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Malcolm_Xtasy
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Short fuse/ anger problems
#23909496 - 12/09/16 08:48 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm not really sure how to go about fixing this. I'm pissed when I'm driving, I'm pissed at work, I'm pissed when my shoe comes untied, every little thing seems to make me angry. I snap at people without even thinking and it seriously needs to stop. Its not necesarily yelling and screaming but its definitely abrasive. I need to figure out why my first reaction to any sort of adversity is anger.
Underlying stress? Anxiety? I feel like I need to see a shrink or something. Like yesterday I tell my little brother to leave the door unlocked so I could let the dogs out. He forgets, (honest mistake on his part) and I just immediately flip the fuck out and call him a moron. It doesn't get to the point where I'm violent but its not good for my stress levels or mental health.
Anyone have any good advice or experience something similar?
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I have a very similar anger problem. I'm just trying to be conscious of it, and try to realize when I'm getting angry an anxious over pretty much nothing. It's a lot easier said than done though.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: RR42013] 4
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Cut down/cut out caffeine, garlic, onions, meat and spices. That will heal your anger issues 90percent guaranteed. Meditation and exercise are crucial for being emotionally stable and balanced. Establish a relationship with nature if you haven't already.
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Could be something as simple as not being happy/satisfied with certain aspects of your life? Like for example, a girlfriend?
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Damn, that sucks. I thought you like to dabble with coke/xans, those can cause some issues for some people. I always felt like xans made me unable to deal with anxiety better in the long run, yeah they work great in the short term, but seems like most people don't actually deal with the cause of their anxiety when taking such things. I have known people that only take xans to party, and they always have issues with anger after using them for a period of time.
I cannot relate, I am probably one of the most mellow people you would ever meet, I know how to stand up for myself if I have to, but mostly just real mellow.
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I'm not really sure how to go about fixing this.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: 1234go]
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Dude, same.
Good thread. Will monitor. Very interested to see what advice comes your way. Dude I have zero patience, that's my problem. And I've known and identified this problem A LONG ASS TIME ago, yet it's still as present as its ever been. In fact it's arguably worse, smh.
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You aren't alone, my temper gets the best of me sometimes as well. Weed has helped me the most but when I'm working and not high, it's a struggle to not get annoyed at stupid things. When people drive slow in the left lane, I rage. Things will get better though.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: BeLove111] 11
#23909579 - 12/09/16 09:32 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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BeLove111 said: Cut down/cut out caffeine, garlic, onions, meat and spices. That will heal your anger issues 90percent guaranteed. Meditation and exercise are crucial for being emotionally stable and balanced. Establish a relationship with nature if you haven't already.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: Niffla]
#23909581 - 12/09/16 09:34 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Niffla said: Dude, same.
Good thread. Will monitor. Very interested to see what advice comes your way. Dude I have zero patience, that's my problem. And I've known and identified this problem A LONG ASS TIME ago, yet it's still as present as its ever been. In fact it's arguably worse, smh.
Yeah I have no patience whatsoever. I guess I'm just going to try and take a step back before I react/speak but its usually a kneejerk sort of thing
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That's pretty much how I was my entire life up until I was 19 or so, been to a couple shrinks and one was even court ordered, never did shit for me. It's not easy to get over and takes a lot of mental awareness (or at least it did for me), the trick for me was to learn to think before acting, feeling anger and instead of letting it explode ask why I was so angry at that moment and whether it was really worth it before just acting and regretting it later. Usually I'll still walk away a little annoyed but for the most part it subsides relatively quickly nowadays.
It's not easy to stop and think when a strong emotion like anger pops up and certainly won't be an instant result but how I started was every time I had an outburst I would think about it as soon as I calmed down (seems you're already at this point considering the thread) and usually think of reasons why it was overboard. After doing that enough it eventually led me to the point where something small like leaving a door unlocked would make me instantly pissed and instead of instantly freaking on whoever it was just think whether how angry I was was justified based on what caused it or whether it was even worth it, and if you can catch yourself before you let the emotion take over you can usually realize it's not worth it at all though sometimes it might be.
