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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny]
#23906061 - 12/08/16 08:26 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Proth are you a psychologist?
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny] 3
#23906081 - 12/08/16 08:39 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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yogabunny said: I know a shit ton of female psychonauts/drug users IRL, but I doubt I could get any of them interested in posting here. Actually, I know I can't, and I've tried.
Why do you guys think there isn't a stronger female presence on the Shroomery?
The more appropriate question would be "why doesn't Webster have more negative ratings?"
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny] 2
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I see. And I like and respect that. I really do respect you for the time and thought you have put into this. The world could always use more intellectual minds.
However the biggest threat to wisdom is the belief that you see and know more than you do.
I feel like you do have a big piece of the picture but you are also missing a very large portion of the individual circumstantial social situations that have come from us not being biological robots and living in a considerably more advanced society.
I do think alot of our problems are because of our concrete jungles, and I don't have time to get into it now, I just want you to think on it, there are a thousand million things that influence us, from genetics, to instinct, to epigenetics, to personality set, to society, to microenvrionment to meta environment. The biggest thing I dislike about alot of science (tho I do love it and I love learning about it) is how it makes it seem like we live in a vacuum with set variables and set situations... As if we live in a stereotypical sitcom or something. We do not. Human beings are infinitely complex.
It is also wise to take into account that, while we as a race know more than we ever have before, there is still very limited understanding on how the human mind and DNA works. And even more limited understanding in sciences like metaphysics and quantum physics, which may directly or indirectly effect us and our perception of the world around us.
You could be the most intelligent human being in the world but you are still a human being with limited perception and thus limited understanding.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny]
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yogabunny said: I know a shit ton of female psychonauts/drug users IRL, but I doubt I could get any of them interested in posting here. Actually, I know I can't, and I've tried.
Why do you guys think there isn't a stronger female presence on the Shroomery?
1 word: misogyny.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Alyssa]
#23906364 - 12/08/16 10:52 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Why post here when you can attention whore on instagram?
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: philopian_tube] 1
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Someone could probably ask you the same.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny]
#23906547 - 12/08/16 11:39 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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I recall framing and detailing that particular cause in great detail. It's a cause. One that has effects. Unless a cause is embarked upon, it doesn't have an effect. Being overly promiscuous, abandoning feminine traits, and embracing more masculine traits is more present in modern America than it was in the past. As a result, the cause-effects are time bound to this period.
There are other causes ... yes :
And at the end of the day a person has the power to change this behavior especially once they recognize its root. Unless of course you believe that a person has no control over this. You have argued adamantly that they do.
Although it has a longer lasting and deeper effect, trauma is not exclusive to childhood. Furthermore, 'trauma' centers on emotional impact. Women are more susceptible given their heightened predispositions to emotions... Which gets back to the point I made about the emotional impact promiscuity has on women vs men. It impacts your emotional center. For a woman, she draws from there especially in relation to her nurturing and feminine capabilities. Men don't draw from it as much as it is subdued in men. Thus, they are less impacted by the effects of promiscuity. Were by default wired differently.
You're missing the grand point of my commentary. Women center on emotional intelligence and bonds for which they nurture. That is the nature of being a woman. Promiscuous behavior requires the continual breaking of bonds and thrashing of one's emotional center. That is not preposterous as heightened anxiety and depression are found among promiscuous people. You can short circuit your nature but it won't end well and has long lasting effects just as drug abuse does. It leaves a deep mar. You can become perfectly normal with dedicated effort. However, how many people are awake enough to do so.
When you're a child, your emotional psyche is more impressionable. So, the scars run deeper. This understanding is not preposterous at all. It just links across and goes a lot deeper than something you will read in a white paper/publication.
Well, sexuality is not really a 'tool'. Also, this was framed under someone being promiscuous not someone who tries out something due to curiosity. Also, as I have stated before, these are general statements. There are always exceptions. No one would have a problem with someone who had been promiscuous but has learned from it and is set on being in a committed relationship. Quite easily that would show in a in depth conversation. The issue is, the opposite usually shows which reflects on the scars/imprint/damage the promiscuous behavior has left.
