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 ApostleofAzathoth
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You should be controlling for age. I'm at 8 but I'm only like 12 years old, so at this rate I should hit 100 before I'm as old as some of you fuckers.
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reported for underage Quote:
ApostleofAzathoth said:
but I'm only like 12 years old, so at this rate I should hit 100 before I'm as old as some of you fuckers.
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ApostleofAzathoth
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It's a figure of speech lol. I'm 19.
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 Re: How many sexual partners have you had?  [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#24990450 - 02/13/18 01:27 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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I’ve had at least 20 sexual partners in the last six months. It helps to be gay and young and attractive. I’d say about 50% was amazing and the rest adequate.
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#24990479 - 02/13/18 01:57 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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When i was younger i hardly ever got laid. Once I turned about 28 and had a steady job and hobbies and a decent social life it seemed like I was hooking up with about 5 or 6 people a year. Usually regular girlfriends that would last a month or two but also the occaisional one night or one weekend stand. Dunno what changed.
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#24990495 - 02/13/18 02:23 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #2 said:
I’ve had at least 20 sexual partners in the last six months. It helps to be gay and young and attractive. I’d say about 50% was amazing and the rest adequate.
Being gay and old and ugly is awful. Sometimes I think I should have just fucked whatever I wanted and died of aids instead of loneliness
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 Violet Wizard
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#24990763 - 02/13/18 07:43 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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What is interesting is the level of difference there is between people. Personally since I dont really value connection much I dont really value sex that much. I find women attractive but that doesnt mean I want to put in the effort to having sex with them, I almost dont see the point in the effort.
So when I see people brag about the hours or days/nights they must have spent trying to have it seems like a waste of time. Its hard to put into words like I've never set out with the intent of getting laid because it doesnt seem like a variable i can control so i set out to have fun, have fun but dont have meaningful interactions, and then repeat.
I almost wish I cared about being alone because i wonder if someday ill be upset I couldnt create close bonds with people. But its weird because since it doesnt bother me i cant imagine a future where it does. I assume a lot of it to be validation of being desired or something. All of this and i do have a high opinion of myself I just dont really care, like not much at all.
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Violet Wizard] 1
#24990769 - 02/13/18 07:51 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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Violet Wizard said:
I almost wish I cared about being alone because i wonder if someday ill be upset I couldnt create close bonds with people.
I have heard it said many times over that people at the end of their lives rarely regret the things they did. It's the things they didn't that seem to haunt and hurt the most.
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#24990783 - 02/13/18 08:01 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah I've tried I just get wrapped up in my own ambition and goals that I go "fuck everyone all they do is slow me down" which is true. For the most part I see people rely on others for validation, escape, basic survival, but I can do that all on my own. I like it so much I'll come up with reasons not to go out with my roommate on the weekends just to have the apartment to myself for a night and be alone. I do force myself to go out and be social because i have no social anxiety and am quite a good conversationalist. I just like being alone, which is cool because i trip alone, plan to go on vacation alone, dont get upset about low interaction... i find it easier to rely on just me for everything.
Not trying to hijack the thread but why do some of you people that value sex actually care? That is what I am curious to as I havent been laid in over 2 years but I dont care, hell i havent even tried. Sometimes i just feel so different in this regard... like i have to pretend to care around guys or ill lack an entire similar interest and i already hate sports lol
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Violet Wizard]
#24990792 - 02/13/18 08:08 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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Violet Wizard said:
Not trying to hijack the thread but why do some of you people that value sex actually care?
Main reason is a biological drive to want to have sex I think. Evolution has selected in favor of brains wired this way (mostly).
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: psi]
#24990797 - 02/13/18 08:14 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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I believe that answer is too easy, thats like saying people are social animals so they need to be social, some dont. Sex is not food you dont need it to survive so the answer is slightly more complicated then that when you deal with humans.
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Violet Wizard]
#24990807 - 02/13/18 08:19 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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Violet Wizard said:
Not trying to hijack the thread but why do some of you people that value sex actually care?
Not only does it feel really, really, really good, and bring about a closeness which is almost impossible to reach without having intimate carnal knowledge of another, but, done well, it opens up a gateway to a union with god/the universe.
To be fair though, from my thousands upon thousands of conversations on the subject with others, it seems that most people are extremely sexually inept. It's hardly surprising, for who ever teaches us how to do sex properly? And in place of proper teaching, we instead have.. porn. Society has demeaned, degraded, and disrespected the act in almost every way possible, IMO
Huxley, writing in 'Island', described it as 'the yoga of love'. That's what it is to me. An art of connection.