If you pay attention to your thoughts when your mad, it's almost like you're constantly repeating the same thing in your head over and over again and justifying why you have every right to be mad even if you don't, if you catch the emotion before it takes hold and throws you down that mental loop it's a lot easier to curb it before it starts. It's almost a form of meditation without actually meditating, just be aware of your thought pattern. It's not easy and takes time but the trick is to just catch the emotion before it takes hold (a lot harder then it sounds considering how quickly emotions can pop up) and think your way out of it, and even with saying all that I can't guarantee it will work but it did for me, now I just realize that it's almost never worth it and especially when it comes to shit like driving or similar smaller things because that's how it's always been and it's probably not ever going to change so wasting energy getting mad over it will literally change nothing because the next time you get on the highway some other asshole will do the same thing making it pointless to feel anything over it in the first place, just gotta accept it for what it is.
One thought that still helps me is when I get mad is to just ask myself if I'll regret it later, the answer is mostly always yes and that helps prevent me from acting like a jerkoff for no good reason.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: 1234go] 2
#23909592 - 12/09/16 09:39 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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1234go said: Could be something as simple as not being happy/satisfied with certain aspects of your life? Like for example, a girlfriend? 
Lets not go there lol.
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Money?
Relationship/Family problems?
Job/Co-Worker(s)?
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1234go said: Could be something as simple as not being happy/satisfied with certain aspects of your life? Like for example, a girlfriend? 
Lets not go there lol.
You need to go "there" to fix your mental health.
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Have you been taking a lot of benzos lately? When I take benzos anymore, they're great until the next day when I'm snapping and yelling at people for stupid shit like walking too close to me or not hitting the gas pedal a half second before the light changes. What you're describing below is what it sounds like when I take benzos.
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BeLove111 said: Cut down/cut out caffeine, garlic, onions, meat and spices. That will heal your anger issues 90percent guaranteed. Meditation and exercise are crucial for being emotionally stable and balanced. Establish a relationship with nature if you haven't already.

rub some turmeric on that and it will also cure your cancer
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I'm one of the most patient people out of anyone I know - most of my friends have never seen me get actually angry at anything or ever yell. Before you react to anything - whether its a situation you're prone to get angry or not - think about the situation before you respond or react. Don't ever jump to a conclusion before evaluating the situation. Is it a situation that warrants anger? what good would anger do? Or would calmly going about the situation bring better results? All anger is going to do is cause you stress, stress others around you, and make you look like a dick. Also most importantly think about if you want people tearing you up for small or simple mistakes. If you forgot to unlock the door would you want your brother to chew your ass up about it? Or forgive and forget, be a big man and get the hell over it. Mistakes happen. Life isn't worth living in anger
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: Prisoner#1]
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are u naturally buff?
could be too much testosterone.
People with naturally high testosterone are usually super irritable. Juicers get it as "roid rage".
u could take the Asante route and order some estrogene and tame the beast inside u 
Also if u smoke weed all the time, the non-stoned life is irritability.
If all else fails, an anger management class should help u control it better.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: 1234go]
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1234go said: Could be something as simple as not being happy/satisfied with certain aspects of your life? Like for example, a girlfriend? 
this made me lol
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i go through patches of heavy irritability. Your recent binges with alcohol and coke probably don't help, and benzos can bring out anger problems for some people. emotional disturbances can come after tripping down the line i find in other people and myself, and sometimes it can stabilize other things.
i think the best way to deal with it, is to slow down a bit and not put yourself in these highly stressful environments as much... getting out in the wilderness is a perfect way to reduce it, and allows you to blow off some steam for a day.
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You nuttin a lot?
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LoveNaborFuckHater said: I'm one of the most patient people out of anyone I know - most of my friends have never seen me get actually angry at anything or ever yell. Before you react to anything - whether its a situation you're prone to get angry or not - think about the situation before you respond or react. Don't ever jump to a conclusion before evaluating the situation. Is it a situation that warrants anger? what good would anger do? Or would calmly going about the situation bring better results? All anger is going to do is cause you stress, stress others around you, and make you look like a dick. Also most importantly think about if you want people tearing you up for small or simple mistakes. If you forgot to unlock the door would you want your brother to chew your ass up about it? Or forgive and forget, be a big man and get the hell over it. Mistakes happen. Life isn't worth living in anger
i like this a lot.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: vandago]
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You need to blast off on some DMT for a bit and figure yourself out..
