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Anonymous #1

After 5 years I told her to leave...
    #23917776 - 12/11/16 08:22 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

My girlfriend has been living with me for 5 years. For a while our relationship has been pretty drab. We get along but we never talk about anything deep or do anything fun together. We are always in separate rooms doing our own thing. The routine kiss and I love you every hello and goodbye... routine and predictable sex.

I've always mentioned that I want our relationship to change, or that we should move on. And she would always become emotional and want to stay, so I just let things go on the way they were because it was easier.

A few months ago she found out her younger brother is having a child and she started expressing her interest in starting a family with me. Having kids is something I never want to do l had a feeling she might stop taking her birth control and I couldn't get her to accept that I do not want children..... so I stopped having sex with her.... 4 months ago. And we continued on in our humdrum relationship.

I started asking her to leave because it seemed like we were going nowhere together. But this time she said yes.... I wasn't expecting that. Then the kisses hello and goodbye have stopped and the "I love yous" are gone. When I ask her about this she gets choked up... and tonight she told me she's moving back to her parents this Saturday (we are in our early 30's)

I don't know if I really want this even though I asked for it. All at once I realized that she is the only person I care about in my life. She is the only one who cares about me. I have no  close family or friends... just her. I never realized how much she means to me. I know I could easily get her to stay... even if it means we just go back to living our boring existence with each other. I dont know what I want and might only have until Saturday to decide.


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Anonymous #2

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23917800 - 12/11/16 08:30 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Did you make a thread before based on her financial stability and wanting to have a kid?

Anyway if it's so boring do you think her being gone will change that? Relationships can get stale but that comes with a level of comfort. You can't expect one person to do the legwork for two people. If you love each other then you need to really talk, and listen, and make an effort to give each other the things they want. I'm telling you in the most honest way possible - people are bored when they're being boring. You are both boring, if that is the case. You love her, you don't want her to go, and that is enough for me to say that based on what you've said here that it's worth working on.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #23917830 - 12/11/16 08:41 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah, that was me... I guess I get all my relationship advice from shroomery lol and yeah... we are both boring.


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Anonymous #3

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23918472 - 12/12/16 02:24 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

You are just as boring as she is. While she is in the other room doing her thing, you are in balance doing your own thing in another room. If you want change in your relationship you need to embody it yourself and then you can inspire her by example. You can't force anyone to change, it comes from within but you can show them a different way... so make it appealing.

It honestly sounds like you care very much for her.


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Anonymous #4

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23918654 - 12/12/16 05:54 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
My girlfriend has been living with me for 5 years. For a while our relationship has been pretty drab.

I've always mentioned that I want our relationship to change, or that we should move on.

Having kids is something I never want to do ..... so I stopped having sex with her....

I started asking her to leave

But this time she said yes.... I wasn't expecting that.

I don't know if I really want this even though I asked for it.


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Anonymous #4

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #23918655 - 12/12/16 05:55 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

:cookiemonster:


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Anonymous #5

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23922160 - 12/13/16 10:23 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Why don't you shove some spermicide in her vagina then you can continue having sex anyway?

When I started reading this post it was enjoyable. Now though, I am deeply filled with disappointment. I hope you DEEPLY find satisfaction in whichever department you are currently disappointed in with this girl.


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Anonymous #6

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #23928092 - 12/15/16 12:00 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Why would you tell her to leave if you are not sure that's what you wanted :facepalm:


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #6] * 1
    #23928483 - 12/15/16 07:10 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

i guess because I thought it would make her wake up about some of the things I argue about with her... namely her unrestrained spending habits. But I guess she decided to leave instead. Bags are packed and everything is ready for the move on Saturday. She's as good as gone. She won't even talk to me. There has to be another dude. Girls treat dudes like monkey bars, they never let go of one until they already have the next one in the palm of their hand.


Edited by Anonymous (12/15/16 08:52 AM)


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Anonymous #6

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23928929 - 12/15/16 11:00 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah next time don't do that although I have done similar things like that before so I aim knocking you bud.


