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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: phio]
    #23850532 - 11/20/16 05:54 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

"The older half centered around the 80s and early 90s was born into an environment in which we had to fight and establish our generation beyond the previous generation. We grew up while the internet was forming. We embraced non-pc beliefs and attitudes. Memes, trolling, netspeak.. Fact checking using online resources.. Coming together racially.. people like Dave Chapelle .. the rebels.. the social pioneering all got started and cemented in this first half. The 2nd half arrived on the scene under ideal conditions and got spoiled. Having no real serious battles to wage, they started to reinvent and overdramatize problems... What if I want to wear a skirt and go into a girl's bathroom and go pee-pee.. You don't have the right to say something that offends me.. Stupid shit like that."

Huh agreed. I can't really argue with any of that well put. Hell Dave Chappelle is one of my favorite comedians I even saw him live in Seattle :lol:


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Crystal G]
    #23850536 - 11/20/16 05:57 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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Gays are idiots for wanting marriage legalised... they can have it.
BTW, lesbian relationships hardly last compared to gay mens'... women always want to end shit for various reasons. In straight marriages, women file for over 80% of all divorces... yet they are the ones pressuring men into marriage in the first place.




Could those statistics possibly be due to the fact that women have gotten fed up by what happens in a typical marriage? (And it's not over 80% btw, it's more like 65% of divorces are initiated by women).

I mean really, in a traditional marriage, the man usually gets taken care of while the woman does all the household and cleaning chores, and she is saddled with most of the responsibilities with the children.

I've found this to be common even among households where both couples work full-time, for some reason the household chores and child raising duties ultimately fall on the responsibility of the woman. That's probably one huge reason men live longer due to being married.

Apparently women report less satisfaction than men while being married. I wouldn't initiate divorce either if I had all the perks of a domestic servant.



What do you think the man of the house is doing while the woman stays home and cooks and cleans?


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: phio] * 1
    #23850552 - 11/20/16 06:12 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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I don't see what computers have to do with anything.




I think he's talking about how the roles of men have changed largely as advancements in society have become more and more intellectual.

Before in early human history it used to be that we needed dominant and aggressive males for the human species to survive, but in today's world we need civilized and cordial human beings for advancement.

It's funny how traditional masculinity is completely anti-intellectual in nature, and I think tyrannicalrex is saying we need to challenge this notion because this ultimately hurts men in the long run.




Males have natures and predispositions.
Females have natures and predispositions.
There are outliers among males and females who don't fall under observed norms.

Both observed norms and outliers are fine and should be accepted. By the early 2000s, this was understood and embraced. Somehow this got turned into a cluster-fuck of confusion disorder and bashing of norms  by the mid 2000s. The roles of males haven't changed all that much. The expectation is still there if conditions present themselves.

Women are very good at saying what they want which is one thing but in the heat of the moment switching to something else.. A perfect example is when a woman declares she wants a compassionate understanding and non-dominant man but then goes and calls him a pussy whose she's tired of while jumping off to a dominant man who reminds her of what it is to be a woman.

With prosperity or the illusion of prosperity people went on to create new problems that didn't exist before and that's just human nature.

Women still value dominant and aggressive males and testosterone predisposes males naturally towards it just as estrogen predisposes women to nurture. Shoot yourself full of some testosterone and see how it magically changes your perception and predisposition? The social joke was that you can somehow override these predisposition with social engineering. You can only subdue them and nature eventually wins out.

civilized and cordial human beings for advancement are products of prosperity and are a luxury. With changing economic realities, many will see how quickly these social priorities can change.


Traditional masculinity is quite intellectual. Looking around at all of the constructions, technology, and science developed under it is a clear demonstration of that fact.

What is damaging is when its not nurtured towards harmonious ends which is the role of women in a society. Guess what happens when no ones nurturing or guiding the world's offspring.. You get the silly ass confused world we have right now.

Yet it is par for the course to ignore all of man's contributions to the world that every uses on a day to day basis, call male behavior intellectual, and act as though thousands of years of progress to this point occurred to Tyranical knuckle draggers.

