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shaggy101
Registered: 08/16/00
Posts: 1,816
Loc: ..still waiting for godot
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DIVORCE
#2479075 - 03/27/04 07:56 PM (20 years, 25 days ago) |
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dont get tough... thats all I can keep thinking. my sisterrs is getting a divorce from her husband of two years. its way complicated, but when her and he met I he sucker punched my friend in a bar brawl. I got tuff with him and let him understand not to mess with the family. we are not people you mess with. He asked if I was threatening him. I told him I was informing him.
two years later we have been ok with eachother, but know he is scaring my sister, he is a ex-con 6 ft something..
She just called and I am going over there to stay. My deepest thoughts are that something bad might happen...
I will have my blade, and I am very capable..but this still really sucks.
We will see a lawyer monday..I dont know what else to do
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MOTH
Wild Woman
Registered: 06/06/03
Posts: 23,431
Loc: In the jungle
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I think its wonderful that you want to protect your sister. But please don't do anything that might land you in serious trouble. You'll need to be around for your sister while she goes through this difficult divorce process, not potentially in jail or..dead.
Talk to the lawyer and try to keep it cool when you're around this guy. I think the biggest priority will be to make sure that SHE'S secure and out of danger, so keep her safe and protect her if you need to.
I'll be thinking of you, man...tough situation.
*me*
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shaggy101
Registered: 08/16/00
Posts: 1,816
Loc: ..still waiting for godot
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Re: DIVORCE [Re: MOTH]
#2483140 - 03/30/04 09:06 AM (20 years, 23 days ago) |
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Thanks shade, I just got back but I will be staying there alot for the next month.
She is actually afraid though and has filed a restraining order, im staying out of it for the most part.
He shouldnt be a promblem though, with his record and all, he knows he cant fuck up..
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enotake2
Stop Bush's war
Registered: 01/30/03
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Good on ya for looking after your sister. The most dangerous time for a woman who has been in a violent relationship is after she leaves the guy - most spousal murders happen at this time. She can probably really use your support now too. You rule!
-------------------- Computer games don't affect kids. I mean if Pacman affected our generation as kids, we'd all be running around in a darkened room, munching pills and listening to repetitive electronic music. "Being bitter and hateful is like drinking a vial of poison and hoping the other person gets sick" FreakQLibrium "My motto from here on out is: If someone or something (including me) in my life is conducting themselves in such a way that they can be seen on Jerry Springer, it's time to take out the garbage!!! When you stop taking their behaviour personally and see their antics as a true reflection on their character, it becomes absolutely nauseating." Anon. on abusive relationships.
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shaggy101
Registered: 08/16/00
Posts: 1,816
Loc: ..still waiting for godot
Last seen: 11 years, 30 days
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AAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just had to get that out..I wish there was a hulk icon cus I feel like smashing things.
It looks like shes getting the two girls ..but shithead is getting the boy .. I dont even wanna think about it its so sad I was teaching him how to play guitar to..and hes only 5..and he was doing good..he needs a good male figure in his life ..and his dad is worthless
some times I swear my whole life is just a big waiting game waiting for me to commit murder
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