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Offlinefinalexplosion
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Re: quick fucks [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #23887209 - 12/02/16 10:57 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Black_Sunset said:
Good posts all.




NP Brah. Curious how its been going for buddy!


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Anonymous #1

Re: quick fucks [Re: finalexplosion]
    #23888867 - 12/02/16 08:37 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

I agree with everything you've said finalexplosion, but I do believe a lot of these "issues" are made worse by both males and females. I feel like theoretical, feminism should benefit everyone. Relationships seem like a constant power struggle to me, with these new pseudo-feminist ideals trying to legally and socially shift the "power" into the hands of the female.

Anyway though, I'm working on my tindr game, been going okay I guess. Like I said, I've got plenty of matches, I'm a decent looking dude, I just gotta actually get these chicks to meet up with me. Some of my recent convos seem promising


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Re: quick fucks [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23888915 - 12/02/16 08:49 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous said:
I agree with everything you've said finalexplosion, but I do believe a lot of these "issues" are made worse by both males and females. I feel like theoretical, feminism should benefit everyone. Relationships seem like a constant power struggle to me, with these new pseudo-feminist ideals trying to legally and socially shift the "power" into the hands of the female.

Anyway though, I'm working on my tindr game, been going okay I guess. Like I said, I've got plenty of matches, I'm a decent looking dude, I just gotta actually get these chicks to meet up with me. Some of my recent convos seem promising




Its kind of fucked up. A lot of the systems pretending to help people (feminism, BLM, mainstream media, government etc.) tend to have an particular agenda.

Like the link I posted, women do not care for "decent looking dude." They want someone really good looking who makes a ton of cash. Many I know are fucking away their youth literally cause some guy is a wealthy investment banker. couples are pitted against one another. I am definitely jaded and a bit of a cynic.

With tinder, its simply a numbers game and pending where you are on the genetic lottery. What do you want? Lots of smashing? Its a game of numbers and chance. I simply shoot a few msgs, something with humor, take digits, and follow up. If there is any sort of hesitation or ambiguity, I send a drift.

Use pof/okcupid/match/bumble but it shouldn't stop you from hitting on girls at a bar or coffee shop either. That shit is money. It lends to something legit more times then the typical online click bait.


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Re: quick fucks [Re: finalexplosion]
    #23888962 - 12/02/16 09:00 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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finalexplosion said:
Like the link I posted, women do not care for "decent looking dude." They want someone really good looking who makes a ton of cash. Many I know are fucking away their youth literally cause some guy is a wealthy investment banker. couples are pitted against one another. I am definitely jaded and a bit of a cynic.





I dont know if I agree with that completely. I definitely think plenty of women are like that, maybe even the majority (meaning over 50%), but I've met plenty of girls who aren't like that. I also think those girls are in the most successful relationships I've seen, as both people truly enjoy each other for themselves and not some ulterior motive.

Evenually I'd like to meet a girl that doesn't fall into that class, but they're few and far between, and I think I'd have better luck in a different place from where I'm currently living.

But yea as of right now I'm just looking to smash some chicks. I think tindr will workout for me if I keep at it, definitely a numbers game. Seeing as I cant smoke right now I'll probably be hitting more bars


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Re: quick fucks [Re: finalexplosion]
    #23889267 - 12/02/16 10:42 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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With tinder, its simply a numbers game and pending where you are on the genetic lottery. What do you want? Lots of smashing? Its a game of numbers and chance. I simply shoot a few msgs, something with humor, take digits, and follow up. If there is any sort of hesitation or ambiguity, I send a drift.



:thumbup:


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Re: quick fucks [Re: sudly]
    #23889384 - 12/02/16 11:33 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Just got a number and tentative plans for next weekend, but I've been here before, I just gotta hope she doesn't bail

Maybe it was a mistake even setting up plans this early, but I do that so I dont need to constantly be texting this girl all week, keeping the connection "intact". Thats my other main issue with tindr, how much do I text this girl leading up to meeting her? I feel like I cant just not text her and then said a message friday and be like, hey still want to hangout? Maybe that will work with some girls but I feel like others find it kind of degrading as it comes off like a booty call. Which brings me to my other issue with tindr, we both know why were here, but you gotta play this game like your not just hitting this girl up to smash, we in reality thats what both parties are looking for


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Re: quick fucks [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23889411 - 12/02/16 11:51 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

I just tell the women I meet I'm not interested in a relationship early on and it seems to work itself out from there if you're honest, but that's IRL.


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Re: quick fucks [Re: sudly]
    #23889495 - 12/03/16 01:02 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

I agree with that, I'd do the same, but I've found its kind of in bad taste to tell them that before you've ever even met them. Im not saying all girls will instantly turn you down, but I think even if they're looking for something casual, they feel like your barely even interested in getting to know them (even if thats not the case)


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Re: quick fucks [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23889625 - 12/03/16 03:16 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous said:
I agree with that, I'd do the same, but I've found its kind of in bad taste to tell them that before you've ever even met them.



