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Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy?
    #25274368 - 06/17/18 01:54 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Whether it's raising their voice while arguing at the store, or in your neighborhood within earshot of neighbor's, yelling intentionally loud enough so others can hear, and with such detail that they're inclined to listen/chime in

I think its bullshit, I'm not the type to let anyone know what's going on in my life at all, never mind screaming loud enough so others can hear intentionally. I don't even have a Facebook for Christ's sake

When my girl does this she will start to raise her voice during an argument in which I'm calm and arguing with reason, and her response is to abandon any reason at all and get loud and revert to personal attacks, especially if someone is close enough to hear the conversation. Whether it be a family member through a wall in another room or out the window so the neighbors outside can hear

Why the fuck would anyone want to let anyone else outside of the one you're immediately arguing with about your personal bullshit?

Its certainly my major pet peeve and I don't understand why it happens at all


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: stzacrack] * 5
    #25274383 - 06/17/18 01:59 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

It's to signal other males that you're in a vulnerable position and if they are prepared to strike you down they may openly claim her as a prize


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: twighead]
    #25274421 - 06/17/18 02:11 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: stzacrack]
    #25274500 - 06/17/18 02:53 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Well raising your voice in an argument is a pretty natural thing to do.

Intentionally doing it to bring attention to the situation is to 1. humiliate/shame you and 2. make you cringe and not want the argument to continue if other people will be paying attention so you shut up and they win the argument when you shut up.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 1
    #25274530 - 06/17/18 03:05 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: stzacrack]
    #25274537 - 06/17/18 03:08 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Its either:

1) heat of the moment/unaware of public listening by strong emotions take over.
2) to embarass the other person who is heing dissed, like a social weapon.
3) to start that tasty drama (some women LOVE that drama/conflict)
4) some women just dont give a fuck :shrug:

I know a lot of guys who will talk about sexual stuff in front of women, which typically makes women uncomfortable. Kinda the same thing. Loud mouth strong personalities typically give zero fucks.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #25274581 - 06/17/18 03:30 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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Well raising your voice in an argument is a pretty natural thing to do.

Intentionally doing it to bring attention to the situation is to 1. humiliate/shame you and 2. make you cringe and not want the argument to continue if other people will be paying attention so you shut up and they win the argument when you shut up.




Raising your voice fine everyone does that, but with the intention of drawing attention, that shit drives me crazy

At That point civil conversation or an amicable conclusion to said argument is impossible

I just don't want anyone else in my shit and I don't get why others would seek it out

I've had friends who do the same with their women but in my opinion its something a female would do, because in my head its irrational and the only idea I can come up with is that women are naturally irrational


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: stzacrack] * 2
    #25274587 - 06/17/18 03:35 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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the only idea I can come up with is that women are naturally irrational



Is that what you say before she outbursts in public? :ohyou:


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: PatrickKn]
    #25274681 - 06/17/18 04:45 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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PatrickKn said:
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the only idea I can come up with is that women are naturally irrational



Is that what you say before she outbursts in public? :ohyou:




If I was trying to avoid an outburst, why would I say anything to belittle her in the first place?

I respect my woman, and I try my best to speak with her as an equal, not at her as a subservient.

Though like I said I consciously try and avoid these situations, and in doing so try to be as civil as possible whenever I feel it's necessary to engage in any disagreement


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: twighead]
    #25274787 - 06/17/18 06:04 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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twighead said:
It's to signal other males that you're in a vulnerable position and if they are prepared to strike you down they may openly claim her as a prize




Hate to be this guy, but fuck it I'm 6-5 near 300lbs and not obese so I'm not so worried about direct confrontation, I more so just want my business kept to myself (and my woman)


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: twighead]
    #25274797 - 06/17/18 06:10 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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It's to signal other males that you're in a vulnerable position and if they are prepared to strike you down they may openly claim her as a prize




:lol:

More or less.

Hate that shit. Girl will get all loud when it's a matter for us just to bring other people into it. Bitches are dumb.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: Enjoywho] * 1
    #25274813 - 06/17/18 06:18 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

When a woman starts yelling you continue to speak to them in a calm voice. Don't act like their tone or other people hearing effects you at all. If she keeps yelling then you stop speaking and stare at her. If she says something tell her you're not going to argue with her when she's like this. If she's still yelling calmly walk away.

If she has a reasonable bone in her body she will realize she's being immature and be embarrassed about it.



If there's no improvement walk away and don't come back. I don't abide that shit and you guys shouldn't either.

Don't lose your temper too. It only makes it worse 9x out of 10.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #25275024 - 06/17/18 07:42 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

It's a shame to think of treating someone this way (in my head like a child, not giving in to their tantrums), but what else to do besides walk away?

There's no other possible positive outcome once the yelling has begun

I'm not a yelling type of guy in the first place. I lose my cool after being poked and prodded over things I think are trivial


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #25275032 - 06/17/18 07:48 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

CookieCrumbs said:
Well raising your voice in an argument is a pretty natural thing to do.

Intentionally doing it to bring attention to the situation is to 1. humiliate/shame you and 2. make you cringe and not want the argument to continue if other people will be paying attention so you shut up and they win the argument when you shut up.




