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Re: i need a little help [Re: llamaboy]
    #2484449 - 03/30/04 05:02 PM (19 years, 10 months ago)

Dude, you didn't get her into anything. If she didn't get it from you, she would have got it from someone else. It's not your responsibility, but it shows that you are a nice guy for trying to help.. although, personally, I don't think you can. Only she can and she doesn't seem to want to.


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Re: i need a little help [Re: llamaboy]
    #2486114 - 03/31/04 01:30 AM (19 years, 10 months ago)

From expiernce of being around all kinds of addicts my entire life, it sometimes takes every thing falling apart for some people to come to the realization that they have a problem they need to fix. I too had a girlfriend that was an addict (crank which iv never done or wanted around me) I ended up having to break up with her because i didnt want to be invovled in the sitiuation she gotten herself into. There where also people she owed money to looking for her she stole from me and her parents constantly (they threw her out of her house a few days after i broke up with her). And i now i hear that she has gotten control of herself agian, sometimes people just need to hit rock bottom before they are willing to change man so dont beat yourself up over it, your doing all the right things to try and help her.

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Re: i need a little help [Re: Protester]
    #2520296 - 04/02/04 10:20 PM (19 years, 10 months ago)

i thought i would give a little update of everything that happened since her auto accident. this last friday, we ended up breaking up. i gave her the ultimatum to stop using or i leave you...she wouldn't take that so, i ended up trying to leave. and she freaks out. she ended up trying to beat the shit out of me and i had to restraing her by holding her shoulders down to do the floor, at which point she began to claw at my back(i was naked during this entire time, as when i woke i found her popping about 8 miltowns). one of our neighbours ended up calling the cops, fortunately for her, she wasn't high when they arrived, as i was able to keep her from taking them. when they did arrive, you know how cops are, they seperated us and took both sides of our stories. they both matched up, and we both failed to mention that the fight was over drugs. because of the state that we live in, in a domestic disturbance someone goes to jail, and since i had done nothing to her, except restraing her, she ended up going to jail. i know that her being in jail is a pretty fucked up time to break up with her, but i didn't feel that there was anything else to do at that point. i put a great deal of distance between her and myself, and although it feels like i am abandoning her, i think that it's the best thing for her. because of the domestice issue, she will be getting anger management classes, which she needs. and because of her DUI, she will aslo be going to a drug rehabilitation center.

All i can say is that i am glad to be out of the situation that i was in. i just wish that it didn't have to come to what it did in order for me to get out. I know now that she will be getting the help that she needs, and i can only hope that everything works out okay for her. i just feel sad, because i know that i will never have anything to do with her again, no matter how she changes. after being away from her for more than a week now, i realize how much she was bringing me down, and how hard she was making my life. it's harsh to say this, but i am glad that she is gone, and that i will most likely have nothing to do with her again.

at least with me gone, she has no one to get her supply from, and her parents will be helping get the help that she needs.

thank you all for you support, you have made something that i thought i could never do happen. And i know in my heart, that this IS the right thing for me to do.

thank you all.

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Re: i need a little help [Re: llamaboy]
    #2521298 - 04/03/04 10:55 AM (19 years, 10 months ago)

Im sorry it had to come down to that but im glad that you are feeling better. Like i said before some people choose the hard way. Just try to take care of yourself man, and perhaspe sometime in the further when shes feeling better you two can sit down and have a nice little chat.


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Re: i need a little help [Re: llamaboy]
    #2525681 - 04/04/04 07:53 PM (19 years, 10 months ago)

I'm glad to see you out of that situation.  I hated to have to say it but I thought that the only way you could help her would be to leave her.  Let's just hope that everything goes well with her and she takes advantage of this opportunity to receive help.

:heart:


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