We can build an amazing world together as male/female or we can destroy it.
Pitting women against men is a divisive and destructive anti-intellectual theme that permeated society for nothing more than to create profit from chaos and confusion.

If a true battle were to occur between the sexes w/o leniancy, one only need look at the tragic history of the human species for what happens when men war with each other. If women ever thought they were going to win that battle, the social psyche of women must have really gotten twisted.

So, lets live together in harmony and embrace our differences instead of being ass-clowns about them.




Fucking clap man. There's no clap emotion but very well put. The entire point of a partnership isn't because we can both do the same things equally well. It's for the fact that we can compliment each other and create harmony.

A lot of things that I do aren't specifically for me. I like to build things. I like to talk to people. When I'm not doing those things I drink a lot, do drugs, and destroy myself with negative thinking.

Men are problem solvers. It's why video games are so popular with males typically. You do a to get b to solve treasure.

I despise women that take the route of snubbing you for making a mistake but won't tell you. They make you roll around in your head. I know some things wrong. Than you get to fighting about shit that wasn't ever that big of a deal to begin with. But I'm not a mind reader and now I'm getting upset and it's damn near impossible to make me mad. But I'm stubborn as fuck.

I also liked "What is damaging is when its not nurtured towards harmonious ends which is the role of women in a society."

I can't agree more. I've dated my fair share of girls. The ones that I truly cared about and still reminisce about at times are the ones that tethered me to reality.

They made me care about working hard not just for the sake of money is life. I actually refer to them as my future maybe wives. But we're all young and had our own things to do in life. I'm still good friends with all of them.

I feel out of harmony. I'm chaotic in nature. Growing up in chaos has made me chaotic. I create chaos out of nothing. I suddenly don't feel like doing it around certain good women. I still will try but they'll slap me straight. "shut the fuck up your being a bitch,  I love ya stop being so dramatic"

"ya your right. Let's go eat I'm starving" :lol:



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"And then the great lord created bears... too many bears... shoulda really dialed back on the bears." Squidbillies

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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Crystal G] * 1
    #23850579 - 11/20/16 06:28 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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Didn't imply there was anything wrong with that. Just something I noticed. Should all be balanced out though if that's the case. Those women should start learning how to do more of the typical chores men tend to do also.




I absolutely agree, I think a lot of women would love to learn how to change the oil on your car, or how to fix a leaky sink. I often wish I grew up with somebody who could have taught me those things, because then I could save money by being more self-sustaining and self-reliant.

Honestly though even my dad doesn't know how to do those things, he's more of the absent-minded professor type, not the handyman type.

Not only that, but I think when you learn to do things like taking apart car engines and building cabinets and things like that when you're young, your brain becomes naturally better at doing engineering and construction and building things of that nature.




It's not just the father though.  There is definitely a brotherhood among men where that sort of secret knowledge is passed around.  Don't feel too bad because there are alot of men who are not in on it either.  It's like the freemasons only instead of sucking an elder's cock to get your foot in the door you have to spend years getting your hands burnt beaten and crusty, bathing in dirty oil, being constantly reminded how useless you are, learning endlessly redundant jargon, and doing mindless repetitive physical labor for long hours every day year after year.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: moonrockmushy] * 1
    #23850588 - 11/20/16 06:34 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I always make sure to have good friends that I obviously enjoy being around but have viable skills. Always have a mechanic friend, computer friend, carpenter friend, etc.

I can do the basics and more intermediate to advanced in certain areas but the key is to have them. Friend with a truck always good for moving. Generally they'll help you if ya got a case a beer and order a pizza. Plus you'll learn how to do it and kick it with a good friend. A chore turns into a good time with a buddy.

Agreed moonrockmushy :thumbup:


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Enjoywho] * 1
    #23850598 - 11/20/16 06:42 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah I mean you can really on do so much on your own.  The real skill in being a man is learning to bullshit your way into a more skilled man's good graces so he will point out the shortcuts and pitfalls to his trade learned over many generations of trial and error.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23850617 - 11/20/16 06:58 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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Didn't imply there was anything wrong with that. Just something I noticed. Should all be balanced out though if that's the case. Those women should start learning how to do more of the typical chores men tend to do also.




