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Invisiblemoonrockmushy
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Re: Loneliness [Re: finalexplosion]
    #23890962 - 12/03/16 03:04 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

I usually just end up being a troll when I try to meet online dates, which nets alot of laughs but I fugger if I'm going to be trolling I should do it somewhere where there is a public record of such things.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: mt cleverest] * 1
    #23891333 - 12/03/16 05:03 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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mt cleverest said:
There are plenty of other loners like yourself on okcupid. You just have to market yourself correctly. Don't put any sexy pics up and be sure to go on and on about your most boring and nerdy interests on your profile.
This is how me and my girl met. we are very boring, antisocial people and it works great




I've been trying to find a date online for ten years, and I'm a decent guy. You won the lottery bro. :thumbup:


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Re: Loneliness [Re: Middleman]
    #23891360 - 12/03/16 05:08 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Jesus you must be a misfit.  It only takes me a week or two to find a date, but I always regret it.  You need to put up more sexy pics.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23891381 - 12/03/16 05:15 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

I bit the bullet and joined OKCupid....Made me realise why being single ain't so bad :lol:


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Re: Loneliness [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23891394 - 12/03/16 05:19 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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moonrockmushy said:
Jesus you must be a misfit.  It only takes me a week or two to find a date, but I always regret it.  You need to put up more sexy pics.




Haha maybe on the inside but I blend right in. I've just been too picky, I guess.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: rogue_pixie]
    #23891405 - 12/03/16 05:22 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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I bit the bullet and joined OKCupid....Made me realise why being single ain't so bad :lol:




It really isn't so bad. It's just our culture that tells us were not enough on our own.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: Middleman] * 1
    #23891407 - 12/03/16 05:23 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Go to festivals with a lot of ketamine to share... I guarantee you'll be a very popular man :lol:


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Re: Loneliness [Re: twighead] * 5
    #23891423 - 12/03/16 05:30 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

How I feel at festivals at 40. :lol:



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Re: Loneliness [Re: Middleman]
    #23891443 - 12/03/16 05:37 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

:canthelpbutlaugh:


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Re: Loneliness [Re: Middleman]
    #23891452 - 12/03/16 05:41 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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How I feel at festivals at 40. :lol:





:lol: I guess the particular festival really matters, I see a lot of people over 30 at the ones around here - but the more pure EDM/party focused ones definitely seem to be 18-28... Come to the oregon county fair sometime :awesome: really solid age balance.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: rogue_pixie] * 1
    #23891530 - 12/03/16 06:09 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Re: Loneliness [Re: rogue_pixie]
    #23891566 - 12/03/16 06:21 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

rogue_pixie, if you're really in ye olde england, then you should hit up jokeshopbeard if you're lonely, you guys could grab a pint together.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23891584 - 12/03/16 06:29 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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moonrockmushy said:
I usually just end up being a troll when I try to meet online dates, which nets alot of laughs but I fugger if I'm going to be trolling I should do it somewhere where there is a public record of such things.




Like, from under a bridge or as in, cleverly pissing people off?

I was posting before about male and female IQ; why the spectrum in males can go from Einstein/Edison to Jack the fucking ripper or Adolf Hitler. A lot more variety given males tendency to go out and compete for eggs. Women are usually about level across the spectrum, much less variety with respect to the given scenario.

I try to view it as a adventure and enjoy the ride regardless of where it goes. It is really strange now a days. Its fun, party, good time and the next sec, people are looking for that white picket fence. Its kind of scary which is why I think people need to be more genuine and up front so expectations are managed.

What are you seeking? I want to just have some fun. If I came across someone about exploring their consciousness, someone unique, not following the beaten path or social conditioning, and listening to mainstream media, I would be open and more intrigued to let things play out.

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How I feel at festivals at 40. :lol:






I know what you mean. I will be there one day. As a child, I thought by now, I would be married, settled, 2.2 children, white picket fence, and a big dog (cause small dogs are cats). As I got older, I felt like I distanced myself from that notion. In my wildest dreams, hitting on girls in bars or clubs, online dating or tinder and being single was not what I had in mind. Then again, what is the alternative? If I had married someone from high school or college, we would have split. I am not the same man anymore.

