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Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault?
#24037920 - 01/25/17 07:22 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Just last week I found out my mothers new husband, who I thought was the best thing to happen to her since her violent abusive boyfriend I was brought up with, was raping my 13 year old sister.
This has been going on for years, and its eating away at me, I already see a psych for my ptsd brought on from watching my mum get beaten till bloody and left screaming for help from the age of 6 - 14. And thought my family was finally over this bullshit, but im 24 now, and just trying to be supportive for my sister, and its just too real.
Some of the shit this monster has done to her, told her, and just done to fuck with her mental state is ridiculous, and to know it has been ongoing for years, and even while I was living with her and my mum a few years back just makes me feel so low, I was always there for the abusive boyfriend. Always able to take them to safety, away from the screaming the blood and the tears.
But to know this went on under my nose.... I just don't know what to think anymore, and am just clutching for straws.... if anyone has gone through something similar, or has family who has id love to hear how you coped yourself, and were able to help, because until I see my psych next fortnight. I just see alot of alcohol and pot abuse headin my way to clear this murky water running through my mind
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24037921 - 01/25/17 07:25 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Unfortunately I can't really help much, as I don't have experience in the matter... but I'm really sorry to hear about what has gone on in your life. I hope that your mother's boyfriend is prosecuted and put in jail, but jail is way too short for rapists and pedophiles IMO, when the victim has to suffer for life.
I did however want to point out you might get better responses (or more responses) in the physical and mental well-being forum, here https://www.shroomery.org/forums/postlist.php/Board/42
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24037931 - 01/25/17 07:31 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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All I can tell you is that if you can avoid alcohol it will save you from a lot of destructive behavior to yourself and those around you. Smoke weed as much as you want. It's the alcohol you must avoid.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: sh4d0ws]
#24037932 - 01/25/17 07:32 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Very true didn't even think of that.
Yes he is in gaol as we spell it in aus jail over there, but wont have the matter heard in court till next year, the town my mothers living in has a population of 2000 so im helping her move its too small, and his family is here words already spread and almost everyone knows.
My sister is so embarrassed and ashamed, and has chlamydia because of him. But police said he can't even begin to think of going to the boneyard until court, so he is in with general population till court at least, I just feel so bad for her, he was a massive person, im 6'2 and still shorter than him, he was easy 130 kilos too which is around 280 pounds ish from rough math....
I dunno if a mod could move the thread if felt appropriate would be much appreciated,thanks for the response, ive already spilled my heart out to my close friends but I dunno, I think I wanted another media as to which I could vent through....
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: Starstepper]
#24037936 - 01/25/17 07:34 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Im not a big drinker, I usualy have two maybe three beers tops, just to start to feel it, then leave it there, but your probably very right in that respect, thanks.
Probably best to not drink, especially while im here helping everyone move out
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24037938 - 01/25/17 07:36 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Wow horrible story, why don't you beat the shit out of that guy and who raped your sister?
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24037942 - 01/25/17 07:37 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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This community has a lot of caring members, likely some that can provide you with healthy, helpful advice.
I'm going to say though that the alcohol advice is really good. I used alcohol to get through some traumatic events in my life and it's probably the worst decision I've made. I still struggle with it despite my life improving vastly. Best to avoid it.
edit @ trees...he's in jail
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24037954 - 01/25/17 07:49 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Not being much of a drinker is great man you are already ahead of the game. Sticking to beer is a good rule to live by if you are going to drink. Just remember that you and the girls in you family didn't deserve to go through all that. That's not the way it's supposed to be to be a son, brother, wife, mother, daughter or sister. Going forward the bad stuff is over and you can use it as a measurement tool of how good the good stuff is.
I know it's cliche but I always liked this Nietzsche quote "To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering."
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: sh4d0ws]
#24037958 - 01/25/17 07:53 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Yeah hes in jail, and the first guy (the violent one) is my sister real father, but h killed himself because she didnt want snything to do with him on fathers day, I guess the guilt caught upto him.
I dreamt of revenge for years, but knowing that he was his own demise is quite relieving. And honestly I doubt revenge would get me anywhere close to the closure I had knowing he hung himself.
Its been a rough run for my family, my mums nose is still bent outta whack from this dude, so everyday is a constant reminder of the shit she went through and put us through, growing older granted me bith empathy and sympathy for her. And a better understanding of how little control she had, and how hard it really was to "just leave"
This other guy her husband, make me look like a french fry, and not to big note myself but im not really small, yes a thin build but I can lift more than I weigh and am quite fit, bust hes an ex bikie in one of Australia's biggest gangs, yet treated pur family (so we thought so well). Apart from my sister.
Whats doing my head in the most is how well she's coping, and that she wont open hp to me, I've done all I can though, said im here if she ever needs to talk, bought her a new phone and credit so I know she czn if she needs too. But I dont want to pry, I want her to feel comfortable.... but shes just such a little soldier, we are all falling apart around her, while shes still the little selfie queen and living like it never happened, if not better than when he was around....