Again, men aren't stupid .. We center on (IQ) which can dissect things with precision. You think a man knows about your past because you sit him down and tell him? We can read it in your body language, the way you carry yourself, etc ... If we can't and were suspicious, we'll take you around our other male friends and use collective analysis.
Why do we do this? Do men really care about your past? No, we care moreso about how your past behaviors have caused damage to you which will cause us issues down the road. A man's worst nightmare is falling in love with a woman only to have her cheat on him? Why? because when a man falls in love with you, he is quite vulnerable as you have managed to unlock one of the deepest aspects of his emotional center. He 'gives you his heart'. Given that we know that, we are quite protective of it. So, it has nothing to really do with you and your past and moreso to do with what implications that might have for us down the road.
If a man assess that you're a jump-off, he puts you in a far different frame than a woman who is looking for long lasting relationship. Our emotional center doesn't get involved off the bat. For a woman, it does (emotional intelligence). You can short circuit it in order to be like a man. However, that damages your feminine traits.
In its simplest form, this deeper understanding is reflecting in all sorts of music...
I don't disagree with you here. There are lots of gotchas. We got off on to detailing one in particular. It wasn't the end-all be all gotcha or even dominant one that causes issues. However, it is a more prominent one in modern times and its where the conversation lead us.
There are purple pill types. Again, were just conversing. You bring up a good and solid point. I acknowledge when you do.
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Hmmm, FinalExplosion made some solid and deep points I must admit. His delivery was harsh and he got off on some provoked personal attacks. However, that was an aside from his valid points. When he spoke of ego he was speaking of what I also observe a lot in present modern society is the feminine being boastful and forceful about points and commentary without backing. This occurs a lot and is a whole other branch of the feminine being discarded in order to embrace the masculine. Woman calling out men w/o justification as if they know what it is to be a man. Boy like posturing due to not having gotten one's ass whooped.
No long ago, she posted in bragged about "fragile male ego" and getting lots of big dick.
There is a lot of masculinity there in the opposite sex especially in American women now a days. It is not one's true nature. Its pretentious. It is very off putting. Many women think living like a man is enough to be like a man. It is just disregarding femininity and one's true nature.
I can see past the mask. It is just more ego which of course leads to pain.
I cannot imagine why men who are critical thinkers, intelligent, have actual assets, and resources as well as options in the dating pool would stake risk that through the contract of marriage. A person's past, lifestyle, and decision making is a tell tale sign of where they've been as well as a logical indicator of where they are going. Not saying a person is a bad. I am just saying, in many a cases, the risk is not worth it. It is absolutely absurd.
Real talk, today's American woman can drink like her dad. Can't cook like her mom.
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The issue as I have discussed before with you is that, as a woman you are already predisposed to being emotionally invested by your nature. You can subdue it but that subdues your strengths. Men by default have their emotional centers subdued. However, that's not where our strength lies.
When a woman subdues her emotional center she comes off as a danger and hazard to a man... Were men after-all. We know what that does to you. We know that our biggest challenge is to fix this (become more emotional). We can't teach you how to be a woman (emotional). So, right away a man's spider senses go off when you do this. He either says.. > you know what.. this is a carousel chick, i'm going to give her a go and hit the road > I don't want to get involved with this > This is going to be work and taking a lot of risk but here goes..
Were not stupid... any Man detailing this for you is doing you a service as opposed to not disclosing this and feigning as if this is not what goes on in our heads.
As I was speaking generally, all I was doing was highlighting the 'many' case ... The default predisposition.
There is an inherent feature. It sends off an alert that triggers us to start investigating. How much effort we put into investigating and what we turn up is a per individual thing...
