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Sophistic Radiance
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Repertoire89 said: There are a few of my ex's I love as much now as I did when we first met, meeting and falling into someone new doesnt change a thing. Granted most women I no longer have any feeling for, just a few.
What say you?
I don't hold on to old love forever, but sometimes it lingers for a very long time. For example, I only just recently stopped having fuzzies when I remember my middle school crush, and I'm fucking 30, and she was a cold fucking bitch to me for as long as we still hung out come to think of it, there's a second, more recent crush that I can think of which definitively ended around the same time.
I'm not really sure how it works. I think it's a matter of whether or not you find somebody else who has the same traits you find loveable about them. Ie, love can be "replaced" depending on what you're getting out of it. My current partner has a lot of the traits that I found attractive in those old crushes, so it's probably not a coincidence that I got over them around the same time this relationship began. But she lacks many of the traits of my most recent ex, so I still feel like I miss my ex sometimes, though I would never go back to her.
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Morel Guy
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I bounce back from beer quickly. So that makes it a function able substance. Weed was like that with a tolerance. But I couldn't take one puff and legally drive. The cut off for ovi with cannabis is a super low 15ng/ml. Beer is just good for legal reasons.
Been living on coffee, tea, beer and pipe tobacco for awhile. It gets me thru desiring other things. Beer is better when not strongly craving herb ot other substances. That can take awhile to get to. Mixes fairly well with invega. I don't usually get dispondant.
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Burke Dennings
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Re: Still love your ex's? [Re: Morel Guy] 1
#23958726 - 12/26/16 04:35 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Morel Guy still loves his empty beer cans.
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Morel Guy
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Posted in the wrong thread. Fuck'n iPad!
I do recycle a lot of booze bottles. I am ashamed that I have so many. I am like the only person on the street that makes that much noise when the recycling goes in the truck.
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Re: Still love your ex's? [Re: Morel Guy]
#23958760 - 12/26/16 04:51 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Its a hard question, I still do feel love but its different. You accept the fact there will never be a future between the two of you, or even speak again for that matter. It is hard to not feel it when you have felt so strong for someone, would do any thing for her/him and always be there for them. I never wanted any of my relationships to end but it happened. Each one I really still wanted to work things out but you do know in the back of your mind you know it has to happen. Sorry I am rambling now.
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Re: Still love your ex's? [Re: SonicTitan]
#23958918 - 12/26/16 05:58 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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No way. Im old fashioned and they played me like a fool. They were nothing but fake ass punks.
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Morel Guy
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There were terrible awful lack of options but beats being a 35 year old virgin. Wouldn't want the drama again, not even for a fuck.
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eeso
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Re: Still love your ex's? [Re: SonicTitan]
#23958977 - 12/26/16 06:30 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well as for Exs and love - I still love two of my Exs.
One of whom is the only person I ever wanted to, and asked to, marry me.
I'm happy for the first one, whom is now married and has a bunch of kids. But the other, the one that I asked to marry me, whom always told me "We'd be together forever" I'm still broken up about - and it happened eight years ago. I'm bitter about that (Can my feeling really be considered 'love' then?)
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Re: Still love your ex's? [Re: eeso]
#23958981 - 12/26/16 06:33 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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eeso said: Well as for Exs and love - I still love two of my Exs.
One of whom is the only person I ever wanted to, and asked to, marry me.
I'm happy for the first one, whom is now married and has a bunch of kids. But the other, the one that I asked to marry me, whom always told me "We'd be together forever" I'm still broken up about - and it happened eight years ago. I'm bitter about that (Can my feeling really be considered 'love' then?)
Well it was for you. Now its just a broken shell of what used to be love....
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eeso
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I guess. But that's what I see myself as now, since she broke up with me the second time, after my 'second chance'. "A broken shell" (I had my second-ever psychotic episode the night she invited me over her new apartment after we broke up the first time)
I'll stop with the 'woe is me' shit now. It's OT.
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Re: Still love your ex's? [Re: eeso]
#23959028 - 12/26/16 06:58 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Only reason is ive been there. It sucks finding out your significant other turned out to not be that significant at all. Only cure I have found is my real significant other. Good luck.
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I still love my most recent ex and still am on good terms and talk often. We were perfect for each other except I wanted a serious relationship and she just wanted some fun. Which I was totally fine with for a few months . She is an absolute freak in bed,is a preschool teacher,psych major,trips/smokes and she is so increbibly sweet and selfless. I gotta move on though
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yeah, idk if I'll stop loving my ex that I was with for 3 years, as much as I would like to. she's been very shitty to me since we broke up and doesn't deserve any of my attention whatsoever. I don't actively have feelings for her but I know that if we were to reconnect those feelings would resurface.
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Repertoire89
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Im surprised how many people agree (in a general sense), I expected the poll to be 90% no and 10% stal.
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Re: Still love your ex's? [Re: Patlal]
#23959409 - 12/26/16 09:52 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: Morel Guy still loves his empty beer cans.
that brought tears to my eyes
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Patlal said: That poll was mean to me.
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1234go
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Repertoire89 said: Still love your ex's?
when i'm horny
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Adden

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I still love my high school / college sweetheart, but being together for 15 and married 10 to another woman, the kind of love we shared has changed. We love each other for the love we had, I guess, but as two people leading completely different lives. I talk to her once or twice a year, but now it's so much longer later that it's just pleasantries and catching up, who's still around, who died, who had kids or got married. It's just having a special kind of appreciative love for all the great years we shared together.
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