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twighead
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Hello RP,
Dashing young cavalry officer here.
While I do not understand loneliness, you may find me pertinent to your interests.
If you find my amorous processions to be palatable, please do send a letter - my stable boy will deliver it to me.
Until then, adieu my lady.
Signed, Otan Craiovești of Wallachia
P.S.
For your keepsake...
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rogue_pixie
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Registered: 07/28/04
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Loc: UK
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twighead said: Hello RP,
Dashing young cavalry officer here.
While I do not understand loneliness, you may find me pertinent to your interests.
If you find my amorous processions to be palatable, please do send a letter - my stable boy will deliver it to me.
Until then, adieu my lady.
Signed, Otan Craiovești of Wallachia
P.S.
For your keepsake...

hahaha I am in love already
-------------------- "Whatever you do, you need to keep moving. Because when you stop moving you die (physically and emotionally). Good luck and blessings of happiness and fortune." ~ RandalFlagg RIP
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rogue_pixie
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Registered: 07/28/04
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The posts on this thread so far have been awesome. Thank you so much everyone
-------------------- "Whatever you do, you need to keep moving. Because when you stop moving you die (physically and emotionally). Good luck and blessings of happiness and fortune." ~ RandalFlagg RIP
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Repertoire89
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Re: Loneliness [Re: Niffla]
#23887722 - 12/02/16 02:01 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Niffla said:
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Repertoire89 said: Join a sports team
I tried joining the Dallas Cowboys as a quarterback because of the fame and the bitches and the money but they didn't want me

they said something about me having to know how to throw a football or some bullshit
fuck them, their loss
I think they were testing you, did you try wrestling them into submission?
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moonrockmushy
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rogue_pixie said: Yeah... I've had nothing but bad experiences on dating websites. I've been used many times, when a casual hookup is the last thing that I want. The trouble is guys never seem to be upfront about the fact that they only want sex, and pretend that they're interested in a relationship with you until they get what they want. That's not only hurtful, but it's such a waste of my time. The problem is I'm very open-minded, and always kept telling myself not to keep dismissing people or online dating because others have had success with it and there will be someone decent out there but it happens to me every time. I think one of my flaws is that I always look for the best in everyone, so in actual fact I'm not a very good judge of character at all.
Yeah men suck, which is why I can't really blame women for being fickle and weird. I can say for sure I'm not going to want to have sex with someone until there is some level of mutual comfort, and I wouldn't want to hurt someone who was special enough to get that close to me. I can also say you won't find me on any dating sites 
It's probably me just being a sap, but I feel like if a relationship doesn't happen in a serendipitous manner it isn't really real. The whole act of blatantly marketing myself and shopping for partners just feels like it is asking for a miserable relationship. Maybe I could play the numbers game and try to plow through second rate people in order to hopefully find one I really like, but by the time I get to them I feel like I will have been tainted by all the heathens and my view on love compromised.
One thing I know, I will survive.
(Gloria Gaynor - I will survive)
I think you seeing black boxes is a problem on your end, I saw them all. They were songs about loneliness tho.
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mt cleverest
clevendafodil

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moonrockmushy said: It's probably me just being a sap, but I feel like if a relationship doesn't happen in a serendipitous manner it isn't really real. The whole act of blatantly marketing myself and shopping for partners just feels like it is asking for a miserable relationship.
Not real? You're not real bro. Why can't meetings online be serendipitous too? All dating is just blatant marketing and shopping for partners, online or offline. just cus it hasnt worked for you doesnt mean you have to shit on it and call the millions of relationships started online not real. I'm offended!
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moonrockmushy
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Yeah well that is why I stopped dating. The worst part is when I do meet someone I really like I usually fuck it up somehow.
You're are a phony and a hack though, no offence. You said people should seek out christian women and take advantage of their superior morals. That to me is both naive about the way people are and how the world works, and lacking in integrity.
Still offended?
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g00ru
lit pants tit licker



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Honestly, I should be lonely based on the number of friends I have, but I don't really feel that way... usually I'm pretty content. I figure that's because I've actually made quite a lot of friends over my life, I just kinda 'choose' not to hang with them any more. It's weird but yeah, I feel pretty good about it. Personally I think it's fine to be kind of a loner.. I mean in this modern world, who can blame you for being an autonomous unit?
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mt cleverest
clevendafodil

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Nooooo, you said no offense.
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moonrockmushy
High on Spite