What we turn up or intelligently predict also sets the mood for how we look at you... We can look at you like someone who is presently a carousel ... We can look at you like a beautiful woman whose experienced and has matured and grown from her experiences into a woman we want to marry... The investigation can turn up lots of things and that sets the stage.
Are our pleasure centers turned off? No, they're always switched on (our libido). If it weren't for overriding our nature, we'd bang your brains out regardless of whether or not you slept with one million men. However, were not going to view the experience the same depending upon how those experiences currently impact you.
You're looking at this case wrong. The kid was emotionally traumatized. Exposing a boy to such deep emotional experiences at a young age caused him to form a deep and permanent attachment that overrides many other deeper considerations. This would take 5 more thread pages to dissect and is orthogonal to the discussion.
If you want to understanding how a man thinks, I've described it. If you don't believe me, ask a truly mature and respectable man you trust to be deeply truthful with you about this as well. Have a conversation with him and ask that he try to tell you deeply about what a man thinks on this subject matter and you'll likely get the same answers. You're not going to get these from a compromised man, white knight, or boy.
Imagine a man in the same predicament with young under age girl. The media and society be saying to hang him by his balls. In reverse, a woman even though she was the rapist is a victim.
I do not want to live on this planet anymore lol
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True and that was primarily a problem in the past when people got married young. They don't as much anymore. So, we have new problems centered on the damages of being promiscuous.
Again, i think you're missing the point. No man truly cares about your past ... What we care about is how your past has effected your world view and valuation system and what that in turn will result in throughout a potential relationship with you. So, using our (IQ) we dissect and analyze you. Depending on what we turn up is what sets the stage for how we relate to you.
Dude, you sir are brilliant.
Curious about your dating experiences? Married or unmarried?
The west is hyper feminized with a lot of liberal feminist jazz. There is so much social engineering telling women that gender is a construct and yes, there are masculine women but, there is far more pretentiousness and stupidity in the world then the latter.
One common thing I come across is the abundance of carousel 2.0 in the dating pool which males a bit more since in youth, early 20s, peak SMV but even more shocking, you see it in the late 20s or girls pushing 30+ which is absolutely absurd given the timeline.
I mentioned once before, a girl I picked up years ago. Attractive, good job, thin, banging bod etc. always single. Again, like you said, a male uses IQ, looks to decipher what is going on. Sure enough, said female trashes her SMV as carousel 2.0. In the process, I am smashing other hotter and younger girls. Said female starts blowing up my phone. It comes more and more common as the big 30 approaches. In comes the drunk dials.
What is revealed; there is a LOA taken, person is not in good place of mind, body, spirit. But isn't that cute bro? She calls me when the sky starts falling.
New girls are turning 18 everyday. At this point, it would seem like a pity fuck. While she still has time, she is best to find someone else. I can't be that guy. I wont.
Again, the women are cheered off the cliff. She to used the "don't need a man" narrative. It is usually common with a sense of blurred reality; on carousel 2.0 and dudes blowing up the phone. A false sense of reality and being special until again, the sky falls and suddenly reality kicks off.
Again, she denies her true feminine nature. Embodies a lot of masculine traits despite the shell of a attractive female. The crash is coming. Its a common theme.
As a dude, all one can dude is stake his claim. Win or lose. Life goes on.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: Alyssa]
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yogabunny said: I know a shit ton of female psychonauts/drug users IRL, but I doubt I could get any of them interested in posting here. Actually, I know I can't, and I've tried.
Why do you guys think there isn't a stronger female presence on the Shroomery?
1 word: misogyny.

Another common theme in the west; the theme of victimhood.

Translation: White American males.
Women are all victims. Pity party + sob story.
Our society reeks of misandry but, that is one narrative nobody hears about despite our corrupt family court systems. And a classic example of male disposability is dudes walking off the cliff by signing marriage contracts despite the 80% of divorces initiated by women.
