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Alyssa
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moonrockmushy said: And yes I don't wholeheartedly agree with you, but I am as good as you'll get here.
Awesome, if I ever see you I'll be sure to let you have the big end of the joint
-------------------- I'm Alyssa. I'm consecrated to the Immaculate Heart. I don't want her to have to look at adultery to save my privileged living cells, so please keep it PG-13.
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Re: Fuck the patriarchy. [Re: Alyssa]
#23910524 - 12/09/16 02:55 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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moonrockmushy said: Are you really worried about HIV that much? You sound kinda paranoid. I'm more worried about babies.
HIV would mean I can't liberate my physiology anymore, I'd have to be super careful about hygiene. Fuck that, I'd rather be dead than have to hold in my feces for fear of infecting people. I completely abstain from behaviors that involve a risk of transmission and I get myself tested every 3 months anyway, just to be totally certain my waste isn't infectious.
so, in your mind, your shit isn't infectious waste as long as you are not HIV positive?
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Re: Fuck the patriarchy. [Re: Alyssa]
#23910531 - 12/09/16 02:56 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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I mean HIV is more or less treatable these days. Just practice safe sex and you're not much more likely to get it than accidentally falling on a dirty syringe. I think you're much more uptight than you let on, but I love you all the more for it and you have my total support.
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I wish people would stop fucking saying that.
Cancer is more or less treatable these days too.
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That's not a fair comparison. A virus is easier to treat than a cellular malfunction. I mean I'm not saying it isn't an exploitative and unfair industry, but they've come a long way in terms of science.
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I mean I get what you're saying, it's not a complete death sentence, I had a good friend that had HIV and he was a bit skinny but he didn't seem any more or less healthy than anyone else.
Being said it is still a lifelong disease and it is incurable and it comes a host of pretty terrible effects even if you are treating it. And the medications come with side effects too. And it costs a fortune.
I just don't want people thinking HIV is no big deal now. I first heard someone say this in S&R about not telling people youre infected. That's fucked up. Having AIDs is a big deal.
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Yeah well I got lyme, ain't nobody trying to cure me of that it's not ultra deadly tho
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And I'm not saying anything about being forthcoming, but the truth is you can't trust people.
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Alyssa
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moonrockmushy said: I think you're much more uptight than you let on, but I love you all the more for it and you have my total support.
You're really sweet, baby love. I give you kisses of light on your tender, sensitive soul.
-------------------- I'm Alyssa. I'm consecrated to the Immaculate Heart. I don't want her to have to look at adultery to save my privileged living cells, so please keep it PG-13.
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And I have non viral hepatitis. All these things suck, whether you have to be concerned with infecting others or not. I'm glad Alyssa has enough sense to be careful not to expose others.
I am a bit jaded tho. My ex-fiance exposed me to herpes for 3 years without telling me. And wtf do you say at that point? But lesbian sex is nice I guess. Somehow managed to keep from getting it.
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Re: Fuck the patriarchy. [Re: Alyssa]
#23910602 - 12/09/16 03:15 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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And I have many hugs for your angsty ball-kicking body.
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moonrockmushy
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She doesn't have HIV tho, she says she refrains from sex to avoid infecting others, because she might get it, which is taking caring too far. I know I am probably the only one to think this but I think she is doing the world a disservice by being alone, she is a real catch.
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Oh yeah I know. She is paranoid about it and I understand you were trying to ease her fears.
I just didn't want someone else to get the wrong idea.
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Re: Fuck the patriarchy. [Re: Alyssa]
#23910639 - 12/09/16 03:30 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Nice melt.
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Alyssa
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moonrockmushy said: I know I am probably the only one to think this but I think she is doing the world a disservice by being alone, she is a real catch.
Well, I'm not really alone, I have friends. And I'm not totally sexually abstinent, I just don't have penetrative sex or give oral. I've given oral before, but I don't anymore, and it's been long enough since I've done it that I know I didn't get HIV.
