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Anonymous #1

delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice
    #23988643 - 01/07/17 06:41 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

So I think I have delayed ejaculation? Possibly from excessively jerking off with a death grip for many years. Does anyone have any tips / remedies to help with this?

My problem is I have a hard time cumming from regular sex ( she's tight and we don't use condoms) but she can always make me cum from blowjobs usually in 10-15 min. And she usually sucks me 3-5 days a week on average. (We both live at home so don't fuck as often)
When I fuck her it feels REALLY good but I have to steadily fuck her for like 15-20min to even remotely feel like cumming... I'd really like to cum faster... Can anyone help with this?

At first I wouldn't even cum at all not even remotely feel like it from her blowjobs.. but when I quit jerking off and watching porn and sometimes putting like hand lotion on my dick or something it got me to start cumming.. don't know which helped but that's where I'm at.. so if anyone can help or give any advice I would really appreciate it! Also when we know we'll have time to fuck I wont cum for 3-4 prior to event.

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Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23988940 - 01/07/17 09:37 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

20 minutes is completely normal


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Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: automan]
    #23988947 - 01/07/17 09:38 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Are you overweight? If so, go balls deep so the skin on your dick pulls real tight and keep pulling on that muscle that gets your dick to move. That'll do it.


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Anonymous #1

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: automan]
    #23989775 - 01/07/17 03:01 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Lol it is? I'll try that.. another problem is she's like 5.2 and doesn't want me to go all the way in.. says it hurts

I'm slender build

Edited by Anonymous (01/07/17 03:02 PM)

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Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #23991461 - 01/08/17 01:07 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
When I fuck her it feels REALLY good but I have to steadily fuck her for like 15-20min to even remotely feel like cumming... I'd really like to cum faster... Can anyone help with this?



Mate, you don't realise how lucky you are to have the complete opposite of a problem that bothers so many men.

20 minutes is standard man. Fuck, why would you ever wanna cum quicker? Spend hours brother, it's so worth it.


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Anonymous #1

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23995563 - 01/09/17 03:40 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Well on the plus side I can have more orgasims sinse I usually get a boner agian right away anyways.. but she would casually mention how I last the longest out of all the guys she's been with and I just assumed that maybe it was a bad thing? She's my first sexual partner so I really didn't know what's normal or not

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Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23995991 - 01/09/17 05:56 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Trust me man, it's a good thing. I have friends who feel their ability to last is the bane of their sexual lives. And the biggest complaint I hear from my female friends about men's sexual performance is how so many 'rush to the finish'.

Take your time brother, enjoy every minute.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #24000078 - 01/11/17 01:45 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Appreciate the words jokeshop.. I don't know what I was thinking lol

How many long do you usually last? And how many rounds do you guys usually do?

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Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24001682 - 01/11/17 04:24 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Hahaha, sounds like a quality problem.  Most guys would say....cool!

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Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Prem. Kissoff]
    #24001725 - 01/11/17 04:47 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Yea dude take your lack of orgasm as a bonus. You would hate sex on kratom or meth! Can literally last for a couple of hours.

If you guys are really into each other take your time. Pleasure her as much as you can before you choose to finish, that will show her that you care about her needs and will cause her to reciprocate the feeling... but from your op it seems like she really likes to pleasure you.

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Anonymous #1

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24011134 - 01/15/17 12:18 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

So yesterday I was fucking her doggy style and after about 20 min I felt like I was going to cum. Got the first feelings then it went away and I started to lose my boner.... Fuck

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Anonymous #2

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24012077 - 01/15/17 12:14 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Are you in your mind while penetrating her?

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Anonymous #1

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24014607 - 01/16/17 12:42 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

I guess.. but my mind does wander alot, I think about random stupid things even while having sex

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Anonymous #2

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24014821 - 01/16/17 01:55 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

trust me that contributes a lot. Try to be in the moment and you will notice the difference it makes.

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Anonymous #1

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24014874 - 01/16/17 02:15 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

I know I always periodically lose focus

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Anonymous #2

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24015513 - 01/16/17 06:36 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

How into her are you? Is she just a fuck or someone you're in love with?

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Anonymous #1

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24015632 - 01/16/17 07:29 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Yea we love each other

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Anonymous #1

Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24016330 - 01/17/17 12:21 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Maybe because when I think I'm going to cum, I start to lose my rhythm or something?

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Re: delayed ejaculation help/tips/advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24016391 - 01/17/17 12:58 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

It sounds like you're just used to blowing as soon as you feel ready to; it's not surprising it might not flow too smooth the first time you try something different.

You ever tried to feel into your levels of arousal, say, where #1 is hard but no stimulation, and #10 is cumming? If not, next time you're solo, I suggest playing around the higher end of the scale and feeling into that point just before orgasm. Once you know where the point of no return is, and practice pulling back from the very edge, you'll find it a lot easier next time you're with your partner.

Do you communicate much with her whist you're having sex? You can get her to help you with it if you're very communicative.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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