I think you'd be surprised, the friend I did an all nighter with night before last is the best 'ladies man' I've ever known. I've seen him in action, it's quite something. Average looking bloke, but has the psychology of the game, gift of the gab, and confidence down to a T.

He uses this tactic often just to make women want him more and it fucking works. We talked about it quite a bit.


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finalexplosion said:
Like the link I posted, women do not care for "decent looking dude." They want someone really good looking who makes a ton of cash. Many I know are fucking away their youth literally cause some guy is a wealthy investment banker. couples are pitted against one another. I am definitely jaded and a bit of a cynic.





I dont know if I agree with that completely. I definitely think plenty of women are like that, maybe even the majority (meaning over 50%), but I've met plenty of girls who aren't like that. I also think those girls are in the most successful relationships I've seen, as both people truly enjoy each other for themselves and not some ulterior motive.




Absolutely. I think you're overgeneralising FE, and tarring the entire gender with the same brush. You and I both know life is not that black and white (well, at least I hope you do).


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Re: quick fucks [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23889656 - 12/03/16 03:47 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous said:
I agree with that, I'd do the same, but I've found its kind of in bad taste to tell them that before you've ever even met them. Im not saying all girls will instantly turn you down, but I think even if they're looking for something casual, they feel like your barely even interested in getting to know them (even if thats not the case)




It's not the first thing you say but it is something you bring up before they get the idea of wanting a relationship or developing strong feelings/codependency.

Plenty of girls will turn you down if you say it but that's a part of getting something genuine.

If you want a 'quick fuck', convince a girl you're rich and that you 'love' her with confidence. Trump did it to a whole nation :shrug:

P.S. Girls who believe in star signs are easier to lie to.


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Edited by sudly (12/03/16 07:33 AM)


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Re: quick fucks [Re: sudly]
    #23889912 - 12/03/16 08:27 AM (7 years, 1 month ago)

hm your probably right

this girl actually seems pretty chill, shes also leaving towards the middle of Jan so maybe I'll just date her for a bit if all goes, but thats assuming a lot haha. I'll just figure it out as it goes along

Still confused about this texting shit though, how much do I text her this week? Would it be better to not text her at all? I feel like that wouldn't work out well since shes never even met me, I wanna maintain this digital connection before its a legitimate one. I think I've fucked up here before either texting the girl too much or too little


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Offlinefinalexplosion
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Re: quick fucks [Re: sudly]
    #23890827 - 12/03/16 02:29 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous said:
Just got a number and tentative plans for next weekend, but I've been here before, I just gotta hope she doesn't bail




Sensing scarcity. Walking on fucking egg shells does not make women wet. Confidence is what turns women on. I have seen guys with bad skin, short, fucked up hair cut or any number of things that are not "attractive." They reeked of confidence and got girls. You can too. I do not suggest chase 9s and 10s. I never suggest chasing ever. chat up lots of women. See who you have chemistry with. Who likes you? Go there.

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Maybe it was a mistake even setting up plans this early, but I do that so I dont need to constantly be texting this girl all week, keeping the connection "intact". Thats my other main issue with tindr, how much do I text this girl leading up to meeting her? I feel like I cant just not text her and then said a message friday and be like, hey still want to hangout? Maybe that will work with some girls but I feel like others find it kind of degrading as it comes off like a booty call. Which brings me to my other issue with tindr, we both know why were here, but you gotta play this game like your not just hitting this girl up to smash, we in reality thats what both parties are looking for




A girl was texting and calling me from tinder recently. Next thing you know, she has feels, and is sending noods. Push a bit more, starts saying what she likes but, the sec they start acting weird or get too needy, I am out.

Depends on the chick. if she just wants to fuck, invite for movie or Netflix. Android box. Tight game. Even when you think it is a layup, rip tight game, keep your shit on lock.

Lastly, just cause you plug a girl doesn't mean she is your gf. Women by their very nature get male attention especially during peak SMV.
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Anonymous said:
I agree with that, I'd do the same, but I've found its kind of in bad taste to tell them that before you've ever even met them. Im not saying all girls will instantly turn you down, but I think even if they're looking for something casual, they feel like your barely even interested in getting to know them (even if thats not the case)




It's not the first thing you say but it is something you bring up before they get the idea of wanting a relationship or developing strong feelings/codependency.

Plenty of girls will turn you down if you say it but that's a part of getting something genuine.

If you want a 'quick fuck', convince a girl you're rich and that you 'love' her with confidence. Trump did it to a whole nation :shrug:

P.S. Girls who believe in star signs are easier to lie to.




Personally, I run tight game from go. I never bring anything up too serious. We met online, she likely is getting smashed when I am not around so, I am treating it like the gym. I am stacking weights. I am stacking girls or not for a lack of effort.

If she brings it up that she has got feels, I will let her know, "I appreciate your honesty. Right now, I am just not at that place in my life but, when I get there, I will let you know." #MONEY


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Re: quick fucks [Re: finalexplosion]
    #23891517 - 12/03/16 06:05 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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finalexplosion said:

Sensing scarcity. Walking on fucking egg shells does not make women wet. Confidence is what turns women on. I have seen guys with bad skin, short, fucked up hair cut or any number of things that are not "attractive." They reeked of confidence and got girls. You can too. I do not suggest chase 9s and 10s. I never suggest chasing ever. chat up lots of women. See who you have chemistry with. Who likes you? Go there.