Regardless of any of the above, it's also really good for your health, in every way possible.
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Violet Wizard said:
For the most part I see people rely on others for validation, escape, basic survival
It saddens me to hear that. You're clearly as much of an introvert as I am an extrovert, but the fact that you see mainly this is a tragedy. Perhaps this is a way you excuse yourself from pursuing meaningful relationships?
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#24990829 - 02/13/18 08:40 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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I did study psychology and am pretty good at figuring people out including me. Without getting to lengthy I can tell that I am an introvert (not socially inept just based on energy through interaction) who is achievement motivated (i get validation through the achievement not praise from others) with an interal locus of control (i feel i mold the universe around me not the other way around) I could get more into my trust issues and whatever but im trying to be brief.
Whatever I've wanted in life, jobs, drugs, skills, i have gotten myself. The biggest thing I can do is validate my own existence through achieving goals and proving I can change my fate and impact others in a meaningful way.
Part of being me is understanding there is no permanence, everything comes to and end. So I made sushi and got 4 of my coworkers to try it for the first time, i try to make a meaningful impact on people that know me as it is the one thing i know i can do... change the way people feel about something. It makes me someone they wont forget and in that way i exist on a different plane as well as here.
I have plenty of meaningful interactions and have had countless people thank me for changing their views on life... i just dont care about interpersonal relationships as much as i do making a real impact on people.
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Violet Wizard] 1
#24990907 - 02/13/18 09:40 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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Violet Wizard said:
Not trying to hijack the thread
Good. Then let's get it back on track.
As to your question: because sex feels good. And it doesn't come at the cost of all the other things one can enjoy in life, including the things you mentioned. It's not either/or, but and/and.
So how many and why? I'm curious. The anon function may help in getting somewhat honest responses to this poll.
Edited by koraks (02/13/18 09:44 AM)
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: koraks]
#24990932 - 02/13/18 09:54 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've already stated I've had 3 and two were long term relationships. The why I really cant answer as the relationships kind of developed on their own and that was just what happens. The third one was a one night stand when I was a sophomore in college, bought an underage freshmen alcohol and it was largely her idea, i was in it for the money.
Basically the two relationships were of natural course, a decent amount of repeat interactions and sharing lead to us getting closer. The third required no effort on my part and i made money through the whole thing.
That is the extent of my sex life lol
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Violet Wizard]
#24991011 - 02/13/18 10:33 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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Thanks. The how many/why question was not specifically aimed at you btw. I know you had already chimed in.
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: koraks]
#24991032 - 02/13/18 10:41 AM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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^no worries not at all ashamed about it, I just wanted to assist in getting this train back on the tracks!
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: Violet Wizard] 1
#24991738 - 02/13/18 04:07 PM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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Violet Wizard said:
Yeah I've tried I just get wrapped up in my own ambition and goals that I go "fuck everyone all they do is slow me down" which is true. For the most part I see people rely on others for validation, escape, basic survival, but I can do that all on my own. I like it so much I'll come up with reasons not to go out with my roommate on the weekends just to have the apartment to myself for a night and be alone. I do force myself to go out and be social because i have no social anxiety and am quite a good conversationalist. I just like being alone, which is cool because i trip alone, plan to go on vacation alone, dont get upset about low interaction... i find it easier to rely on just me for everything.
Not trying to hijack the thread but why do some of you people that value sex actually care? That is what I am curious to as I havent been laid in over 2 years but I dont care, hell i havent even tried. Sometimes i just feel so different in this regard... like i have to pretend to care around guys or ill lack an entire similar interest and i already hate sports lol
Cause it feels really good. I don't really know how else to explain it, it just feels amazing. If the sex is good enough, I feel like I'm on drugs. I get a similar rush (not even talking about the orgasm here) and wave of euphoria.
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elasticaltiger
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: triphead9428] 2
#24991749 - 02/13/18 04:13 PM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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I love falling in love. I love the rush of being with someone new, that raw attraction taking over. The feel of their skin against mine. There's nothing like it for me. You get to become this whole other person in the bedroom. Sharing that moment of human connection is almost indescribable to me.
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Re: How many sexual partners have you had? [Re: koraks]
#24991759 - 02/13/18 04:19 PM (6 years, 2 months ago) |
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koraks said:
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Violet Wizard said:
Not trying to hijack the thread
Good. Then let's get it back on track.
As to your question: because sex feels good. And it doesn't come at the cost of all the other things one can enjoy in life, including the things you mentioned. It's not either/or, but and/and.
Not true, nothing in life has costed me as much money as sex has.
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