I absolutely agree, I think a lot of women would love to learn how to change the oil on your car, or how to fix a leaky sink. I often wish I grew up with somebody who could have taught me those things, because then I could save money by being more self-sustaining and self-reliant.

Honestly though even my dad doesn't know how to do those things, he's more of the absent-minded professor type, not the handyman type.

Not only that, but I think when you learn to do things like taking apart car engines and building cabinets and things like that when you're young, your brain becomes naturally better at doing engineering and construction and building things of that nature.




It's not just the father though.  There is definitely a brotherhood among men where that sort of secret knowledge is passed around.  Don't feel too bad because there are alot of men who are not in on it either.  It's like the freemasons only instead of sucking an elder's cock to get your foot in the door you have to spend years getting your hands burnt beaten and crusty, bathing in dirty oil, being constantly reminded how useless you are, learning endlessly redundant jargon, and doing mindless repetitive physical labor for long hours every day year after year.




It was fashionable for some time to promote and put the bad examples of men to rise and it became fashionable for women to believe that their ideal and powerful form came via modeling themselves after the worst attributes of such men...

The crazed and boastful alpha male became reflected in the super charged and 'empowered' modern woman.

In the backdrop, the brotherhood and sisterhoods continued which maintained the tried and true methods/means by which one maintains being a model human being in harmony with the the world.

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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Crystal G] * 1
    #23850623 - 11/20/16 07:04 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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I absolutely agree, I think a lot of women would love to learn how to change the oil on your car, or how to fix a leaky sink. I often wish I grew up with somebody who could have taught me those things, because then I could save money by being more self-sustaining and self-reliant. 





the only thing stopping you is you. is it because you're afraid you'll fuck
something up? maybe you're afraid you'll get dirty, well I can assure that
both of those things will happen if you work on a car so you should give up


unless you really want to learn, if you're sincere. get a car and a book and
some tools and start learning, if you dont then you'll always be the spoiled
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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #23850628 - 11/20/16 07:08 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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I absolutely agree, I think a lot of women would love to learn how to change the oil on your car, or how to fix a leaky sink. I often wish I grew up with somebody who could have taught me those things, because then I could save money by being more self-sustaining and self-reliant. 





the only thing stopping you is you. is it because you're afraid you'll fuck
something up? maybe you're afraid you'll get dirty, well I can assure that
both of those things will happen if you work on a car so you should give up


unless you really want to learn, if you're sincere. get a car and a book and
some tools and start learning, if you dont then you'll always be the spoiled
little rich girl




Yep. If men decided to walk off and do their own thing, women would die off very quickly.

Men have become the labour force and slaves of the world. I think it's time to fight for our rights or walk off the plantation.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: moonrockmushy] * 1
    #23850640 - 11/20/16 07:17 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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Yeah I mean you can really on do so much on your own.  The real skill in being a man is learning to bullshit your way into a more skilled man's good graces so he will point out the shortcuts and pitfalls to his trade learned over many generations of trial and error.





I spent the summer in Montana. Working with a good buddy from high school and his dad. They buy and remodel houses. I can now do tile, roofing, siding, concrete, painting, the list goes on and on.

I did a lot of bitch work mostly cleaning but they taught me how to use a ton of tools, lots of heavy lifting and physical labor.

Tile saw, skill saw, chop saw, grinder, list goes on. I already knew how to operate a lot of them but I'm always quick to ask questions or ask for a quick demonstration. As I learn fast by watching and repeating. One time is usually enough. Ah I get it alright.