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Anonymous #2

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23929122 - 12/15/16 12:01 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

She's still there, if you want her you have time to show her. Life is weird, I understand where you are coming from. You told her that without expecting things to change, like you'd be together forever. I'd tell her that. And buddy, there is no other dude.. I mean I can't say for sure but I really doubt it.


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Anonymous #6

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #23930605 - 12/15/16 07:11 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

He should call her up in the middle of the night and graciously ask her to come over and stick his finger in her butt and tell her to take it like a man. Women like that.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #24039105 - 01/25/17 04:06 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

a little update on this... 2 weeks after she moved out she got pregnant by some dude. Kind of a deal breaker for me... talk about closure.


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Anonymous #7

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24039184 - 01/25/17 04:27 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

Damn you just narrowly dodged that bullet.  Chalk it up to life experience and do your thang.


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Anonymous #8

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #24039190 - 01/25/17 04:30 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

A month after moving out she knows she is pregnant?

It takes about two weeks to a month to even know you are pregnant from conception. That was fast.

You are better off without her. Cheers dude. Now you can live without possible regret of her leaving.


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Anonymous #7

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #24039229 - 01/25/17 04:44 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

Well either way he hasn't dipped his pen in that well since 4 months before her departure so either she was or started jumping someone's bones or she's making it up.  Either scenario is inconsequential.  Curiosity has me wondering the nature of how he found out.  I figured they wouldn't be doing much talking so does that mean he's checking facebook or what?


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Anonymous #9

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24039501 - 01/25/17 06:30 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

You made the right choice man, thats for sure.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #24039982 - 01/25/17 10:27 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

i called her just to see how she was doing and she was crying when she picked up the phone. She told me she got fired from her job and a bunch of shit was going on in her life... she wouldnt tell me because "I would really hate her". Finally she told me she "missed her period 2 weeks ago" and ultimately laid it out that she was banging some dude and shes pregnant.

This wasn't something she was saying just to piss me off, I could hear the desperation in her voice. She kept apologizing to me. I thought I would be devastated by something like that but I just feel numb. I thought I was dreaming, I still cant believe it. This girl just cant get out of her own way.

So now she's broke, 34, jobless, living with her parents and pregnant by some joe blow. WOW. If it wasnt over before, its definitely over now. But the big question is.... Should I still try to bang her? lol


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24040015 - 01/25/17 10:41 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

im gonna at least keep the line of communication open with her because I want a due date... If I have that, I can figure a conception date. I want to know if this was in the works while she was living with me. Stay tuned...


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Anonymous #10

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #24040045 - 01/25/17 10:55 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

I can't tell if that last part was a joke or not, but if it isn't I would personally avoid any physical intimacy.

If things are so far gone, and her life has taken so many hits so recently, it would only be confusing, and hurtful to her, to sleep with her, and if she is somebody you love(d) then she's worth sparing the pain. Plus it would probably be confusing to you so sleep with her again.

I say nah.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #24040053 - 01/25/17 10:59 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

believe me theres nothing intimate about having sex with her... but I definitely get your point. This whole thing is crazy, I wasnt ready to move on yet. But now im forced to.


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Anonymous #11

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24040104 - 01/25/17 11:28 PM (7 years, 5 days ago)

Damn. Crazy thread.


-azur


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #11]
    #24040176 - 01/26/17 12:19 AM (7 years, 5 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #11 said:
Damn. Crazy thread.


-azur



so glad the drama and misery in my life can be a source of entertainment for you lol at least something good is coming from it


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Anonymous #8

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24040503 - 01/26/17 06:57 AM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Yea, I wouldn't sleep with her or even try to get back together. And don't be a shoulder to cry on after learning the conception date. There is a very high possibility of getting stuck with her and her problems. And from the way you put things, it will only cause her to lean more on you without learning her lesson.

Walk away after learning the conception date. That would be my best advice.


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Anonymous #12

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #8] * 1
    #24040868 - 01/26/17 10:20 AM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Something about this thread......

Reflects the nature of this forum and why people use the internet. To participate in threads like this.


