whatever it takes to find her. In this case, it means drowning myself in alcohol and behaving like a fucking animal every weekend. I have grinded with 120 people now and I'm only 20 years old and apparently one of them wasn't even a girl. At this point I have got to evaluate my life choices. But I don't know what else to do, if I stop going to parties I'll never find someone. I'll become like one of those incels who shuts themselves into their room playing video games all day and becoming a bitter and resentufl misogynist.

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Anonymous #2

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25464195 - 09/16/18 10:45 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

incels play videogames all day because no one wants to be friends with their ugly weak asses, has nothing to do with misogyny

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Anonymous #3

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #2] * 2
    #25464540 - 09/16/18 01:10 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

My advice is to be patient.  People do come along but you must also try to be a good person to attract the right kind of people.  Don't feel the need to be outgoing so overpowering that you need to destroy yourself with alcohol.  Sometimes you need to take baby steps to feel confident.

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Anonymous #4

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25464651 - 09/16/18 01:51 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Reduce your Alcohol consumption. (Not every weekend)
Alcohol, it destroys you

Go ahead and disbelieve. Just based on your OP, Your text makes me believe you're suffering depressive, anxious, mental symptoms.
All attributable to Ethanol

Edited by Anonymous (09/16/18 01:53 PM)

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Anonymous #5

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #25466763 - 09/17/18 09:43 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Stop drinking and observe and ask if the people you are around are actually friends.

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Anonymous #6

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25466916 - 09/17/18 11:19 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Spend your alcohol money on escorts.

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Anonymous #7

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #25470221 - 09/18/18 03:04 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Getting so plastered that you can't have a have a coherent conversation isn't going to help you get a girl. Or atleast one that you'll want. I'd say have 1-3 drinks at the most. And try and talk or dance with girls. If you are stumbling around and acting stupid because you've had about 10 drinks your not going to attract any girl. Are you still in school? Finding girls when your in school is super easy. Just gain confidence. Know that the worse a girl can do is say no. And if you are working with a girl on a class project they can't say no cause they need that grade. I was a little anxious when I was younger. But realize we are all human just looking for someone to love.

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Anonymous #8

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #7] * 1
    #25470266 - 09/18/18 03:36 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Self-blaming is Pathetic.

Playing video games is awesome, try Zelda on Super Nintendo!


It is better to be alone than with the wrong one. Often we think we have to be with someone. But truly blessed is he, who has control over his Sexuality.

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Anonymous #8

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #25470268 - 09/18/18 03:36 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

JESUS SAVES : John 14:6

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Anonymous #4

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #25478467 - 09/21/18 04:40 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:


It is better to be alone than with the wrong one. Often we think we have to be with someone. But truly blessed is he, who has control over his Sexuality.



DAAAM  :daaamn:

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Anonymous #9

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #25480205 - 09/22/18 08:29 AM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Dude, chatting to a girl is no different than chatting to a guy - it's literally just talking...

If you come across like you desperately need a girl to "complete you" - again, that will be obvious in your demeanor and put girls off from interacting with you i.e. you're desperate for an ideal, rather than a person.

My advice to you is learn to like yourself first - the only thing that can complete you, is you. Man, learn to love yourself. Stop trying so hard.

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Anonymous #10

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #25482945 - 09/23/18 12:39 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

"ginded with"
When i was in my 20s we kissed girls then took em home and grinded with our clothes off. Wtf is this grinding business its just dancing close lol.

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Anonymous #11

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #25483271 - 09/23/18 03:06 PM (5 years, 6 months ago)

Grinding whats is underneat.:lol:

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Anonymous #12

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25493960 - 09/27/18 07:29 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

When I was dating I steered clear of the overly drunk, high/fucked up guys. Nobody wants a sloppy first encounter. So note to self, stop getting shitfaced. Girls like stability, and not just the monetary kind. Girls like a guy who can keep a firm hold on themselves. Also when you aren’t shitfaced you are more alert to find a girl who is projecting availability and looking for exactly the same thing you are.  Lastly, girls don’t want to be moms to grown ass men. Taking care of their drunk boyfriend isn’t what we call fun, driving all the time because the guy is drunk or high all the time. So get your shit together and stop being the guy who acts sloppy when drunk or high needing a ride home. Good luck, and FYI do your best to be ok with yourself. Confidence, even false confidence as long as it isn’t extreme works. Being polite works. Being somewhere to have a good time and not get shitfaced shows you can have fun and be responsible, those two things hold down relationships so you don’t have to keep looking for someone to snuggle with, you’ll have it over and over.

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Anonymous #13

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #12] * 1
    #25521610 - 10/08/18 10:28 AM (5 years, 5 months ago)

You're killing yourself with that booze. If you keep it up, it's going to be much harder to quit later in life. Quit while you can. Alcohol messes up hormone levels and causes all kinds of other issues. Just stop. You may be one of those people that gets erectile dysfunction from it, then how are you going to enjoy a woman when you can finally get one?

Quit that shit. Nasty drug. I've known plenty of alcoholics. Usually not the kind of people I want to hang out with. What's wrong with you is what is wrong with society marketing poison like this to people. The companies that sell and produce alcoholic beverages do not give a shit about you and will not pay your hospital bills when you get sick.

Do you want to be gay? Because gay dudes will accept you in that drunken sloppy state you keep putting yourself in, most women won't. Unless you're paying them or they're desperate to begin with. Alcohol is a gay drug, just like meth. There's already a ton of people in society that would probably love for you to turn gay or just get drunk enough one day and put your dick in a guys mouth.

Stop drinking.

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Anonymous #14

Re: What the Fuck is Wrong with me? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #25540776 - 10/15/18 10:57 PM (5 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
My advice is to be patient.  People do come along but you must also try to be a good person to attract the right kind of people.  Don't feel the need to be outgoing so overpowering that you need to destroy yourself with alcohol.  Sometimes you need to take baby steps to feel confident.




Good advice.

My best friend had a very similiar situation. The thing he did was quit alcohol and it helped him a ton. Not saying you should stop drinking, but try not to get completely trashed when you party. Be a little conscious of yourself.

And try say at least something to girls you dance with. It will make it more meaningful and might lead to more later.

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