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: liloldme] 2
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I guess just wait till you "snap" at the wrong person and they beat your ass
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: 404]
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404 said: i go through patches of heavy irritability. Your recent binges with alcohol and coke probably don't help, and benzos can bring out anger problems for some people. emotional disturbances can come after tripping down the line i find in other people and myself, and sometimes it can stabilize other things.
i think the best way to deal with it, is to slow down a bit and not put yourself in these highly stressful environments as much... getting out in the wilderness is a perfect way to reduce it, and allows you to blow off some steam for a day.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: 404]
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404 said: i go through patches of heavy irritability. Your recent binges with alcohol and coke probably don't help, and benzos can bring out anger problems for some people. emotional disturbances can come after tripping down the line i find in other people and myself, and sometimes it can stabilize other things.
i think the best way to deal with it, is to slow down a bit and not put yourself in these highly stressful environments as much... getting out in the wilderness is a perfect way to reduce it, and allows you to blow off some steam for a day.
I've been trying to chill. I've haven't using benzos excessively but I could slow down on the coke. To be fair though, I was like this before I did drugs
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I'm not really sure how to go about fixing this. I'm pissed when I'm driving, I'm pissed at work, I'm pissed when my shoe comes untied, every little thing seems to make me angry. I snap at people without even thinking and it seriously needs to stop. Its not necesarily yelling and screaming but its definitely abrasive. I need to figure out why my first reaction to any sort of adversity is anger.
Underlying stress? Anxiety? I feel like I need to see a shrink or something. Like yesterday I tell my little brother to leave the door unlocked so I could let the dogs out. He forgets, (honest mistake on his part) and I just immediately flip the fuck out and call him a moron. It doesn't get to the point where I'm violent but its not good for my stress levels or mental health.
Anyone have any good advice or experience something similar?
it's 100% your benzo prob brah.
also being a massive faggot isn't helping things
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Lol fuck you 
But bruh I've been taking them as prescribed I haven't really been raging since that weekend that random chick blew me behind that dumpster
Also, reported
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nah on the real though.
When you're accustomed to being chilled out via drugs, it's so easy to flip your wig over stupid shit when you're even just coming down.
I even notice I get way more irritable when I just smoke weed on the regs.
You need to decalify ur third eye and meditate on ur chakras brah. (I actually kinda mean it)
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BeLove111 said: Cut down/cut out caffeine, garlic, onions, meat and spices.
FUCK that. I'd rather be angry.
Malcolm, I have the same problem, always have. In the past I would snap and go psycho over ridiculous shit. Once I quit drinking, it got a lot more manageable. Even when I wasn't in the process of getting drunk or already drunk, the anger issues would still be with me and I'd still lose control as if I were blacked out drunk. Now I still get angry over stupid shit but I can for the most part, internalize it until it passes and not snap on people who don't really deserve it or make an ass of myself over nothing. In the past bottling it all up did nothing because eventually that shit would just explode anyways and would be much worse than if I let it out when I was pissed off. That doesn't seem to be an issue anymore. Once it's gone, it's gone. The "episodes" are becoming less frequent as well. Hopefully it's a sign that eventually this shit will go away for good.
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take some Anti-psychotics when it bothers you and even the most intense rage will dissipate. Otherwise I dont see what the problem is.
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Chill out and relax with a nice fat joint. Nothing like smoking weed to fix the problem of giving a fuck about shit.
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weed won't make the oppression of the patriarchy go away
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Smoke more weed.
I am an angry asshole too. When i started toking, It really helped me even out and not be such a sarcastic, angry, douchebag. I never stopped and don't plan to because without some weed in me, I have a tendency to fly off the handle if anyone fucks with me in any way. That's also why i try not too drink much anymore. Alcohol seems to negate the effects of weed for me, and after a few drinks i might decide i don't wanna take any shit from anybody and start saying very questionable things to people that outweigh me by 100 lbs.
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I know that when I was on oxys for a bad hip....I tended to flip out alot...much more than usual...You taking any opiates?
Other than that, cut out the coke...that def. saps common sense from ya...I've never taken them but sounds like benzos may be a problem too.
People tend to overlook the obvious when it relates to drugs...we tend to look at them as a last resort instead of first.
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ICEJJFISH
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BeLove111 said: Cut down/cut out caffeine, garlic, onions, meat and spices. That will heal your anger issues 90percent guaranteed. Meditation and exercise are crucial for being emotionally stable and balanced. Establish a relationship with nature if you haven't already.

or stay angry and miserable, your choice.
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I'm just waiting for you to post a source for your bullshit ass claim. Garlic, onions, red meat? Please have a seat.