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Anonymous #13

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24040889 - 01/26/17 10:28 AM (7 years, 4 days ago)

you do whatever you want, but if you keep communicating with her that will shut you off from future opportunities with women.  something to consider.


also she has options regarding pregnancy.  dont forget that.  some people come by learned helplessness.  anyway thats my two cents


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Anonymous #12

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #24040958 - 01/26/17 11:03 AM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Why do people have unprotected sex and get pregnant when they can barely afford their own life. Why? At the least you could've pulled out

Why is OP even getting advice from anyone? The shroomery might as well just be a Facebook copycat site where people post their grows instead of copies of photos of their cats. Otherwise this forum is like the bus stop of web sites. People just show up here to talk shit and its about nothing. I don't know if the answer to life can be summed up in text and explained on a message forum but if so I'm certainly not learning it from shroomery.org

OP next time pull out and cum on her tits. Also, I'd recommend rehab or something since you are apparently so high you couldn't figure out how to not get someone pregnant when you are borrowing the money from mom and dad for peanut butter in your fridge.

OP is not Fee is it?


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Anonymous #13

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #24040990 - 01/26/17 11:18 AM (7 years, 4 days ago)

you sound like a bitter betty who's only angry because other people are having sex and you aren't.  would you say that's accurate?



anyway people have sex (people that arent you) and there are many options to avoid pregnancy other than condoms.  I prefer spermacide film or foam.  its super easy, effective, and convenient.  I dont have to have my woman hormones altered with an IUD, or remember to take a pill everyday.  I dont like condoms much but I insisted if I didnt know a person.  and i mean know know.  not think i know.  my magic number is a little high for a woman i guess, and i've never had an STD.


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Anonymous #11

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #13] * 1
    #24041024 - 01/26/17 11:33 AM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Wanna fuck?


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Anonymous #8

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #24041138 - 01/26/17 12:16 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Why do people have unprotected sex and get pregnant when they can barely afford their own life. Why? At the least you could've pulled out

Why is OP even getting advice from anyone? The shroomery might as well just be a Facebook copycat site where people post their grows instead of copies of photos of their cats. Otherwise this forum is like the bus stop of web sites. People just show up here to talk shit and its about nothing. I don't know if the answer to life can be summed up in text and explained on a message forum but if so I'm certainly not learning it from shroomery.org

OP next time pull out and cum on her tits. Also, I'd recommend rehab or something since you are apparently so high you couldn't figure out how to not get someone pregnant when you are borrowing the money from mom and dad for peanut butter in your fridge.

OP is not Fee is it?




Lol! You didn't even read anything. Girl got pregnant a month after leaving OP from another dude.

He is probably sympathetic because he still cares and wants to find out if she cheated or set this up before she was even gone.


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Anonymous #12

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #24041462 - 01/26/17 02:20 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #8 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Why do people have unprotected sex and get pregnant when they can barely afford their own life. Why? At the least you could've pulled out

Why is OP even getting advice from anyone? The shroomery might as well just be a Facebook copycat site where people post their grows instead of copies of photos of their cats. Otherwise this forum is like the bus stop of web sites. People just show up here to talk shit and its about nothing. I don't know if the answer to life can be summed up in text and explained on a message forum but if so I'm certainly not learning it from shroomery.org

OP next time pull out and cum on her tits. Also, I'd recommend rehab or something since you are apparently so high you couldn't figure out how to not get someone pregnant when you are borrowing the money from mom and dad for peanut butter in your fridge.

OP is not Fee is it?




Lol! You didn't even read anything. Girl got pregnant a month after leaving OP from another dude.

He is probably sympathetic because he still cares and wants to find out if she cheated or set this up before she was even gone.




Oh I'm sorry I read that but I was doubting the OPs credibility

Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
you sound like a bitter betty who's only angry because other people are having sex and you aren't.  would you say that's accurate?



anyway people have sex (people that arent you) and there are many options to avoid pregnancy other than condoms.  I prefer spermacide film or foam.  its super easy, effective, and convenient.  I dont have to have my woman hormones altered with an IUD, or remember to take a pill everyday.  I dont like condoms much but I insisted if I didnt know a person.  and i mean know know.  not think i know.  my magic number is a little high for a woman i guess, and i've never had an STD.