Runs off with his kids (assuming they were his not a cuckold situation) and unleashes the dogs of the state to extract resources. Classic financial rape.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion] 1
#23906592 - 12/08/16 11:51 AM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Oh great another pathetic MGTOW virgin loser.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: ohcrapitsnico]
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ohcrapitsnico said: Oh great other pathetic MGTOW virgin loser. 
You wut mate?


Make yourself useful; put on an apron and go make me a sandwich. The men are talking!
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion] 1
#23906657 - 12/08/16 12:09 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Dude...I could tell you that I stubbed my toe on the coffee table like an asshole because I was too fucked up on drugs and liquor and you would still tell me I'm playing the victim card. You literally think (or at least try to convince others) that everyone is playing the victim card.
Why do you feel so insecure as a male that you feel attacks are coming from all around? What's gotten you so worked up that you're trying to tell everyone they're playing the victim? You really sound like the one playing the victim card here because every post of yours is "white American males are under attack".
Look, buddy...I hate the liberals just as much as the next guy, and the ultra-conservatives can eat a dick, but you really need to step back and assess what it is you're really arguing for or against.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion]
#23906660 - 12/08/16 12:09 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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The answer to the OP is: There are a LOT of dudes afraid they are going to loose control.
funny thing is they are out of control already. .
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: ShroomerInTheRye]
#23906790 - 12/08/16 12:34 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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ShroomerInTheRye said: Dude...I could tell you that I stubbed my toe on the coffee table like an asshole because I was too fucked up on drugs and liquor and you would still tell me I'm playing the victim card. You literally think (or at least try to convince others) that everyone is playing the victim card.
Why do you feel so insecure as a male that you feel attacks are coming from all around? What's gotten you so worked up that you're trying to tell everyone they're playing the victim? You really sound like the one playing the victim card here because every post of yours is "white American males are under attack".
Look, buddy...I hate the liberals just as much as the next guy, and the ultra-conservatives can eat a dick, but you really need to step back and assess what it is you're really arguing for or against.

You are quick to defend. I would love to actually see your proof your a Trump supporter. Sounds made up. As for stubbing your toe, that is female disposition to clumsiness and a larger Q angle. I am glad you conceited.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion]
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I think you mean "conceded", and no, I didn't do that at all.
If you want proof, search my posts for "Obamacare" and if my feelings on that subject don't offer proof, you can take your faulty argument and fuck right off, sir.
You're trying to put holes in an argument that aren't there and you're trying to turn the focus off your inadequate points. Buddy, I'm a paralegal by trade and I can sniff out insecurity from a mile away. You reek of it.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny] 1
#23906827 - 12/08/16 12:41 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: Someone could probably ask you the same.
Did I just... Get put on ignore for this? 
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CookieCrumbs said: I see. And I like and respect that. I really do respect you for the time and thought you have put into this. The world could always use more intellectual minds.
Same
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CookieCrumbs said: However the biggest threat to wisdom is the belief that you see and know more than you do.
Well, one tries their best not to overextend it. I treat everyone as an individual. There is a backdrop and a backstory which is what I am discussing. I don't focus on the 'what'.. the individual in such circumstances. I am flawed, so it maybe doesn't come off that way. Also, it is hard for people accustomed to the 'what' to understand that I'm not speaking in that frame thus the misinterpretation of me over-extending.
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CookieCrumbs said: I feel like you do have a big piece of the picture but you are also missing a very large portion of the individual circumstantial social situations that have come from us not being biological robots and living in a considerably more advanced society.
I get that portion too and apply it on an individual basis. Again, i'm only highlighting the backdrop. As I said, people don't really care so much about your past. They care about it if they notice things about you and thus go in search of the roots.
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CookieCrumbs said: I do think alot of our problems are because of our concrete jungles, and I don't have time to get into it now, I just want you to think on it, there are a thousand million things that influence us, from genetics, to instinct, to epigenetics, to personality set, to society, to microenvrionment to meta environment.