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Re: Loneliness [Re: g00ru]
#23887946 - 12/02/16 03:12 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm a shithead when I'm alone is the problem. People keep me grounded. I've learned this doesn't need to be a girlfriend tho. For all the emphasis people put on sex it never really made my life better in the long run. It's just another addiction.
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rogue_pixie
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moonrockmushy said:
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rogue_pixie said: Yeah... I've had nothing but bad experiences on dating websites. I've been used many times, when a casual hookup is the last thing that I want. The trouble is guys never seem to be upfront about the fact that they only want sex, and pretend that they're interested in a relationship with you until they get what they want. That's not only hurtful, but it's such a waste of my time. The problem is I'm very open-minded, and always kept telling myself not to keep dismissing people or online dating because others have had success with it and there will be someone decent out there but it happens to me every time. I think one of my flaws is that I always look for the best in everyone, so in actual fact I'm not a very good judge of character at all.
Yeah men suck, which is why I can't really blame women for being fickle and weird. I can say for sure I'm not going to want to have sex with someone until there is some level of mutual comfort, and I wouldn't want to hurt someone who was special enough to get that close to me. I can also say you won't find me on any dating sites 
It's probably me just being a sap, but I feel like if a relationship doesn't happen in a serendipitous manner it isn't really real. The whole act of blatantly marketing myself and shopping for partners just feels like it is asking for a miserable relationship. Maybe I could play the numbers game and try to plow through second rate people in order to hopefully find one I really like, but by the time I get to them I feel like I will have been tainted by all the heathens and my view on love compromised.
One thing I know, I will survive.
(Gloria Gaynor - I will survive)
I think you seeing black boxes is a problem on your end, I saw them all. They were songs about loneliness tho.
That's how I feel about online dating. Each party knows what the other person is there for, which takes away the mystery and the romance - there is no build up to the relationship as it were, you are just kind of forced into this weird dynamic using an unnatural medium. Maybe it works for certain types of individual though...But yeah, it has made me quite jaded and cynical, at least with regard to online dating because of all of my bad experiences.
-------------------- "Whatever you do, you need to keep moving. Because when you stop moving you die (physically and emotionally). Good luck and blessings of happiness and fortune." ~ RandalFlagg RIP
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rogue_pixie
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But yeah...back to loneliness. It's 1.41am here and I'm on a forum alone on a Friday night
-------------------- "Whatever you do, you need to keep moving. Because when you stop moving you die (physically and emotionally). Good luck and blessings of happiness and fortune." ~ RandalFlagg RIP
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akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ


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just play black metal and watch conspiracy videos, this is how you learn the ways of the world.
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watermelon mon
Willow Trees

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I just want to ride my bicycle around in the sunshine with some snacks
Someone asked me for some drugs one time I smiled at them
Told them to go for a walk in the sunshine
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spirit_shadow
Feature not a bug



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rogue_pixie said: But yeah...back to loneliness. It's 1.41am here and I'm on a forum alone on a Friday night 
So? Solitude can reconnect the spirit. Once you master yourself and become more aware of your surroundings the better the success rate of your endeavors
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finalexplosion
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moonrockmushy said:
It's probably me just being a sap, but I feel like if a relationship doesn't happen in a serendipitous manner it isn't really real.
It seems so common now a days but, it is riddle with a lot of madness. At a certain point, being in the bar or club just gets annoying. I am not saying I wont do it. I do. I just see a lack of value in it. I think the manner in it happening and the actual timing being right for both people is all the more rare. With online, its kind of a shit show cause, people are swiping or window shopping. Nobody wants to bring up "what does this mean?" Furthermore, if someone is online, I pretty much presume its open season lol ... until proven otherwise.
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rogue_pixie said: That's how I feel about online dating. Each party knows what the other person is there for, which takes away the mystery and the romance - there is no build up to the relationship as it were, you are just kind of forced into this weird dynamic using an unnatural medium. Maybe it works for certain types of individual though...But yeah, it has made me quite jaded and cynical, at least with regard to online dating because of all of my bad experiences.
When was your last date? I haven't felt strongly in sometime but, when I did, it was two people randomly meeting, and it just sorta happened. It is usually just physical when online and given, people are so casual today, its hard to take it seriously or be that invested in any of it. I use it for networking. If the girl is cool, we do not have that much chemistry, it can be a physical relationship or we can just network through our circle. Its kind of cool that way.
-------------------- The light of wisdom is driving away the darkness. Look at the ground. Now you can see your own shadow. If you are scared by the shadow that follows you, just remember, wherever shadows fall, light is always nearby.
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Lucis
Nutritional Yeast