Well yes. I need to get back into having sex. Sorry if it angers me that people misuse such a wonderful experience for selfish and shallow means. I feel if the OP cared more about his life and finding true love, he wouldn't have banged such a shallow girl he probably met from an ad on Craigslist. I'm just saying. Am I wrong? Girl doesn't sound too reputable. Who banged her a month later anyway his friend?

If he can get a video tape he might be able to skip going for a DNA test. All of this is a painful process. Has either party expressed remorse for the child? Do we have sympathy here or not? What kind of life is this kid going to have? You put it in, you take care of what comes out. Oldest law there is.

Sorry if I'm the only one here grasping that concept.

Anyway not to change the subject but I am changing the subject. Mango harvesting season is coming up in a few months if you live in the tropics. Anyone else live in the tropics that are waiting for mangoes from a tree they planted? Just thinking of those sweet ripe mangoes is making me want to have sex. Can anyone else relate? I'm thinking of putting an ad on Craigslist with the title "I'm desperate" next to the ad. I'm going to use protection though.


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Anonymous #14

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12] * 1
    #24041502 - 01/26/17 02:34 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #8 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Why do people have unprotected sex and get pregnant when they can barely afford their own life. Why? At the least you could've pulled out

Why is OP even getting advice from anyone? The shroomery might as well just be a Facebook copycat site where people post their grows instead of copies of photos of their cats. Otherwise this forum is like the bus stop of web sites. People just show up here to talk shit and its about nothing. I don't know if the answer to life can be summed up in text and explained on a message forum but if so I'm certainly not learning it from shroomery.org

OP next time pull out and cum on her tits. Also, I'd recommend rehab or something since you are apparently so high you couldn't figure out how to not get someone pregnant when you are borrowing the money from mom and dad for peanut butter in your fridge.

OP is not Fee is it?




Lol! You didn't even read anything. Girl got pregnant a month after leaving OP from another dude.

He is probably sympathetic because he still cares and wants to find out if she cheated or set this up before she was even gone.




Oh I'm sorry I read that but I was doubting the OPs credibility

Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
you sound like a bitter betty who's only angry because other people are having sex and you aren't.  would you say that's accurate?



anyway people have sex (people that arent you) and there are many options to avoid pregnancy other than condoms.  I prefer spermacide film or foam.  its super easy, effective, and convenient.  I dont have to have my woman hormones altered with an IUD, or remember to take a pill everyday.  I dont like condoms much but I insisted if I didnt know a person.  and i mean know know.  not think i know.  my magic number is a little high for a woman i guess, and i've never had an STD.




Well yes. I need to get back into having sex. Sorry if it angers me that people misuse such a wonderful experience for selfish and shallow means. I feel if the OP cared more about his life and finding true love, he wouldn't have banged such a shallow girl he probably met from an ad on Craigslist. I'm just saying. Am I wrong? Girl doesn't sound too reputable. Who banged her a month later anyway his friend?

If he can get a video tape he might be able to skip going for a DNA test. All of this is a painful process. Has either party expressed remorse for the child? Do we have sympathy here or not? What kind of life is this kid going to have? You put it in, you take care of what comes out. Oldest law there is.

Sorry if I'm the only one here grasping that concept.

Anyway not to change the subject but I am changing the subject. Mango harvesting season is coming up in a few months if you live in the tropics. Anyone else live in the tropics that are waiting for mangoes from a tree they planted? Just thinking of those sweet ripe mangoes is making me want to have sex. Can anyone else relate? I'm thinking of putting an ad on Craigslist with the title "I'm desperate" next to the ad. I'm going to use protection though.



you are a fool that projects your own foolery onto others. your response to being completely wrong and making an ass of yourself is "Oh I'm sorry I read that but I was doubting the OPs credibility
" no wonder you are not learning the meaning of life here, your comprehension is not able to discern black and white type information.

by the way this was his long term partner not a craigslist hook up, and even if it was who the fuck cares? i am in a 8+ year relationship that started as a craigslist hookup, fucking in under 10 minutes.

no wonder you are going to make a desperate sex ad on craigslist. you really summed yourself and what you have to offer there you overripe mango.

