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having kids and still doing drugs * 3
    #24414936 - 06/18/17 01:54 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

it's fucking bullshit

friends say he is (or was) a great guy

what does the kid think? my parent was drunk or stoned when they should have been raising me

my parent spent money on drugs and alcohol instead of on me

my parent wasn't there because he or she was in jail

my parent didn't raise me because he or she died

my parent loved being drunk or stoned more than he or she loved me



There's nothing romantic, interesting, fun, cool, or exciting about wasting your time, money, energy, and life... and it's really fucking selfish if you have a kid



IF YOU RESPOND TO THIS THREAD DON'T MENTION NAMES OR USERNAMES

I'm saying this in general because I feel like it needs to be said


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: TheFakeSunRa] * 4
    #24414944 - 06/18/17 01:58 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

My dad was an alcoholic for a good portion of my youth and I wouldn't agree with any of those sentiments. Not everyone is incapable of balancing those two parts of their lives.


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
    #24414948 - 06/18/17 01:59 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I was gonna say something about how much this shit pisses me off in another thread but Its an rip thread

But still, what the fuck? Its one thing to drink when you have kids, that shits legal, but shootin dope? C'mon mann

I mean what's the defense for someone like that?

I'm sure they're great people when they're not strung out...but for a child's sake when th fuck is that with a junky?

I've met people like this before working, but I'll tell you that shit pisses me right off

What's the baby to do when you can't provide or wen yer dead?


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: TheFakeSunRa] * 1
    #24414959 - 06/18/17 02:02 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I mostly agree.
When you are watching your kids you must be sober.
If you have arranged a situation where some one else will watch your kids for a day then you can relax and get high that day.  I have no problem with that.  Just do it in moderation.  Kids come first.  Then your once-in-a-while getting-high time.

Doing illegal activities while having kids is immature and irresponsible, I agree with you there.  Being in jail is one of the worst things you can do while you have kids. 

If some one does illegal things while having kids then they need to grow the fuck up.
If you weren't ready then stop using drugs and doing illegal things when you have a kid then you should not have sex! 

I feel like I'm one of the only people I know that basically never has sex because I don't want to risk having a kid AT ALL (at least at this point in my life).  The temporary pleasure of sex isn't worth the risk of having a kid to me, unless its giving anal.


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: TheFakeSunRa] * 2
    #24414965 - 06/18/17 02:04 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Yeah I don't see this thread lasting long.


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: TheFakeSunRa] * 4
    #24414970 - 06/18/17 02:08 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

TheFakeSunRa said:
There's nothing romantic, interesting, fun, cool, or exciting about wasting your time, money, energy, and life...







Quote:

what's right with one is wrong with another





it's not your position to place your expectations on another's life[style]


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: stzacrack] * 6
    #24414974 - 06/18/17 02:10 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

stzacrack said:
But still, what the fuck? Its one thing to drink when you have kids, that shits legal, but shootin dope? C'mon mann







don't be ignorant.  dope, alcohol, prostitutes, gambling, fishing, being so involved with one's career that they ignore their responsibilities......


it's all the same, when it comes to one ignoring their responsibilities


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: stzacrack] * 4
    #24414977 - 06/18/17 02:12 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Ive seen alcohol make regular adults turn into assholes who screem at their children and literally mock them and shit.

  Alcohol is NO safer than any hard drug in my opinion.  It shouldn't be considered the safe alternative for parents.

I have seen so many people piss in closets and on their own floors under the influence of JUST alcohol.

I have vometed all over myself and blacked out solely sue to alcohol.  Id say its one of the more dangerous drugs around.


a different side in some alcoholics can be seen, while drinking, like Jekyll and Hyde. Its never a nice person IME.


Its fucking annoying.
Lol can you tell i have a personal beef with it?


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: larry.fisherman] * 1
    #24414981 - 06/18/17 02:13 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Yeah there's so many different variables in a case to case situation.  Some people can use responsibly and the kids still have a great childhood with loving parents.  Of course their are cases where parents put drugs over their kids and that's just not too for anybody.  I'd never suggest shooting up,  getting coked out, or even tripping around children.  That usually just leads to bad news.  But I have no problem with parents having a drink or taking a few tokes in their free time as long as it doesn't intervene with the children.  Such as relaxing and doing something light after the kids go to bed.  As long as you don't get stoned as hell at 2 then have to pick the kids up at 3 that's not so good. 