I think the awkwardness of being "that guy" has more to do with internal programming, society's push to "man up," and my favorite, "do the right thing." The harder thing is to be single, to bang the guns, and stake your claim in this life regardless of the outcome.

I wish you all luck. My journey finding this forum was on meeting some very unique individuals who opened my mind up to exploring this sort of lifestyle. Challenging my fears, my world perspectives, coming to grip with different realities, and entertaining the idea that life can change at any given moment. For now, I am single, I embrace it fully, and I take up the journey.

A wise man once said, "seek and you will find. Knock and the door will answer."


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Re: Loneliness [Re: Middleman]
    #23891590 - 12/03/16 06:32 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

that profile is money. now just think of a good general opener and copy/paste message it to every decently attractive girl in your area.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: finalexplosion]
    #23891593 - 12/03/16 06:33 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Both?  I always just tell myself I live in a bad area for women, but when I lived in the city it was even worse if I am being honest.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: rogue_pixie]
    #23891622 - 12/03/16 06:45 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

You're not alone. I can get sex from women I don't/can't want/have a relationship with. Sex isn't everything to me and I feel like the females I want to have a relationship with pick up on this and are turned off. Today I considered getting some H but I made a decision a couple months ago I wouldn't let a female affect my life negatively. I thoroughly enjoy working on myself though so I'll be alright and you will too. Just give it up and love will find you.


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Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear.
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Behold, I come quickly: hold that fast which thou hast, that no man take thy crown.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23891623 - 12/03/16 06:45 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Lightening strikes. Keep doing things to make yourself a better person in the meantime. It will get better.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: Starstepper]
    #23891642 - 12/03/16 06:52 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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moonrockmushy said:
Both?  I always just tell myself I live in a bad area for women, but when I lived in the city it was even worse if I am being honest.




I think you can set things up in your life, fb & other social media(s), online dating or tinder, and a your overall lifestyle to increase ones ability to get hits. I chatter a bit randomly when out. I like to break rapport, to actually converse, and break through the same repetitive social programs people are in; "how are you?"

You look into people's eyes, a lot of times, its complete zombie mode, and you have to shake people out of it. Sadly, so many people are going though life just durr'ing around aimlessly.

I was in Starbucks once. I watched a customer give a barista a real hard time for absolutely no reason. I injected myself into the convo, threw in some witty one liner, and the barista laughed. Like she went from one sec of being taken abuse and a bad headspace to, having a laugh. She was mine from that point on. Unfortunately, this was not one of those stories that ends with white picket fence and 2.2 children. It ended with her inviting me over to watch a movie late one night and not seeing much of her afterwards. Just different life tracks.

I think I am addicted to the rollercoaster of it all.
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Shiithead said:
You're not alone. I can get sex from women I don't/can't want/have a relationship with. Sex isn't everything to me and I feel like the females I want to have a relationship with pick up on this and are turned off. Today I considered getting some H but I made a decision a couple months ago I wouldn't let a female affect my life negatively. I thoroughly enjoy working on myself though so I'll be alright and you will too. Just give it up and love will find you.




I am hit or miss; as in, when I am on, I am on. When I am not, its just not taking. I try not to place too much stock in it. I have seen a series of patterns and I am trying to be aware of them but, not yet affected by it mentally, physically or emotionally. In the process of shifting my paradigm. Easier said than done.

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Lightening strikes. Keep doing things to make yourself a better person in the meantime. It will get better.




Love that. I heard that on that movie, meet joe black, and the point of staying open rather than jaded. In order for lightning to strike and have impact, you must be grounded.
I either look to meditate or do a body scan (surrender to what is; let go), keep myself grounded, pull from the experiences in my life what I can, and let go of the rest.


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Re: Loneliness [Re: Lucis]
    #23891650 - 12/03/16 06:54 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Fennario said:
rogue_pixie, if you're really in ye olde england, then you should hit up jokeshopbeard if you're lonely, you guys could grab a pint together.




Lol, yeah I live in the UK. It's not that SMALL though. I'm in the north!


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Re: Loneliness [Re: rogue_pixie]
    #23891658 - 12/03/16 06:56 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

and that's like a 4-6 hour voyage? You should see mad_larkin instead he lives more towards the middle :awesome:


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