Soon, before my fertile years are over (I'm 29 already), I'd like to find someone I can establish a non-patriarchal monogamous relationship with, devote myself entirely to her/him instead of having casual sexual contact with lots of partners. I didn't used to care for that idea, but as I get older I'm finding it's actually what I want. I don't want children, just true love. I've never felt that for anyone, and it's not because of my slightly misandrist tendencies, because I haven't felt it for a female either.
-------------------- I'm Alyssa. I'm consecrated to the Immaculate Heart. I don't want her to have to look at adultery to save my privileged living cells, so please keep it PG-13.
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Re: Fuck the patriarchy. [Re: Alyssa]
#23910672 - 12/09/16 03:46 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Cool story.
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Re: Fuck the patriarchy. [Re: California] 1
#23910895 - 12/09/16 05:15 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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oh the feels... Life can be tough, ya know? I don't think it's possible to speed up love or to make it appear in your life, but you can prepare yourself for finding it. Using the bathroom to relieve yourself would definitely be a start, but everything else just sounds like a radical and genuine desire for equality and reform in the face of the corruption in the world. So, more power to you.
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Re: Fuck the patriarchy. [Re: Alyssa]
#23911028 - 12/09/16 05:51 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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moonrockmushy said: I know I am probably the only one to think this but I think she is doing the world a disservice by being alone, she is a real catch.
Well, I'm not really alone, I have friends. And I'm not totally sexually abstinent, I just don't have penetrative sex or give oral. I've given oral before, but I don't anymore, and it's been long enough since I've done it that I know I didn't get HIV.
Soon, before my fertile years are over (I'm 29 already), I'd like to find someone I can establish a non-patriarchal monogamous relationship with, devote myself entirely to her/him instead of having casual sexual contact with lots of partners. I didn't used to care for that idea, but as I get older I'm finding it's actually what I want. I don't want children, just true love. I've never felt that for anyone, and it's not because of my slightly misandrist tendencies, because I haven't felt it for a female either.
I knew you were really sweet when you let your guard down, just don't keep it down we need you still for the revolution.
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#23911204 - 12/09/16 06:52 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Chakra Shock said: I don't want you to agree with anything I say even in the slightest so continue on your merry way, plz 
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proth said:
Forge : To refine or create something new. Something stronger like iron or love. I forge. You Forge. They forge. The force awakens.
+1
Affirmative action, false rape accusations, false abuse accusations, 80% of divorce initiated by women, 80% of women rated men below average according to a okcupid study but again, women are victims right Alyssa. Classic lol
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I think there's always two sides to the story. You're just harping on negative instances of false accusations, and saying that levels the ledger of over two millennia of disenfranchising and oppression of women in mainstream culture. Hah... the bitter irony of a male complaining about how women rated men on Okcupid. Who gives a shit about OKcupid? Go out into the world and look into people's faces and their eyes, try to see their souls, they are afraid, man! Women walk around and they won't even look men in the face, most often. I walk through a college campus near where I live and I try to be friendly, you know, just say hello to people if we catch each other's attention or what not, and most often the women I encounter even still have an air of hesitation and trepidation about them.
What's that all about? Oh yeah, the fact that women are far more likely to experience some kind of sexual assault in their lifetimes, the fact that countless men go around thinking of women merely as sex objects, and that there are gross disparities in wages between men and women in professional fields, particularly the entertainment industry.
And then you get on a message board and think that the real victim is yourself, because women don't like men enough. Wow.
Accept Alyssa's melt, dude, she's got to have a place to speak her mind freely. If not here, then where? Of all places, this is a psychedelic drug forum, you would think that differences in opinions and perspectives would at the very least be tolerated without having someone trying to shut them down.
If you want to start a thread about how feminism is off-base, go ahead, HostileUniverse and Prisoner#1 would looooove to talk to you about it, but for once can we just have a thread about progressive social ethics result in constructive conversation?
/end rant.
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