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InvisibleFruitOfLife
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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: balanced]
    #18767442 - 08/28/13 07:39 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

How is it in any way disrespectful to tell some sluts husband that she is cheating on him? Its her own fault she cant close her legs and the husband has the right to know no matter who tells him.


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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: FruitOfLife]
    #23985127 - 01/05/17 08:43 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

3 years. THREE YEARS since I posted this thread. She ended up moving out right to an apartment with her daughter 2 mins away from me. I stayed over at her place almost every night for over about a year and a half. She did get divorced. Her daughter's father is not much of a father at all.


We broke up may of 2015. So we dated a little over a year and a half. In that time she yelled at me almost every night. Many times she accused me of cheating which never happened. Not even close honestly. Maybe she had some weird thought process because of how easily she cheated on her ex husband.

We got into a huge argument when I was trying to study for my board exams. She said I was not paying her enough attention. I probably was not but she wanted a family and how can I support such a thing while I was living with my mother? I needed to pass those exams. At the time she met me, I was in my medical program. Anyways she figured it was ok for us to end during that time.

Eventually she moved to Florida for RN school. She never even got into a program due to whatever excuse she could give me. This is over a 1.5 years later since we broke up and we still talk on and off. I tried to continue and push a relationship with her. I mentioned wanting to finally marry and even have kids a month ago. I am now living on my own and can support myself. I am 29 now. Fully capable of things I never knew I was capable of before.

She has come here a few times since she moved and usually stayed for a week. She only made one day for me while spending the rest of her time with her friends. I explained that it bothered me and yet each time she barely makes any time for me.

I was raised by a loving, caring family. A family that puts efforts into me. A family that does not give up on loved ones. She was practically disowned by her family, doesnt even talk to her mom. She does not know any better. She does not know the love that i know and that I was raised by. She has learned that it is ok to disown family and that no one is really there for you.

She came here this past week and stayed over only one night out of a week. She chose to go out with friends on NYE instead of me.

I am confused, angry, and hurt. I have not visited her so I feel like part of this is my fault. Relationships are a two way street.

I finally confessed my love for one last time. I told her about how I love. I told her unlike the people she has been used to in her life, I am different. I am the type of person to stay with it and get through the hard times. Even after over a year of not being together, I told her I am headstrong and will go the distance if need be. She said if she is such a bad person, maybe I shouldn't know her anymore.

I also told her if she does not want anything to do with me anymore, I will let her be. I have spent so much time and thought on us. Its been 3 days and I do not think she will ever contact me again.

I thought I loved someone before but nothing has compared to this.
I am 29 this month. If I ever had a chance of having a family, that might of been it. Poof. its gone. If she only had a little patience. I was not ready when she was. This is not a good feeling. It is like losing a family member.


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OfflineChakra Shock
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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23985305 - 01/05/17 09:54 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

You're 29, not 69. You will have plenty of chances for a family.

You told her that you love her and wanted to spend more time with her and she said 'get rid of me if i'm such a bad person'.

She's just manipulating you, trying to make you feel guilty for her own insecurities instead of commiserating and trying to find positive solutions to problems which require both of you to work together. Your feelings are valid, man. You just told her you had a problem, and she tried to make you feel like shit for it... :wtf: obvious manipulation.

You're right that relationships are two way streets, but if someone can only try and bring you down instead of listening to you and showing you that they really care... well then all they're doing is putting up a roadblock.

I don't know if she's worth it, only you can decide that, but recognize that there's no guarantee that she will ever change and learn how to be truly caring.


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Invisiblesudly
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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23985419 - 01/05/17 10:46 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

If she cheats with you she probably cheated on you.

No surprised there.


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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23985437 - 01/05/17 10:56 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Drop her like a stone and move on.


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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: FruitOfLife]
    #24000512 - 01/11/17 08:48 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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FruitOfLife said:
In my opinion you are a fuckin asshole. I may be part of a small minority of men that think this but if you know someone is married then you should stay away. How would you feel if this was your wife/gf fucking someone behind your back?

If you didnt know she was married and were fucking her thats one thing, but if you knew or just found out you should break all relations with her ASAP. Otherwise you're a piece of shit




I agree. Not only that, but you knew she was trouble yet still meddled in trouble, only now to be very troubled for having troubles.

Why are you so bothered by the ending of a casual relationship? I mean, she cheats while married so it is quite possible she could do the same to you if ever in a monogamous relationship.

The ball is in your court. Do you love yourself enough to build healthier sexual relationships or would you prefer to keep up with the drama of a cheating woman indecisive of her feelings towards her husband, where you'll probably never be more than on the back burner? Do you have a history of being in unloving relationships?

I wish you luck either way.

Ahem, I need over fifteen more posts before I post in certain forum topics so yes, I'm looking through the relationship forum to comment.


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InvisibleCookieCrumbsM
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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: tamales]
    #24000883 - 01/11/17 11:25 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Never date a married person and never date a recently divorced person. Being a rebound is always always always bad grounds to start a relationship on.

I'm sorry I didn't tell you 3 years ago, but then I doubt you'd listen.


Either way I'm glad you're not stuck with a toxic person OP. Learn from it and consider this a fresh start for yourself, a chance to set up something that will make you happy as you get closer to that 69 Chakra Shock mentioned. Good luck :hug:


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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #24000894 - 01/11/17 11:30 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Kinda annoyed at the "hit it" advice you got. :undecided: a one and done is one thing but not only was this failed relationship a likely risk you would have risked your own personal safety too by fooling around with another man's wife.


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Re: Girl is married and is dating me? [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 1
    #24007983 - 01/13/17 06:32 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Thankyou for reading and responding everyone. I loved this girl. Such fail this was. She was such a bad person which made me strive to try even harder with her. It is so stupid. She never even respected me really which is shit. No idea why I stayed around so long.

I am done though, I am on top of my game, in good health, with a good job and have a good happy personality about myself. She is in the complete opposite situation and I have a feeling she lost way more by not having me then the other way around. I did not end it negatively. I could have said allot of bad things which would have honestly been objective truths and not even exaggerations. I felt like that was childish though. I wont play her game.

Oh well. Life goes on right? Fuck. I think I deserve better.


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