Agreed. There are a near infinite number of influences from nature and nurture. A person can respectfully analyze and discern on an individual basis with an understanding of the backstory/deeper causes/effects without running afoul. I try my hardest to do so. However, I am human at the end of the day. So, even at my best, I make mistakes as do we all. Recognizing this in oneself ... forgiving oneself .. giving grace to oneself and flaws allows one to extend that to others. I try to do this.
Again, this is only a conversation about the backdrop/backstory. No individuals have to be involved beyond contributing detail to it.
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CookieCrumbs said: The biggest thing I dislike about alot of science (tho I do love it and I love learning about it) is how it makes it seem like we live in a vacuum with set variables and set situations... As if we live in a stereotypical sitcom or something. We do not. Human beings are infinitely complex.
Agreed .. nature/nurture/individual choice (Free-will). Each individual is an infinite and complex soup.
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CookieCrumbs said: It is also wise to take into account that, while we as a race know more than we ever have before, there is still very limited understanding on how the human mind and DNA works. And even more limited understanding in sciences like metaphysics and quantum physics, which may directly or indirectly effect us and our perception of the world around us.
Oh most definitely. IMO, the more one truly begins to understand about the universe, the more it humbles and tempers them. While I speak about deeper details, my commentary is in no way complete, deep in absolute terms, or definite.
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CookieCrumbs said: You could be the most intelligent human being in the world but you are still a human being with limited perception and thus limited understanding.
Agreed

Glad you agree man. I feel like science doesn't often temper itself well. IQ balancing with EQ as you may call it.
The levels and variety of those within a person leaves a huge gap in perspective for alot of people and people tend to fixate. Thats a big reason why I got irritated on FE. He is very fixated on one part and one set of problems for females alone.
I like to see what we have in common cuz the whole world has alot of problems right now and we share them more than we may want to think we do. We are equally the causes and effects of our problems as a whole.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: yogabunny]
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I have had 3-4 serious long term relationships (1 year, 3, and 5 years) in my life thus far. Tried casual stuff for a short spell at my lows but found it to be foolishness and destructive so I quit. Long term relationships Ended due to battles with myself and [modern women] archetypes. Also because we just weren't headed down the same paths.
Without getting too personal; mind explaining "short spells at my lows?" Also, "battles with myself and [modern women] archetypes?" I think I know what you mean all too well but, if you don't mind, could you explain? Cliff notes?
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Unmarried - I initiate dating with the idea that I am journeying with someone for a spell to see if it can be a lifelong journey together. As I haven't found that lifelong partner yet, I have not married.
Same. Then again, given the climate of both the world, the dating pool, and marriage (stats provided prior), I fail to see the value at this point. I admit to being a cynic and jaded but, I have seen the fallout trash some guys life along with the children. It causes a terrible fallout. Until custody is 50/50, until the parade of free money continues, it wont be something I will ever indulge in.
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Yeah the west has a lot of foolish social constructs and dominant ideology. It is due to relatively young age of the country and a lack of time tested social constructs. Consumerism plays a part in terms of constantly ensuring people's heads are scrambled through media/false movements so they are more easily influenced, likely to buy things, and buy into constructs other than themselves.
Numb an entire society with false flags, victimhood, and being offended.
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Yes, it is a common observation for me as well. A consensus of neuroscientists agree that brain development likely persists until at least the mid-20s – possibly until the 30s. The brain by that point gets 'locked in' to an extent to habitual pathways. Causing issues with one's world view/value system that is hard to undue. The good thing is that these social trends are cyclical. There's always going to be that generation that goes full-retard. Typically, a conservative wave follows after that as many harsh lessons are learned and the society reverts back to the mean.
It is a pendulum. We saw how the leftist victim culture swung so far with micro aggressions, political correctness, and language policing. It is about to swing far right.
