|
JustForToday
New Life, New Beginnings


Registered: 09/08/14
Posts: 3,186
Last seen: 6 years, 5 months
|
Pretty sure i'm a father at this point..
#23904961 - 12/07/16 08:07 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
7 years ago I had sex with this chick I knew from school twice in a month. Next thing I knew I heard she was pregnant. I asked someone and they told me it was some others dude's.. Last year I was looking at facebook and came across the little girl who is now 7 almost.
She looks exactly like me. MY smile, my eyes, everything. This has been in my dreams it's bothering me. She has some other dude paying child support. She won't talk to me at all.. I Don't know what I ever did wrong to her.. I got really messed up on pharms after we had sex and had a mental break so that was the last time we seen each.
Now she is married to a friend I know and they've already had another kid.. IF this is my daughter I want something to do with her I just don't know how to move forward with this..
-------------------- Hey Shae, Are you still doing that hand thing? I heard you was doing that hand thing today. Oh God what is that?!
|
akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ


Registered: 08/28/09
Posts: 82,455
Loc: Onypeirophóros
Last seen: 4 years, 1 month
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: JustForToday] 9
#23904967 - 12/07/16 08:10 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
oh no. religious meltdown initiated.
|
badchad
Mad Scientist

Registered: 03/02/05
Posts: 13,372
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: akira_akuma] 3
#23904975 - 12/07/16 08:12 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
^^this.
No. Just no OP.
-------------------- ...the whole experience is (and is as) a profound piece of knowledge. It is an indellible experience; it is forever known. I have known myself in a way I doubt I would have ever occurred except as it did. Smith, P. Bull. Menninger Clinic (1959) 23:20-27; p. 27. ...most subjects find the experience valuable, some find it frightening, and many say that is it uniquely lovely. Osmond, H. Annals, NY Acad Science (1957) 66:418-434; p.436
|
larry.fisherman
shoulda died already


Registered: 11/03/12
Posts: 36,294
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: akira_akuma] 1
#23904977 - 12/07/16 08:13 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
What is almost? It takes 10 months for gestation. Figure it out. If you want something to do with her, then make her tell you, and let her know how serious you are.
|
JustForToday
New Life, New Beginnings


Registered: 09/08/14
Posts: 3,186
Last seen: 6 years, 5 months
|
|
Quote:
XLCaps said: What is almost? It takes 10 months for gestation. Figure it out. If you want something to do with her, then make her tell you, and let her know how serious you are.
It doesn't really seem that simple.. My old sponsor told me to forget about it. How can I?
-------------------- Hey Shae, Are you still doing that hand thing? I heard you was doing that hand thing today. Oh God what is that?!
|
Repertoire89
Cat



Registered: 11/15/12
Posts: 21,773
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: JustForToday] 9
#23904990 - 12/07/16 08:16 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
Youre probably mistaken, and really its not important considering you havent been around in 7yrs. Unless proven otherwise, assume the kid isnt yours.
Also, get your own life and stop stalking people
|
Repertoire89
Cat



Registered: 11/15/12
Posts: 21,773
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: JustForToday]
#23904995 - 12/07/16 08:17 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
Quote:
JustForToday said:
It doesn't really seem that simple.. My old sponsor told me to forget about it. How can I?
Pshshshshs
You dont have a reason to give a shit
|
larry.fisherman
shoulda died already


Registered: 11/03/12
Posts: 36,294
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: JustForToday]
#23905002 - 12/07/16 08:19 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
You're right, it isn't simple. Make it so. If you think that's your kid and you think she will be benefitted by having you in her life, then convince her. But if you want it then you need to compromise. Maybe offer to be a 'friend' until she's ready, if she would be ready at all. Idk what she knows but not having a parent in your life is devastating, and a hard thing to deal with... even for a kid.
|
larry.fisherman
shoulda died already


Registered: 11/03/12
Posts: 36,294
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: Repertoire89]
#23905004 - 12/07/16 08:19 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Repertoire89 said:
Quote:
JustForToday said:
It doesn't really seem that simple.. My old sponsor told me to forget about it. How can I?
Pshshshshs
You dont have a reason to give a shit
My 9 year old neice goes to therapy because my sister is a deadbeat.
|
Repertoire89
Cat



