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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion]
#23903027 - 12/07/16 11:32 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Jeezus fuck. Its like some of you think that the sexes are different species.
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Crystal G



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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny]
#23903028 - 12/07/16 11:32 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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proth said: A man ultimately respects you when you don't give it up easily... You establish perceived value above other women who do give it up freely. Not sure if women understand or know this, but no man respects you if you give it up freely. I'm not sure if he even 'sees' you beyond a quick lay.
That might be true for the average-intellect or "basic bitch" type of man, but for a lot of guys it's not. A lot of my long-term relationships started from one-night stands or sex-on-the-first-date type of situations. I filed papers to get married to somebody who I slept with within hours of meeting them.
You have to remember there are men out there that even marry porn stars and strippers, not everybody is looking for somebody virginal or pure.
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But then a female will rebuff.. But i'm just trying to get my rocks off too.. Yeah, however .. You're a woman and your emotional intelligence should tell you that you know that's a half truth as you have deeply seeded and long lasting emotional ties to such encounters. Yes, you can fight your nature. However, doing so disables your native strength as a woman.
Let me tell you about my personal experience.
I actually have this problem where I lose interest in a man almost immediately after sleeping with him. It's really odd because I will be practically in love with him when I first meet him, I picture myself marrying him and being in a romantic blissful relationship with him and everything... and then once I have sex with him, I completely lose interest.
And it doesn't matter how long I've waited or how many dates it's been. I've waited after the 15th date after 3-4 months in some cases, and it still makes me lose complete interest in them once we have sex.
That is honestly why I don't bother waiting to have sex when I date anymore, because to me it has made absolutely no difference in whether it turns out into a lasting relationship or not.
I even made a thread about it years back, it was such a persistent occurring theme in my dating life. I'm sure in my case it was a psychological problem of some sort though: https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/20298720/fpart/1/vc/1
I have had some of these guys blowing up my phone later, begging me to give them a second chance, and some of them seemed like quality guys... but I just can't bring myself to force myself to be attached to somebody I have no interest or feelings for.
I am not the stereotypical story of women however, and I don't speak on behalf of all women in any way, shape, or form. I just thought I'd share my personal experience because we all have varied experiences that aren't linear or streamlined with people's preconceived notions of human behavior.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion] 3
#23903029 - 12/07/16 11:32 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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finalexplosion said:
With shroomery, I am sure there are women into exploring consciousness, into shrooms or dtm but, I suspect most are liberal, pro victimhood, and into invading male spaces similar to the gym fad.

I guess it is just a coincidence that I quite literally know hundreds of women who are into exploring their mind, body and spirit with entheogens.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion] 4
#23903032 - 12/07/16 11:35 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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You need help for that paranoia thinking everyone is out to get you. I never blamed anyone.
At this point, I refuse to do a battle of wits with someone who is unarmed and lacks basic reading comprehension.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Crystal G]
#23903033 - 12/07/16 11:35 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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proth said: A man ultimately respects you when you don't give it up easily... You establish perceived value above other women who do give it up freely. Not sure if women understand or know this, but no man respects you if you give it up freely. I'm not sure if he even 'sees' you beyond a quick lay.
Agreed. A sense of self respect, no crazy or baby crazy lol
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That might be true for the average-intellect or "basic bitch" type of man, but for a lot of guys it's not. A lot of my long-term relationships started from one-night stands or sex-on-the-first-date type of situations. I filed papers to get married to somebody who I slept with within hours of meeting them.
Basic bitch type of man? And now the cat throwing and egg freezing thread is explained lol.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny] 1
#23903034 - 12/07/16 11:35 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Why are all minorities underrepresented here?
A repressive climate?
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Crystal G



