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OfflineSkizor1337
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Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend??
    #23942495 - 12/20/16 06:34 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

So I have been hanging out with this girl named Sam.
She's fun to be around but I can tell deep down she has some issues.
We are both 24 years old and she spends her free time watching donsey movies and coloring haha.
She doesn't drink and has a different outlook on sex and relationships from what I picked up
She is funny and fun to be around have have great conversations with. We have been on multiple dates and just hanging out or doing anything around town. I did kiss her on like the third date and she was cool with it at first. The next day she said it was too much. (It was just a kiss not a reach down her pants lol)

She was pretty busy with finals last week and we havnt talked much or hungout. The last couple times we spoke she was pissed at her ex boyfriend because he is dating her friend.

This threw a red flag because I don't care about my ex and any decision they make especially since it's been 3 years. So when she told me that I started to get concenered.

We typically hangout on the weekends and the past two weekends she didn't want to hangout.

Then she texts me and says she's to busy for a relationship.

I text her back and say "that's cool let's be friends and have fun as we usually do"
She hasn't replied or even texted me in over a week.

I don't wanna play these fuckin games with her. I'm pretty upset we can't even be friends. Especially since we weren't dating yet at all. It seems pretty shitty to lead me on and then basically say "fuck you im busy"

Any thoughts ?

I'm not sure if I would reach out to Sam anymore


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: Skizor1337] * 4
    #23942507 - 12/20/16 06:49 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

move on


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: Cosmic_Flame] * 3
    #23942971 - 12/20/16 10:28 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

You didn't lose anything, shes a child inside, and I don't say that just because of the disney. Shes way too old to be pulling this kind of shit now, this is fuckin teenager shit. Delete her number and any texts she sends you. Waste of your time


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #23943118 - 12/20/16 11:22 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah this is what I was thinking. Just wanted to get some other people's thoughts.

I never met a girl that played around this way. It's childish and a waste of time. I'm 24 for fucks sake. I feel like she's 14 and never been in a relationship shop before.


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: Skizor1337] * 5
    #23943184 - 12/20/16 11:48 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I think there are a lot of girls (and guys) that don't REALLY want a relationship. They grew up with adults everywhere being in some kind of relationship constantly so they think thats what you're supposed to do. They don't have a real sex drive, they have no real respect for their common man, they don't enjoy intimacy... basically just emotionally stunted. Yet they manage to bring people down all around them who try to get a foot in the door.

Just recently I asked a girl out and she gave me the weakest yes ever. At first I was glad she said yes, then I was like "You know what, I don't even want to bother with a girl who doesn't give me a big grin, or at least look nervously to the floor and giggle or something."

Zero passion plus zero maturity equals ice queen


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #23943276 - 12/20/16 12:28 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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bloodsheen said:
You didn't lose anything, shes a child inside, and I don't say that just because of the disney. Shes way too old to be pulling this kind of shit now, this is fuckin teenager shit. Delete her number and any texts she sends you. Waste of your time




:whathesaid:

Fuckin' teenager bullshit.

:nojustno:

Find yourself a woman who takes LSD. :shrug:

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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: WeAreMushroom]
    #23943398 - 12/20/16 01:03 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I would put a ring on the next girl I date that loves to trip OMG. That's been my dreams forever. My last girlfriend tripped with me but this was 5 years ago and we parted ways. I still want to marry an open minded, sexy, and fun adventure buddy


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: Skizor1337]
    #23943417 - 12/20/16 01:08 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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I would put a ring on the next girl I date that loves to trip OMG. That's been my dreams forever. My last girlfriend tripped with me but this was 5 years ago and we parted ways. I still want to marry an open minded, sexy, and fun adventure buddy



Women don't have as much of that, what do you call it, thanatos, death drive. Men generally like dangerous shit, like ACTUALLY dangerous shit. If you can die doint it, its predominately men.

I'd love to date a woman who was kind but could also beat the shit out of me. I like the idea of a girl I can't break


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: bloodsheen] * 1
    #23943998 - 12/20/16 04:54 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I think you're putting too much thought into the whole thing. You're obviously devoting a lot of time and energy into her and like her a lot. Your only helpful recourse is to stop name calling her and stop communicating with her. Give yourselves a few weeks or something and you guys will start talking again if that's what you want. She will tell you that it's been crazy and she was overwhelmed blah blah.

She told you she was busy and didn't have energy for a relationship so she actually isn't gaming you at all. Just take her word for it and give her some space.


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #23944086 - 12/20/16 05:25 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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I think you're putting too much thought into the whole thing. You're obviously devoting a lot of time and energy into her and like her a lot. Your only helpful recourse is to stop name calling her and stop communicating with her. Give yourselves a few weeks or something and you guys will start talking again if that's what you want. She will tell you that it's been crazy and she was overwhelmed blah blah.

She told you she was busy and didn't have energy for a relationship so she actually isn't gaming you at all. Just take her word for it and give her some space.



Saying "I don't have energy for a relationship" is actually saying "I just don't feel that spark with you and its not worth my time." When you feel it you'll do anything to be with someone

Not saying you're wrong about what he should do, its just how he should feel that I disagree with


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #23944196 - 12/20/16 06:03 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I don't have time to wait around for a girl. That's not my style. I put in more effort than she does which has been clear. That's not the only reason but she just isn't on my level clearly. I work 40 hour weeks. She works maybe 20. Lives with her parents and just finished college. I have my own house and full time career. I would rather be with someone that doesn't raise questions and doesn't hesitate on decision to hangout or not. If she likes me then she doesn't play games. I don't have time for girls that are 24 that still can't make up their mind. She's clearly not ready to be with someone that is on a different path.


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: Skizor1337]
    #23944284 - 12/20/16 06:28 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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I don't have time to wait around for a girl. That's not my style. I put in more effort than she does which has been clear. That's not the only reason but she just isn't on my level clearly. I work 40 hour weeks. She works maybe 20. Lives with her parents and just finished college. I have my own house and full time career. I would rather be with someone that doesn't raise questions and doesn't hesitate on decision to hangout or not. If she likes me then she doesn't play games. I don't have time for girls that are 24 that still can't make up their mind. She's clearly not ready to be with someone that is on a different path.



Exactly what I'm saying. If I'm in bed with a girl and theres a lull in the action, I want her to be the one to get it going strong again just as often as vice-versa. Passion matters, you can be brilliant but if you don't give a fuck about a single thing you can go to hell


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Re: Did I just lose a good friend and a potential girlfriend?? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #23960959 - 12/27/16 04:48 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

She seemed pretty straightforward to me gave you a chance, didn't like the way things were going and broke it off with you.  From what you posted I didn't get any impression she was playing games.  Most people don't know they want to have a relationship with someone after only a few dates.  She seemed like she could of been interested in you or not.  Just seemed like she needed to spend some time with you to decide. After dating someone and getting somewhat romantically involved most people don't want to be just friends after breaking it off,  it's awkward for a lot of poeple.  And a lot of people try the just friends card and instead of that try to weasel their way back in romantically.  Not saying you would just that it happens a lot and could have happened to her in the past. Of course it's not always black and white she really could be in a spot where she's too busy for a relationship, if that's the case she may get in contact with you in the future.  Sounds like she was looking for a boyfriend or something similar and she just didn't mesh with you.  It happens to everyone man.  Just forget about her and move on to the next hot slam piece your interested in.


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