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I'm not really sure how to go about fixing this. I'm pissed when I'm driving, I'm pissed at work, I'm pissed when my shoe comes untied, every little thing seems to make me angry. I snap at people without even thinking and it seriously needs to stop. Its not necesarily yelling and screaming but its definitely abrasive. I need to figure out why my first reaction to any sort of adversity is anger.
Underlying stress? Anxiety? I feel like I need to see a shrink or something. Like yesterday I tell my little brother to leave the door unlocked so I could let the dogs out. He forgets, (honest mistake on his part) and I just immediately flip the fuck out and call him a moron. It doesn't get to the point where I'm violent but its not good for my stress levels or mental health.
Anyone have any good advice or experience something similar?
honestly, dude. do you want to heal? you ask an honest question and I give you an honest response. The food/ sustances you put in your body effects every part of your being including the way you think and feel. Sorry if I gave an answer you didn't want to hear, healing ain't easy but it's a must for happiness and peace- step up as an adult and take control of your life.
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I mean if you post a source for your claim about the onions, garlic, red meat, and spices I'd take it into consideration. HIPPIES LOL
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these are all know agitators of the mind by Ayurvedic medicine- debatably the world's oldest form of medicine practice. Also it is known in Taoism the plants from the "Allium" family, aka garlic, onions are detrimental to your body, mind, and spiritual progress.
Here is a basic link about ayurveda- http://www.thelivingcentre.com/cms/body/peace-through-a-sattvic-diet
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I'm not clicking that bullshit. Lets just go ahead and agree to disagree here. Unless you have something that's peer reviewed I'm not reading some hippie vomit blog
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well best of luck with your life. try not to harm anyone.
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When you're addicted to benzos, you're gonna have a short fuse when you're not fully medicated
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: koods]
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I understand that... But this happens even when I'm fully medicated
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Have you considered anger management classes? Idk maybe the experts in that can help you.
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Yeah i've considered it. I've been to a therapist before but for entirely different issues. It was either hit or miss for the most part
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I think you sound like just an absolutely wonderful person to be around op. Everyone loves to be around an asshole who can't even get a grip on himself.
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Don't see a general therapist take anger management classes. You could probably learn strategies to deal with your anger. You could try medicating your anger away but i doubt that's gonna do shit except make you addicted and dependent on whatever.
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pinedownpioneer said: I think you sound like just an absolutely wonderful person to be around op. Everyone loves to be around an asshole who can't even get a grip on himself.
Just trying to be a better person
You're the one that sounds angry. Did i even say anything to you?
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Malcolm, you need to calm down. You're being completely irrational. Wanting legit sources and shit? Get outta here with that shit.
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Don't see a general therapist take anger management classes. You could probably learn strategies to deal with your anger. You could try medicating your anger away but i doubt that's gonna do shit except make you addicted and dependent on whatever.
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Shroomslip said: Malcolm, you need to calm down. You're being completely irrational. Wanting legit sources and shit? Get outta here with that shit.
FUCKIN OUTTA CONTROL RIGHT NOW GAHDDAMN!!
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ShroomerInTheRye said: Do you do physical activity other than loving them big booty ladies? 
Haha I used to play basketball at least 4 times a week but its been hard working like 50 hours a week. I need to get back in a better routine as far as physical activity/working out. That would definitely help a ton.
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Well, I don't know what all the kerfuffle is...you seem to know what to do...cut back on the drugs a bit and play some sportsball or something. If you keep that physical activity up, you'll naturally drift to more healthy foods which will only improve your mood...but that's down the road.
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404 said: i go through patches of heavy irritability. Your recent binges with alcohol and coke probably don't help, and benzos can bring out anger problems for some people. emotional disturbances can come after tripping down the line i find in other people and myself, and sometimes it can stabilize other things.
i think the best way to deal with it, is to slow down a bit and not put yourself in these highly stressful environments as much... getting out in the wilderness is a perfect way to reduce it, and allows you to blow off some steam for a day.
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Lol fuck you 
But bruh I've been taking them as prescribed I haven't really been raging since that weekend that random chick blew me behind that dumpster
Also, reported
You have to take the illegal good drugs.
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Do you take any benzo's regularly? I used to have a serious anger problem until I realized that it was the benzo's that I was taking to help me sleep that was making me like that. For some reason the day after xanax, I'd always be really irritable and a lot of things would bother me. Once I made the connection and stopped taking all that stuff, it's pretty hard to get a rise out of me now.