Registered: 11/15/12
Posts: 21,773
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: larry.fisherman] 2
#23905011 - 12/07/16 08:21 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
This child has a father, minding your own business doesnt make you a deadbeat
|
koods
Ribbit



Registered: 05/26/11
Posts: 106,066
Loc: Maryland/DC Burbs
Last seen: 1 hour, 34 minutes
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: larry.fisherman] 6
#23905012 - 12/07/16 08:21 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
The greatest gift OP can give to his child is to stay the fuck our of her life. Jesus Christ, OP IS THE LAST FUCKING PERSON ON EARTH THAT SHOULD HAVE A CHILD.
--------------------
NotSheekle said “if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”
|
akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ


Registered: 08/28/09
Posts: 82,455
Loc: Onypeirophóros
Last seen: 4 years, 1 month
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: koods] 1
#23905021 - 12/07/16 08:24 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
but-but...it'll bring joy to his life.
until a bad day in League of Legends strikes, like the fires of hell.
|
larry.fisherman
shoulda died already


Registered: 11/03/12
Posts: 36,294
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: koods]
#23905030 - 12/07/16 08:25 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
He doesn't have the kid, and won't. He's said some dumb shit on here before but honestly I have no idea who he really is anymore than you do.
Quote:
Repertoire89 said: This child has a father, minding your own business doesnt make you a deadbeat
I didn't say he was, but if it's true then that kid is an important part of him. Having kids changes a person, hopefully for the better..
|
falsereality


Registered: 04/01/13
Posts: 4,112
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: larry.fisherman] 3
#23905040 - 12/07/16 08:28 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
... this is going to end in a clusterfuck.
|
larry.fisherman
shoulda died already


Registered: 11/03/12
Posts: 36,294
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: falsereality]
#23905041 - 12/07/16 08:29 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
Well that goes without saying.
|
spirit_shadow
Feature not a bug



Registered: 08/15/11
Posts: 25,674
Last seen: 5 hours, 23 minutes
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: larry.fisherman] 2
#23905137 - 12/07/16 08:58 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!
-------------------- ERROR 418 IM A TEAPOT.....(this account is automated, all posts related to illegal activities or advice thereof are strictly from numerous online sites and are for informational purposes only)- Circa 2011 Ban lotto
|
finalexplosion
Stranger
Registered: 11/04/16
Posts: 370
Last seen: 7 years, 1 month
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: JustForToday]
#23905150 - 12/07/16 09:04 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
Quote:
JustForToday said: 7 years ago I had sex with this chick I knew from school twice in a month. Next thing I knew I heard she was pregnant. I asked someone and they told me it was some others dude's.. Last year I was looking at facebook and came across the little girl who is now 7 almost.
She looks exactly like me. MY smile, my eyes, everything. This has been in my dreams it's bothering me. She has some other dude paying child support. She won't talk to me at all.. I Don't know what I ever did wrong to her.. I got really messed up on pharms after we had sex and had a mental break so that was the last time we seen each.
Now she is married to a friend I know and they've already had another kid.. IF this is my daughter I want something to do with her I just don't know how to move forward with this..
Don't get on the 'holier than thou' path. Today, women be out getting skull fucked by the alphas. Children out of wedlock. Crazy weight gain. And that's your baby?
Real talk, DNA that chit or GTFO! Did not happen.
-------------------- The light of wisdom is driving away the darkness. Look at the ground. Now you can see your own shadow. If you are scared by the shadow that follows you, just remember, wherever shadows fall, light is always nearby.
|
MrBlueYoMind
Don't do drugs (Without me)

Registered: 04/27/11
Posts: 3,753
Last seen: 1 month, 26 days
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: finalexplosion] 2
#23905221 - 12/07/16 09:30 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
-------------------- Confucius say: He who sticks drugs in butthole has head up ass. EVOLUTION REQUIRES REPRODUCTION
|
zZZz
jesus


Registered: 12/28/07
Posts: 33,478
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: JustForToday] 3
#23905272 - 12/07/16 09:52 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
In the case u are the father, do u really want to be paying child support every month or wutever?.. Just sayin..
|
larry.fisherman
shoulda died already


Registered: 11/03/12
Posts: 36,294
|
Re: Pretty sure i'm a father at this point.. [Re: zZZz] 4
#23905287 - 12/07/16 09:58 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
|
|
No self respecting father complains about child support, atleast not enough for it to warrant an excuse as to not contact their kid.
|
|