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InvisibleMOTH
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Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it.
    #2453567 - 03/20/04 05:41 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I'm not going to be online much this weekend because I have to go see my inlaws. 


I'm TERRIFIED.  I feel like I'm on the verge of a panic attack.  Kevin's mother is a coldhearted bitch who hates me.  The stories I could tell of everything she's done to try and ruin Kevin's relationship with me...its awful. 

I'm feeling extremely stressed right now.  I know I have to just grit my teeth and tough the visit out, but I'm so scared. She's just so mean to me, and because I'm married to her son, she is mean to Kevin too.  She's such a witch.  Everytime I think of her I feel myself begin to freak out because she's tried so many times to ruin our lives.  She's hellish.  No joke. 

argh...wish me luck this weekend.    :crazy: :frown:


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2453591 - 03/20/04 05:59 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

that sucks
be sure to have alchohol around :grin:


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2453625 - 03/20/04 07:19 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I dunno...that seems like a situation I'd try to avoid. But that's just me... :laugh:


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: Le_Canard]
    #2453631 - 03/20/04 07:30 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

I might just try to get out of visiting his mom. But at the same time, I don't want to look weak if I don't go. Its sort of important that my husband and I present a united front to this woman. Why the hell should I be so scared of her? We're married, there's nothing she can do now.

Its just the entire situation is making me feel very anxious and uncomfortable.


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2453636 - 03/20/04 07:36 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Well, I'm sure your husband understands! I wouldn't see it as being weak, just a question of 'do I need this crap in my life'?
But I hope things work out for ya! :laugh:


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2453680 - 03/20/04 09:01 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

good luck!

I sometimes wonder why some people are just such a pain in the ass :confused:
Just don't believe or go with the mean things she sais to or about you, it isn't woth it. you can do it :thumbup:


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2453683 - 03/20/04 09:04 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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EllemyshShade said:
Why the hell should I be so scared of her?




Tell her to stay the fuck out of your relationship... aparently she still believes Kevin is her baby and is incapable of making his own desicions, you need to stop it before it get too far...

" I hate to be rude but, who the fuck are you to interfere in your sons life like this "... if he doesnt back you up or he feels you are wrong in your perception expect a short marriage to this mommas boy.


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2453709 - 03/20/04 09:50 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

And that's life!

Sometimes we must do things we hate for the ones we love, just think of it that way.

Good Luck M!!!!


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2453958 - 03/20/04 12:31 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

just be like "listen bitch kevin is my man now and there aint shit you can do about it so piss off!"


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2453973 - 03/20/04 12:35 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Hate to get too personal, but have you seen her since you straightened your own life out? (I read about it in support group.) Maybe if you prove to her that you've changed, she will act differently toward you.

Believe in yourself, she has no power over you. Good luck!


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MarioNett]
    #2453984 - 03/20/04 12:39 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Just rough it out, it'll be ok when its over..
And personal experience from in-laws who hated me, the only way to make the relationship better with them is to talk. Go out to lunch or something, portay a good image of yourself to them  :lol: :thumbup:


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2459246 - 03/22/04 02:17 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Hey guys, back again. 

The trip was really stressful, but not as bad as I expected.  I was surprised that his mom was actually civil.  And yes, usually when she is snarky to us, Kevin protects me.  :wink:  But luckily, nothing like that happened this time.  Maybe its sinking in that I'm not going anywhere.  :smile:

Thanks for the support guys


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2459332 - 03/22/04 03:24 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

EllemyshShade said:
I'm not going to be online much this weekend because I have to go see my inlaws. 


I'm TERRIFIED.  I feel like I'm on the verge of a panic attack.  Kevin's mother is a coldhearted bitch who hates me.  The stories I could tell of everything she's done to try and ruin Kevin's relationship with me...its awful. 

I'm feeling extremely stressed right now.  I know I have to just grit my teeth and tough the visit out, but I'm so scared. She's just so mean to me, and because I'm married to her son, she is mean to Kevin too.  She's such a witch.  Everytime I think of her I feel myself begin to freak out because she's tried so many times to ruin our lives.  She's hellish.  No joke. 

argh...wish me luck this weekend.    :crazy: :frown:


*me*




Sounds to me like Kevin needs to be a man and put his mom in check. If you two are now married, and she treats you like shit he needs to stand up for his wife. I've seen this before and it makes me sick. Just my 02 cents.

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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2459412 - 03/22/04 04:18 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Just have a couple brews, relax. Everythign will go fine.


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: THEBOSS]
    #2459845 - 03/22/04 12:21 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

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THEBOSS said:
Quote:

EllemyshShade said:
I'm not going to be online much this weekend because I have to go see my inlaws. 


I'm TERRIFIED.  I feel like I'm on the verge of a panic attack.  Kevin's mother is a coldhearted bitch who hates me.  The stories I could tell of everything she's done to try and ruin Kevin's relationship with me...its awful. 

I'm feeling extremely stressed right now.  I know I have to just grit my teeth and tough the visit out, but I'm so scared. She's just so mean to me, and because I'm married to her son, she is mean to Kevin too.  She's such a witch.  Everytime I think of her I feel myself begin to freak out because she's tried so many times to ruin our lives.  She's hellish.  No joke. 

argh...wish me luck this weekend.    :crazy: :frown:


*me*




Sounds to me like Kevin needs to be a man and put his mom in check. If you two are now married, and she treats you like shit he needs to stand up for his wife. I've seen this before and it makes me sick. Just my 02 cents.

THE BOSS




When we were first together, he had a problem standing up to her, but that was about three years ago.  Now he has no issue telling her off.  :laugh:  But I just get upset with the entire situation, you know?


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2460017 - 03/22/04 01:45 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

EllemyshShade said:
Quote:

THEBOSS said:
Quote:

EllemyshShade said:
I'm not going to be online much this weekend because I have to go see my inlaws. 


I'm TERRIFIED.  I feel like I'm on the verge of a panic attack.  Kevin's mother is a coldhearted bitch who hates me.  The stories I could tell of everything she's done to try and ruin Kevin's relationship with me...its awful. 

I'm feeling extremely stressed right now.  I know I have to just grit my teeth and tough the visit out, but I'm so scared. She's just so mean to me, and because I'm married to her son, she is mean to Kevin too.  She's such a witch.  Everytime I think of her I feel myself begin to freak out because she's tried so many times to ruin our lives.  She's hellish.  No joke. 

argh...wish me luck this weekend.    :crazy: :frown:


*me*




Sounds to me like Kevin needs to be a man and put his mom in check. If you two are now married, and she treats you like shit he needs to stand up for his wife. I've seen this before and it makes me sick. Just my 02 cents.

THE BOSS




When we were first together, he had a problem standing up to her, but that was about three years ago.  Now he has no issue telling her off.  :laugh:  But I just get upset with the entire situation, you know?




I know what you mean, thats good he stands up for you now. Good luck with everything, i wouldn't worry to much about a woman that has so little impact on your life, you'll only have to put up with it for a short while and if she gets out of hand speak your mind.


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Re: Visiting the inlaws this weekend...scared about it. [Re: MOTH]
    #2462723 - 03/23/04 03:56 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

That's sad. hope it works out for you guys. i don't have a fiance but i know someone who's relationship was pretty much destroyed due to similar circumstances.

edit: whoops my bad i didn't realize you two were married. sorry about that


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