You do realize that when a woman does that in public, every man in the room will think you are a crazy bitch right?  Most men would not be humiliated at all, most men would see this as the perfect time to get the fuck out before they get too invested.  You're opening the "get out of jail" window for the guy.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: Patlal]
    #25275043 - 06/17/18 07:54 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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the only idea I can come up with is that women are naturally irrational



Is that what you say before she outbursts in public? :ohyou:




If I was trying to avoid an outburst, why would I say anything to belittle her in the first place?

I respect my woman, and I try my best to speak with her as an equal, not at her as a subservient.

Though like I said I consciously try and avoid these situations, and in doing so try to be as civil as possible whenever I feel it's necessary to engage in any disagreement



I was just kidding, though in hindsight can see why you might have taken the question more seriously. I didn't actually think you would have said that though.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #25275070 - 06/17/18 08:12 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Great advice cookies :thumbup:

Remember that paragraph OP. It will save u a lot of trouble in the future.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: PatrickKn]
    #25275081 - 06/17/18 08:18 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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PatrickKn said:
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stzacrack said:
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PatrickKn said:
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the only idea I can come up with is that women are naturally irrational



Is that what you say before she outbursts in public? :ohyou:




If I was trying to avoid an outburst, why would I say anything to belittle her in the first place?

I respect my woman, and I try my best to speak with her as an equal, not at her as a subservient.

Though like I said I consciously try and avoid these situations, and in doing so try to be as civil as possible whenever I feel it's necessary to engage in any disagreement



I was just kidding, though in hindsight can see why you might have taken the question more seriously. I didn't actually think you would have said that though.




I think I knew you were joking, but when I went to write my response the thought of it all just pissed me off and I took it out on you so to speak ha

No I go into arguments with the mind that these things might happen and I think in a way my girl KNOWS it will make me mad, so that's why she does it

But in my mind I think, do you have no shame?

I must be a private person because those situations get me grinding my teeth and im generally cool headed, especially in public

It makes me think the same type of woman who would do this in public is the woman who would yell at police in a situation where keeping your cool would certainly yield better results


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 1
    #25275103 - 06/17/18 08:38 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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When a woman starts yelling you continue to speak to them in a calm voice. Don't act like their tone or other people hearing effects you at all. If she keeps yelling then you stop speaking and stare at her. If she says something tell her you're not going to argue with her when she's like this. If she's still yelling calmly walk away.

If she has a reasonable bone in her body she will realize she's being immature and be embarrassed about it.



If there's no improvement walk away and don't come back. I don't abide that shit and you guys shouldn't either.

Don't lose your temper too. It only makes it worse 9x out of 10.




WAY easier said than done. That shit activates my iguana brain.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: Middleman]
    #25275121 - 06/17/18 08:45 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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CookieCrumbs said:
Well raising your voice in an argument is a pretty natural thing to do.

Intentionally doing it to bring attention to the situation is to 1. humiliate/shame you and 2. make you cringe and not want the argument to continue if other people will be paying attention so you shut up and they win the argument when you shut up.




You do realize that when a woman does that in public, every man in the room will think you are a crazy bitch right?  Most men would not be humiliated at all, most men would see this as the perfect time to get the fuck out before they get too invested.  You're opening the "get out of jail" window for the guy.



Not always, especially if you yell back. Which is why I won't do it.

I don't condone the behavior. Quite the opposite. I have a very high tolerance for people being crazy but I'm not going to enable them or allow them to treat me like shit. I can understand why some women get upset enough to start screaming at you, especially if you did do something wrong (which is what most people will assume when you scream back), but it's not helpful and counterproductive to resolving problems in a relationship.

I might raise my voice if someone keeps interrupting me or clearly isn't listening when I'm saying something of importance (serious pet peeve of mine) but the only time I'll ever actually yell at someone is when that someone has repeatedly done something wrong and didn't listen the first few times I tried to talk it out with them and I'm at my wits end. By that point though I've learned that unless that person is family it's better to avoid whatever is bothering me so much or to avoid that person.

Which means I haven't yelled at anyone not family in more than a decade. It's rare enough for me that it does grab attention very quickly. And since I don't do it in public it gets the kind of attention I need, from the person I need to work out a problem with.


I have, however, dated quite a few crazy bitches.

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It's a shame to think of treating someone this way (in my head like a child, not giving in to their tantrums), but what else to do besides walk away?

There's no other possible positive outcome once the yelling has begun

I'm not a yelling type of guy in the first place. I lose my cool after being poked and prodded over things I think are trivial




It's true. And you need to keep in mind that this may piss them off even more. But like I said if they're not just a bitch they will at least be able to reflect on their behavior and realize that they're only bringing negative attention on themselves.
If you handle it right. Acting just like them or saying something shitty to them, basically lowering yourself to their level, only justifies their behavior.

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WAY easier said than done. That shit activates my iguana brain.




:lol: it takes practice. Though that's not really the kind of practice you probably want to get.
Easier for most people not attracted to crazy to just find a lady that's not gonna go off like that. In which case your rule would probably be to walk away, tell them what they did was wrong and you're not going to tolerate it, and walk away forever when they do it again.


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Re: Why do women air out dirty laundry publicy? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #25275342 - 06/17/18 10:48 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Has anyone called OP out for the fact that his  post totally qualifies as “airing dirty laundry publicly?”


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