OP life is confusing and relationships are hard. be nice but this is luckily now your past.


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Anonymous #12

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #14]
    #24041544 - 01/26/17 02:51 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

This is not my past at all you are lucky to keep an 8 year relationship from a Craigslist hookup you got it in in under 10 minutes.

I retract none of my previous statements. I do not believe anyone's best interest in mind is the child itself. I do not care much about OPs heart ache. Do you know him or something?


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Anonymous #11

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #11]
    #24041549 - 01/26/17 02:52 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #11 said:
Wanna fuck?




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Anonymous #5

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #14]
    #24041551 - 01/26/17 02:53 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

Maybe you and #12 should stop arguing and hook up


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12] * 4
    #24042006 - 01/26/17 05:55 PM (7 years, 4 days ago)

#12 you are a full blown retard and you dont even realize it. You dont understand what is going on here, and you've contributed absolutely nothing. You lose.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24043615 - 01/27/17 12:18 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

So ive been getting a little petty today. Ive really been feeling like I need to know who got her pregnant in order for me to move on, and she has been adamant in not telling me. Only that its someone I dont know. So after many attempts to calmly coax it out of her, Ive resorted to more dastardly means.

"how would you feel if every member of your family received every nude pic and sex video I have of you? all I want is some answers. and you will never hear from me again"

Naturally she is freaking out, and I started texting Hi to every member of her family just to show her I'm not playing around. (I dont think I would actually do it BTW). But to my surprise... she still wont tell me. She would rather have me send her father a video of her pussy getting pounded than tell me who knocked her up. I dont know what to make of this, but its right in line with her track record of not being able to prevent enormous disasters with small sacrifices.

... and obviously its not someone she's too proud of. But ill find out one way or another. Im trying to keep a cool head through all of this. But I need answers in order to move on.


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Anonymous #11

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #24043625 - 01/27/17 12:21 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Just move on brotha mang


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Anonymous #15

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24043654 - 01/27/17 12:29 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

ya dude, don't do that. You will find out eventually. Petty revenge might seem like it would make you feel better but you will lose respect from her family and probably lose respect for yourself in the long run. This happened for a reason, learn from it and grow


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Anonymous #7

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #24043665 - 01/27/17 12:33 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Better watch yourself, lest you forget you're no longer part of the equasion and are treading on ground where you don't belong.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #24043700 - 01/27/17 12:47 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

The thing is... Ive been through hard breakups before, and been cheated on. The worst thing about it is getting over it just to have the wounds ripped back open with new details. Im gonna find out who this guy is at some point, so I want all my answers now instead of dealing with this all over again down the road. But I guess she's not interested in making it easy for me so I have to just live with it. Im not gonna send any pics out... im just really heated right now because she refuses to tell me... im gonna go jerk off and drop it.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #24043747 - 01/27/17 01:06 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

i just came to an epiphany: What if she wont tell me.... because she doesnt even know? :shocked:


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Anonymous #7

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #24043968 - 01/27/17 02:26 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Or because she's not really pregnant.


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Anonymous #16

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #24043978 - 01/27/17 02:29 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

I know it's hard man but try and keep cool.  I know you need answers I probably would too if I were in that situation.  It's easy for someone to say just forget her and move on but me personally would need answers even if there is no answer like your epiphany might be telling you.  Or maybe she is lying about being pregnant altogether.  Try and stay cool through this though, I know easier said then done, but answers will come eventually.

