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Anonymous #1
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #7]
#24043700 - 01/27/17 12:47 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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The thing is... Ive been through hard breakups before, and been cheated on. The worst thing about it is getting over it just to have the wounds ripped back open with new details. Im gonna find out who this guy is at some point, so I want all my answers now instead of dealing with this all over again down the road. But I guess she's not interested in making it easy for me so I have to just live with it. Im not gonna send any pics out... im just really heated right now because she refuses to tell me... im gonna go jerk off and drop it.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#24043747 - 01/27/17 01:06 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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i just came to an epiphany: What if she wont tell me.... because she doesnt even know?
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Anonymous #7
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#24043968 - 01/27/17 02:26 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Or because she's not really pregnant.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#24043978 - 01/27/17 02:29 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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I know it's hard man but try and keep cool. I know you need answers I probably would too if I were in that situation. It's easy for someone to say just forget her and move on but me personally would need answers even if there is no answer like your epiphany might be telling you. Or maybe she is lying about being pregnant altogether. Try and stay cool through this though, I know easier said then done, but answers will come eventually.
Some girls get nuts when situations like this pop up. My buddy had 2 different girls fake pregnancies with him to keep him around. And on top of that one of them also faked that she had a terminal illness and was going to die within a year. Said her doctor was talking with a make a wish fund or something like that and she was going to get an old VW Bus, something my buddy said he always wanted. I mean that's pretty nuts right there. You got to really desperate and have some mental issues to fake those things. I also hear all the time where other girls have faked pregnancies to keep their boyfriends from breaking up with them. I mean it's totally inconceivable not to believe something like that because a sane person would never believe people are capable of making up such lies.
It's a frustrating situation but eventually answers will come. The truth always comes out in these type of situations it's just a matter of time.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#24044040 - 01/27/17 02:49 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Yea, I agree. It will come out in the end. So try not to go nuts with revenge and anger.
Did you ask her how far she is? That would have been my first question. I would want to know if she cheated in the timeline.
It usually takes two weeks for implantation to happen and you mostly only have a short time for your fertile window, as well as late enough to get a test reading. So she could have conceived, by the time of pregnancy realization, from two weeks to a month and a half ago.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#24044296 - 01/27/17 03:45 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: The thing is... Ive been through hard breakups before, and been cheated on. The worst thing about it is getting over it just to have the wounds ripped back open with new details. Im gonna find out who this guy is at some point, so I want all my answers now instead of dealing with this all over again down the road. But I guess she's not interested in making it easy for me so I have to just live with it. Im not gonna send any pics out... im just really heated right now because she refuses to tell me... im gonna go jerk off and drop it.
You're not wrong friend, but you're not right either.
I'm not going to tell you what you should do, mainly because I know I would want to know the same answers for the same reasons. Most have been thru the same shit, guy or girl.
Just remember not being wrong doesn't necessarily signify rightness, it only means you're not wrong. Do you understand?
I do think you are in a better mental place with this as opposed to others, maybe myself as well.
I hope the best for you friend. Play it super cool, nonchalant, and in a month or two, bang one of her friends, lol. Or dont. Either way, I hope you find what you need.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #9]
#24044371 - 01/27/17 04:01 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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I get women play the whole fake pregnancy thing to rope a man in, and ive even had it pulled on me before... but for what reason would she have to tell me she's pregnant by another guy? To keep me away? I hadnt talked to her in like 2 weeks, we would only text each other about her mail and stuff like that, its not like i was hounding her. What would the angle be?
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Anonymous #9 said: You're not wrong friend, but you're not right either.
I'm not going to tell you what you should do, mainly because I know I would want to know the same answers for the same reasons. Most have been thru the same shit, guy or girl.
Just remember not being wrong doesn't necessarily signify rightness, it only means you're not wrong. Do you understand?
I do think you are in a better mental place with this as opposed to others, maybe myself as well.
I hope the best for you friend. Play it super cool, nonchalant, and in a month or two, bang one of her friends, lol. Or dont. Either way, I hope you find what you need.
Word, thanks. im not wrong, but im not right because there is nothing logical about any emotion.
Edited by Anonymous (01/27/17 04:03 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#24044631 - 01/27/17 05:07 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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u know what im better than this... sending out her nudes? NO! im smarter than that! I dont give myself enough credit. I know how to break this woman down to tell me everything I must know. This was a woman i once loved but now have absolutely no sympathy for...
Step 1. allow 2 weeks to pass with no contact
Step 2. Text her that I really need to talk to her about our little dog that she loves and misses so dearly. She will surely respond.
Step 3. Gently break it to her that out beloved little baby bear has been diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer and has weeks to live. and text her images of forged documents from the vet for added authenticity. Even announce on FB that my dog is dying (i dont really give a shit what other people think) She knows the dog was vomiting a couple weeks ago, which will add to the illusion.
Step 4. Explain to her that while I would love for her to be able to visit our dying little princess, I cant bear to see her until I get the answers Ive been stewing over..
Step 5. I receive my answers, and tell her gently why I deceived her about the dog.
