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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: Amanita86] * 1
    #24027371 - 01/21/17 04:52 AM (7 years, 9 days ago)

Oh to be young again. I have been there man. Exact same thing except being my first real gf. Trust me you don't want to push this. It is her brain freaking out , with girl Rachael back in the day. I tired and tired to fix y
Her hang up. News flash i did more harm then good. You in all likely hood will be able to fuck her down there if push comes to shove with enough sexy play time. But like Rachael once you do she will freak out and not talk to you or 6 months. Then you go out and fuck her again where she doesn't talk to you Anouther 1 year. Both times the sex was so good it causes seizers on both partners. Easily the second best sex I've had.

Now the down side, you fix her mentally then she will move on in her life and you'll be just a freind she"ll only call on special dates. And the worst part is she will remember as the turning point in her life. Rachael was a druggy cool tricked out awesome lesibo who could hold conversation about anything with a smile. After those two fucks she changed, went to med school and now is a heart surgern that is still a lesibo but no drugs, or parties, setting fires.


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: tump]
    #24033941 - 01/23/17 06:00 PM (7 years, 7 days ago)

I'm a gal and I can say that you're potentially playing with fire. Are you friends with benefits or are you lovers? Once females put you in the friend zone, not the same as friends with benefits zone, you're stuck there. I wonder if you're already there because, well, why wouldn't she atleast let you look at her vagina? When I dig a person, I want him smothered between my cheeks or vagina lips.
Does she just suck your dick in exchange for company and/or your good stash? When I was younger, broke, and bored/lonely I'd go to a guy's house for chats, bud, and a fuck but meeh, the sex wasn't good so I never really anticipated it and definitely wasn't eager to show him my goodies.

I know plenty of chicks who use the "it hurts when anything goes in" excuse to get out of sex. I've heard it plenty of times from frustrated males complaining of their dry spell and from females who don't actually want to give it up.

I advise you to lick away at her clit, a finger tickling the stink, and a bit of nipple play along with kisses to the neck. Heavy petting would surely get her eager for more. She won't allow such foreplay if she isn't into you. It really is that simple. Make sure there's a bottle of bubbly(bitches love bubbly), play a drinking game with tequila, or better yet try your luck at making some cocktails. Ladies get horny from romance.

What better time? Valentine's Day is around the corner!


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: tamales]
    #24035844 - 01/24/17 11:48 AM (7 years, 6 days ago)

Yeah we're definitely not just friends,  we're like exclusive and she's way fucking into me.  Probably more than I'm into her but I really do fucking love her and she's an amazing person she just has alot of self esteem problems and stuff. 

She'd definitely let me do anything I want if I just pushed her a little or really asked for it. I just don't wanna pressure her or do anything until she's ready cause,  ya know...  I don't wanna be a dick.


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24036052 - 01/24/17 01:31 PM (7 years, 6 days ago)

I've been in a similar predicament before. I was too apprehensive to make moves because I didn't want her to feel pressured.
But, the truth of the matter is your the guy, and it's your job as a male to escalate when you see an opportunity. Keep going slowly in a playful way, but with confidence, and get her to take her pants off.

You must practice the art of seduction, the girl isn't just gonna say "hey, listen, we've been doing the same things on our dates and I'm getting quite bored, can we just have sex now...".
As much as she might think about fucking you, she's not gonna come out and say it for fear of being judged and labeled as a slut, and above all feeling "easy".

Remember, if she's as attracted to you as you think she is, it's up to you to know how far you can take this. She likes sex just as much as you do, so go for it.

And just a side note when escalating when the time seems right to you, she may stop you a little bit when you try to get her pants/panties off and try to finger her, but you have to know that she wants to feel like you "won her over", to protect herself from feeling like a little slut.
When seducing her, simply tell her what you're going to do to her using some dirty talk while looking her deep in the eyes and keep going.

If she says "no, stop" in a stronger tone of voice with a serious look on her face, then obviously you have to stop.
If this happens, which I don't think it will, especially if she's been waiting for this moment, then you need to stop and apologize, back off completely, start talking about some random bs, and pretend like it never happened.

Now, this is how you'll know how sexually attracted to you she really is, with no mind games.
If she keeps stopping you when you escalate with confidence out of a genuine feeling of wanting to please her sexually, then you may need to look elsewhere man, she's just not that into you.


I'm not saying that she's lying about her vaginal problems, but if she really wanted to keep you around and not stray, then she's gonna feel a female instinct to want to please her man. The question is, are you that man?


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: Psilosoulful]
    #24036183 - 01/24/17 02:21 PM (7 years, 6 days ago)

Good fucking advice man,  I'm gonna go for it next time she comes over. 
And yeah I knew obviously I was gonna have to push her at some point but I didn't just wanna go straight for the ass even though I could obviously get it, just cause I respect her a shit ton and I wanted to give her a little time.  We've really only been together a month or two...

I'll do exactly what you said and drink a little with her and get her really fucking horny to where she starts breathing heavy and her eyes roll over and I know I'll be in cause she won't say no to me.  I'll just go stupid fucking slow and see how far I can get.

Thanks dude


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24036320 - 01/24/17 03:13 PM (7 years, 6 days ago)

I wish people would stop giving personal advice to a situation they've never personally been in. (Tamales)

I also wish people could tell the difference between personal experience based advice and projecting. (Tump)

I'm a female. I'm a lesbian. I have had sex with my guy friends. I have had more than sex with my guy friends. If I wanted to project I would say she's either experimenting with you or confusing close friendship with romantic relationship. Or maybe you are OP.

