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Anonymous #5

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: MeatSack] * 1
    #24957299 - 01/31/18 05:11 PM (6 months, 15 days ago)

I think that porn can be really bad for people, it creates a dopamine response in the brain and so can become addictive.

It can gradually cause inferiority complexes in men as well as premature ejaculation and performance issues.

It desensitizes people and makes sex less of an act of love and more of a trivial act of instant gratification.

It exacerbates hookup culture and makes young men both more aggresive and worse at approaching women.

It also lowers the drive to want to go out and put the time in meeting someone and genuinely getting to know them and forging a relationship when all you have to do is go online to see perfect specimens doing anything you could imagine, mens hornyness is supposed to drive them to find and compete for a mate but instead they are jacking all of that energy all over their laptops an into their socks.

It gradually makes people more and more degenerate because over time they graduate to darker and more extreme shit.


Edited by Anonymous (01/31/18 05:14 PM)


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24957894 - 01/31/18 08:58 PM (6 months, 15 days ago)

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helloflower said:
That makes sense. Well it kind of seems like you have it figured out. Do you find it hard to maintain the balance?




Specifically when it comes to sex, I have a harder time maintaining the balance because I have a difficult time finding a sexual partner so when I do find one, all I want to do is fuck. When it comes to porn vs non-porn faps though, I think I don't have a very hard time maintaining the balance.


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #24957900 - 01/31/18 09:00 PM (6 months, 15 days ago)

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Anonymous #4 said:
Can go a week easy but the relapse after that week doesn't usually end in only one session.. been thinking of reading erotica instead to get the imagination flowing right.




Erotica is porn, its just printed porn instead of visual porn.

por·nog·ra·phy
pôrˈnäɡrəfē/Submit
noun
printed or visual material containing the explicit description or display of sexual organs or activity, intended to stimulate erotic rather than aesthetic or emotional feelings.
synonyms: erotica, pornographic material, dirty books; More


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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24959339 - 02/01/18 12:53 PM (6 months, 15 days ago)

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helloflower said:
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Anonymous #2 said:
just wasted my time reading your last 6 posts or so. what am I looking for





sorry u wasted ur time.  It's the one that says alternative to porn. isn't that what youre looking for?



And continue to waste it on you, for you've still not recommended a source and your only other post containing the word alternative was similarly useless

:thumbdown:


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24959755 - 02/01/18 04:00 PM (6 months, 14 days ago)

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Anonymous #2 said:
Quote:

helloflower said:
Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
just wasted my time reading your last 6 posts or so. what am I looking for





sorry u wasted ur time.  It's the one that says alternative to porn. isn't that what youre looking for?



And continue to waste it on you, for you've still not recommended a source and your only other post containing the word alternative was similarly useless

:thumbdown:




Lol.. okay sorry.  I thought you were looking to basically read porn(erotica) instead of watching it? I posted the alternative to porn thread a few days ago and it is erotica.  I guess i don't understand exactly what you are looking for.  Good luck finding it though. I don't have any other source. I do plan to write more in the future though


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Anonymous #6

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24976473 - 02/08/18 02:55 PM (6 months, 7 days ago)

Very introspective thoughts here. I can definitely relate 100%. The fine balance between no porn and too much porn is very difficult to find.

For me, I get "triggered" by the "cheating" part. For example, I see a commercial about a new work out for women. I see hot women in yoga pants. I get triggered and have to look at porn. There is no avoiding it.

Also, when u dont watch porn, boners become a huge nuisance (pun intended). Sometimes they pop up in odd situations.

I like that 1 to 3 rule. I find fantasizing about real women I know in real life helps to balance the intense de-sensitivation of porn.


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #24978895 - 02/09/18 05:06 PM (6 months, 6 days ago)

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Anonymous #6 said:
Very introspective thoughts here. I can definitely relate 100%. The fine balance between no porn and too much porn is very difficult to find.

For me, I get "triggered" by the "cheating" part. For example, I see a commercial about a new work out for women. I see hot women in yoga pants. I get triggered and have to look at porn. There is no avoiding it.

Also, when u dont watch porn, boners become a huge nuisance (pun intended). Sometimes they pop up in odd situations.

I like that 1 to 3 rule. I find fantasizing about real women I know in real life helps to balance the intense de-sensitivation of porn.




Exactly, that's been the cause of almost every time I just gave in and watched porn. This month is turning out to be a lot more difficult than January, I've already jerked off to porn three times. Whenever I go to a porn site now, I feel like I'm reuniting with an old friend lol.


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #25037313 - 03/04/18 02:26 AM (5 months, 15 days ago)

Month two update:

Okay so last month was definitely more difficult than January. I jerked off to porn like three times in the first ten days but then I cut back a lot and didn't use porn again for ten days, and then gave in a fifth time literally on the last day of February. So I jerked off to porn a total of five times in February. A small increase. There were a few warm weather days last month too which caused all the girls to pull out their short shorts and miniskirts and goddamn, it was a hard couple of days. That was the reason I gave in the fourth time was cause it was so hard to walk around and see that all day and not use porn. Also, for some reason the warm weather makes me hornier.