Hey, I tried to ask nicely. If I gotta get dirty, lets get dirty. I havent felt this side of myself in years.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#24044707 - 01/27/17 05:30 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: The thing is... Ive been through hard breakups before, and been cheated on. The worst thing about it is getting over it just to have the wounds ripped back open with new details. Im gonna find out who this guy is at some point, so I want all my answers now instead of dealing with this all over again down the road. But I guess she's not interested in making it easy for me so I have to just live with it. Im not gonna send any pics out... im just really heated right now because she refuses to tell me... im gonna go jerk off and drop it.
To a copy of that video I assume?
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Anonymous #5
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #9]
#24044717 - 01/27/17 05:33 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Anonymous #9 said:
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Anonymous #1 said: The thing is... Ive been through hard breakups before, and been cheated on. The worst thing about it is getting over it just to have the wounds ripped back open with new details. Im gonna find out who this guy is at some point, so I want all my answers now instead of dealing with this all over again down the road. But I guess she's not interested in making it easy for me so I have to just live with it. Im not gonna send any pics out... im just really heated right now because she refuses to tell me... im gonna go jerk off and drop it.
You're not wrong friend, but you're not right either.
I'm not going to tell you what you should do, mainly because I know I would want to know the same answers for the same reasons. Most have been thru the same shit, guy or girl.
Just remember not being wrong doesn't necessarily signify rightness, it only means you're not wrong. Do you understand?
I do think you are in a better mental place with this as opposed to others, maybe myself as well.
I hope the best for you friend. Play it super cool, nonchalant, and in a month or two, bang one of her friends, lol. Or dont. Either way, I hope you find what you need.
I'd bang one of her friends while we watched a copy of that video
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Anonymous #5
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#24044726 - 01/27/17 05:36 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: u know what im better than this... sending out her nudes? NO! im smarter than that! I dont give myself enough credit. I know how to break this woman down to tell me everything I must know. This was a woman i once loved but now have absolutely no sympathy for...
Step 1. allow 2 weeks to pass with no contact
Step 2. Text her that I really need to talk to her about our little dog that she loves and misses so dearly. She will surely respond.
Step 3. Gently break it to her that out beloved little baby bear has been diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer and has weeks to live. and text her images of forged documents from the vet for added authenticity. Even announce on FB that my dog is dying (i dont really give a shit what other people think) She knows the dog was vomiting a couple weeks ago, which will add to the illusion.
Step 4. Explain to her that while I would love for her to be able to visit our dying little princess, I cant bear to see her until I get the answers Ive been stewing over..
Step 5. I receive my answers, and tell her gently why I deceived her about the dog.
Hey, I tried to ask nicely. If I gotta get dirty, lets get dirty. I havent felt this side of myself in years.
You are going to get as dirty as possible. Fuck that birch though. Do it up. Pretend that dog has stomach cancer.
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Anonymous #15
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#24044727 - 01/27/17 05:37 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Ya, don't do that either. The best revenge is living a great life. She is your past now and thankfully you don't have to deal with that bullshit any longer. No job, pregnant and a mess... guess what it's NOT YOUR PROBLEM!!! you won already
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Anonymous #12
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #15] 1
#24044734 - 01/27/17 05:38 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Anonymous #15 said: Ya, don't do that either. The best revenge is living a great life. She is your past now and thankfully you don't have to deal with that bullshit any longer. No job, pregnant and a mess... guess what it's NOT YOUR PROBLEM!!! you won already
That's some fucking real talk
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Anonymous #12
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
#24044740 - 01/27/17 05:40 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Anonymous #5
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
#24044748 - 01/27/17 05:42 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Fuck yeah that thread is hardcore real. What does prisoner#1 have to do with hardcore relationships and pregnancy issues and daddy issues and penis size issues?
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Anonymous #12
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #5]
#24044751 - 01/27/17 05:43 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Absolutely nothing...
... as far as I know
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Anonymous #5
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
#24044758 - 01/27/17 05:44 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Someone should ask him
Maybe he is one of us posting here
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Anonymous #1
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #5] 1
#24044770 - 01/27/17 05:49 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Anonymous #5 said: Fuck yeah that thread is hardcore real. What does prisoner#1 have to do with hardcore relationships and pregnancy issues and daddy issues and penis size issues?
woah woah woah... who said anything about penis size issues? lol
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Anonymous #8
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #12]
#24044951 - 01/27/17 07:23 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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Anonymous #12 said:
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Anonymous #15 said: Ya, don't do that either. The best revenge is living a great life. She is your past now and thankfully you don't have to deal with that bullshit any longer. No job, pregnant and a mess... guess what it's NOT YOUR PROBLEM!!! you won already
That's some fucking real talk
Mega real talk. But part of me would not blame OP if he did.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: After 5 years I told her to leave... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#24045373 - 01/27/17 10:43 PM (7 years, 3 days ago) |
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there is nothing logical about any emotion.
That's why you're wrong, friend. You are still looking through only your eye. You will see, you will get it, but it won't matter.
This sucks, I know.
But it doesn't matter. It only matters to you now. It's fucked up how those things are. How they matter without substance.
Personally, I've just resorted with hate to the person although I know it doesn't help, but it's what I do. I don't suggest it, but follow your heart to hell with me if you want.
I'd take a very long year to think on this if I were you, not a week or two. It's true what they say about it taking almost a year to get over every year you spent in a relationship
Pleasant vibes man
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