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Electric Wizard21
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When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay.
#23920202 - 12/12/16 04:20 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'll be content with no one with me. Then suddenly I'll fee like I need someone with me and it creates a sort of tension and need for me to go out and be with other people.
Anyone else experience this? I think its because I spend most of my time alone and it's my brain fighting back in a way. I can't pinpoint the reason. Is it because I'm an keep to myself type and friendly?
Cha cha chow.
-------------------- I'm sick of all you hypocrites Holding me at bay And I don't need your sympathy To get me through the day Seasons change and so can I Hold on boy, no time to cry Untie these strings, I'm climbing down I won't let them push me away
Edited by Electric Wizard21 (12/12/16 04:21 PM)
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weirdguy32
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I've been alone for so long now that I don't really TRULY KNOW how I feel anymore. I've had the feeling that I've been "too far gone" for so long that I just told myself that being alone was and IS HOW IT'S gonna be. But yeah I do get sick and tired of it
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Electric Wizard21
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: weirdguy32]
#23920287 - 12/12/16 04:53 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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I suppose the only thing I can do is talk to people more but that doesn't seem to help. It's not that I don't like it, it's just something that gets to me now and again. Since it's nearly Christmas I think it is making it worse.
-------------------- I'm sick of all you hypocrites Holding me at bay And I don't need your sympathy To get me through the day Seasons change and so can I Hold on boy, no time to cry Untie these strings, I'm climbing down I won't let them push me away
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Morel Guy
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I'm never really alone. I have my dog and a computer. Can text or call a variety of people. Plus I imagine conversations in my head.
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: weirdguy32]
#23920375 - 12/12/16 05:19 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Its human nature, we are not meant to be alone. That much is obvious.
I tend to like my alone time a lot, always have but i absolutely crave human contact sometimes. There are times where i go several days to a couple weeks where i dont really talk/interact with anyone excluding breif encounters with the few regulars in my daily routine.
Interacting with people releases dopamine, its natural/normal. Everyone needs a friend, ive always preferred that it be an awesome woman i love. That feeling of having a girl that loves you, that one person who you come home to and spend like all your free time with, your best friend. You feel like you and her are everything and you dont need anyone or anything else.
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23921708 - 12/13/16 05:05 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Feel like this quite often. I think it's pretty natural. At some point we all crave connection in some form.
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Electric Wizard21
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We need sex robots already ....
-------------------- I'm sick of all you hypocrites Holding me at bay And I don't need your sympathy To get me through the day Seasons change and so can I Hold on boy, no time to cry Untie these strings, I'm climbing down I won't let them push me away
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: HyperboreanDream] 1
#23921732 - 12/13/16 05:41 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Spend enough time alone and you create a social reality in your imagination. Losing the ability to go back to socializing wih real people can also occur.
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: Morel Guy]
#23922035 - 12/13/16 09:38 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Morel Guy said: Spend enough time alone and you create a social reality in your imagination. Losing the ability to go back to socializing wih real people can also occur.
You seem to be creating a dangerous thing with all this imaginary conversation talk... Loneliness is human nature. We have to be with others after a certain point I agree. It's just that it strikes when I least expect it and usually can't talk face to face with people often.
Phone calls don't have the same satisfaction for me sadly.
-------------------- I'm sick of all you hypocrites Holding me at bay And I don't need your sympathy To get me through the day Seasons change and so can I Hold on boy, no time to cry Untie these strings, I'm climbing down I won't let them push me away
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Morel Guy
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I have learned depending on people and them failing at that really sucks. Nothing makes me feel more alone than asshole friends that don't understand the real me.
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Electric Wizard21 said: I'll be content with no one with me. Then suddenly I'll fee like I need someone with me and it creates a sort of tension and need for me to go out and be with other (cats)
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Electric Wizard21
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: Buster_Brown]
#23922201 - 12/13/16 10:36 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Morel Guy said: I have learned depending on people and them failing at that really sucks. Nothing makes me feel more alone than asshole friends that don't understand the real me.
Yeah this is bad. I keep close friends whom I truly trust.
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Electric Wizard21 said: I'll be content with no one with me. Then suddenly I'll fee like I need someone with me and it creates a sort of tension and need for me to go out and be with other (cats)

I need more cats...I do I do I do.
-------------------- I'm sick of all you hypocrites Holding me at bay And I don't need your sympathy To get me through the day Seasons change and so can I Hold on boy, no time to cry Untie these strings, I'm climbing down I won't let them push me away
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That tension could mean that you maybe have guilt on being alone, right? What is wrong on being alone? Maybe we need some social interaction but for sure it is not the cause of your tension all by yourself.
Try to make disappear the idea that you are alone...because only if you live in a desert with no neighbours you are alone. right?
As 99%of the people dont live in remote villages you must not live in one.
I also dont like the idea of loneliness but it exists and its sometimes painful so I get your worry
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Electric Wizard21
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: Spiralspider]
#23922769 - 12/13/16 01:57 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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True. But even when I'm with people I can feel lonely or when I'm surrounded by people. I prefer 1 on 1, or maybe 2 other people to talk to whom I know well which makes me feel more interactive.
-------------------- I'm sick of all you hypocrites Holding me at bay And I don't need your sympathy To get me through the day Seasons change and so can I Hold on boy, no time to cry Untie these strings, I'm climbing down I won't let them push me away
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I like solitude but then later I'm always on Facebook trying to connect.
Always thinking about this girl at the coffee shop lately, too.
We aren't meant to be alone. I like solitude but if I didn't have my family I'd just go crazy.
Actually maybe I'd pull it off... maybe...
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Electric Wizard21
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: beforethedawn]
#23928544 - 12/15/16 07:57 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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beforethedawn said: I like solitude but then later I'm always on Facebook trying to connect.
Facebook is shit and so is every other social media website. You cannot possibly connect through a computer the same way you connect in real life.
Watch someone mention the shroomery because they don't know the difference between social media and forum based sites.
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Facebook pretty much sucks worse than anything. It is a damn soap box!
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Electric Wizard21
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: Morel Guy]
#23929217 - 12/15/16 12:27 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yes. I have no idea how people can use them and feel connected'. I prefer face to face, I'll be soon face to face tomorrow night as I'm going out for the first time in months.
-------------------- I'm sick of all you hypocrites Holding me at bay And I don't need your sympathy To get me through the day Seasons change and so can I Hold on boy, no time to cry Untie these strings, I'm climbing down I won't let them push me away
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Morel Guy
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Because a lot of people live bullshit empty fake life's.
That's sorta being 'social' in a lot of respects. Just kinda be nice and put on a face.
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Re: When I'm alone I'm okay, then I'm not okay. [Re: Morel Guy]
#23930423 - 12/15/16 06:27 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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No advice. But I feel alone often when surrounded by my close 'friends'. And I'm addicted to facebook where I can 'feel close' to my 300 'facebook friends'.
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