Some girls get nuts when situations like this pop up.  My buddy had 2 different girls fake pregnancies with him to keep him around.  And on top of that one of them also faked that she had a terminal illness and was going to die within a year.  Said her doctor was talking with a make a wish fund or something like that and she was going to get an old VW Bus, something my buddy said he always wanted. I mean that's pretty nuts right there.  You got to really desperate and have some mental issues to fake those things.  I also hear all the time where other girls have faked pregnancies to keep their boyfriends from breaking up with them.  I mean it's totally inconceivable not to believe something like that because a sane person would never believe people are capable of making up such lies. 

It's a frustrating situation but eventually answers will come.  The truth always comes out in these type of situations it's just a matter of time.


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Anonymous #8

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24044040 - 01/27/17 02:49 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Yea, I agree. It will come out in the end. So try not to go nuts with revenge and anger.

Did you ask her how far she is? That would have been my first question. I would want to know if she cheated in the timeline.

It usually takes two weeks for implantation to happen and you mostly only have a short time for your fertile window, as well as late enough to get a test reading. So she could have conceived, by the time of pregnancy realization, from two weeks to a month and a half ago.


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Anonymous #9

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #24044296 - 01/27/17 03:45 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
The thing is... Ive been through hard breakups before, and been cheated on. The worst thing about it is getting over it just to have the wounds ripped back open with new details. Im gonna find out who this guy is at some point, so I want all my answers now instead of dealing with this all over again down the road. But I guess she's not interested in making it easy for me so I have to just live with it. Im not gonna send any pics out... im just really heated right now because she refuses to tell me... im gonna go jerk off and drop it.






You're not wrong friend, but you're not right either.

I'm not going to tell you what you should do, mainly because I know I would want to know the same answers for the same reasons. Most have been thru the same shit, guy or girl. 

Just remember not being wrong doesn't necessarily signify rightness, it only means you're not wrong.  Do you understand?


I do think you are in a better mental place with this as opposed to others, maybe myself as well.

I hope the best for you friend.  Play it super cool, nonchalant, and in a month or two, bang one of her friends, lol.  Or dont.  Either way, I hope you find what you need.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #24044371 - 01/27/17 04:01 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

I get women play the whole fake pregnancy thing to rope a man in, and ive even had it pulled on me before... but for what reason would she have to tell me she's pregnant by another guy? To keep me away? I hadnt talked to her in like 2 weeks, we would only text each other about her mail and stuff like that, its not like i was hounding her. What would the angle be?

Quote:

Anonymous #9 said:
You're not wrong friend, but you're not right either.

I'm not going to tell you what you should do, mainly because I know I would want to know the same answers for the same reasons. Most have been thru the same shit, guy or girl. 

Just remember not being wrong doesn't necessarily signify rightness, it only means you're not wrong.  Do you understand?


I do think you are in a better mental place with this as opposed to others, maybe myself as well.

I hope the best for you friend.  Play it super cool, nonchalant, and in a month or two, bang one of her friends, lol.  Or dont.  Either way, I hope you find what you need.


Word, thanks. im not wrong, but im not right because there is nothing logical about any emotion.


Edited by Anonymous (01/27/17 04:03 PM)


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #24044631 - 01/27/17 05:07 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

u know what im better than this... sending out her nudes? NO! im smarter than that! I dont give myself enough credit. I know how to break this woman down to tell me everything I must know. This was a woman i once loved but now have absolutely no sympathy for...

Step 1. allow 2 weeks to pass with no contact

Step 2. Text her that I really need to talk to her about our little dog that she loves and misses so dearly. She will surely respond.

Step 3. Gently break it to her that out beloved little baby bear has been diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer and has weeks to live. and text her images of forged documents from the vet for added authenticity.  Even announce on FB that my dog is dying (i dont really give a shit what other people think) She knows the dog was vomiting a couple weeks ago, which will add to the illusion.

Step 4. Explain to her that while I would love for her to be able to visit our dying little princess, I cant bear to see her until I get the answers Ive been stewing over..

Step 5. I receive my answers, and tell her gently why I deceived her about the dog.

Hey, I tried to ask nicely. If I gotta get dirty, lets get dirty. I havent felt this side of myself in years.