Haha, I know your right. I wouldn't say I'm desperate, but its been so long since I've successfully landed a girl that my nerves get the best of me. I just suck at being confident...sober. Give me some amps and I feel like a God. But I can't be relying on that shit my whole life


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Re: quick fucks [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23891776 - 12/03/16 07:33 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous said:
Haha, I know your right. I wouldn't say I'm desperate, but its been so long since I've successfully landed a girl that my nerves get the best of me. I just suck at being confident...sober. Give me some amps and I feel like a God. But I can't be relying on that shit my whole life




Alcohol salts my game. I can be forward grab ass (not rapey lol) sober so, with booze or psychedelics, its just too much.

Did you get that chicks # yet? I got out with a girl late night last night off tinder. Picked up another #.

Something you can do to keep hits is snapchat. Its just a series of loops and hits to keep on chicks radar. Some fall by the wayside, some start getting plugged by other dudes, and some come around. They got sisters, friends, and all the possibilities are endless.

I never keep matches ever. I practice meditation so, I am swift at letting go. I drop a few lines, lyrics or something funny. She either bites or does not. She either comes or I next her. I matched some chick a handful of times, I dropped her if she got dumb or showed any sign of ambivalence.

Again, lower the bar for how good it has to be, not your standards.

Check it out:


Too much internal intention (obsessing over a specific girl) fucks with external intention (thinks your leering/staring/obsessing as being creepy).

Chit translates in the free market, in business, workplace, and all aspects of life.

There is space in variations; what you say or do doesn't matter. Just become the sort of man that makes moves. Stop fretting about what you say or do. I strike out too bro. It is what it is. Fairly attractive male. In good shape. Good job. Motivated and aspired for more. I extend my hand in the form of a invite. She still has to take my hand, she still has to follow my lead, and play her part. I do not chase. There is a fine line between playing hard to get and not interested. If she hovers, I presume interest, if she makes herself available, I act accordingly. Even if she isn't interested, I always presume interest because it gives me permission to make my move.

I don't regret striking out. I regret not pulling the trigger. Life too short and boring not to try.


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Re: quick fucks [Re: finalexplosion]
    #23891833 - 12/03/16 07:50 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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I extend my hand in the form of a invite. She still has to take my hand, she still has to follow my lead, and play her part. I do not chase. There is a fine line between playing hard to get and not interested. If she hovers, I presume interest, if she makes herself available, I act accordingly. Even if she isn't interested, I always presume interest because it gives me permission to make my move.

I don't regret striking out. I regret not pulling the trigger. Life too short and boring not to try.





Beautiful :yesnod:


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Re: quick fucks [Re: sudly]
    #23892335 - 12/03/16 10:34 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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sudly said:
Beautiful :yesnod:




Glad you liked that.

I have pissed people off with my points of views in the forum. Its definitely not been my intention. I prefer to add value.

I once watched that show HIMYM. In one scene, one of the more beta male characters with the long term gf/wife makes fun of the player on the show who hooks up with everyone. The shot taken at him was about the player's "batting average." Needless to say, it was not good yet, ironically enough, he hooks up with everyone.

This is a classic social narrative. "Man up," or "Do the right thing." My batting average is awful. I have friend that models. He fucks everything. We are all handed different cards, gifts, talents, and you just make good with what you have.

I don't think men know how to be men anymore. I am not talking flexing, bravado and posturing. I am talking about understanding masculine and feminine polarity (checkout David Deida author of Way of the Superior Man; great read on the male/female dynamic). Stake your claim. Not being adverse to competition be it going for a woman you want or taking your business public. Confidence is so attractive because everyone battles self doubt. Someone confident despite all that overcome and expresses something almost super human.


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Re: quick fucks [Re: finalexplosion]
    #23892392 - 12/03/16 11:06 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Haha man I'm a fucking noob with this shit, but your words helping me build some confidence. I got her number and we got plans to chill next weekend :thumbup:

I've actually been texting this girl all night, asian chick, seems super cool and I can tell shes into me


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Re: quick fucks [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23894519 - 12/04/16 05:12 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous said:
Haha man I'm a fucking noob with this shit, but your words helping me build some confidence. I got her number and we got plans to chill next weekend :thumbup:

I've actually been texting this girl all night, asian chick, seems super cool and I can tell shes into me




Awesome dude. I am glad you got her #. Proceed forward.

Furthermore, no school boy errors. You mentioned a #. You are single. Act like it. More #s.


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Re: quick fucks [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23894557 - 12/04/16 05:26 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous said:
I've actually been texting this girl all night, asian chick, seems super cool and I can tell shes into me




Physically maybe but emotionally?
:no:


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Re: quick fucks [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #23908247 - 12/08/16 07:50 PM (7 years, 1 month ago)

Meh, just masturbate, it's just as good.


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