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rogue_pixie said: Just wondering if anyone else is in a similar position
I am in a similar position, similar age, but I wouldn't say I am lonely, maybe I don't know I am lonely, I don't know.
I guess I am pretty numb these days, so might just be numb to human connection, most life just seems like work, eat, sleep, repeat, with no purpose and meaning besides stimulation from sex, drugs, and rock & roll.
I don't know, maybe I am missing something, but I would like to fancy myself as being rather bright, so perhaps life really is so simple, and that's all their is to it.
I moved states a few years ago, and haven't tried at all to meet anyone to be friends with, or in a relationship with, it's hard to be someone who likes to exercise, and also thinks substances are interesting, both of those things are often opposed to each other. I worked at a place with a family member, and they tried to set things up for me, but I am stubborn meaning when people try to set me up, I can sniff it out a mile away, and don't like it because it feels like people are assuming I am some wreck of a person, which I am not, just because my jimmies don't get rustled as easily as the next man people think I must be internalizing some shit.
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LunarEclipse
Enlil's Official Story


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Re: Loneliness [Re: Lucis]
#23888919 - 12/02/16 08:51 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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rogue_pixie said: Just wondering if anyone else is in a similar position
I am in a similar position, similar age, but I wouldn't say I am lonely, maybe I don't know I am lonely, I don't know.
I guess I am pretty numb these days, so might just be numb to human connection, most life just seems like work, eat, sleep, repeat, with no purpose and meaning besides stimulation from sex, drugs, and rock & roll.
I don't know, maybe I am missing something, but I would like to fancy myself as being rather bright, so perhaps life really is so simple, and that's all their is to it.
I moved states a few years ago, and haven't tried at all to meet anyone to be friends with, or in a relationship with, it's hard to be someone who likes to exercise, and also thinks substances are interesting, both of those things are often opposed to each other. I worked at a place with a family member, and they tried to set things up for me, but I am stubborn meaning when people try to set me up, I can sniff it out a mile away, and don't like it because it feels like people are assuming I am some wreck of a person, which I am not, just because my jimmies don't get rustled as easily as the next man people think I must be internalizing some shit.
Methinks the lady doth protest too much.
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trscstghst
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I can relate. I cant meet anyone like me who I like because I am everything I don't like in other people. basically I don't like myself so I cant like other people especially if I see they are like me.
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finalexplosion
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Re: Loneliness [Re: Lucis]
#23890893 - 12/03/16 02:46 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Fennario said:
I moved states a few years ago, and haven't tried at all to meet anyone to be friends with, or in a relationship with, it's hard to be someone who likes to exercise, and also thinks substances are interesting, both of those things are often opposed to each other.
You just need to put yourself out there more and explore a bit. It is definitely there.
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I worked at a place with a family member, and they tried to set things up for me, but I am stubborn meaning when people try to set me up, I can sniff it out a mile away, and don't like it because it feels like people are assuming I am some wreck of a person, which I am not, just because my jimmies don't get rustled as easily as the next man people think I must be internalizing some shit.
I would think a forum and a place that had this sort of openness or exposure to psychedelics would lend to some unique individuals. I know lots of males that are into exploring their consciousness, have wacky experiences, interesting perspectives and world views, or into self discovery, and challenging themselves. I rarely find women on that spectrum given, male IQ is all over the map whereas, women are more stream lined. Sort of like why you see Einstein and Jack the ripper across the male spectrum and not so much in the female spectrum.
I definitely know it is out there. I have experienced it a fair bit through exploring and adventure. I am put off by the online dating attempts at portraying being some adventurer, active, into fitness, etc. when in actuality, someone is all about destroy a large pizza themselves, chewing on apples or crackers as a meal, and leave the remains in a mush on a counter-top. #gross
Online is a riot. There are some gems out there but, you definitely are sifting through slobs and some unthinkable madness. I am also scared women are posting pics from the 90s. I heard a story from a buddy once where a girl got out of the car and he thought the front end was going break.
-------------------- The light of wisdom is driving away the darkness. Look at the ground. Now you can see your own shadow. If you are scared by the shadow that follows you, just remember, wherever shadows fall, light is always nearby.
Edited by finalexplosion (12/03/16 02:50 PM)
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