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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion] 1
#23903035 - 12/07/16 11:36 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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finalexplosion said: Cause a 80% divorce stat initiated by women illustrates a significant portion of enlightened individuals? Threads on egg freezing is a group of the enlightened? A woman talking about bragging she has had a lot of D is enlightened? Right. Women are just beautiful happy snowflakes. lol
Brother, you are the one that always sounds so perpetually unhappy and discontent.
It's funny, isn't it. It's always the qualities that people criticize others for, that they really in fact see in themselves.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: ShroomerInTheRye]
#23903036 - 12/07/16 11:36 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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ShroomerInTheRye said: You need help for that paranoia thinking everyone is out to get you. I never blamed anyone.
At this point, I refuse to do a battle of wits with someone who is unarmed and lacks basic reading comprehension.
The convo was calling out libs and the entire victim culture. You responded like batman to the bat signal. Too funny. Good luck with findin work and a man lol
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion]
#23903043 - 12/07/16 11:38 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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finalexplosion said: Basic bitch type of man? And now the cat throwing and egg freezing thread is explained lol.
Nobody said anything about "cat throwing" except you. And I'm allergic to cats, so your point is invalid.
And yes, "basic bitch" is a thing, it's when somebody is of such average intellect and is literally so basic, they have the most basic tastes and the most basic outlook on life, they are nothing interesting or unique. They are the least likely types of people to be on the Shroomery and have any interest in anything mind-expanding.
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ShroomerInTheRye
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Crystal G]
#23903047 - 12/07/16 11:40 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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My work wife is a basic bitch and I love the shit out of her.
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CookieCrumbs
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Asante]
#23903056 - 12/07/16 11:42 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Asante said: Why are all minorities underrepresented here?
A repressive climate?
Since the original suggestions thread got closed and I doubt many "outsiders" looked into it - I would really like to convert the ladies forum into a minority forum to include other underrepresented peoples of the Shroomery, such as the LGBT and non-native English speakers who may be afraid to post at all due to the language barriers. And perhaps even minority races and certain topics that would very likely get beaten to death in the pub.
Can we discuss this more?
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Crystal G]
#23903058 - 12/07/16 11:42 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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yogabunny said:

I guess it is just a coincidence that I quite literally know hundreds of women who are into exploring their mind, body and spirit with entheogens.
Likely in attempt to get the ring. Quote:
Crystal G said:
Brother, you are the one that always sounds so perpetually unhappy and discontent.
It's funny, isn't it. It's always the qualities that people criticize others for, that they really in fact see in themselves.
Riddle me this batman...
she caught hell lol
Tough life lol
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Crystal G



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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: ShroomerInTheRye] 1
#23903061 - 12/07/16 11:44 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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ShroomerInTheRye said:
My work wife is a basic bitch and I love the shit out of her.
Does she wear yoga pants and regularly post pictures of Starbucks frappuccino's on Instagram?
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Crystal G



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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion]
#23903068 - 12/07/16 11:46 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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finalexplosion said: Riddle me this batman...
she caught hell lol
Tough life lol
Who do you think you're fooling? I mean, why would you even screenshot something like that just to post it? Is that your pathetic attempt at self-validation to feel manly or something?
Man you're even unhappier than I thought you were.
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ShroomerInTheRye
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: CookieCrumbs] 1
#23903086 - 12/07/16 11:51 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Dude...I am a little sad that the LGBT forum here is kinda dead. I know I'm not the only homo here!
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Crystal G]
#23903091 - 12/07/16 11:53 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yes about the yoga pants and Starbucks. She also owns Uggs. She also likes N'Sync and The Backstreet Boys. She has stolen my heart like a bandit in the night.
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Crystal G



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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: ShroomerInTheRye]
#23903092 - 12/07/16 11:54 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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ShroomerInTheRye said: Dude...I am a little sad that the LGBT forum here is kinda dead. I know I'm not the only homo here! 
Dude what? We have an LGBT forum? Where? How could I have never heard of this?
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ShroomerInTheRye
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Crystal G]
#23903097 - 12/07/16 11:55 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah, it's right here:
https://www.shroomery.org/forums/postlist.php/Board/157
edit: Nope, I was wrong about the forum creator. My bad.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: ShroomerInTheRye]
#23903108 - 12/07/16 12:00 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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ShroomerInTheRye said: Yes about the yoga pants and Starbucks. She also owns Uggs. She also likes N'Sync and The Backstreet Boys. She has stolen my heart like a bandit in the night.
Hahaha! Called it. I don't know how old she is, but once she reaches her 40's, her Starbucks frappuccino posts will suddenly be replaced by red wine posts.
I have owned a couple pairs of Uggs, however I was on swim team and Uggs and parkas are common attire for competitive swimmers to keep warm in the winter.
Uggs haven't been in style for years though, so maybe she's not so basic after all. All that stuff sounds pretty basic for the early 2000's.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Crystal G]
#23903117 - 12/07/16 12:04 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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ShroomerInTheRye said: Dude...I am a little sad that the LGBT forum here is kinda dead. I know I'm not the only homo here! 
Dude what? We have an LGBT forum? Where? How could I have never heard of this?
RIGHT??? I didn't even know about it until it was dead
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