I haven't noticed much changing from what I said last month other than it getting more difficult to keep the porn fast going. Its only been three days of March but I've already given in again. I think March is going to be very difficult. I'm really looking forward to this three month experiment being over. I'm determined to finish it though cause I don't start something and then quit. I'm about 70% of the way finished, so I can surely do the next 30%.

One friend of mine said you probably have to go a whole month to feel positive benefits. I told him though, that one week feels like a month to me. Considering that my average for past three months before this had been twice a day. Going from twice a day to once a week is a huge cutback. Its such a dramatic cutback that I feel like I've quit. At this point, it feels like its not a part of my life anymore.

I have not had any of the supposed benefits that are supposed to happen though. I'm not more confident, I'm not better with girls, I'm not feeling better about myself. I think that those benefits only happen to people who feel guilty about using porn. I don't feel guilty at all using porn, the only reason I'm really doing this is, in-fact, to make porn exciting again.


Edited by Anonymous (03/04/18 02:26 AM)


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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25037975 - 03/04/18 12:47 PM (5 months, 15 days ago)

been realizing that masturbating to porn is more pleasurable than real sex could ever be. So why should I care about real sex anymore


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #25041886 - 03/06/18 01:57 AM (5 months, 13 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
been realizing that masturbating to porn is more pleasurable than real sex could ever be. So why should I care about real sex anymore




Seriously?


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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25041890 - 03/06/18 02:00 AM (5 months, 13 days ago)

Yeah, I was serious. Maybe slip some real sex in every now and again to keep things fresh but I do think jerking off is better

you dont have to worry about the needs of the girl, you can get fresh material endlessly and edge forever. I can cum more times in a night to porn than I can to a single woman. And the orgasms themselves tend to feel better


Edited by Anonymous (03/06/18 02:06 AM)


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #25041900 - 03/06/18 02:07 AM (5 months, 13 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
Yeah, I was serious. Maybe slip some real sex in every now and again to keep things fresh but I do think jerking off is better

you dont have to worry about the needs of the girl, you can get fresh material endlessly and edge forever. I can cum more times in a night to porn than I can to a single woman.




Yeah you can definitely cum faster when masturbating. You're right that its all about you when you're masturbating. Its just that sex gives you all kinds of sensations you can't experience when masturbating.


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Anonymous #6

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25045717 - 03/07/18 01:55 PM (5 months, 11 days ago)

I will say porn is intense psychologically. But physically, sex is way better.

But I could see how porn could "overshadow" sex.

Interesting effects. Usually quitting porn does increase your "swagger" with women. At least, it seems like it does.

Interesting that u are cutting back to make it more exciting. I thought it was cause u thought it was an addiction :lol:


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #25047690 - 03/08/18 01:41 AM (5 months, 11 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #6 said:
I will say porn is intense psychologically. But physically, sex is way better.

But I could see how porn could "overshadow" sex.

Interesting effects. Usually quitting porn does increase your "swagger" with women. At least, it seems like it does.

Interesting that u are cutting back to make it more exciting. I thought it was cause u thought it was an addiction :lol:




Yeah I want to make it exciting and not a necessity. Anon #2 is actually addicted, I like porn but I can't imagine choosing porn over sex. I just noticed that porn was losing all sense of excitement. I felt like every video was starting to blend together and feel the same. I remember porn feeling amazing when I was just starting to use it. On the times that I've given in, I've gotten that feeling back and I feel like I'm 13 again. I have a feeling that April 1st is going to be a wonderful day so I look forward to my fast being over but I still recognize the need to finish it and not give up early. I wanna be desperate for it to end lol.


Edited by Anonymous (03/08/18 01:43 AM)


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Anonymous #6

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25047832 - 03/08/18 04:55 AM (5 months, 11 days ago)

I find with drugs, the magic of the first few times never comes back, but with enough break, it does mostly come back.

Same with porn. It comes mostly back but not completely.


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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #25048447 - 03/08/18 01:53 PM (5 months, 10 days ago)

man you guys need kinkier porn, the magic neva stops!


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #25050677 - 03/09/18 12:21 AM (5 months, 10 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
man you guys need kinkier porn, the magic neva stops!




Kinky porn doesn't do anything for me.


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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25050696 - 03/09/18 12:38 AM (5 months, 10 days ago)

Used to be the same. Get bored enough with normal porn and chance upon weird stuff at the right time "is that really making me hard? god i'm sick"


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Anonymous #6

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #25051013 - 03/09/18 05:58 AM (5 months, 10 days ago)

Kinky porn doesnt do it for me. At one point, i would dabble but it still has the "WTF" factor and it makes it hard to enjoy.

Definitely no scat or water sports or S&M. Yuck. Farthest i will go comfortably is women wrestling/Femdom.


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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #25051495 - 03/09/18 11:27 AM (5 months, 10 days ago)

squirts are an easy window to waterplay :yesnod:

was so stoked when I first found squirt porn. "its like facials but for ladies!"


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