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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: stzacrack]
#24019465 - 01/18/17 09:41 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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I could go for some BBW right about now.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: czech]
#24019466 - 01/18/17 09:42 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Some things I don't think anyone is considering
Generally people don't gain 100lbs over night. Or even in 6 months. It would take a year if not 2 UNLESS there was a medical issue going on.
Assuming that there is not, not even depression, you would have stuck with this person and their "disgusting habits" for at least a year. And for a reason. OP called her "the perfect girl for you" so assuming all this, would 100lbs be the cap? would a year of bad habits be the cap?
I dunno. I've never known a girl to gain so much weight, even in 2-3 years, that didn't have shit going on. And most often is either coping with loss or abuse.
I think I'd only throw in the towel only after they make it apparent they are going to refuse any help.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24019475 - 01/18/17 09:45 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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By perfect girl I mean medically healthy in every aspect. Normal weight, decent shape, no STDs and most importantly, normal blood pressure.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Patlal] 5
#24019483 - 01/18/17 09:47 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Asante] 1
#24019507 - 01/18/17 09:55 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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IDK, I haven't dated a "girl" in a long time, but when I did they were of the chubby variety, LOL! So depending on how tall they are the weight is very nice! 5'2" and 250 is too short round, 6' and 250 is nice. Hell I've tagged a 300lb'er before. (I would totally tag Aidy Bryant, SNL)I like my men between 250-300lbs. If they are active and healthy who cares. All this "cheating" business is weird to me. Why not fulfill a sexual urge if all parties agree? It seems unrealistic to want someone to be totally monogamous for life.
I bet more people "cheat" than tell. If it is just for the sexual experience and nothing else what does it matter? My mate is OK with playing as long as we all talk about it and agree. Of course since I finally found someone who is OK with it I haven't had the strong urge to go play around. I'm sure it may come up sooner or later but I am not actively seeking a playmate.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Patlal]
#24019585 - 01/18/17 10:28 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Patlal said: By perfect girl I mean medically healthy in every aspect. Normal weight, decent shape, no STDs and most importantly, normal blood pressure.
So your idea of "perfect girl" doesn't include shit about personality?
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24019592 - 01/18/17 10:30 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said:
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Patlal said: By perfect girl I mean medically healthy in every aspect. Normal weight, decent shape, no STDs and most importantly, normal blood pressure.
So your idea of "perfect girl" doesn't include shit about personality?
personality? she's a sammich making dishwasher, that's the perfect girl
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24019619 - 01/18/17 10:43 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Patlal said: By perfect girl I mean medically healthy in every aspect. Normal weight, decent shape, no STDs and most importantly, normal blood pressure.
So your idea of "perfect girl" doesn't include shit about personality?
That too different from person to person. Assume you love her/him and he's the right fit for you. Use your imagination.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Patlal]
#24019623 - 01/18/17 10:45 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Did you fix your own blood pressure?
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: trees]
#24019632 - 01/18/17 10:49 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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trees said: Did you fix your own blood pressure?
Yeah... It was the green tea. The caffeine was causing it to happen. I was a fool.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Asante]
#24019726 - 01/18/17 11:36 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Looks like u just got cheated on Patlal.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Patlal]
#24019743 - 01/18/17 11:41 AM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Patlal said:
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CookieCrumbs said:
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Patlal said: By perfect girl I mean medically healthy in every aspect. Normal weight, decent shape, no STDs and most importantly, normal blood pressure.
So your idea of "perfect girl" doesn't include shit about personality?
That too different from person to person. Assume you love her/him and he's the right fit for you. Use your imagination.
Physical idea of perfect varies from person to person as well... Some people like some chub. Some people like rails.
Which is why when you say "perfect girl" I assume you mean "perfect girl for you" which naturally includes personality because I don't think anyone would date a bitch with great health and the "perfect" body when they're a complete asshole that makes you feel like shit. Well some people would, but I don't think a relationship like that is serious to begin with.
So... Question in op makes no sense. If she's the "perfect girl" for me then I'd be a flying POS fucktard to breakup with her for gaining weight that deserves to die alone. If she has no personality then I dunno why the fuck am I dating her in the first place? I can fuck her without having to call her my gf and dealing with her non-personality.