But we all think its just relief showing fave, relief he's gone, relief its over, and relief for a new beginning
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24037962 - 01/25/17 07:55 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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@starstepper for sure, thats a very truthful quote..
And yeah everyone ive opened upto about the past prior to this most recent incident is surprised of my happy go lucky demeanor. Sometimes I feel like its a front to avoid the what's wrong question, but most of the time it feels pretty genuine
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: Starstepper]
#24037965 - 01/25/17 07:57 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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My ex I was with was raped by her grandfather when she was 5-8 but she was to afraid to say anything until she was 15. By then there was no evidence and the police didn't/cant do a damn thing really. She went to therapist and all that but some days were bad and some were great. I really just tried to be there for her which sounds like you are for your sister. That's what she needs right now is a strong support group.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: WyoMX]
#24037967 - 01/25/17 08:00 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Yeah the police took all her bedsheets, and clothes for forensic testing.
The most recent incident for her being less than a month ago unfortunately, we are all just doing what we can but just feel alot like a headless chicken so far
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24037969 - 01/25/17 08:00 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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So sorry, that is a terrible thing to endure, alcoholism is terrible, having grown up amidst rampant in home violence and alcoholism myself, all I can say is be there for your sister in her time of need, and send commissary money to the 5 baddest ass raping psycho's in the prison and ask that they be really nice to the shitbag whom raped and abused your sister.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: MeyerLanski]
#24037978 - 01/25/17 08:08 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Thats a thought, so far he's denying everyone, but being the viking looking rock spider he is, I dare say he isnt already balls deep in a cock meat sandwhich.
It sucks that this is going to cause my fsmily to move further away, albeit temporarily but for how long is uncertain. I feel as though pursuing negative actions wont help reinforce a positive outcome.....
My sister has the heart of an Angel and we're all contemplating putting all his belongings in his truck he blew all my mums money on and burning it, she told us not to burn his suitcase of his dead fathers belongings, because that would be " a dog act " to quote her, haha.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24037979 - 01/25/17 08:08 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Sorry to double post but just want to thank everyone whos responded it means alot
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24038029 - 01/25/17 08:37 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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I am so sorry for what you and your family have gone through.
I can't really relate, at least I hope I can't... And I wouldn't want to get into how I could vaguely relate.
I just hope your sister gets the professional help and support she needs, especially through trial, and that bastard spends the rest of his life in prison. He probably won't, but I hope he comes damn close to it.
As for moving the thread, that's your call. You will get more responses in the pub. But you may get more thoughtful responses in the wellbeing forum.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24038044 - 01/25/17 08:44 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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OP, did your mother ever know this was happening to your sister? If so, what did she do?
How did this man get caught, who reported him?
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: qman]
#24038174 - 01/25/17 09:42 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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that's pretty fucked up if he threatened her that's even more of a reason to kick the shit out of him
I'm not a sadistic person but something like that might make me kill someone one day.
Your sister would probably get over it before he got over you kicking his shit in though.
I don't want you to fuck up your life and job prospects for one person though so I really can't advise anything
Edited by Konyap (01/25/17 09:43 AM)
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24038181 - 01/25/17 09:46 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Quote:
PoopyGonzales said: Just last week I found out my mothers new husband, who I thought was the best thing to happen to her since her violent abusive boyfriend I was brought up with, was raping my 13 year old sister.
This has been going on for years, and its eating away at me, I already see a psych for my ptsd brought on from watching my mum get beaten till bloody and left screaming for help from the age of 6 - 14. And thought my family was finally over this bullshit, but im 24 now, and just trying to be supportive for my sister, and its just too real.
Some of the shit this monster has done to her, told her, and just done to fuck with her mental state is ridiculous, and to know it has been ongoing for years, and even while I was living with her and my mum a few years back just makes me feel so low, I was always there for the abusive boyfriend. Always able to take them to safety, away from the screaming the blood and the tears.
But to know this went on under my nose.... I just don't know what to think anymore, and am just clutching for straws.... if anyone has gone through something similar, or has family who has id love to hear how you coped yourself, and were able to help, because until I see my psych next fortnight. I just see alot of alcohol and pot abuse headin my way to clear this murky water running through my mind
Dude you have an unbelievable blackmail and ass kicking potential here. You can make this guy your bitch and bleeding every single dollar from his bank acount and then beat him to an inch of death and he can't do shit because otherwise he will be killed in prison.
I'm very sorry for what is hapening with your family, but this shit has got to stop and you have to make him pay for this shit.
This might sound like the most insensitive response (which it is), but you can exact revenge here and make sure your 13 yea old sister gets a free college education. You're dealing with a coward here. Own him.
Or you know. Do the right thing and go to the cops and get 0 retribution...
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: Patlal]
#24038190 - 01/25/17 09:48 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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if someone did that to my family they'd have to be worried about being poisened for the next five years always assume they have alarm systems and camera's always assume you'll leave biological evidence behind etc.
Edited by Konyap (01/25/17 09:49 AM)
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: Patlal]
#24038196 - 01/25/17 09:51 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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He's in jail. How do you guys think OP found out? you think he wouldn't have already done something if he wasn't?