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Anonymous #12

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24044707 - 01/27/17 05:30 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
The thing is... Ive been through hard breakups before, and been cheated on. The worst thing about it is getting over it just to have the wounds ripped back open with new details. Im gonna find out who this guy is at some point, so I want all my answers now instead of dealing with this all over again down the road. But I guess she's not interested in making it easy for me so I have to just live with it. Im not gonna send any pics out... im just really heated right now because she refuses to tell me... im gonna go jerk off and drop it.




To a copy of that video I assume?


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Anonymous #5

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #24044717 - 01/27/17 05:33 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #9 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
The thing is... Ive been through hard breakups before, and been cheated on. The worst thing about it is getting over it just to have the wounds ripped back open with new details. Im gonna find out who this guy is at some point, so I want all my answers now instead of dealing with this all over again down the road. But I guess she's not interested in making it easy for me so I have to just live with it. Im not gonna send any pics out... im just really heated right now because she refuses to tell me... im gonna go jerk off and drop it.






You're not wrong friend, but you're not right either.

I'm not going to tell you what you should do, mainly because I know I would want to know the same answers for the same reasons. Most have been thru the same shit, guy or girl. 

Just remember not being wrong doesn't necessarily signify rightness, it only means you're not wrong.  Do you understand?


I do think you are in a better mental place with this as opposed to others, maybe myself as well.

I hope the best for you friend.  Play it super cool, nonchalant, and in a month or two, bang one of her friends, lol.  Or dont.  Either way, I hope you find what you need.




I'd bang one of her friends while we watched a copy of that video


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Anonymous #5

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24044726 - 01/27/17 05:36 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
u know what im better than this... sending out her nudes? NO! im smarter than that! I dont give myself enough credit. I know how to break this woman down to tell me everything I must know. This was a woman i once loved but now have absolutely no sympathy for...

Step 1. allow 2 weeks to pass with no contact

Step 2. Text her that I really need to talk to her about our little dog that she loves and misses so dearly. She will surely respond.

Step 3. Gently break it to her that out beloved little baby bear has been diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer and has weeks to live. and text her images of forged documents from the vet for added authenticity.  Even announce on FB that my dog is dying (i dont really give a shit what other people think) She knows the dog was vomiting a couple weeks ago, which will add to the illusion.

Step 4. Explain to her that while I would love for her to be able to visit our dying little princess, I cant bear to see her until I get the answers Ive been stewing over..

Step 5. I receive my answers, and tell her gently why I deceived her about the dog.

Hey, I tried to ask nicely. If I gotta get dirty, lets get dirty. I havent felt this side of myself in years.




You are going to get as dirty as possible. Fuck that birch though. Do it up. Pretend that dog has stomach cancer.


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Anonymous #15

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #24044727 - 01/27/17 05:37 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Ya, don't do that either. The best revenge is living a great life. She is your past now and thankfully you don't have to deal with that bullshit any longer. No job, pregnant and a mess... guess what it's NOT YOUR PROBLEM!!! you won already


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Anonymous #12

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #15] * 1
    #24044734 - 01/27/17 05:38 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #15 said:
Ya, don't do that either. The best revenge is living a great life. She is your past now and thankfully you don't have to deal with that bullshit any longer. No job, pregnant and a mess... guess what it's NOT YOUR PROBLEM!!! you won already




That's some fucking real talk


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Anonymous #12

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #24044740 - 01/27/17 05:40 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Real talk as fuck.

Have you seen this thread btw it's hella real

https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/9987526/fpart/all


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Anonymous #5

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #24044748 - 01/27/17 05:42 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Fuck yeah that thread is hardcore real. What does prisoner#1 have to do with hardcore relationships and pregnancy issues and daddy issues and penis size issues?


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Anonymous #12

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #24044751 - 01/27/17 05:43 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Absolutely nothing...