But I don't want to project or assume that her situation was mine because it's probably not.

Which is why I gave advice for you to not only have sex with someone who has a vaginal muscular problem but also someone who is apparently uneasy about the idea of sex.


Yes, you do need to make the move. Or if you make a move and she reacts badly about if she thinks she'd ever be comfortable, more comfortable, to go for it herself. That's how I am. Other people making the moves beyond flirting and kissing turns me off fast as hell.

And there is no girl that appreciates a guy (or another girl) pushing for sex when she's expressed that she's not ready or comfortable. She might have sex with you, but that won't have good prospects on your long term relationship.

If you don't think the subtle hinting is working out then discuss it with her. Say how much you love her and want to please her and share the beautiful intimacy with her. And then ask if when and how she would be most comfortable proceeding. If she says she's happy where the relationship is it means you've either fucked up or got close to the fuck up line and need to tone it down.

Having onnly been together a month or 2... Don't worry about the relationship going stale. Quite likely she really is happy with the kissing and light petting and lovey dovey cuddly goo goo shit for right now. The next step, the clothes off step, can wait a few more months. I'd say maybe introduce a knee to the crotch during one of the petting sessions. Once you make your intentions known, if you're doing the first base foreplay good, she will let you know when she's ready for the next step.

Tell her to communicate with you. Tell her to tell you when she's uncomfortable. Tell her to tell you what she does and doesn't like. And if she says "no" or "stop" in her meekest little mouse voice you fucking stop.

Why? because that is how you earn trust. That's how she knows that when she goes the extra step if she does get uncomfortable or it hurts she can just tell you and you will immediately stop and respect her feelings.


If it really is psychological it's likely she's a victim of rape/molestation or had sex with someone that didn't care they were hurting her. You need to show her you care more about her feeling comfortable and content more than you need a sexual release. If she is a victim if you push too hard or don't listen to her when she says no you could not only ruin any chance at a relationship but also potentially your friendship.

I could go into alot more ifs and scenarios but I'm sure you don't need all that OP. You really gotta be easy man. You know you can't treat her like a common wench. And I know that's why you asked for advice, it's a good first step.


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #24036777 - 01/24/17 05:58 PM (7 years, 6 days ago)

Fantastic advice, CC


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: automan]
    #24037780 - 01/25/17 04:51 AM (7 years, 5 days ago)

What he said ^^^^
And is that a.....omg it's a cookie monster in your picture thing


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: psilly the kid]
    #24041213 - 01/26/17 12:48 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Has she ever been to a gynecologist? If not, she should definitely go. Even if her issue is psychological, it is still important to go get your pussy checked once a year :puddingpop:


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: funk4brainz]
    #24041219 - 01/26/17 12:52 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

This is true. And if it is a neuromuscular problem the doc can instruct her how to do kegals and whatnot to help loosen that up. Or if it's a wider neurological issue she can get on meds to help.


If it's psychological tho and she already knows it it's unlikely she'll want to go.


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #24043697 - 01/27/17 12:46 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

CookieCrumbs said:
I wish people would stop giving personal advice to a situation they've never personally been in. (Tamales)




You don't know me or of any situation I've been in. You do not even know the person he is talking about so for all you know, your advice is also one coming from a situation unrelated to hers.

But I appalud you for also contributing to the thread. Your advice is very sound. :cheers:


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: tamales]
    #24043815 - 01/27/17 01:31 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

tamales said:
I'm a gal and I can say that you're potentially playing with fire. Are you friends with benefits or are you lovers? Once females put you in the friend zone, not the same as friends with benefits zone, you're stuck there. I wonder if you're already there because, well, why wouldn't she atleast let you look at her vagina? When I dig a person, I want him smothered between my cheeks or vagina lips.
Does she just suck your dick in exchange for company and/or your good stash? When I was younger, broke, and bored/lonely I'd go to a guy's house for chats, bud, and a fuck but meeh, the sex wasn't good so I never really anticipated it and definitely wasn't eager to show him my goodies.

I know plenty of chicks who use the "it hurts when anything goes in" excuse to get out of sex.
I've heard it plenty of times from frustrated males complaining of their dry spell and from females who don't actually want to give it up.





I dunno implying that she's lying because you've not wanted to have sex with guys who wanted to have sex with you sounds like irrelevant personal advice to me.

It happens alot here and I'm honestly tired of seeing that, that "she's stringing you along" or "she's cheating on you bro" here.


Painful intercourse is very common. It is most common due to a lack of lubrication, not really because of muscle tension. You can't really fake that kind of pain. I suppose not unless you had insane control of your kegal muscles. It doesn't come about due to a lack of arousal, it comes about from psychological, neurological, or maintenance issues. That last one, for example, is a virgin who has never so much as had a tampon.

Being that OP's girl otherwise identifies as gay I'm assuming it's psychological issues but it could also be a maintenance problem. In both cases the advice is about the same.


Now I think your sexual advice is sound. Sauce is a good way to help open the door but we don't advocate under aged drinking here at the shroomery. :shiftyeyes:
Definitely wouldn't go overboard on that though. Last thing you want is to make her feel like you intend to take advantage of her.


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 2
    #24044802 - 01/27/17 06:00 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Super hot chick you share everything in common with! Broken vagina.

Life....


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Re: Girlfriend vagina problems - desperately need some help [Re: Patlal]
    #24047554 - 01/28/17 09:35 PM (7 years, 1 day ago)

You got that right man..


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