OP doesn't make sense Patlal
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24019800 - 01/18/17 12:05 PM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said:
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Patlal said:
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CookieCrumbs said:
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Patlal said: By perfect girl I mean medically healthy in every aspect. Normal weight, decent shape, no STDs and most importantly, normal blood pressure.
So your idea of "perfect girl" doesn't include shit about personality?
That too different from person to person. Assume you love her/him and he's the right fit for you. Use your imagination.
Physical idea of perfect varies from person to person as well... Some people like some chub. Some people like rails.
Which is why when you say "perfect girl" I assume you mean "perfect girl for you" which naturally includes personality because I don't think anyone would date a bitch with great health and the "perfect" body when they're a complete asshole that makes you feel like shit. Well some people would, but I don't think a relationship like that is serious to begin with.
So... Question in op makes no sense. If she's the "perfect girl" for me then I'd be a flying POS fucktard to breakup with her for gaining weight that deserves to die alone. If she has no personality then I dunno why the fuck am I dating her in the first place? I can fuck her without having to call her my gf and dealing with her non-personality.
OP doesn't make sense Patlal
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24020313 - 01/18/17 03:02 PM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Even if she was my ideal match who Ive been in love with for the past 5 years, Id drop her in a heartbeat id she was anywhere near 200'lbs
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Patlal]
#24020315 - 01/18/17 03:03 PM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Patlal said: It's time to be shallow assholes guys.
Your girl was perfect when you met her. And then one of 2 things happens. Either she gains 100 pounds or she cheats on you.
Which scenario would you prefer?
either way it's over so who cares
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Ezuma]
#24020392 - 01/18/17 03:27 PM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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although actually 100 lbs is better, my girlfriend would probably still be hot to me up to about 40 lbs heavier anyway, so its only 60 lbs to lose
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Ezuma]
#24020415 - 01/18/17 03:33 PM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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I gained 100lbs in a little less than 2 years. Alot of the weight was muscle bulk before depression and drugs kept me off the weights.
So it does depend alot. Some ladies wear weight pretty well. Not saying I did, I looked like shit after the +70lb mark. But I do think alot of girls could gain considerable weight and just look thicker and well endowed. Like when I was working out, making that muscle, 90% of my fat went to my breasts and ass. ...I didn't hear any complaints.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24020478 - 01/18/17 03:54 PM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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100 lbs is a lot of fat tho for someone who only weighs like 120 at 5'9" to start with
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#24020484 - 01/18/17 03:55 PM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: I gained 100lbs in a little less than 2 years. Alot of the weight was muscle bulk before depression and drugs kept me off the weights.
So it does depend alot. Some ladies wear weight pretty well. Not saying I did, I looked like shit after the +70lb mark. But I do think alot of girls could gain considerable weight and just look thicker and well endowed. Like when I was working out, making that muscle, 90% of my fat went to my breasts and ass. ...I didn't hear any complaints.
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Re: Would you rather your girlfriend gain 100 pounds or cheat on you once? [Re: Ezuma]
#24020547 - 01/18/17 04:20 PM (7 years, 12 days ago) |
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Ezuma said: 100 lbs is a lot of fat tho for someone who only weighs like 120 at 5'9" to start with
For sure, and 100lbs of muscles on a lady is near impossible without drugs or more psychological issues and it generally doesn't look good. But on the other hand if they wear weight well, and say at least some of that weight is muscle, then they may not need to lose the full 100 to look good again. Which means if they get committed about losing weight they could look fine in a few more months.
I know it's not common but my weight fluctuates really easily so after topping out over 265lbs (think I probably went over to 270-280) I stopped gaining weight and started losing it. I lost 100lbs in a year. About a year and a half later I weighed around 110. Really it wasn't till I started going over 200lbs that things started to get less generously proportioned. But in theory I think a lady could gain 60-70lbs and look fine. I think a 100lb woman of any height could go up to 200lbs and reduce back 40-50lbs and look healthy.
I dunno. There's an assumption that people that get fat stay fat for years. I personally wouldn't dat a girl that doesn't have a strong will and determination. And it's only human to let either slip from time to time.
Pat: the only pic of fat me I know to still exist is owned by my grandma. leave it to grandparents to keep your least flattering pics...
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