... as far as I know


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Anonymous #5

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #24044758 - 01/27/17 05:44 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Someone should ask him

Maybe he is one of us posting here


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #5] * 1
    #24044770 - 01/27/17 05:49 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #5 said:
Fuck yeah that thread is hardcore real. What does prisoner#1 have to do with hardcore relationships and pregnancy issues and daddy issues and penis size issues?



woah woah woah... who said anything about penis size issues? lol


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Anonymous #8

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #24044951 - 01/27/17 07:23 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #15 said:
Ya, don't do that either. The best revenge is living a great life. She is your past now and thankfully you don't have to deal with that bullshit any longer. No job, pregnant and a mess... guess what it's NOT YOUR PROBLEM!!! you won already




That's some fucking real talk




Mega real talk. But part of me would not blame OP if he did.


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Anonymous #9

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24045373 - 01/27/17 10:43 PM (7 years, 3 days ago)




there is nothing logical about any emotion.





That's why you're wrong, friend.  You are still looking through only your eye.  You will see, you will get it, but it won't matter.


This sucks, I know. 

But it doesn't matter.  It only matters to you now.  It's fucked up how those things are.  How they matter without substance.

Personally, I've just resorted with hate to the person although I know it doesn't help, but it's what I do.  I don't suggest it, but follow your heart to hell with me if you want.

I'd take a very long year to think on this if I were you, not a week or two. It's true what they say about it taking almost a year to get over every year you spent in a relationship

Pleasant vibes man


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Anonymous #17

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #24051823 - 01/30/17 01:54 PM (7 years, 10 hours ago)

OP, could you be the father?


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Anonymous #11

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #17]
    #24051867 - 01/30/17 02:12 PM (7 years, 10 hours ago)

17, can you comprehend reading?


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Anonymous #18

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12] * 1
    #24052370 - 01/30/17 05:32 PM (7 years, 6 hours ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Why do people have unprotected sex and get pregnant when they can barely afford their own life. Why? At the least you could've pulled out





Using "pulling out" as a method of contraception is utterly moronic. 
Any one with one or more brain cells knows this is a stupid way to not get a girl pregnant.


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #18] * 1
    #24053257 - 01/30/17 11:11 PM (7 years, 1 hour ago)

Ive been doing shrooms, DMT and salvia for the past 2 days. I realize I am a God now and this is all behind me. But if i find anything else out by chance I will post.


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Anonymous #7

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24053282 - 01/30/17 11:23 PM (7 years, 1 hour ago)

:facepalm:


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Anonymous #1

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #24636552 - 09/16/17 09:57 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

For all those that remember this. I found out she had the baby on 9/13. If that was her expected due date, then that puts her conception window at 12/15/16 - 12/20/16. I last saw her on 12/16/16. So she was banging another guy right out of the gate. The baby is black, so its not mine. I finally have my closure. However, in a bizzare twist of fate, the dog that I said I was going to pretend died.... actually died.


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Anonymous #16

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #18]
    #24641524 - 09/18/17 05:33 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #18 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Why do people have unprotected sex and get pregnant when they can barely afford their own life. Why? At the least you could've pulled out





Using "pulling out" as a method of contraception is utterly moronic. 
Any one with one or more brain cells knows this is a stupid way to not get a girl pregnant.





Eh the pull oiut method when done correctly probably has a 90+ percent success rate of not getting a girl pregnant regardless of what the experiments  say.  I know atleast 10 guys that do this and they've had sex probably 1000s of times each and no babies.  Some of them do have kids but they were planned.  The only accident was when one didn't pull out.

Not as good a conventional birth control, even though those fail also.  But it is extremely effective.


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Anonymous #7

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #16]
    #24641656 - 09/18/17 06:00 PM (6 years, 4 months ago)

Bullshit.


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Anonymous #19

Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #24643658 - 09/19/17 11:51 AM (6 years, 4 months ago)

There is some sperm in cowper's fluid AKA precum, but the vagine is naturally acidic and hostile territory for sperm, so it sort of cancels each other out. It's a gamble, but the odds are decent as long as you haven't cum for a little bit because apparently that's how a lot of the sperm get in there. Still, I'd still make sure you know* how the two of you would deal with a pregnancy before going this route.

(*you never really know)


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