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I thought benzo helped me. They help short term depression but cause some people to do in the short term to cause serious long term depression.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: Crystal G]
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Yeah. Anything i can get my hands on really. Its the only thing that really mellows me out enough besides drinking
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I'm not clicking that bullshit. Lets just go ahead and agree to disagree here. Unless you have something that's peer reviewed I'm not reading some hippie vomit blog
I'm sorry, but I have no viable source to back up my new age hippie propaganda claims.
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L-theanine. Increases levels of GABA serotonin and dopamine etc. in your brainz. helped me a lot when i was taking it. largely a constituent of green tea, but you can find it in powder form legally in places online and the supplement section... out of all the supplements you could take, this one definitely helps and there's information to back it up pharmacologically speaking
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Yeah. Anything i can get my hands on really. Its the only thing that really mellows me out enough besides drinking
Yeah, you definitely need to stop taking benzo's and alcohol. Those drugs are known to make people irritable especially when taken long-term over time.
In fact, you should really detox your body and stop taking chemicals altogether for a while.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: 404]
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I've heard good things about that too. I'll definitely see if I could order some
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Mushrooms? Probably a year. I have a bunch of doses though I'm due for a solid 4 or 5. hit trip
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it's great stuff. it's naturally in green tea... you'll like it alone though, i'm fairly certain.
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please don't misquote me, thanks. just try and read into ayurveda, you may surprise yourself. all the best.
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Mushrooms? Probably a year. I have a bunch of doses though I'm due for a solid 4 or 5. hit trip
In a clinical trial mushroom were proven to cure depressions for 8 months.
12 months no fungi.
Proplem solved. I'm a fucking genius.
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How about I get you riled up then give you an asskicking that you'll never forget. That way you'll associate upcoming anger with pain and you'll never be angry again.
This is just one of my many solutions.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: Morgenstern]
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I like his idea too...
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Only thing I can really relate to is road rage. I get livid when someone does something offensive to me on the road, and it doesn't take much. The violent fantasies that run through my head are insane, but I kinda realize they are insane. Weed helps, but only because it makes me a pussy. Otherwise I am cuke as a calmcumber.
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Morgenstern said: How about I get you riled up then give you an asskicking that you'll never forget. That way you'll associate upcoming anger with pain and you'll never be angry again.
This is just one of my many solutions.
You babysit girlfriends? My 35 year old sister has been getting out of line something fuckin fierce.
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Can you pm me a pic? Might be interested.
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maybe u can start by not being such a pussy op. 
1: stop being a pussy
2: don't hate cuz when u hate on other peeps that's what you get in return.
if u read this post and u feel hurt, just let the butthrt flow through u. and im not saying that as a joke, literally let the butthrt flow. let it hurt u, don't fight it, and it'll probs go away on its own..
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purchase a heavy-bag, and beat the shit out of it. spring for the 300lb, because the 100lb will just fly all over the place. Doesn't take much time, but you do need a few sq. ft. of space, and something sturdy to hang it from.
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I wanna make sure the other dude isn't interested first. I wanna make sure she gets a good walloping.
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I have no idea why all of you disclaimed Ayuverdic medicine as new age hippie crap. Ayuverdic medicine a.k.a natural plant based is awesome and has many benefits if you give it a chance. Sure you don't have to cut out all of those things Be Love talked about. Although less red meat helps. Its even been shown in peer reviewed studies cause higher blood pressure and increased intensitinal inflammation which can both arguably affect your mental capacity to handle stress.
Anyway you need to fill yourself and your body with good shit. Good foods, less unhealthy drugs, and more exercise and meditation. Combination of those 4 will take you a long way. Good luck OP, I know the anger and drug struggles. I am in kind of the same boat right now. But with opiate struggles not benzos
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GOT DAMIT
IM MAD!!

i notice i get angry too, mostly about video games, then I ragequit smoke a joint nd thats that.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: BeLove111]
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I'm just waiting for you to post a source for your bullshit ass claim. Garlic, onions, red meat? Please have a seat.
these are all know agitators of the mind by Ayurvedic medicine- debatably the world's oldest form of medicine practice. Also it is known in Taoism the plants from the "Allium" family, aka garlic, onions are detrimental to your body, mind, and spiritual progress.