I got called a dumbass quite a few times and blah blah blah but if your willing to watch and learn you will learn over time. I basically got a journeyman apprenticeship out of it and got to kick it with one of my best friends I hadn't seen in years. A ton of skills to add to my resume.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #23850643 - 11/20/16 07:18 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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I absolutely agree, I think a lot of women would love to learn how to change the oil on your car, or how to fix a leaky sink. I often wish I grew up with somebody who could have taught me those things, because then I could save money by being more self-sustaining and self-reliant. 





the only thing stopping you is you. is it because you're afraid you'll fuck
something up? maybe you're afraid you'll get dirty, well I can assure that
both of those things will happen if you work on a car so you should give up


unless you really want to learn, if you're sincere. get a car and a book and
some tools and start learning, if you dont then you'll always be the spoiled
little rich girl




I mean we all need a little help sometimes, but it's true you can get the basics out of manuals.  Initiative is definitely crucial, and there is a huge difference between asking someone to show you how to change oil and coming up to them with a problem you have encountered in the course of changing your oil.

Most manly man are really bad teachers, really cagey, but excellent problem solvers.  You've got to be able to learn by watching and actually show in interest in asking specific questions to pry the knowledge out.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: phio] * 1
    #23850658 - 11/20/16 07:28 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

humans are not meant to be alone. solitary confinement is torture , but how many single males spend 80 percent of their time alone in an apartment room about the size of a decent prison cell?

loneliness wreaks havoc on mental and physical health. not only that , we need not just physical company but genuine consistent affection and emotional connection.

we need to feel we are not alone in life , someone cares about us, someone is there for us when we need them , we need someone to talk to , you confide in, to encourage us when we feel hopeless and congratulate us and share in our happiness when we succeed.


we need to feel needed.  we need massages when we are sore and warm cuddles on cold nights. we need someone to care for us when we are sick and injured. we need a friendly smile to come home to after a hard day at work.

I need my wife on so many levels and all the casual sex in the world wouldn't fill more than 1% of the needs she fulfills and what she does for me.

I think it's all this and more that explains why married men are happier and healthier. 

loneliness causes stress and depression and stress and depression cause illness and death.

Marriage saves lives .

also, us men often have self destructive, wild, crazy and uncontrolled impulses that get is into all kind of trouble. True love bound in marriage is one of the best ways to tame the beast and that leads to less crime, violence, addiction, murder , imprisonment etc in society.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Moonshoe] * 2
    #23850681 - 11/20/16 07:47 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Great post. I agree. I've been more or less alone after leaving my home Alaska. I turned to the bottle. They shouldn't call it addiction they should call it bonding. People will bond to anything gambling, drugs, alcohol.

I was a heroin addict for years. I left home because of it, I started doing it right around someone I loved deeply went to college in another state. I was completely heartbroken. She was my muse. I still have the notebook during that period of my life. It's my most prized possession. It's filled with poetry and I thumb through it from time to time. I can remember where and when. Exactly what I was doing before I jotted it down. When I was optimistic and felt I could do and be anything. Everything else is replaceable that isn't. I do it all the time anyway I move a lot and only keep what I can fit in a backpack and suitcase.

I've pretty much been a fuckboi since. I'm not particularly proud about it. I create chaos out of nothing. I've met a lot of nice girls but I've gotten pessimistic the older i get.

My dog recently died of cancer and I got clean off the drink but that hit me super hard. I got him because I needed a friend. No matter what stupid shit I did he loved me. I needed him and he needed me. I give up my self destructiveness as I don't really care much for myself to be completely honest. The only things that truly make me happy are doing things for people I care about.

I am like a puppy It doesn't really matter how good I am at something it's nice to get a pat on the head and validation for the things you do. I'm my own worst critic. Eh coulda been better. You like it. Waggy tail. Well don't want to toot my own horn it's pretty good. :lol:

I was more or less fine in Montana. I had work and a room to live in. But the real reason I came back to Washington is because my mom and siblings live here. And I really do not want to be alone during the holidays. Especially after my dog dieing. I'd probably end up drinking myself into a ditch dead. I hate being alone it drives me insane.

