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I love looking at women, talking to women, feeling emotions with a woman... I just also like taking it up the butt every once in awhile.
Does that make me gay? Probably to some people. To me, I just couldn't imagine being in a relationship with one so I don't consider myself gay.
I just spent so much time around women as a young child I think it rubbed off on me a little too much
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I don't think most people are 100% totally straight or gay tho. Like I identify as a lesbian but I can still appreciate an attractive man, I know what an attractive man is, and I don't mind having physical sex with men. There's just zero connection and most of the time I don't like the way they see sex so I don't often enjoy the sex either. So I consider myself like 98% gay. 1% is for the ability to view men in an attractive light and another 1% for the extremely remote chance that there is a prince charming for me out there that I fall in love with.
I don't think OP is coming back, and this thread is long derailed, so if you don't mind me asking: what is it that you dislike about the way in which men see sex?
I'm not asking this as a loaded question, I'm genuinely curious! 
I'm not entirely sure. I think it's an individual thing. There is either too much focus on physical gratification or too much attempt on an emotional connection that just isn't there for me. I can be emotionally close to men but I see them as my good buddies or my brothers. I can't really associate them with a relationship partner.
I've been really close to guys when I was younger and had a hard time really separating the 2 different kinds of closeness. But really all I have to do is think about how I feel about women. A woman I want to hold and do dirty things to. A guy I want to make fun of and play games with. 
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Anonymous said: I love looking at women, talking to women, feeling emotions with a woman... I just also like taking it up the butt every once in awhile.
Does that make me gay? Probably to some people. To me, I just couldn't imagine being in a relationship with one so I don't consider myself gay.
I just spent so much time around women as a young child I think it rubbed off on me a little too much
I like too and I don't feel like that makes me straight. Physical pleasure is not base for sexual orientation imo.
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Thank you for your answer sexuality does indeed seem to be about individual preference and an internal process of association, whether that be innate to a person or learned from experience.
I think I've definitely had sex where I was focussing too much on physical gratification, but now that I've had some more experience I think I can probably find a balance of intimacy and pleasure
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Re: i swear im not gay [Re: D4M2T]
#24071990 - 02/07/17 09:42 AM (6 years, 11 months ago) |
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This is my advice for you OP :
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There's a lot of straight men who like penises and it turns them on. There's gay guys who get turned on by vaginas, according to this thread I found in my research: Gay but attracted to vagina. . I have a transgender female friend who says that she dated a guy who was straight but he liked penises. JUST penises, nothing else about a man.
Perhaps you are a straight guy who just happens to like guys' asses and just the ass??
It's also becoming VERY popular for men to come out as bicurious. Not bisexual, but bicurious. Just a little curious...lol!
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Sorry to bring up a dead thread, but I did end up having sex with that gay guy, and his ass was AMAZING. Keep doing those squats adrian!
Edited by D4M2T (04/06/17 12:23 AM)
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Re: i swear im not gay [Re: D4M2T] 2
#24221941 - 04/06/17 12:34 AM (6 years, 9 months ago) |
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Don't apologize. The people who should apologize are the ones who never come back and say what happened.
So how did you arrange the deed?
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Re: i swear im not gay [Re: koods]
#24222020 - 04/06/17 02:04 AM (6 years, 9 months ago) |
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as I recall, it was february 28th when we just got out of english class together and i complimented his ass shape to which he replied with a very feminime "thank you" in his thick mexican accent : )
I struck up a conversation about the gym (10 minutes later)and told him to keep doing squats because your ass is looking great! he smiled and then he gave it a little shake, and thats when I "sealed the deal", spanked it, told him i wanna fuck that sexy ass, and I fucked him in my car that night for a good hour , then i drove him to his mothers house and went home. It was every bit as good as sex with a female. We still have classes together and talk sometimes : )
(im on dxm this was hard to write)
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Re: i swear im not gay [Re: D4M2T]
#24222144 - 04/06/17 05:12 AM (6 years, 9 months ago) |
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It sounds like you are bisexual but leaning towards women more.
Nothing wrong at all, my little mango.
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ooops too late
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Re: i swear im not gay [Re: D4M2T]
#24223015 - 04/06/17 02:14 PM (6 years, 9 months ago) |
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D4M2T said: It was every bit as good as sex with a female.
How would you know? You said you were a virgin
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Re: i swear im not gay [Re: koods]
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Honestly just do what you feel like I haven't had sex with a woman ether. I have had a guy suck my dick one time I kinda regretted it after I finished though. I remember right after I came in his mouth I had the deepest feeling of regret and embarrassment. I don't really regret it anymore I think I was just a little homophobic towards myself but I prefer women over men but I would have sex with any gender. I guess I'm bisexual but don't judge yourself man just do what you dick is telling you.
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Re: i swear im not gay [Re: Wu-tang]
#24224495 - 04/07/17 02:01 AM (6 years, 9 months ago) |
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Tell him you just wanna fuck him in the ass then.
Btw, you're a little bisexual. You're not gay, you may even strongly lean towards being straight (most bisexuals have a preference in my experience) but you're not straight.
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