A couple times I would have a few beers after the kids would go to bed,  it wasn't until I got a little hangover the next day and couldn't give them my 100 percent attention is when I stopped drinking all together.  And it was like I completely neglected them I just let them watch more tv then usual while I sat with them and recovered.  Something some parents do everyday,  but I like to take my kids on morning walks to the park or like the other day me and my 2 year old went on a big hike in the woods.  He loved that.  Wouldn't have been able to do that with a big ol thumping hangover.  That's why I quit drinking,  I love seeing my kids happy.  It is a 1000 time better feeling then any buzz I can get.  Just gotta get your priorities in order first and foremost.


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: demiu5]
    #24414984 - 06/18/17 02:14 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

The rock and roll or rapper fantasy of ses drugs and reputation fail for 99% of people.

Being young and dumb wanting it all.  The sex the drugs and the money.

Lot's of guys have records and still use drugs and lucky to have fomnowhere jobs.  Lot's have dhild support and are stupid role models for,kids that are exactly like them and their stupid grandpa junkie.

I don't have kids only because I likely can't from agent orange.

My dad was a drunk and cause he was an Army vet and a roughneck.  He cheated and drank and lost three wifes.  Not much of a Dad and he knew that.

He died at 56.


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: stzacrack] * 7
    #24414985 - 06/18/17 02:15 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

@TheFakeSunRa

Are you fucking serious? So just because someone has kids, that means that from that moment on, their fun ends.  No more drugs, no more anything?

I'm sorry, but children do not dictate adults lives. Just because you have kids doesn't mean you cant smoke a joint after they go to bed, or have a drink after work or trip on shrooms 5 times a year etc etc.

As long as you provide for your children,  care for them and spend time with them, you, as an adult can freely do what you want to do.

Now if you are shooting up heroin and neglecting your children thats a different story. But there's nothing wrong with responsible drug use

You sound like the fucking government. NO


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: demiu5]
    #24414988 - 06/18/17 02:17 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Sure, ANYTHING you do to sacrifice your ability to properly rear your children fuckin sucks

But specifically, drug use, any drug, sucks wen you have a kid


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: Ant89] * 1
    #24415008 - 06/18/17 02:24 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Yea I don't see it so black and white. 


There are so many variables. 


If you could use drugs responsibly before having kids, good chance you can still do it when you do. 

But their are boundaries for sure.


I'm too nomadic and irresponsible to have kids right now and I know that.    I'm still going to have sex though lol.


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
    #24415021 - 06/18/17 02:31 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

its not about doing drugs its about taking care of your kids

if drugs/alcohol gets in the way thats totally fucked but some people can still be responsible and use drugs/alcohol to some degree


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: Connoisseur]
    #24415061 - 06/18/17 02:53 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Connoisseur said:
its not about doing drugs its about taking care of your kids

if drugs/alcohol gets in the way thats totally fucked but some people can still be responsible and use drugs/alcohol to some degree



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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: Ant89] * 2
    #24415071 - 06/18/17 02:57 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Ant89 said:
@TheFakeSunRa

Are you fucking serious? So just because someone has kids, that means that from that moment on, their fun ends.  No more drugs, no more anything?

I'm sorry, but children do not dictate adults lives. Just because you have kids doesn't mean you cant smoke a joint after they go to bed, or have a drink after work or trip on shrooms 5 times a year etc etc.

As long as you provide for your children,  care for them and spend time with them, you, as an adult can freely do what you want to do.

Now if you are shooting up heroin and neglecting your children thats a different story. But there's nothing wrong with responsible drug use

You sound like the fucking government. NO




I really hope you never have children fuck people who do drugs and have kids


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: TheFakeSunRa] * 1
    #24415073 - 06/18/17 02:57 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

What would u say/do to those peeps op?..

Would u lock em up in prison?..

Would u take them away from their children?..


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: zZZz] * 2
    #24415108 - 06/18/17 03:17 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

This is one of the big reasons I got a vasectomy. I love experimenting with drugs and imo having a child doesn't belong in that equation.


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: lets drive around]
    #24415110 - 06/18/17 03:18 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

lets drive around said:
This is one of the big reasons I got a vasectomy. I love experimenting with drugs and imo having a child doesn't belong in that equation.



Thank you for being responsible.


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Re: having kids and still doing drugs [Re: Cyrus19]
    #24415126 - 06/18/17 03:25 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I agree.
Sometimes people believe that they can shed the excess drugs/partying when a kid arrives only to find out they cannot.

Sometimes people are not able to properly parent, which further leads them down the path of drugs and alcohol.

Others can use some degree of substance and be a great parent, but habitual use is almost always bad.

:shrug:

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