I still drink but not like I was for 3 years. My sponsor who is a great friend of mine now and taught me to paint asked me to write down what I'm afraid of. When I started writing it became abundantly clear what I'm afraid of. I'm terrified of being alone and not useful. I've been on this site for 6 years if you look at the spikes in my postings they're all from times I was unemployed (not useful) and didn't have anyone to talk to. That's why I'll create topics and not necessarily care if people reply. Or create monolouges about myself in threads like this. Its to sort of fill that gap.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Moonshoe] * 1
    #23850770 - 11/20/16 08:40 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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humans are not meant to be alone. solitary confinement is torture , but how many single males spend 80 percent of their time alone in an apartment room about the size of a decent prison cell?

loneliness wreaks havoc on mental and physical health. not only that , we need not just physical company but genuine consistent affection and emotional connection.

we need to feel we are not alone in life , someone cares about us, someone is there for us when we need them , we need someone to talk to , you confide in, to encourage us when we feel hopeless and congratulate us and share in our happiness when we succeed.


we need to feel needed.  we need massages when we are sore and warm cuddles on cold nights. we need someone to care for us when we are sick and injured. we need a friendly smile to come home to after a hard day at work.

I need my wife on so many levels and all the casual sex in the world wouldn't fill more than 1% of the needs she fulfills and what she does for me.

I think it's all this and more that explains why married men are happier and healthier. 

loneliness causes stress and depression and stress and depression cause illness and death.

Marriage saves lives .

also, us men often have self destructive, wild, crazy and uncontrolled impulses that get is into all kind of trouble. True love bound in marriage is one of the best ways to tame the beast and that leads to less crime, violence, addiction, murder , imprisonment etc in society.




I want to call absolute bullshit on what you just said but I know most people will agree with you.

I don't know what loneliness feels like because I want to be alone. People annoy me. Maybe I wasn't meant to be. Although I do agree that you need people in life because you can't do everything yourself. We are all dependent on each other but when it comes to your personal life, not everybody needs somebody. I go out of my way to be alone. Hell, I meet my social need from an online forum where I can just walk away whenever I get tired of you people. I do however agree that you need someone to care for you when you're sick.

As for the stress and depression of loneliness. It the reason why I avoid people, they cause unnecessary stress in my life which leads to unhappiness.

I can buy massages anytime I want and I'm not about to go rob a bank or beat up somebody either.

Although I know I'm an rather extreme case, I can say this; Nt everybody is in the same boat.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Patlal]
    #23850788 - 11/20/16 08:48 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah I am trying my hardest to bite my tongue because I know people will take it the wrong way, but it sounds to me like someone who was raised to be dependent on their mother, not that there's anything wrong with that.

I get weirded out by excessive praise and affection, but I am also pretty far down on the introvert side of things.  I always feel like if people knew what really went though my mind they would think I am an asshole, but I am nice enough to put on a fake affable front for their sake, and so they don't burn me at the stake.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Patlal]
    #23850808 - 11/20/16 08:56 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

See I'm the exact opposite. I do value thinking time for myself. Which is why I have my hobbies. But 90% of the time I love talking and sharing things with other people. Hell on long bus trips I don't even touch my phone I'll strike up a conversation with the person next to me.

My personal goal in life isn't to be rich, have a big house, etc. I believe everybody has a story to tell and my goal is to hear as many of them as possible.

Whenever I'm enjoying something I'm always thinking who can I share this with that will enjoy it as well.

Yea father did skip out ma raised 4 of us for 10 years. So I wouldn't doubt it. I don't really need constant praise. I worked at this restaurant from 17-21 it was failing when I first started. The manager sat down with me and went through my stack of right ups over the years. Mostly dumb shit me being a dumb kid etc. We shared some laughs etc. But at the end he just said beside all that you were a huge part of turning this business around.

It's not something I need all the time Its just nice to get a little validation. I'm proud of the things I do as anything I do I want to be the best at it. Or at least try.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Enjoywho]
    #23850831 - 11/20/16 09:06 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah I mean it is a complex thing what makes up a person.  Despite my liking for being left to myself I do really like almost everyone I meet, and I have no problem holding a conversation or finding common ground.  It's just that where other people would get wore down by loneliness I get wore down from making the effort to be personable.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: PsychoReactive]
    #23850836 - 11/20/16 09:08 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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Enjoywho said:
I was born in 91. Does that make me a millennial? I'm not sure when the start date for that is but I'd be really offended if someone called me a millennial. I've talked with quite a few friends one was the person who said that.




