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ichugwindex
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i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys.
#25042014 - 03/06/18 02:17 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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-------------------- Only hope can give rise to the emotion we call despair. But it is nearly impossible for a man to try to live without hope, so I guess that leaves Man no choice but to walk around with despair as his companion.
Edited by ichugwindex (03/19/19 05:42 PM)
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: ichugwindex]
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-------------------- Only hope can give rise to the emotion we call despair. But it is nearly impossible for a man to try to live without hope, so I guess that leaves Man no choice but to walk around with despair as his companion.
Edited by ichugwindex (03/19/19 05:43 PM)
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#25042028 - 03/06/18 02:43 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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Why is that such a big deal, why does it hurt you so? Most "relationships" are basically trading money for sex, dinners for sex, gifts for sex, jewelry for sex etc. This is in my view basically the same thing without pretense. If it is consensual, then what's the problem?
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#25042039 - 03/06/18 02:53 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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ichugwindex said: guess Alice DJ was right. I really am better off alone.
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: shadyy] 3
#25042051 - 03/06/18 03:08 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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So you cut ties because your friend bought a prostitute. That seems totally proportional
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Seriously_trippin] 8
#25042053 - 03/06/18 03:10 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hey man.. what's more important in life.. a friend since you were a kid, or your self-righteous moral judgments on other human's free will? Priorities yo
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Shroomism] 1
#25042205 - 03/06/18 06:34 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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Shroomism said: Hey man.. what's more important in life.. a friend since you were a kid, or your self-righteous moral judgments on other human's free will? Priorities yo
In addition: dude, you do NOT want a few years of a friendless existence, trust me on that. You might get cabin fever and do something stupic like get addicted to opioids or do something desperate like jump off the Golden Gate bridge (which by the way all who survived the fall insisted they INSTANTLY regretted the split second they went over the rail.)
In any case you might want to shop around for some friends of stronger moral fibre.
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Asante] 1
#25042241 - 03/06/18 06:58 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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are they turning some girl out or is this like jus a natural whore?
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: ichugwindex]
#25042257 - 03/06/18 07:09 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't have any friends. You'll be goooood.
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: ichugwindex] 2
#25042271 - 03/06/18 07:18 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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The song you reference in the OP doesn’t say “you’re better off alone”, it asks “do you think you’re better off alone?” That might sound nitpicky, but those are actually two very different things. But I guess it’s a moot point. Maybe you wouldn’t be alone if you stopped cutting ties to lifelong friends over silly stuff.
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Burke Dennings]
#25042278 - 03/06/18 07:23 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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I dont get why you are willing to throw away solid friendships because they paid a woman for sex...
Grow the fuck up
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Ant89] 1
#25042292 - 03/06/18 07:38 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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all the replies here are pretty good
when you put labels on somebody such as "womanizer" or whatever, when you talk to them, you no longer see the person - you just see the mental label you've put on them. try to avoid labelling people. of course, it is your right to cut off friends and you owe them nothing at all.
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Ant89] 1
#25042315 - 03/06/18 07:57 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't think this is black and white. While I don't think simple prostitution is wrong I don't think it's necessarily healthy to want a drug so badly that you'd sell your body for it. I find it likely that the woman in question is allowing her addiction to be used against her and that she probably wouldn't have sex for money generally but I don't know. So, I'd guess the OP's friends are behaving opportunistically.
On the other hand, I agree with the poster who mentioned "dinner for sex." Prostitution occurs on the daily within what is considered socially acceptable. Men shower women with gifts and affection for sex and women use the male sex drive against men to get what they want.
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: pndmnm] 1
#25042334 - 03/06/18 08:17 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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^ that’s the vibe I was getting from it. I assumed they were doing it in a more sleazy way than just a simple:
Girlfriend: will you take the trash out hun? Boyfriend: if you the junk out
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Amanita86]
#25042347 - 03/06/18 08:27 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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You say this shit like they did this girl wrong, did she take the drugs? Yes. Did she put dick in her mouth? Yes. That’s on her just as much if not more than it is them
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: NOUS333]
#25042360 - 03/06/18 08:31 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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Calm down timmy, I didnt say or put anything on anyone. I explained how I understood a post, and considering op is cutting ties wouldnt that suggest some sort of sleazy element?
You say that shit like you have a clue what actually happened..
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Shroomism] 1
#25042364 - 03/06/18 08:34 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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Shroomism said: Hey man.. what's more important in life.. a friend since you were a kid, or your self-righteous moral judgments on other human's free will? Priorities yo
i mean do you realize the psychology involved with someone trading their body for drugs? to multiple people that they either dont know or they barely know? its barely consent in my opinion.
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Amanita86]
#25042372 - 03/06/18 08:38 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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Amanita86 said: Calm down timmy, I didnt say or put anything on anyone. I explained how I understood a post, and considering op is cutting ties wouldnt that suggest some sort of sleazy element?
You say that shit like you have a clue what actually happened..
I was talking to the OP, not you. Thought that would be clear.
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Re: i just lost my only IRL friends. I love you guys. [Re: Burke Dennings]
#25042374 - 03/06/18 08:40 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: The song you reference in the OP doesn’t say “you’re better off alone”, it asks “do you think you’re better off alone?” That might sound nitpicky, but those are actually two very different things. But I guess it’s a moot point. Maybe you wouldn’t be alone if you stopped cutting ties to lifelong friends over silly stuff.
i know that within the context of the song the implication is that you are NOT better off alone but when i hear the question "do you think youre better off alone?" right now it feels like the answer to that question is yes
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#25042379 - 03/06/18 08:45 AM (5 years, 10 months ago) |
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NOUS333 said: I was talking to the OP, not you. Thought that would be clear.
You replied to me, what was I supposed to think?
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