Here is a basic link about ayurveda- http://www.thelivingcentre.com/cms/body/peace-through-a-sattvic-diet
Experiencially cutting back on garlic onion and spices def helped me. Cutting back on red meat helped too
But if I am gonna be honest that was pure experience. Anecdotal evidence is opposite of empirical evidence. So take my claim with a pinch of salt. And by pinch of salt I mean a large handful of salt
Anyways, I personally had manic highs and lows for years. I remember taking one of my final tests for my neurophysiology class and feeling my heart beat out my chest
I was addicted to amps and that sort of perpetuated my emotional extremes. At this point quitting all habitual drug use was one of the biggest things
But beyond that ya. Yoga and meditation helped a shitton. If u consider yourself a skeptic, there's a shift on of evidence backing up meditation. Prolly the single best tool for my anxiety and anger issues. My family members said I practically became a different person over the course of a few months. And I agree. I get angry 1/10th as much as before. I used to get panic attacks on the regular. Not anymore
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Crystal G said: Do you take any benzo's regularly? I used to have a serious anger problem until I realized that it was the benzo's that I was taking to help me sleep that was making me like that. For some reason the day after xanax, I'd always be really irritable and a lot of things would bother me. Once I made the connection and stopped taking all that stuff, it's pretty hard to get a rise out of me now.
Wtf I didn't know this. Benzos just give me good sleep. Maybe I am just less sensitive or not experienced enough with em to notice?
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Play pick up basketbull. I swear everytime i play now i nearly get into a fight. But it helps me relieve my anger.
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I wanted to kill people Driving.
I did it professionally for a few years. I have a class A cdl.
LSD took care of my road rage?
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I really believe anger stems from a feeling of having a lack of control and sometimes feelings of inadequacy (like you're really mad at yourself)
Anger is a more effective emotion and potentially more benedicial/preferable than depression which these negative feelings can transform into. Anger means that you have a problem you're upset about while depression is giving up and or just not caring.
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I think they are the same.
What causes the anger? Depression.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: PumpJackTeX]
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I went through major depression watching my dad die.
I don't think it had anything to do with not caring about him dying - quite the opposite & no one "gave up"
I was full of anger at that point in my life too.
I agree that being upset with yourself would cause issues but couldn't you call not being happy with yourself, depression?
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: PumpJackTeX]
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depression is a response to a traumatic event so that the body numbs itself forgets easier
anger is just chemicals in your brain telling you to spaz out but because we're often locked behind cars, jobs, the father archetype it transforms into something slightly more sinister over much longer periods of time...
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u could take the Asante route and order some estrogene and tame the beast inside u 
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It was a serious question, not intended for humor. Try not to laugh at someone that's only asking for a helping hand.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: topdog82]
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topdog82 said: Wtf I didn't know this. Benzos just give me good sleep. Maybe I am just less sensitive or not experienced enough with em to notice?
You have to be taking them on a somewhat regular basis. If I were to take one now, it wouldn't produce those effects in me. But give it a week or two of nightly use, and the effects would come back.
It also doesn't happen while the benzo's are active and you're feeling that high from them... it happens the next day AFTER you've taken the benzo's, when you're starting to feel that rebound effect.
For me I think the benzo's caused hormonal changes which was linked to the rage. Cause I noticed whenever I take xanax, I always break out really bad. If I stop taking the benzo's, my acne goes away.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: Crystal G]
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I am not a regular user of benzos or similar analogues by any means... but i have eaten them on those rare occasions and the next day felt forgetful and even more quick tempered than usual, so i don't think it's only just with extended regular use at all.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: 404]
#23911977 - 12/10/16 01:34 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Lack sleep can really have a negative impact on your moral.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: 404]
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404 said: I am not a regular user of benzos or similar analogues by any means... but i have eaten them on those rare occasions and the next day felt forgetful and even more quick tempered than usual, so i don't think it's only just with extended regular use at all.
Yeah, for me too, even if I don't take it for a while and then take it once, I notice I'll be much more irritable the next day, and have clenching jaws and all the symptoms of anxiety.
That's why I stopped taking the shit, that stuff is poison. For months after I stopped taking them my brain felt really cloudy and sluggish too, like I couldn't think or do anything remotely academic.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: PumpJackTeX]
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I agree with you on the whole shrooms and LSD for depression, but I also understand that it might not be the best treatment for everyone. My diagnosis is persistent major depressive disorder with melancholic features and I am currently under the care of a psychologist. I recently took LSD and mushrooms together at the same time to help with depression, and a week later, it seems to still be working. I wanted that change, however, and if someone doesn't either want the change or know a change needs to be made, I'm afraid that psychedelics may make their mental state worse. I wanted to understand why I felt so suicidal all the time and once the psychs kicked in, I was able to open that door wide and really peek in.