Yeah. I was born in the 80's and I found out recently I'm a millennial too :lol:

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phio said:
Shoot yourself full of some testosterone and see how it magically changes your perception and predisposition?




I have. And that's bullshit. It doesn't completely change your brain or structure of thinking. The only thing I noticed is that I was in a much better mood overall while on testosterone. I was always like that before though, but even moreso on testosterone. Aside from that I never noticed any drastic or even subtle changes in thinking.


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What do you think the man of the house is doing while the woman stays home and cooks and cleans?




That's fine if the responsibilities are divided up and allocated like that, but if you read my post it was about how these duties, along with childcare duties, fall back on the woman even when she is also working full-time.


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Yep. If men decided to walk off and do their own thing, women would die off very quickly.

Men have become the labour force and slaves of the world. I think it's time to fight for our rights or walk off the plantation.




Don't act like you wouldn't die off too. :lol: Unless you can grow your own food, make your own antibiotics...

"Men have become the labour force and slaves of the world" :lol: lol, are you aware that the majority of the global economy relies on primarily women for sweatshop labor? Women compose close to 90% of sweatshop labor. If we're talking about the world, women are quite literally the slaves of the world, while men have been the ones exploiting and profiting off them.

Supposedly women compose 40% of the world labor force yet only own 1% of the world's wealth or something crazy like that.


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Enjoywho]
    #23850844 - 11/20/16 09:13 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I like this kid.
Smart, and aware.
I myself was raised by a large group of women.
It has been both good and bad as far as life skills are concerned.  I can do most everything a "manly man" can do. I was a landscaper, general labor and all of that.  However, on the same token I know how to cook from scratch, sew, have a good "talk" and do household chores.  I pretty much raised my son while my wife worked.  We were on a small farm, 85% sustainable, chickens, 2000 sq ft garden, goats, small pond, a lake and 70 acres to hunt.  I did all of that plus raised my boy teaching him ALL skills.  I can mend your pants after killing a deer with my recurve bow.
I can bake you bread while I change your oil.
I am grateful for these traits and as much as my sexuality has been questioned for my entire life I feel I am a hybrid that most partners seek.
I too have battled addictions most of my life, and understand the pull to be near family and desire love.
It sounds like you are a pretty decent dude enjoy, carry on.
Dick


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Re: Why Men Are Done With Marriage MGTOW Compilation [Re: Patlal]
    #23850878 - 11/20/16 09:24 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

patlal I am the exact same way. I am and have always been an intensely private , introverted person who prefers to be alone


the exception is my wife. she is the one person who I actually feel more comfortable with than when I am alone.

you sound like you have the exact same introverted private solitude. loving personality I do, and that leads me to believe that you still need and want a true partner , you just haven't met them yet and thus don't know it yet because you don't know what you are missing yet.

you think about how much you prefer being alone than being with other people, but I hope someday you experience what it's like that comfortable private safe personal space to be shared with a soul mate who makes you feel even safer and more comfortable and relaxed then you ever felt alone.

introverts need love just as much as extroverts.

trust me I spent my entire life hiding from people, alone in libraries or my room, comfortable in my isolation. i also had the exact same anti marriage opinions you have. when I met my wife that all changed , and while I am still as private and introverted a person as ever I now spend every waking moment that I possibly can with my wife.

the miracle is that being with her is the best of both worlds. it feels as safe and cozy and peaceful as being alone with all the comfort and and Companionship of a trusted best friend and all the pleasure of a lover.

all I'm saying is don't trick yourself into believing you don't need / want love and affection and Companionship just because you are a private person. You do. we all do
its human nature.

Be happy with yourself when you are alone but don't mentally close the door to love and relationship. it would be a tragic mistake .

whatever ideas you have in your mind of what love and marriage is are just that - ideas. have an open mind and be open to experiencing what it really is for you. 

but get a prenup.


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