I'm imagining his mother found out. Either on her own or because his sister told her.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24038210 - 01/25/17 09:55 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: He's in jail. How do you guys think OP found out? you think he wouldn't have already done something if he wasn't?
I'm imagining his mother found out. Either on her own or because his sister told her.
Fuck... Well, he'll get his punishment alright. It's just sad that his victim won't get anything except horrible memories...
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: Patlal]
#24038245 - 01/25/17 10:07 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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I'm so terribly sorry you and your family are enduring this. I have personal experience with sexual trauma though and can tell you that she will open up when she's ready, but it might never be to you. And you have to be okay with that, just let her open up to whoever she feels comfortable a therapist ot whoever or I mean it might be you in the end but point being....it can take years to open up about this type of stuff. As I'm sure you already know! But hang in there, as you see you have a lot of good people on your side and plenty of good energy going to you and your family. As for him....Karma will come around and fix him up real good.... Peace to you
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PickleJam]
#24038350 - 01/25/17 10:58 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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@PickleJam I love that DMT pile in your sig
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: Starstepper]
#24039279 - 01/25/17 05:00 PM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24039467 - 01/25/17 06:21 PM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Nothing like that OP sorry but I bet you got a big old pair of brass balls.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: Adden]
#24039582 - 01/25/17 07:07 PM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Yeah Ds came around and she said she never loses, and screws have let word slip, so he'll be having fun in jail at the moment
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24039651 - 01/25/17 07:42 PM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Im so sorry to hear this op, the best thing you can do is be as positive as possible and just be there for her whenever she needs you. Karma is real, you wait and see
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#24040146 - 01/25/17 11:56 PM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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@picklejam
Yeah she has opened up to mum, and then mums vented onto me, some of the shit ive heard is intense, he's been getting into her head and abusing her since she was 8.
After a good sleep and a bit of reflection, I kinda think she probably won't open up to me, because im not a female figure, andand shes so full of shame and embarrassment.....
Its good to see her laugh around me, and I've just been a general idiot/silly bugger around her to keep spirits lifted.
We both dragged one of the fold out lounges he raped her on outside and I showed her how to demolish it with a sledge hammer, and I could see a bit of relief from that.
Currently were just baggin up all his belongings and burning everything we cant sell and pawning the rest. Mum has no money to her name from him, theres over 3000 blu rays from his stupid movie collection he bought with her money and multiple power tools, so we are almost at a point where we can pay for a removalist and get her out of here in one go.
It sucks I have to take work off as im casual and losing money, but as I keep saying, another job is piss easy to get, another family near impossible.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? (moved) [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24040201 - 01/26/17 12:32 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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This thread was moved from The Pub.
Reason: Yo PG, I've been scanning your thread with interest and you mentioned someone moving it to the proper place, and I feel you'd get more in depth responses here in P&MWB so I've moved it.
Even moreso than that, looking at your location tag, it turns out that I've just settled down, (relatively) round the corner from you - I'm out in the sticks in New England. And I have a lot of experience in the subject that concerns you. If you'd like to talk it out more personally PM me.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? (moved) [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#24040212 - 01/26/17 12:41 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Thank you,
Yeah I said I didn't mind it being moved, I initially just wanted a response and medium to vent through.
Its amazing to see the support that can be received through this site, even when its not harm reduction or mushroom related
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? (moved) [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24040239 - 01/26/17 01:03 AM (7 years, 5 days ago) |
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Man this community means the world to me. It's saved my ass a good few times.
How're you handling all this right now?
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? (moved) [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#24040311 - 01/26/17 02:35 AM (7 years, 4 days ago) |
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Alot better, im actually chillin in a carpark with my sister, semi prying, well like just trying to tell her not to worry about the court shit and video evidence stuff, she has an intense day long session coming up on wednesday.
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? (moved) [Re: PoopyGonzales]
#24040391 - 01/26/17 04:23 AM (7 years, 4 days ago) |
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I'm really glad to hear that man. IMO, being there for her is about the best thing you can do right now. Fuck revenge and retribution, 'tis for the small minded. The damage is done, and IMO, the wise would only seek to repair that damage through any means, not to create more.
It's pretty likely both of you will have PTSD like symptoms based on what you've said. Do you feel like you're getting the support you need to support her? Do you trust the therapist you mentioned?
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Re: Has anyone ever had family/relative that were victoms of sexual assault? (moved) [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#24040496 - 01/26/17 06:51 AM (7 years, 4 days ago) |
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Yeah ive been seeing her on and off since mid last year, she is just at my local gp.
I dont know if she diagnosed me with ptsd or if I kinda self diagnosed, but nothing was said about it, till she gave me a med certificate saying I have ptsd from being around domestic abuse as a child, and have symptoms of anxiety in everyday life from it.
Yeah we had a good chat, and I feel like I got my point accross, and that if anything ever happens and shes scared to tell anyone in fear of disbelief ill always believe her.
She realy wants to get a career in forensics or as a coroner, and I just said if you can get through what you've already been through, and get through this you can get through any exam or degree in your way to becoming one. Haha
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