I predict in the coming decade plus, we will see the far reach and fallout of the "sloot gonna sloot" consequences. The children out of wedlock, bastard children from different men, the welfare state just failing as in, the resources are no longer available meaning, these women and children starve or find jobs. Also, a huge spike in mental health. As of now, women suffer twice as much as men and they say, 1/3 women. The ratio spikes if a woman is promiscuous, highly sexualized at a young age, and had abortion(s). Today, women are quick to be pro choice and let you know about. It is not shocking why more and more men are just not having any of it anymore.
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Yeah, it's their biological clock and subsequent crisis. Men go through something similar known as a middle age crisis related to their accomplishments and standing.
A piece of shit male would hang the carrot. Let her chase. I can't be bothered.
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Yeah, we all falter in different ways. Guys have a similar but different battle they must fight too and can equally trash their crucial years if they're not careful. The knife cuts both ways. So, be careful running around dicking down youngins during your crucial years.
It is pretty chaotic. You seem very grounded. Through exploring my consciousness (if you want to call it that), I am aware, I am a man on my journey in life. With respect to relationships, my path crosses or intersects with many females. All a man can do is extend the olive branch, take my hand. Come with or don't. Life goes on!
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Meantime, don't you end up down her same path by wasting your precious time nailing young pussy. I got caught up in this for a short spell and woke the fuck up out of it. It has equally damaging effects on you as a male and your maturity.
Women who are in a destructive pendulum can depolarize a man the way a man can depolarize a woman. I am very 'cut throat' in respect to distancing myself. So, if I am done with a woman, I cut #s, social media, all info. It is as if she had her funeral. I am not saying I wish it upon a woman. I treat it like a death. Out of sight and mind. Gone into the abyss.
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Yeah its a tragedy. A tragedy of commons for both men and women who falter in different ways. The good thing is that there is always grace and forgiveness and the potential to change.
A few years ago, I would let it play out but, that time has come and gone. With respect to decipher a woman with IQ; one element I keep focused on with women and dating is her relationship with family. How committed is she? Is she a party girl? In her SMV, during youth, is she committed or is a jump off?
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Yeah, if you look long and deep enough throughout history, these things end up being cyclical. That being said, there is a long standing progression and amplification that underlies all of history. So, the longer this goes on, the higher the 'stakes'. I've decided its a game not worth playing or wading into and instead seek out experiences and people who have risen above it while myself trying to grow and rise above it every day. Can't do that caught up in the muck of it.. So, try your best to rise above too Finalexplosion.
How so do you mean? You have the choice, stake your claim, go out, date or be like the sexodus or mgtow guys who fuck off completely. I don't think that is the answer but, I do not think staking half my resources and assets on a woman. So, explain, "game not worth playing?"
Again, I am a man on my journey in life. I have a dream and above all else, I will pursue that. Along the way, you meet women and people on the path. It may last your whole life or usually, short term. I do my best to enjoy the ride.
When you have a dream, a direction you are going in in life, women can come and go. A girl is not the be end all.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: ShroomerInTheRye]
#23906893 - 12/08/16 01:05 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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ShroomerInTheRye said: I think you mean "conceded", and no, I didn't do that at all.
If you want proof, search my posts for "Obamacare" and if my feelings on that subject don't offer proof, you can take your faulty argument and fuck right off, sir.
You're trying to put holes in an argument that aren't there and you're trying to turn the focus off your inadequate points. Buddy, I'm a paralegal by trade and I can sniff out insecurity from a mile away. You reek of it.
Weren't you unemployed like a couple days ago lol
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion]
#23906901 - 12/08/16 01:07 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm Not sure what that has to do with anything.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: ShroomerInTheRye]
#23906927 - 12/08/16 01:16 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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ShroomerInTheRye said: I'm Not sure what that has to do with anything.
Bragging about your career. Just got off unemployment.
There is a lack of female presence in here cause, social media, people magazine, and carousel 2.0 are of more valid interest during peak SMV.
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Re: Why isn't there a stronger female presence here? [Re: finalexplosion]
#23906944 - 12/08/16 01:21 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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y'all don't WANT an answer, y'all want to bicker. :/
The cuck throwers feel threatened. the end.
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