I'm 1000000000% behind the use of psychedelics to treat mental health issues, but I also think there needs to be a lot more research into the use of them before we start telling people to trip every time they feel depression setting in. They can be the key to unlocking the door to healing, but they may also be the key that unleashes the beast from its cage.
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I always get a little depressed the week after a trip. Tripping exhausts me so much and takes so much energy out of me, I literally just want to sleep for an entire week after.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: Crystal G] 1
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I have a younger friend who had self-admitted anger issues. He was on probation and couldn't smoke weed which he said was pretty much the answer to his problems. He's off probation, back on weed and pretty much stopped wanting to kill people who cheat at pool, etc.
But your shoe-tying problems could be more severe.
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: Brian Jones]
#23912309 - 12/10/16 07:06 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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I have a friend (self) who has anger issues.
I think we all have issues controlling anger. We are human. Don't forget that!
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ShroomerInTheRye said: Have you been taking a lot of benzos lately? When I take benzos anymore, they're great until the next day when I'm snapping and yelling at people for stupid shit like walking too close to me or not hitting the gas pedal a half second before the light changes. What you're describing below is what it sounds like when I take benzos.
I agree
Not tying to pry to MXtc
But I mean you are makin a thread asking for advice n help about your anger issues/ dooshnozzle issue I just woke up abd I'm still a lil drunk so Ima be honest with what I perceive from you and your anger problems
From what I can tell you use n abuse Benzos and alcohol ( I think I recall you said you quit drinking or something) but Benzos are still and a stronger gaba agonist
Maybe a lot of your anger n frustrations stem from,, some aspects of your life and or it could be could be mild Benzos WD
Forthepastfew months I've been a tramadol n kratom addict I've been so godddamn irritable I've been apologizing almost dail I quit opiods again yesterdayy
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Re: Short fuse/ anger problems [Re: SunnyD]
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I was gonna say to the one poster on the previous page that Anger, Anxiety, and Depression are branches of the same tree. All of them are manifestations of grief essentially. Ive heard Depression is worry of the past, Anxiety is worry of the future and Anger is worry in the present... A good rule of thumb for people suffering from any negative emotion is for them to keep reminding themselves that those tough feelings are temporary, theyll pass.
Trams make me irritable too. My dads like that as well. In fact its pretty common with tram, i remember a poster a while here in ODD mentioned how tramadol put him on edge and in his own words would turn him into "bruce banner, the kind of guy who will fight someone in traffic at the drop of a hat." it has stimulant like properties and plays on mood big time due to the serotonin/SSRI aspect of the drug.
Opiates in general have the ability to bring out rage and irritability while high on them.
Now like you said i think benzos just like alcohol causes those addicted to have a shorter fuse. Drunks especially can really get nasty when sober as well as easy to set off while drunk. I have family members who are serious alcoholics that hands and whole body for that matter shake like a leaf. And is unapproachable and grouchy as fuck til they have like 4 or so drinks.
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Mush 4 Brains said: I was gonna say to the one poster on the previous page that Anger, Anxiety, and Depression are branches of the same tree. All of them are manifestations of grief essentially. Ive heard Depression is worry of the past, Anxiety is worry of the future and Anger is worry in the present... A good rule of thumb for people suffering from any negative emotion is for them to keep reminding themselves that those tough feelings are temporary, theyll pass.
Trams make me irritable too. My dads like that as well. In fact its pretty common with tram, i remember a poster a while here in ODD mentioned how tramadol put him on edge and in his own words would turn him into "bruce banner, the kind of guy who will fight someone in traffic at the drop of a hat." it has stimulant like properties and plays on mood big time due to the serotonin/SSRI aspect of the drug.
Opiates in general have the ability to bring out rage and irritability while high on them.
Now like you said i think benzos just like alcohol causes those addicted to have a shorter fuse. Drunks especially can really get nasty when sober as well as easy to set off while drunk. I have family members who are serious alcoholics that hands and whole body for that matter shake like a leaf. And is unapproachable and grouchy as fuck til they have like 4 or so drinks.
This makes more sense than the bible.
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Nice, maybe someday I can run some game on you, I go hard in the paint though, so watch out.
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